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Woman With No Hope Comes Online To Vent About How The American Dream Is A Fraud
Woman With No Hope Comes Online To Vent About How The American Dream Is A Fraud
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Woman With No Hope Comes Online To Vent About How The American Dream Is A Fraud

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While some people love the grind, others feel crushed by it. These people simply don’t want to work multiple jobs in poor workplaces just so they can barely afford basic necessities and don’t have any time for themselves. And when you’re stuck in this kind of hamster wheel, it’s very easy to lose all your hope. Today’s story is about exactly that – a woman losing all hope and refusing to believe in the American Dream.

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    A woman who lost all her hope in today’s world came to Reddit to vent about her and society’s situation

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    In her rant she stated that she no longer believes in the American Dream, as it is a scam

    Recently, Reddit user u/bunnystar55 came to Reddit to vent about how she believes “America is a scam.” To be more specific, she means the American dream.

    The American Dream is the belief that the United States is a land of opportunity, which allows the possibility of freedom, equality, and social mobility upward for all people who are willing to work hard.

    And, well, the post’s OP doesn’t believe this idea anymore. According to her, a lot of people have multiple jobs and the majority of them are treated poorly in their jobs by their coworkers, management, and HR. And then the minimum wage from that job isn’t enough to cover basic necessities. It also doesn’t leave any time off for people to have a social life and hobbies.

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    And it doesn’t end there. Healthcare is not sufficient at all. Poor people, who don’t have proper insurance or enough money, can’t get the help they need. Or if they pour everything they have into healthcare, they might end up homeless. And no one can do anything about it.

    The most infuriating thing about the situation for the woman is that she has always been a top student and spent thousands of dollars on her degree, which is worthless now. She also worked hard at every job, and it didn’t matter. She still ended up in this place. So, that’s why she has given up. She doesn’t have any hope anymore. 

    The term for the American Dream was popularized by James Truslow Adams in 1931, while the idea is claimed to originate from the United States Declaration of Independence. And while in theory, it does sound nice, throughout its history, there have been quite a few critics, just like the OP.

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    They point out that the idea fails to mention the lack of worker solidarity, materialism, consumerism, and hardships of workers. Some even noted that it didn’t acknowledge various types of discrimination, from slavery to genocide, that Americans have faced.

    Also, in 2020, it was found that only 54% of adults in the US believed the American Dream was achievable to them. 28% thought it wasn’t achievable for them personally. And as many as 9% plainly rejected this idea. I guess we could put the OP in the latter category.

    The majority of commenters under the post could also go into the last percentage. They shared that they, just like the OP, have had their soul crushed by the system and don’t believe in such lies as the American Dream. A few shared their horror stories of what made them like this, while others shared their “new American Dreams”, which are something along the lines of not becoming homeless. Quite a sad picture, right?

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    So, as we can see, the woman from the Reddit post isn’t the only one who understands how unattainable this idea can be. In fact, we think that an update for the American Dream is due. Let’s make it more 21st-century-ish and less tedious for people all around the US.

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    People online shared the same sentiment as the post’s author by voicing how their soul has also crushed by the same things as hers

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    Ugnė Bulotaitė

    Ugnė Bulotaitė

    Writer, BoredPanda staff

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    I am a writer at Bored Panda. I have loved creating and writing down stories about people and things since I was little and I think this passion led me to get degrees in sociology, communication, and journalism. These degrees opened various paths for me, and I got a chance to be a volunteer in the human rights field, and also try myself out in social research and journalism areas. Besides writing, my passions include pop culture: music, movies, TV shows; literature, and board games. In fact, I have been dubbed a board games devotee by some people in my life.

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    Ugnė Bulotaitė

    Ugnė Bulotaitė

    Writer, BoredPanda staff

    I am a writer at Bored Panda. I have loved creating and writing down stories about people and things since I was little and I think this passion led me to get degrees in sociology, communication, and journalism. These degrees opened various paths for me, and I got a chance to be a volunteer in the human rights field, and also try myself out in social research and journalism areas. Besides writing, my passions include pop culture: music, movies, TV shows; literature, and board games. In fact, I have been dubbed a board games devotee by some people in my life.

    Monika Pašukonytė

    Monika Pašukonytė

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    I am a visual editor here. In my free time I enjoy the vibrant worlds of art galleries, exhibitions, and soulful concerts. Yet, amidst life's hustle and bustle, I find solace in nature's embrace, cherishing tranquil moments with beloved friends. Deep within, I hold a dream close - to embark on a global journey in an RV, accompanied by my faithful canine companion. Together, we'll wander through diverse cultures, weaving precious memories under the starry night sky, fulfilling the wanderlust that stirs my soul.

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    Monika Pašukonytė

    Monika Pašukonytė

    Author, BoredPanda staff

    I am a visual editor here. In my free time I enjoy the vibrant worlds of art galleries, exhibitions, and soulful concerts. Yet, amidst life's hustle and bustle, I find solace in nature's embrace, cherishing tranquil moments with beloved friends. Deep within, I hold a dream close - to embark on a global journey in an RV, accompanied by my faithful canine companion. Together, we'll wander through diverse cultures, weaving precious memories under the starry night sky, fulfilling the wanderlust that stirs my soul.

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    1ch0
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looking around the globe, some folks might think the U.S. has got some big issues. The points that person made? Pretty spot on. The system seems stuck in its ways and changing it? That’s a tall order. Especially with a two-party, ‘winner-takes-all’ setup. Doesn’t quite hit the mark of what I’d call democracy.

    DC
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ... that's what you get when EVERY mentioning of wealth distribution makes you a communist, thereby an enemy, the antichrist, evil, lazy, useless and generally "unamerican". When minimum wage was introduced in the 30's, the goal was to ensure that working a fulltime job would get you and your family fed, housed, clothed, healthed. Today, in many states that only have the federal minimum wage, it's a supporting income at best, that you can only consider enough if enough is already earned elsewhere, by your partner, roommate, child, parent. If we don't adress, and usccessfully so, the problems that a very unequal income distribution creates, one that is TOO unequal - nobody said wiping a floor shall earn the same as engineering or anything even close - the entire West will lose everything it is ahead in. Including democracy, freedoms of various kinds. Might still exist on paper, but you can't really use them anymore, even without going to hospital for something somebody else caused you.

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    Enlee Jones
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I work hard so Jeff Bezos can buy another super yacht while I get to die at my desk.

    Anony Mouse
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So you found a redditor who does nothing but complain on reddit/buy toys. They admittedly suffer from mental illness, and used reddit to vent in a depressive episode. BP immediately jumped on it as another opportunity to post anti-American content.

    Justin Tyme
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, is Bored Panda America-bashing a daily event now?

    Rostit. .
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    It is. the "authors" have nothing useful to do in their own country so they bash the USA. it really helps us fix things when they do that. (sarcasm)

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    Toni-Marie Terry
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I detect no lies. Congress legislates for their own stock portfolios, and they’re not about to ban themselves from insider trading and accepting money from foreign lobbyists. The Supreme Court lacks ethics. We undervalue teachers and educators. It’s harder for Americans to keep a home in the family for generations, owning it outright, let alone ever purchase one at all. Voting rights are being trampled. There’s no accountability when representatives gerrymander and suppress their way into power. Corporations have the freedoms to pay slave wages and mass pollute, yet they have none of the tax burden. Instead, they get subsidies, loan forgiveness, tax incentives and breaks. Americans are screwed.

    Toni-Marie Terry
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And to top it off, privacy is nearly obsolete and have you noticed everything moving to subscription? We will own nothing soon.

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    doredde
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don´t know how some people come to the conclusion, that every argument that has to do with a mindset of social behaviour in a sense of a community of solidarity, has to be anti American and pro Russian/Communism. The world consists of a lot more than these two opposite sides of market economy. Vice versa one can ask why so many people living in this slightly "anti-social"/greedy system seem to be content with being treated in a (my personal opinion) unempathic way and give in to the wellfare dependent structures, rather than to strive for a more communal structured society. If you don´t need your workplace atmosphere (where most of us spend a lot more time awake than being in private) to be friendly. I always find my work performance to be more succesfull in a friendly environment, good for you! Maybe some are just better adjusted to the Treadmill. Hopefully they earn enough (and never loose it). The poor man is poor ´cause the rich man is rich (Bertold Brecht).

    graffitiwomen
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I majored in American Studies in college back in the 1990's...I thought the whole idea of 'The American Dream' was a scam then, and KNOW it is a scam now(as a 47yr old woman on disability). I can barely afford to eat, that's an "American Nightmare" that hits too close to home for far too many of us!

    Charles Kormos
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    America is a lifetime of debt. It begins after high school. You have three choices - get a job, go to college, start a business. All three require you going into debt. Yes, getting a job puts you in debt. You need a car, insurance, license, parking, gas, tickets, and risk death every day on the road. The government does nothing for you. Whatever the government fails to provide becomes an opportunity for the rich to get richer by providing it for a lifetime of debt. No universal healthcare, scant safe reliable public transportation, decades to pay off student loans, no rent control or affordable homes, fired from your job for no reason needed, pathetic retirement benefits that get taxed because you still have to work, two weeks vacation, if any, each year, minimum wages below the poverty level, just to mention a few. Worst part is - the average American wants the government to continue to do nothing. They think anything the government provides is socialism - the ultimate evil.

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    1ch0
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Looking around the globe, some folks might think the U.S. has got some big issues. The points that person made? Pretty spot on. The system seems stuck in its ways and changing it? That’s a tall order. Especially with a two-party, ‘winner-takes-all’ setup. Doesn’t quite hit the mark of what I’d call democracy.

    DC
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ... that's what you get when EVERY mentioning of wealth distribution makes you a communist, thereby an enemy, the antichrist, evil, lazy, useless and generally "unamerican". When minimum wage was introduced in the 30's, the goal was to ensure that working a fulltime job would get you and your family fed, housed, clothed, healthed. Today, in many states that only have the federal minimum wage, it's a supporting income at best, that you can only consider enough if enough is already earned elsewhere, by your partner, roommate, child, parent. If we don't adress, and usccessfully so, the problems that a very unequal income distribution creates, one that is TOO unequal - nobody said wiping a floor shall earn the same as engineering or anything even close - the entire West will lose everything it is ahead in. Including democracy, freedoms of various kinds. Might still exist on paper, but you can't really use them anymore, even without going to hospital for something somebody else caused you.

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    Enlee Jones
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I work hard so Jeff Bezos can buy another super yacht while I get to die at my desk.

    Anony Mouse
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So you found a redditor who does nothing but complain on reddit/buy toys. They admittedly suffer from mental illness, and used reddit to vent in a depressive episode. BP immediately jumped on it as another opportunity to post anti-American content.

    Justin Tyme
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, is Bored Panda America-bashing a daily event now?

    Rostit. .
    Community Member
    1 year ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    It is. the "authors" have nothing useful to do in their own country so they bash the USA. it really helps us fix things when they do that. (sarcasm)

    Load More Replies...
    Toni-Marie Terry
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I detect no lies. Congress legislates for their own stock portfolios, and they’re not about to ban themselves from insider trading and accepting money from foreign lobbyists. The Supreme Court lacks ethics. We undervalue teachers and educators. It’s harder for Americans to keep a home in the family for generations, owning it outright, let alone ever purchase one at all. Voting rights are being trampled. There’s no accountability when representatives gerrymander and suppress their way into power. Corporations have the freedoms to pay slave wages and mass pollute, yet they have none of the tax burden. Instead, they get subsidies, loan forgiveness, tax incentives and breaks. Americans are screwed.

    Toni-Marie Terry
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And to top it off, privacy is nearly obsolete and have you noticed everything moving to subscription? We will own nothing soon.

    Load More Replies...
    doredde
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don´t know how some people come to the conclusion, that every argument that has to do with a mindset of social behaviour in a sense of a community of solidarity, has to be anti American and pro Russian/Communism. The world consists of a lot more than these two opposite sides of market economy. Vice versa one can ask why so many people living in this slightly "anti-social"/greedy system seem to be content with being treated in a (my personal opinion) unempathic way and give in to the wellfare dependent structures, rather than to strive for a more communal structured society. If you don´t need your workplace atmosphere (where most of us spend a lot more time awake than being in private) to be friendly. I always find my work performance to be more succesfull in a friendly environment, good for you! Maybe some are just better adjusted to the Treadmill. Hopefully they earn enough (and never loose it). The poor man is poor ´cause the rich man is rich (Bertold Brecht).

    graffitiwomen
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I majored in American Studies in college back in the 1990's...I thought the whole idea of 'The American Dream' was a scam then, and KNOW it is a scam now(as a 47yr old woman on disability). I can barely afford to eat, that's an "American Nightmare" that hits too close to home for far too many of us!

    Charles Kormos
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    America is a lifetime of debt. It begins after high school. You have three choices - get a job, go to college, start a business. All three require you going into debt. Yes, getting a job puts you in debt. You need a car, insurance, license, parking, gas, tickets, and risk death every day on the road. The government does nothing for you. Whatever the government fails to provide becomes an opportunity for the rich to get richer by providing it for a lifetime of debt. No universal healthcare, scant safe reliable public transportation, decades to pay off student loans, no rent control or affordable homes, fired from your job for no reason needed, pathetic retirement benefits that get taxed because you still have to work, two weeks vacation, if any, each year, minimum wages below the poverty level, just to mention a few. Worst part is - the average American wants the government to continue to do nothing. They think anything the government provides is socialism - the ultimate evil.

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