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Entitled Pregnant SIL Turns Down Air Mattress, Demands Couple’s Room Instead, They’re Stunned
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Entitled Pregnant SIL Turns Down Air Mattress, Demands Couple’s Room Instead, They’re Stunned

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It’s funny how families can fight over the strangest of things, whether it be giving the same name to babies or deciding who babysits the kids. It is especially during holidays, when all the relatives gather to celebrate, that tempers run high and people end up conflicting over trivial matters.

Just look at this family where the couple had a small tiff with the pregnant sister-in-law, who was mad that they were giving her an air mattress to sleep on. Their Thanksgiving took a sour turn when she suggested taking the hosts’ master bedroom instead. Here’s what happened…

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    Pregnant woman sitting on floor, holding phone and looking upset, reflecting conflict over air mattress and room space.

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    The poster and her partner are hosting Thanksgiving in their new house, for her parents-in-law, pregnant sister-in-law, and her husband

    Pregnant sister-in-law upset after couple gives her an air mattress and takes their own room during Thanksgiving visit.

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    Text excerpt discussing plans to have parents sleep in guest bedroom and pregnant SIL using an air mattress instead.

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    They planned to have the older couple sleep in the guest bedroom, while the pregnant couple would get an air mattress in the office

    Text excerpt about pregnant SIL offended after being given an air mattress while couple claims their room instead.

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    Pregnant SIL upset over sleeping arrangements after couple offers air mattress and calls dibs on their bedroom.

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    The pregnant lady had complained about it before when she had come to stay, and demanded that this time, they give her the master bedroom

    Text discussing a pregnant SIL offended after being given an air mattress and not the master bedroom during a visit.

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    The poster was irked that she always gets what she wants; however, the couple had to reach a compromise to resolve the issue

    In today’s story, the original poster (OP) tells us how a Thanksgiving conflict rocked her family. She bought a new house with her partner, and they are going to host her parents-in-law, pregnant sister-in-law, and her husband. For the sleeping arrangements, they planned to give the older couple the guest room, while the other couple got the office with an air mattress.

    Well, folks, this is where the problem arose. The pregnant lady had visited them a couple of months before, and since their guest room was occupied by someone, they had given her the air mattress. She had complained about how pregnant people should get priority sleeping arrangements, but this time she came with a new demand. Apparently, she wanted the couple’s master bedroom.

    The thing is, OP finds it annoying how her sister-in-law always gets what she wants, whether she is pregnant or not. Besides, the poster’s marriage is a long-distance one, and she is only going to visit for a week, so she wants the comfort of their room with her partner. However, she updated that they had reached a compromise for everyone’s sake.

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    Now, they have planned to move their own comfortable mattress to the office for the pregnant woman and her husband. Meanwhile, they would be using the air mattress in their bed, so that everyone is comfortable during the stay. When she had vented online, it sparked a massive debate among netizens as they argued about who should get which mattress.

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    Pregnant woman preparing a bed with white sheets in a modern room, relating to air mattress and sleeping arrangements.

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    Some people called out the pregnant lady for making such a demand and asking the couple to give up their comfort. Research suggests that entitled people have high demands and feel that they deserve more. It further states that such people often expect others to do things for them and that everyone should bend over backwards to help them.  

    Well, the poster might be sick of her sister-in-law’s sense of entitlement, but some people still felt that she was being very unfair. The thing is, we all know that pregnancy is no joke, as it comes with a lot of challenges. Even experts stress that during pregnancy, there are a lot of changes in the female body, which can cause extreme discomfort. 

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    Moreover, studies also emphasize the condition of women’s mental health during pregnancy, as many face psychological well-being issues. During such tough times, it’s natural to want basic comfort while sleeping. However, folks felt that the sister-in-law should either stay at her house for Thanksgiving or book a hotel so that the couple doesn’t have to sacrifice their comfort for her.

    OP clarified that it’s too late now to tell her not to come for the holiday, but she really liked the advice of asking in the group chat about which couple wants which room. If the older couple willingly chooses to take the office, then the pregnant couple can have the guest room. Also, the compromise that OP and her husband have come to doesn’t sound bad either, does it?

    What would you do in such a situation? We would love to hear your thoughts, so don’t hesitate to drop them in the comments section!

    Some netizens argued that it was the couple’s house, so they decided, but others claimed that a pregnant woman’s health should be considered

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    Writer, BoredPanda staff

    Hey, am Rutuja! A storyteller at heart and a writer at Bored Panda. I have a strange love for words, and I mostly survive on coffee which is the driving force behind my writing. I enjoy working on articles that purely entertain our readers. When am not writing or trekking, you can find me staying up late and watching all the matches of Football Club Barcelona!

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    J R
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    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NTA. I'm sorry for the SIL. I get why she wants a mattress. But it's not reasonable to demand a host give up their own bed. She either needs to use the air mattress or get a hotel room.

    Tyke
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I'd been asked to sleep on a mattress on the floor at 6 months pregnant I'd probably have to move in as I wouldn't be able to get up from that low down.

    moggiemoo
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If it's so difficult for a pregnant woman to get comfortable, even on a proper bed, w*f difference does it make if she sleeps on an airbed?

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    J R
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NTA. I'm sorry for the SIL. I get why she wants a mattress. But it's not reasonable to demand a host give up their own bed. She either needs to use the air mattress or get a hotel room.

    Tyke
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I'd been asked to sleep on a mattress on the floor at 6 months pregnant I'd probably have to move in as I wouldn't be able to get up from that low down.

    moggiemoo
    Community Member
    3 weeks ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If it's so difficult for a pregnant woman to get comfortable, even on a proper bed, w*f difference does it make if she sleeps on an airbed?

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