Bored Panda works better on our iPhone app
Continue in app Continue in browser

The Bored Panda iOS app is live! Fight boredom with iPhones and iPads here.

Gay Man Gets Turned Down From Adopting A Rescue Cat, So He Shares The Texts Online
Gay Man Gets Turned Down From Adopting A Rescue Cat, So He Shares The Texts Online
57.1K

Gay Man Gets Turned Down From Adopting A Rescue Cat, So He Shares The Texts Online

805

ADVERTISEMENT

What makes you a good cat dad? Love for the animal? Owning a flat with a large enclosed outside space? Nope. Your sexuality, apparently.

Alex Andreou is a UK-based writer and actor who recently decided it was time to adopt a kitty. Following an ad, he traveled two hours to meet a person who said their little furball was in desperate need of re-homing. However, they changed their mind after finding out that Alex is gay. And that’s just the beginning of the story. As the bigot turned out to be a psycho, things just kept getting weirder and weirder. Scroll down to read the whole story in Alex’s own words.

More info: Twitter

RELATED:

    This is Alex Andreou, a UK-based writer and actor

    He was going to adopt a kitty, but its “religious” owner got really judgemental

    ADVERTISEMENT

    Image credits: sturdyAlex

    ADVERTISEMENT

    Image credits: sturdyAlex

    ADVERTISEMENT

    Image credits: sturdyAlex

    Image credits: sturdyAlex

    Image credits: sturdyAlex

    ADVERTISEMENT

    ADVERTISEMENT

    Image credits: sturdyAlex

    Image credits: sturdyAlex

    ADVERTISEMENT
    ADVERTISEMENT

    Image credits: sturdyAlex

    Image credits: sturdyAlex

    ADVERTISEMENT

    Image credits: sturdyAlex

    ADVERTISEMENT

    Image credits: sturdyAlex

    Image credits: sturdyAlex

    Image credits: sturdyAlex

    ADVERTISEMENT

    Image credits: sturdyAlex

    ADVERTISEMENT

    Image credits: sturdyAlex

    Image credits: sturdyAlex

    Image credits: sturdyAlex

    ADVERTISEMENT

    Image credits: sturdyAlex

    ADVERTISEMENT

    Image credits: sturdyAlex

    Image credits: sturdyAlex

    ADVERTISEMENT
    Share on Facebook

    Explore more of these tags

    Rokas Laurinavičius

    Rokas Laurinavičius

    Author, Senior Writer

    Read more »

    Rokas is a writer at Bored Panda with a BA in Communication. After working for a sculptor, he fell in love with visual storytelling and enjoys covering everything from TV shows (any Sopranos fans out there?) to photography. Throughout his years in Bored Panda, over 300 million people have read the posts he's written, which is probably more than he could count to.

    Read less »
    Rokas Laurinavičius

    Rokas Laurinavičius

    Author, Senior Writer

    Rokas is a writer at Bored Panda with a BA in Communication. After working for a sculptor, he fell in love with visual storytelling and enjoys covering everything from TV shows (any Sopranos fans out there?) to photography. Throughout his years in Bored Panda, over 300 million people have read the posts he's written, which is probably more than he could count to.

    What do you think ?
    ADHORTATOR
    Community Member
    7 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I am religious..." Well, that's your problem, Lady.... A cure exists, called Thinking by your own

    Rachael Marrast
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am religious but I'm not mean and also respect others lifestyles.

    Load More Replies...
    Pumbaa
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are some f****d up people in this world.. Glad it worked out for you Alex! Very cute little kittens with awesome names :D

    Lu
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not f****d up just ignorant...close minded. We all have a comfort zone some people’s zones are that way too big lol

    Load More Replies...
    Monty Is Fiennes
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wild ride.... but I do so love a happy pet story. Best wishes, Alex, Freddie and George.

    troufaki13
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We should learn from animals. They don't care if their human is black, white, gay, straight, tall, short or whatever. Just as long as they are nice people who have love and kindness in their hearts, pets are happy.

    Claire
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm just replying to Js comment. I am a Christian. I do not believe that I have made the wrong choice or that it is wrong to be a Christian. However, I do find it wrong about what this women said. I feel like some people can become TOO religious and discriminate. NOT ALL CHRISTENS OR RELIGIONS ARE LIKE THIS! Even if I wasn't religious, I would still believe that some people r being a hypocrite. What else would u call saying bad things about a religion because of what they believe and getting mad at them for saying something bad about gays when u r doing the same thing to them? I believe that people have the right to be gay, but people also have the right to be religious without ur harsh comments.

    Viviane Katz
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are religious groups that march in support in my town's Pride parade. I was happy to see a Catholic group (the first) this year. There are also denominations that perform same-sex weddings.

    Load More Replies...
    BusLady
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What a story! There are a lot of people like that, but there are far more people who are not judgmental. I'm glad there was a happy ending. BTW, clever names for your fur babies.

    anarkzie
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Would a god that tortures people for all eternity on account of who they fall in love with/ have sex with really be worth worshipping? Any god that did not want Homosexaulity to be a thing could simply have made it impossible, in the same way that drinking Lava does not need to made a sin because it's not posible to do.

    La Petite Morte
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Especially given the fact that all 4 verses in the Bible prohibiting homosexuality were inserted by Pope Constantine I as a measure to combat the population decline that was happening at the time. The reason was that the general attitude was that women were only for procreation and were not capable of feeling passion, love, true emotion, etc., so if you wanted a truly passionate loving relationship, you had it with another man. If you needed an heir, you slept with a woman until she was pregnant, then you went back to your boyfriend for the emotional connection. This attitude was contributing to a declining birthrate, so the Pope decreed that G-d said sex between men is evil and you'll go to hell if you do it. Once that decree was made, birth rates started to climb. There's a book about the secular history of the Bible and the Church that is fascinating. It explains how a lot of things the faithful of the major religions assume as the given word of G-d were actually politically, financially, and sometimes just plain a*****e-y motivated.

    Load More Replies...
    Debbie Lyn Jones (Deb)
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am pretty sure that most people who love their cats will never ever be caught saying "Their cat looks like any other cat".

    Jilltdcatlady
    Community Member
    7 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OMG! When the owner said she used a stock photo "because all cats look alike" I knew she was a scam! And wanting to see their new home... you mean 'case the joint'?

    Load More Replies...
    Jill
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That lady took ”Crazy Cat Lady” to a whole new level!

    Sandi
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a Christian and I tell you, I don't get how other Christians can be so judgmental. So happy you finally got your kitties! I have had lots of cats over the past 30 yrs, and am now down to one. They are great company and very affectionate. I miss all my kitties so much, no matter how many years have gone by.

    Kould B
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Homophobia is not exclusive to Christians. There are plenty of Muslims, Jews, Buddhists & atheists (just to name a few) who are no better, or worse. Just saying.

    Load More Replies...
    Load More Comments
    ADHORTATOR
    Community Member
    7 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "I am religious..." Well, that's your problem, Lady.... A cure exists, called Thinking by your own

    Rachael Marrast
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am religious but I'm not mean and also respect others lifestyles.

    Load More Replies...
    Pumbaa
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are some f****d up people in this world.. Glad it worked out for you Alex! Very cute little kittens with awesome names :D

    Lu
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not f****d up just ignorant...close minded. We all have a comfort zone some people’s zones are that way too big lol

    Load More Replies...
    Monty Is Fiennes
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wild ride.... but I do so love a happy pet story. Best wishes, Alex, Freddie and George.

    troufaki13
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We should learn from animals. They don't care if their human is black, white, gay, straight, tall, short or whatever. Just as long as they are nice people who have love and kindness in their hearts, pets are happy.

    Claire
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm just replying to Js comment. I am a Christian. I do not believe that I have made the wrong choice or that it is wrong to be a Christian. However, I do find it wrong about what this women said. I feel like some people can become TOO religious and discriminate. NOT ALL CHRISTENS OR RELIGIONS ARE LIKE THIS! Even if I wasn't religious, I would still believe that some people r being a hypocrite. What else would u call saying bad things about a religion because of what they believe and getting mad at them for saying something bad about gays when u r doing the same thing to them? I believe that people have the right to be gay, but people also have the right to be religious without ur harsh comments.

    Viviane Katz
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are religious groups that march in support in my town's Pride parade. I was happy to see a Catholic group (the first) this year. There are also denominations that perform same-sex weddings.

    Load More Replies...
    BusLady
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What a story! There are a lot of people like that, but there are far more people who are not judgmental. I'm glad there was a happy ending. BTW, clever names for your fur babies.

    anarkzie
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Would a god that tortures people for all eternity on account of who they fall in love with/ have sex with really be worth worshipping? Any god that did not want Homosexaulity to be a thing could simply have made it impossible, in the same way that drinking Lava does not need to made a sin because it's not posible to do.

    La Petite Morte
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Especially given the fact that all 4 verses in the Bible prohibiting homosexuality were inserted by Pope Constantine I as a measure to combat the population decline that was happening at the time. The reason was that the general attitude was that women were only for procreation and were not capable of feeling passion, love, true emotion, etc., so if you wanted a truly passionate loving relationship, you had it with another man. If you needed an heir, you slept with a woman until she was pregnant, then you went back to your boyfriend for the emotional connection. This attitude was contributing to a declining birthrate, so the Pope decreed that G-d said sex between men is evil and you'll go to hell if you do it. Once that decree was made, birth rates started to climb. There's a book about the secular history of the Bible and the Church that is fascinating. It explains how a lot of things the faithful of the major religions assume as the given word of G-d were actually politically, financially, and sometimes just plain a*****e-y motivated.

    Load More Replies...
    Debbie Lyn Jones (Deb)
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am pretty sure that most people who love their cats will never ever be caught saying "Their cat looks like any other cat".

    Jilltdcatlady
    Community Member
    7 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OMG! When the owner said she used a stock photo "because all cats look alike" I knew she was a scam! And wanting to see their new home... you mean 'case the joint'?

    Load More Replies...
    Jill
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That lady took ”Crazy Cat Lady” to a whole new level!

    Sandi
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a Christian and I tell you, I don't get how other Christians can be so judgmental. So happy you finally got your kitties! I have had lots of cats over the past 30 yrs, and am now down to one. They are great company and very affectionate. I miss all my kitties so much, no matter how many years have gone by.

    Kould B
    Community Member
    7 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Homophobia is not exclusive to Christians. There are plenty of Muslims, Jews, Buddhists & atheists (just to name a few) who are no better, or worse. Just saying.

    Load More Replies...
    Load More Comments
    You May Like
    Related on Bored Panda
    Popular on Bored Panda
    Trending on Bored Panda
    Also on Bored Panda
    ADVERTISEMENT