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Friendships take years to build, but they can be shattered in an instant. And sometimes you might not even understand why it’s happening until it’s too late to change anything.
So when Reddit user Queenbee71295 realized that her long-time bestie was ending their friendship over an engagement party, she decided to ask the internet for perspective. It felt so sudden, she wasn’t able to make sense of the whole ordeal by herself.
In a post on r/AITAH, she laid out the double standards her friend had enforced — from banning her baby to suddenly uninviting her husband — and asked if she was in the wrong for standing her ground.
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Young woman and man smiling and shaking hands at an engagement party, while another guest blows a party horn.
Rokas is a writer at Bored Panda with a BA in Communication. After working for a sculptor, he fell in love with visual storytelling and enjoys covering everything from TV shows (any Sopranos fans out there?) to photography. Throughout his years in Bored Panda, over 300 million people have read the posts he's written, which is probably more than he could count to.
Rokas is a writer at Bored Panda with a BA in Communication. After working for a sculptor, he fell in love with visual storytelling and enjoys covering everything from TV shows (any Sopranos fans out there?) to photography. Throughout his years in Bored Panda, over 300 million people have read the posts he's written, which is probably more than he could count to.
She's in love with your husband, she took a shot, it missed, she felt rejected and lashed out at you instead. Congratulations on letting go of what (in hindsight) was not a friendship.
She was not a good friend. Very jealous and insecure about herself. Be happy with your husband and kids and hopefully you will find real friends in the future.
She wanted OP to come without her husband so she could say some c**p about how there relationship isn't strong, he won't go to parties with her. Or something stupid.
She's in love with your husband, she took a shot, it missed, she felt rejected and lashed out at you instead. Congratulations on letting go of what (in hindsight) was not a friendship.
She was not a good friend. Very jealous and insecure about herself. Be happy with your husband and kids and hopefully you will find real friends in the future.
She wanted OP to come without her husband so she could say some c**p about how there relationship isn't strong, he won't go to parties with her. Or something stupid.
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