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Serial Cheater Breaks Ex’s Heart Yet Comes Back To Harass Her, She Exposes Him Before His Wedding
A blonde woman, looking upset, rests her chin on her hand, a ring on her finger. A serial cheater's actions can break hearts.

Serial Cheater Breaks Ex’s Heart Yet Comes Back To Harass Her, She Exposes Him Before His Wedding

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Some people have difficulty being with just one person at a time. I think they should be with someone who is polyamorous. I mean, why waste another person’s time in a monogamous relationship when they are going to cheat anyway? Alas, you can’t really understand why people do certain things.

One woman vented online about how her cheating ex started harassing her to have a physical relationship with him, just 2 days before his wedding. Frustrated with his toxic behavior, she exposed him to his fiancée and family, and watched the drama unfold. Scroll down to find out what happened!

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    This woman moved on from her ex, but he harassed her, so she exposed him to his fiancée and family 2 days before his wedding

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    Moving on from someone can be a nightmare when a person is heartbroken

    Imagine you have a healthy relationship with a person, and they suddenly break your heart out of the blue. Ouch, sounds painful, doesn’t it? Nobody likes getting dumped, especially when it is done with the infamous ghosting tactic. It’s probably worse, as people just can’t figure out what went wrong, and they might even blame themselves.

    Experts at Verywell Mind explain that breakups are a major loss that affects our mind and body, similar to experiencing the demise of a loved one. “They can cause us to feel physical sensations like anxiety attacks, changes in eating and sleeping habits, stomach issues, and fatigue. The physical symptoms often coincide with the mental issues, making a break-up feel both physically and emotionally draining,” they add.

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    After all, people dream about spending their whole lives with this person, but when it disappears in the blink of an eye, it can be quite traumatizing. However, one really admirable quality of some people is their resilience in life. Despite all the pain they experience, they still have the courage to move forward with their lives.

    But it can all crumble if an ex-partner re-enters the picture and starts pestering the person. Researchers highlight that post-separation cruelty is a sustained campaign of harassment, intimidation, control, and maltreatment by the ex-partner. It can harm the victim’s mental health and can cause them to feel extreme anxiety and depression.

    No one should have to suffer so much just because their ex suddenly got bored with their life and decided to make a painful comeback. But these people don’t think there’s anything wrong with their actions and even feel no remorse about how it can affect their ex. 

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    When a person cheats once, there’s a high chance that they will do it again

    It seems like the same was true in the author’s case. Also, he was not faithful to her, and even wanted her to be his affair partner 2 days before his wedding. Well, infidelity is not really shocking, as we hear so many stories about it. According to a survey, 23.2% of men indicated that they had cheated on their current partner, knowing that it could jeopardize or hurt their relationship.

    Another study found that 40% of unmarried couples report infidelity, and someone is three times more likely to cheat if they have done so in the past. However, some people still stay with their partners despite being aware of their affairs and unfaithful behaviors. It might not always be out of love, though, as some people remain out of fear of being alone, lack of anywhere else to go, or even financial issues.

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    Sometimes, it could also be because their partners manipulated them, but staying can be one of the toughest decisions that they have to make. We can judge people all we want, but we can never know what they might be going through. However, every person has a right to know, and I think the author did the right thing by telling his fiancée.

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    People online assured her that even his parents deserved to know the truth about their darling boy and what he was up to. I hope he stops with the harassment and never contacts the narrator again. Anyway, dear pandas, what are your thoughts about it? Let us know in the comments below!

    Netizens cheered the author for exposing the truth, as she shared more details

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    Hey, am Rutuja! A storyteller at heart and a writer at Bored Panda. I have a strange love for words, and I mostly survive on coffee which is the driving force behind my writing. I enjoy working on articles that purely entertain our readers. When am not writing or trekking, you can find me staying up late and watching all the matches of Football Club Barcelona!

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    Rutuja Dumbre

    Rutuja Dumbre

    Writer, BoredPanda staff

    Hey, am Rutuja! A storyteller at heart and a writer at Bored Panda. I have a strange love for words, and I mostly survive on coffee which is the driving force behind my writing. I enjoy working on articles that purely entertain our readers. When am not writing or trekking, you can find me staying up late and watching all the matches of Football Club Barcelona!

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    marianne eliza
    Community Member
    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Every time I read a story like this, my first thought is Why don't they block the number? Why allow continued contact? Who really has the issue if both are still calling or texting each other?

    Lee Gilliland
    Community Member
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    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are those who need to cheat and will always have a side piece.

    Kate Johnson
    Community Member
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    2 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have said, "I only was ever with you out of pity. You are a terrible lover, and you have a smell that never goes away. I'm glad to be done with you, and the very idea of you ever touching again, makes me physically ill." His new wife deserves the life she's chosen for herself.

    marianne eliza
    Community Member
    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Every time I read a story like this, my first thought is Why don't they block the number? Why allow continued contact? Who really has the issue if both are still calling or texting each other?

    Lee Gilliland
    Community Member
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    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are those who need to cheat and will always have a side piece.

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    Kate Johnson
    Community Member
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    2 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have said, "I only was ever with you out of pity. You are a terrible lover, and you have a smell that never goes away. I'm glad to be done with you, and the very idea of you ever touching again, makes me physically ill." His new wife deserves the life she's chosen for herself.

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