after you see what "AITA" means; you realize that last "A" says something you can't repeat in front if your boss, your mother, or your three-year-old neice.we try substitution; but [AITJ] or AIT[JERK] takes the fun out of it.

Who's in favor of saying "Am I The 'Annoying One'" with the last A standing for the last TWO words? You never have to tell anyone who doesn't need to hear you say "annoying one," and they'll be in person. Nobody online ever has to know. "AITA" reigns supreme! Just don't forget to say "annoying one" if anyone asks.