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“Took A Wild Turn”: Woman Can’t Believe The Lengths This Entitled Mom Went To Steal Her Seat
“Took A Wild Turn”: Woman Can’t Believe The Lengths This Entitled Mom Went To Steal Her Seat
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“Took A Wild Turn”: Woman Can’t Believe The Lengths This Entitled Mom Went To Steal Her Seat

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While booking a flight, we often consider factors like finding the cheapest fare, choosing convenient flight times, and getting a generous baggage allowance. For many travelers, securing their preferred seat is also a top priority. However, isn’t it inconvenient when someone demands a seat change after you’ve selected an aisle or window seat for yourself?

Well, a woman took to Reddit to share how she refused to give up her window seat on a flight despite pressure from a mother and her teenage son. Keep reading to discover how the author’s decision led to accusations of discrimination and sparked drama during the flight.

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    A woman recounted being called selfish after declining to switch seats with an entitled teenager

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    Air travel has seen a significant increase over the past decade

    In 2023, approximately 4.35 billion people traveled by air. Whether you are going for a vacation, business meeting, family visit, or cultural exploration, flying makes it easier for us to explore new destinations and stay globally connected.

    And, while many of us are probably familiar with flight rules such as restrictions on liquids and sharp objects, there are also a few etiquettes we should observe when cruising 30,000 feet above the ground.

    Let’s begin with when we first enter the aircraft. Reaching your seat can be quite annoying, especially if there is a long line. However, once you find your seat and have put away your luggage, avoid standing in the aisle for too long. You should wait until other people are seated before you start finding your headphones or grabbing your favorite book.

    “It’s always kind of mind-blowing to see that because it’s my bag, and my overhead bin, and my seat, and my flight, my connection, and, you know, my drink, and it’s very me when it comes to just how people behave on an airplane,” says Rich Henderson, who’s been a flight attendant for about a decade. “You’ve got to be aware of your surroundings; you’ve got to be respectful of the people around you.”

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    It’s essential that people observe flight etiquette while traveling

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    As airplane cabins are often cramped, it’s essential that we respect our fellow passengers’ personal space. So while it might seem romantic in movies, we should refrain from leaning excessively on the person sitting next to us. Also, hogging the armrest is a big no. Imagine someone keeping their hands in an awkward position for six hours because you decided to take up all the space.

    You might want to get comfortable right after the flight takes off, but look behind you before you recline your seat. People usually open their tray tables to keep their laptops or food, and if you quickly put your seat back, their things might fall or break.

    Seat-kicking on planes is surprisingly a common experience during air travel. Whether it’s a restless child behind you or an inadvertent bump from a fellow passenger, it can be quite annoying. Also, before you take off your shoes or socks, make sure your feet don’t smell. The last thing anyone wants is to be seated next to someone who is causing an unpleasant sensory stir.

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    Creating excessive noise can be disruptive for fellow passengers

    We should also be mindful while using our electronic devices. For instance, if you are listening to music, watching movies, or playing games, don’t do it at a high volume. You can always use headphones. Moreover, avoid speaking loudly with others unless you’re eager for all the passengers and crew to become unintended participants in your conversation.

    Flight attendants put in a lot of effort to make sure that passengers are comfortable and safe. Throughout the journey, try to be kind and cooperative with them. For instance, when they serve you your meal, say thank you or smile at them. Behaving rudely with the crew is inconsiderate.

    Lastly, expecting people to switch seats with you is not fair. People often choose specific seats for reasons such as comfort, views, or proximity to friends or family. When someone demands a seat change, it might inconvenience both the passenger and the airline staff. For some, a window seat might be a small luxury that turns a tiring flight into a good one.

    In this particular instance, the woman was looking forward to enjoying her window seat. She stood her ground despite being accused and yelled at by her fellow passenger. Have you ever been in or witnessed an airplane drama? Do you think you are a good traveler?

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    Many praised the author for standing her ground and not giving up her seat

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    Nikita Manot

    Nikita Manot

    Writer, BoredPanda staff

    Nikita's knack for storytelling and creativity has led her into the world of writing. With a robust foundation in business studies, she crafts compelling narratives by seamlessly blending analytical insight with imaginative expression. At Bored Panda, she embarks on an exhilarating quest to explore diverse topics, fueled by curiosity and passion. During her leisure time, she savors life's simple pleasures, such as gardening, cooking homemade meals and hosting gatherings for loved ones.

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    Stckynote
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is it always the one being attacked that gets shamed for not being a bigger person and just giving in?

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How these people escalating to racism in front of witnesses? How are people not booking seats together if they want to fly together. Most 15 year olds I know would REJOICE at having alone time on the plane. I'm travelling next week and would usually book a window seat but the price for just 3 hours is extortionate. I will hope for the best when checking in and if I'm middle seat, then go to the loo immediately after take off and have a nap. Or stare out the window anyway without making window seat uncomfortable.

    marcelo D.
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    aparently, their thoughts are : why book sits together if you can make someone feel like s**t and take their paid upgrade for free?

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    Glen Ellyn
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Airlines ought to institute a rule that if you create a scene after being refused a seat change by ANYONE, you're taken off the plane immediately and put on that airline's no-fly list. They get just one warning that if they say another word, they'll be escorted off the plane immediately. Then DO it! Take them off!

    tori Ohno
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She should have been told what a bad mother she was for not booking 2 seats together like normal families do.

    Mike F
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is it just me or are these getting more bizarre? This is so simple that it shouldn't open to discussion, you sit in the seats you paid for and are assigned. End of discussion. I don't understand the unwillingness of the airlines to adopt a formal policy about this rubbish. They are (by their inaction) creating a roller derby in the sky. That mom should have been removed when she started accusing the OP of racism because she (OP) wouldn't agree to her demand. This is beyond stupid and needs to stop.

    Melissa anderson
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just because you gave birth, that doesn’t give you the right to be an overly entitled AH.

    ByeFelicia
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NTA. She belongs on a no-fly list.

    Kerry Fletcher
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow. You paid and booked just like you should. Not. Your fault. You are allowed to say no.

    The Other Guest
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Give in to avoid the drama." OP wasn't the one causing the drama, why is it on them to end it?

    Allison Slagle (Randomosity)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When asked if I was happy making a kid miserable, I would've smiled and said, "Yeah, I am. Never been happier."

    Joanne Mendonza-Earle
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eff these entitled people. If she wanted to sit w/ her son she should've booked the seats they wanted. I don't fly anymore but if I did and someone asked me to switch I'd tell them to pound sand.

    Schmebulock
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Her problem was engaging with the crazy women. She should have just said no and then ignored her. Try putting on headphones/earbuds or just look out the window like the nutbag lady does not exist. You have no obligation to explain anything.

    notlikeyou1971
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm gonna get downvoted after I say this. The minute they figured out you weren't going to give them their way they took it upon themselves to bring race into the equation. THEY made it about race. When it could be used to their advantage they scream racist. It's becoming the new norm these days. Instead of paying for tickets next to each other, they hassle someone else. The person refuses and they use the race card. I've seen this one way too often. It's not your skin color lady,it's the fact that you aren't entitled to someone else's seat. Quit playing the race card to your advantage and pay for your own seats. It's not racism it's entitled people behaving badly. So sick of these games.

    JayWantsACat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People just giving into these a******s is WHY this keep happening. Stop rewarding this s****y behavior to "make things easier" or "keep the peace". People caving to these ridiculous demands are why they keep happening. Who give a s**t if the FAs or anyone else glares at you for literally doing nothing wrong. You won't ever see these people in your life again. Who give a s**t what they think about this situation. Why didn't they give their seats up? After declining and proving I'm in the correct seat, I'm putting on my headphones or at least ignoring everything else and getting ready for the flight.

    Shaggy
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So if it is a puddle jumper and like an hour flight I might think about it, but 6 hrs.. No frigging way!!!

    D 4
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No ,I would have given up my seat .Doing something really kind is easy if your doing it for a nice person ,being really kind to someone not so nice is harder ,but something really good will come back to you .It's all karma

    firecrackershrimp
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The airlines need to start removing these entitled people if they don't immediately return to their seats. We need to be done with this. On a side note, despite what the article says, it is NEVER ok to remove your shoes and socks on public transportation. What the F is wrong with those kinds of people .

    Steve Dowell
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you want to change seats on a plane, you need to offer a BETTER seat to the person your asking.

    JustABored1
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did this lady go back to where her kid was supposed to sit and start screaming at them for not my moving for her?! Not the AH

    Scott Rackley
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Excuse me sir, would.." "No." I always pay for the extra leg room seats. I've switched when the flight attendants needed me on the exit row before, but that's it.

    brittany
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    if the seating is that important the mom can pay for seats together

    Guess Undheit
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How brainless are people not to book seats together or where they want? It's not a bus, and it's NOT public transportation. If you behave like an idiot, you're going to get tossed and barred from future flights.

    Beth D
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Often, just saying No thank you and ignoring Idiots tirades might be the best policy. And BTW you are NTA - and I am at a loss of why people ask this question regarding an assigned, or a chosen seat.You are not the only one on the plane - Just say NO and if that answer is an issue for you, Ask someone else.

    anne chan
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Next time there should be a separate plane for family's with kids, because it's really annoying how parents think they are entitled to everything. Don't start with kids if you can't deal with the consequences!!

    Papa
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Are you aware of the fact that only a very small portion of people with children behave like the mother in this story? Your blanket statement that "parents think they are entitled to everything" says more about you than you may realize.

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    PeakyBlinder
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would just have ignored them after saying no and put my headphones on. No is a cemplete sentence, no further explanation needed

    Lydsylou (she/her)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Personally I would've switched to avoid drama but that's my decision. NTA

    Cora Van der Gaag
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As someone else already said it gives etntitled people the idea that their behavior is ok. You never give in to that sort of thing. you don’t do that if your child is having a tantrum either.

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    Stckynote
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why is it always the one being attacked that gets shamed for not being a bigger person and just giving in?

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How these people escalating to racism in front of witnesses? How are people not booking seats together if they want to fly together. Most 15 year olds I know would REJOICE at having alone time on the plane. I'm travelling next week and would usually book a window seat but the price for just 3 hours is extortionate. I will hope for the best when checking in and if I'm middle seat, then go to the loo immediately after take off and have a nap. Or stare out the window anyway without making window seat uncomfortable.

    marcelo D.
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    aparently, their thoughts are : why book sits together if you can make someone feel like s**t and take their paid upgrade for free?

    Load More Replies...
    Glen Ellyn
    Community Member
    Premium
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Airlines ought to institute a rule that if you create a scene after being refused a seat change by ANYONE, you're taken off the plane immediately and put on that airline's no-fly list. They get just one warning that if they say another word, they'll be escorted off the plane immediately. Then DO it! Take them off!

    tori Ohno
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She should have been told what a bad mother she was for not booking 2 seats together like normal families do.

    Mike F
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is it just me or are these getting more bizarre? This is so simple that it shouldn't open to discussion, you sit in the seats you paid for and are assigned. End of discussion. I don't understand the unwillingness of the airlines to adopt a formal policy about this rubbish. They are (by their inaction) creating a roller derby in the sky. That mom should have been removed when she started accusing the OP of racism because she (OP) wouldn't agree to her demand. This is beyond stupid and needs to stop.

    Melissa anderson
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just because you gave birth, that doesn’t give you the right to be an overly entitled AH.

    ByeFelicia
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    NTA. She belongs on a no-fly list.

    Kerry Fletcher
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow. You paid and booked just like you should. Not. Your fault. You are allowed to say no.

    The Other Guest
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Give in to avoid the drama." OP wasn't the one causing the drama, why is it on them to end it?

    Allison Slagle (Randomosity)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When asked if I was happy making a kid miserable, I would've smiled and said, "Yeah, I am. Never been happier."

    Joanne Mendonza-Earle
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eff these entitled people. If she wanted to sit w/ her son she should've booked the seats they wanted. I don't fly anymore but if I did and someone asked me to switch I'd tell them to pound sand.

    Schmebulock
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Her problem was engaging with the crazy women. She should have just said no and then ignored her. Try putting on headphones/earbuds or just look out the window like the nutbag lady does not exist. You have no obligation to explain anything.

    notlikeyou1971
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm gonna get downvoted after I say this. The minute they figured out you weren't going to give them their way they took it upon themselves to bring race into the equation. THEY made it about race. When it could be used to their advantage they scream racist. It's becoming the new norm these days. Instead of paying for tickets next to each other, they hassle someone else. The person refuses and they use the race card. I've seen this one way too often. It's not your skin color lady,it's the fact that you aren't entitled to someone else's seat. Quit playing the race card to your advantage and pay for your own seats. It's not racism it's entitled people behaving badly. So sick of these games.

    JayWantsACat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People just giving into these a******s is WHY this keep happening. Stop rewarding this s****y behavior to "make things easier" or "keep the peace". People caving to these ridiculous demands are why they keep happening. Who give a s**t if the FAs or anyone else glares at you for literally doing nothing wrong. You won't ever see these people in your life again. Who give a s**t what they think about this situation. Why didn't they give their seats up? After declining and proving I'm in the correct seat, I'm putting on my headphones or at least ignoring everything else and getting ready for the flight.

    Shaggy
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So if it is a puddle jumper and like an hour flight I might think about it, but 6 hrs.. No frigging way!!!

    D 4
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No ,I would have given up my seat .Doing something really kind is easy if your doing it for a nice person ,being really kind to someone not so nice is harder ,but something really good will come back to you .It's all karma

    firecrackershrimp
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The airlines need to start removing these entitled people if they don't immediately return to their seats. We need to be done with this. On a side note, despite what the article says, it is NEVER ok to remove your shoes and socks on public transportation. What the F is wrong with those kinds of people .

    Steve Dowell
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you want to change seats on a plane, you need to offer a BETTER seat to the person your asking.

    JustABored1
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Did this lady go back to where her kid was supposed to sit and start screaming at them for not my moving for her?! Not the AH

    Scott Rackley
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Excuse me sir, would.." "No." I always pay for the extra leg room seats. I've switched when the flight attendants needed me on the exit row before, but that's it.

    brittany
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    if the seating is that important the mom can pay for seats together

    Guess Undheit
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How brainless are people not to book seats together or where they want? It's not a bus, and it's NOT public transportation. If you behave like an idiot, you're going to get tossed and barred from future flights.

    Beth D
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Often, just saying No thank you and ignoring Idiots tirades might be the best policy. And BTW you are NTA - and I am at a loss of why people ask this question regarding an assigned, or a chosen seat.You are not the only one on the plane - Just say NO and if that answer is an issue for you, Ask someone else.

    anne chan
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Next time there should be a separate plane for family's with kids, because it's really annoying how parents think they are entitled to everything. Don't start with kids if you can't deal with the consequences!!

    Papa
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Are you aware of the fact that only a very small portion of people with children behave like the mother in this story? Your blanket statement that "parents think they are entitled to everything" says more about you than you may realize.

    Load More Replies...
    PeakyBlinder
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would just have ignored them after saying no and put my headphones on. No is a cemplete sentence, no further explanation needed

    Lydsylou (she/her)
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Personally I would've switched to avoid drama but that's my decision. NTA

    Cora Van der Gaag
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As someone else already said it gives etntitled people the idea that their behavior is ok. You never give in to that sort of thing. you don’t do that if your child is having a tantrum either.

    Load More Replies...
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