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Woman Pregnant With Twins Has To Find A Lawyer Because Her Ex’s New GF With Fertility Issues Treats Her Like A Surrogate

Woman Pregnant With Twins Has To Find A Lawyer Because Her Ex’s New GF With Fertility Issues Treats Her Like A Surrogate

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When Reddit goes all serious and tells you to immediately get a lawyer, you know that something’s up and things can go really bad. It’s like Instagram telling you to take a break from scrolling, Facebook not showing any ads, or Twitter suddenly being respectful of different points of view in a discussion. In other words, when that happens, things are about to go down.

Redditor Throwaway-twinmama, who lives on the East Coast, shared a very personal and frightening story with the AITA community, asking for advice on whether she was doing the right thing. The woman is pregnant with twins and the father, Joe, had gone back to his ex-girlfriend, Kim, already. However, both Joe and Kim want to be involved in the pregnancy, the birth process, and raising the kids.

Only one problem—Kim is way too invested in the process. So much so that she wants one of the twins and it’s really scaring Throwaway-twinmama. The redditor called her out on it, but after she turned to Reddit for advice, things took an even darker turn. Check the full story out below, dear Pandas. It’s a wild one today.

A woman who’s pregnant with twins shared the bizarre and frightening way that her ex’s girlfriend has been acting

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Other internet users convinced the mother-to-be to seek legal help

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Later on, the woman posted an update: her ex’s gf went berserk after she saw the story on Reddit

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Throwaway-twinmama’s story would have made pretty much anyone uneasy with how little Kim and Joe cared about her boundaries, treating the redditor as though she were a surrogate.

The family situation was complicated as it was, but Kim made things even more difficult by constantly barraging the redditor with advice about her body, throwing a gender reveal party without inviting the mom-to-be, and implying that she wants one of the children.

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We try not to judge people too much, but Kim scares the bejesus outta me and I can’t help but offer the same advice that the AITA community gave: get a lawyer. And that’s exactly what Throwaway-twinmama did. She also spoke about what’s happening to the police. So far, there’s nothing much that they can do.

The redditor’s even considering moving to a different state to make sure that a separate set of laws applies to her children and the kooky couple have less of a claim to them. But if you thought that Kim would sit quietly and wait for things to happen naturally, you were wrong. She actually went full-on rage mode, destroying the mom-to-be’s belongings.

After somebody sent Kim the link to the redditor’s post on the AITA subreddit, she went to the twin mom’s job. She then proceeded to damage her car, broke a lot of office windows, and scared the kids that the redditor works with.

Here’s what the members of the AITA community on Reddit have been saying

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And here’s what people elsewhere on the internet said after reading the mind-boggling story

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What did you think of the story, dear Pandas? What would you do in Throwaway-twinmama’s complicated situation? Do you have any advice for people who might be in a similar situation? Share your thoughts and tips in the comment section below.

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Storytelling, journalism, and art are a core part of who I am. I've been writing and drawing ever since I could walk—there is nothing else I'd rather do. My formal education, however, is focused on politics, philosophy, and economics because I've always been curious about the gap between the ideal and the real. At work, I'm a Senior Writer and I cover a broad range of topics that I'm passionate about: from psychology and changes in work culture to healthy living, relationships, and design. In my spare time, I'm an avid hiker and reader, enjoy writing short stories, and love to doodle. I thrive when I'm outdoors, going on small adventures in nature. However, you can also find me enjoying a big mug of coffee with a good book (or ten) and entertaining friends with fantasy tabletop games and sci-fi movies.

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Storytelling, journalism, and art are a core part of who I am. I've been writing and drawing ever since I could walk—there is nothing else I'd rather do. My formal education, however, is focused on politics, philosophy, and economics because I've always been curious about the gap between the ideal and the real. At work, I'm a Senior Writer and I cover a broad range of topics that I'm passionate about: from psychology and changes in work culture to healthy living, relationships, and design. In my spare time, I'm an avid hiker and reader, enjoy writing short stories, and love to doodle. I thrive when I'm outdoors, going on small adventures in nature. However, you can also find me enjoying a big mug of coffee with a good book (or ten) and entertaining friends with fantasy tabletop games and sci-fi movies.

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Iggy
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wouldn't let Kim have custody of a crayon! The suggestions above that the couple could have deliberately broken up to get someone else pregnant might not be far off the mark. It's certainly possible given Kim's craziness. Lawyers and a move to another state are definitely in order.

CatWoman312
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This whole situation sounds like a movie that’s waiting to be written. It seems insane, but would definitely make a good movie

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James016
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If Kim's behaviour escalates it will lead to her trying to kidnap your babies (this may sound extreme but it seems to be heading that way). You have a lawyer so get far away.

Iggy
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Given what we just read, I wouldn't be surprised if Kim did try kidnapping. I'd be horrified but not surprised.

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GirlFriday
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I read that about the home birth, the first thing I thought was, "They are going to kill OP the minute she has those babies."

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Iggy
Community Member
3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wouldn't let Kim have custody of a crayon! The suggestions above that the couple could have deliberately broken up to get someone else pregnant might not be far off the mark. It's certainly possible given Kim's craziness. Lawyers and a move to another state are definitely in order.

CatWoman312
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This whole situation sounds like a movie that’s waiting to be written. It seems insane, but would definitely make a good movie

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James016
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If Kim's behaviour escalates it will lead to her trying to kidnap your babies (this may sound extreme but it seems to be heading that way). You have a lawyer so get far away.

Iggy
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Given what we just read, I wouldn't be surprised if Kim did try kidnapping. I'd be horrified but not surprised.

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GirlFriday
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I read that about the home birth, the first thing I thought was, "They are going to kill OP the minute she has those babies."

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