This Japanese Woman Uploads Photos Of How Messy Her Husband Is At Home, And Here Are 39 Of The Best Pics
In any relationship, there’s always someone who is tidier and someone who is messier. If life were a situational comedy, a laugh track would play every time a spouse asked their significant other to please, please, for the love of God, wash the dishes, there’s stuff growing on the plates and I swear it just looked at me and moved. Alas, life isn’t a sitcom and our partners sometimes cut corners when it comes to cleanliness.
One couple that has very different understandings of what does and doesn’t mean keeping the house clean is from Japan. The female half of the couple found an innovative way to argue with her husband about the mess he leaves behind. She created an Instagram account called ‘Gomi Sutero’ (‘Throw Away Your Trash’) where she uploads photos of the mess her hubby leaves behind.
Scroll down and upvote the messes that you would love to see cleaned up and share this post with your friends who love keeping things tidy at home. Or even those of your pals who are messy themselves and need reminding to pick up their socks.
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I think this guy has been like this his whole life. Maybe he tried aiming for the bin but he's not so good at it? Well, everything was a close shot.
He doesn't pick up after himself and knows she will. She should stuff it in his shoes.
"I will do it properly the next time," was said aloud. I think this will continue forever. (LOL)
I settled that one easily. Only things that are in the laundry basket get washed. I do not see and I do not care about things that are around the laundry basket, or around the house.
My ex wouldn't care. He would use the dirty clothes forever and I would die of smell and anger.
Load More Replies...According to google translate: Extend now. Then put it in the washing machine.
LOLOLOLOL!! It means ‘Stretch them now. And put them in the washing machine.’ It’s so blunt, it’s funny
Put it in the trash can where he can see it. The day he has no socks, he MIGHT have an epiphany.
My husband does this with his socks, amongst other laundry transgressions (including things like “helping” by doing my laundry and f*****g up all the delicates he didn’t separate out, and washing whites with colors so everything ended up with green splotches on it. Need I say more?). He now has his own hamper and does his own laundry.
Okay so the Japanese means: Don’t do something that makes no sense. And oh my god, this is TOO FUNNY!! (Yes, I am Japanese)
Im learning the language, but the kanji confuses me... thanks for translating!
Load More Replies...O/T: Can't type "@-s-s" without it getting held up by auto censors, but you can type sh*t.
Load More Replies...‘Gomi Sutero’ obviously strikes a chord with a lot of people, as there are more than 587,000 fans on Instagram. Now, there are obviously some strange things that the woman’s husband does, like sticking an electric razor into a roll of toilet paper or leaving confetti all over the floor. Stuff like that is bound to trigger somebody’s OCD.
However, some things that his wife gets mad about seem like honest mistakes. Like leaving a tiny piece of seaweed stuck to a bowl or accidentally dropping a contact lens on their child’s play mat.
When I asked him to take care of my rod, he placed it here like this.
The one where he burst crackers on his birthday. Cleaning up was a big hassle.
I actually laughed out loud. ‘Is it the Hawk’s winning parade.’ (I’m guessing the Hawks are a baseball team...?)
Wait a minute, is this a toothpaste tube holder? How have I ever done without?
There are different strategies for getting your partner to clean up after themselves. For example, on the one hand, How To Clean Stuff recommends withholding cuddling, cooking food, as well as access to entertainment (TV, etc.) to force them to change. However, threats rarely get the intended results. And they’re horrible for a healthy long-term relationship.
On the other hand, WeddingWire suggests, instead, that you try to see the situation from your partner’s point of view, establish proper and honest communication, as well as praise each other for a job well done.
Meanwhile, VisiHow states that it’s optimal to use your partner’s talents. Why make someone vacuum the house if they loathe it? Let them mow the lawn because they love being outdoors! I for one love washing dishes. It’s a form of meditation. But I know plenty of people who would sooner move to North Korea than start scrubbing plates.
How tidy or messy are your partners, dear Pandas? Do you always see eye-to-eye when it comes to keeping your home clean? How do you decide who does what chores? What are your favorite and least favorite chores? Let us know your thoughts in the comments!
If these two were in the refrigerator, I would think that I didn’t have to make some more yet. But I hurried and made some.
When we were first married, my husband did this s**t too. Once I was sufficiently sick and tired of it, I started doing the same thing with cosmetics on the bathroom counter—-to the point where they spilled over onto his half (small counter in our first place). When he told me I should use the open them up before opening a new one, I said I would if he would, then pointed out what was going on in the fridge. He will now drain a container dry before opening a new one.
Seriously?! LOL
Now we see his creative response to her nagging and trying to publicly humiliate him.
If he doesn't clean up his own messes then he probably deserved some humiliation.
Load More Replies...Why bother putting it normally here when you can put it sideways.
my boyfriend does this with every single mug we have at home. ive admittedly broken a few
It must have been done purposely
i wonder what will grow if you plant these 'acorns' LOL (giant runny noses?)
Load More Replies...According to google translate: don't put it like the acorn of my neighbor Totoro
The tragedy of forgetting to take out this comb from the dryer.
I would be more worried about taking the hair dryer out the dryer. I want to call BS on this one!
It's his response to her forgetting the comb. He placed her things there - the machine wasn't turned on
Load More Replies...According to google translate: The worst! H & M shop hair dryer comb
I few days ago I accidentally washed my watch, it's waterproof and didn't mess up I realized this when I went to take my clothes out the dryer and it was in there still working.
I cannot complain
These aren’t examples of a slovenly person. I think he’s doing weird things to purposely annoy her. She’s probably an extremely uptight person.
Perhaps she wasn't so uptight until she married this guy. Deliberately doing things to annoy someone you're living with is not healthy.
Load More Replies...Before I go to sleep, I always remember to ask my husband where he places his glasses. He will surely ask me the same question the next day.
According to google translate: Past photos. Please let me know if you are going to take a bath with glasses. You can get along with Chino husband.
Yesterday, I found this. I really don’t understand. How did the seaweed fly?
He got sidetracked... if that was my toothbrush it would have been impossible to balance and ended up on the floor. Consider yourself lucky!
According to google translate: If you have done so far, polish it.
When I opened the fridge, there was only this much tea left so I got mad.
According to google translate: Do not return the refrigerator with this amount. Drink it. Summer so. Wash and boil.
Why is someone down voting me? :( I spent so much time finding translation for everyone to understand the captions..
Load More Replies...That day I screamed quite loudly!
According to google translate: Past photos. I thought it was a corpse
And...................................................... did screaming help? I'm calling either FAKE or he is real sick of her nit-picking.
I woke up in the middle of the night and on the table was this.
My brother do this. And he always leave two drops of milk in the box so he doesn't have to throw the box away.
Like my colleagues when someone brings a cake. At the end, there is one slice left, then half a slice, a quater, an eight... and so on because no one wants to eat the last piece and have to clean the plate or throw away the wrapping...
Load More Replies...According to google translate: (Laughs) What is this? (But thanks for wrapping) (put me in the refrigerator) I'll eat tomorrow.
You even get up in the middle of the night to see if you can catch him doing something? You are the sick puppy! WOW
#peoplewhopostabouttoiletsoninstagram
I arranged the medicine box. Suddenly, I found empty ones.
Maybe, but if someone can't change via LOVING persuasion, you have to decide what you love more, him or a clean partner.
You need a therapist if these silly issues are upsetting you. Ridiculous
If a grown man is constantly not cleaning up after himself it becomes a bigger issue. A woman should not have to clean up after her partner because he is too lazy too himself.
Load More Replies...I am used to seeing him wear glasses in the bath but a mask is something new. LOL.
According to google translate: The meaning of masking in the bath. And don't throw it away here.
Gah... Google translate is frighteningly awful.
Load More Replies...When you're used to seeing him wear glasses in the bath...
Aw, well, I'm on his side with this. I hate loo roll holders that are closed both ends and fiddly to open up. Have the type that is open on one side and you can just slip a new roll on. I refuse to have any other type in my house.
Its a hand towel holder, Loo roll holder is white. Too lazy to put card in the bin
Load More Replies...The sequel...
It got stuck there after sneezing? Sorry for posting such a picture.
If it wasn't me doing the laundry, this would have been left inside. I tried asking, “Why would you do something like this?” He answered that he works hard at work so at home, he relaxes.
According to google translate: Don't put it on top of the laundry.
It sounds to me like she's a picky clean freak and he's a jerk. They deserve each other
Why haven't you gotten rid of him, wouldn't it be easier then all this nagging and complaining?
I want PROOF that they have a trash bin in the loo. Maybe one of them could see to acquiring one.
This is the shaver’s charger. This is the cover for the bathtub. I don’t want to do any cleaning so I rarely use it.
Yeah we wash and rinse ourselves outside the tub and get in the hot tub clean, and save the water in the tub so we can warm it up again the next day. The cover is used to prevent dust and whatnot getting into the saved water.
Load More Replies...Rider no, in Japan they wash thoroughly under a shower first, then relax in the tub which is self heating, has a filtration system and a cover to keep the water clean. The tub is drained and refilled a few times a week.
"I don’t want to do any cleaning" NOW we get to the heart of the matter.
ok now that would drive me nuts - but theres no way on earth id ever have a white sofa to begin with lol. in our house, it would be destroyed in a week & we are pretty clean careful ppl.
Load More Replies...Let’s go find my husband’s socks that might be curled up in the washing machine or under the sofa!
According to google translate: In any case, take both feet together. Where is the other.
Looks more like the dog had an accident instead of a sock left by husbandman!
No, this isn’t something to be happy about.
According to google translate: Throw away. Which is full? I'll put them all face down but I want them to face up. Also the toothpaste contact cleaning solution
I won’t throw away precious things.
According to google translate: What and what to connect. I'll throw it away.
P.S. - There is no need to DM me comments condemning my husband. Lol. I just don't upload photos whenever he throws them out himself. He does this quite often so no worries!
According to google translate: Past photos. If you have done so far, polish it. Why did you put it?
When I woke up to go to the toilet in the morning.
This stuff isn’t that bad. I have had my husband leave way worse behind.
This woman needs to meet a genuinely messy person; she would then reallllllly appreciate her husband!
According to google translate: * Sad news consumption joke? I ’ll be the one that ’s going to disappear.
This is the toilet door
So it does open outwards which means that stack of loo rolls in the other photo aren't in the way of the door.
According to google translate: Don't call here. Just hit the head when opening.
You can also use the empty roll, too.
According to google translate: Throw away. Are you going to change it?
Tut, tut... I'm sure you meant a recycling bin. I'm speaking with the voice of experience here. I once mentioned a trash bin and was thoroughly told off.
Load More Replies...Her house is in almost perfect order, if you ask me. If she calls this a mess, she just never saw one.
Eh, most of this seems staged. You should see my flat and then talk about mess.
Why is some people down voting my comments with the translation that I found on google translate..? I spent so much time to make sure that everyone could understand the captions :(
How dare you be so thoughtul and helpful??!! Don't take it personally - as yo momma wrote people do come here just to downvote. It takes all sorts...
Load More Replies...Let's see: partnership problems. a) Talk to each other b) Post pictures on the Web. Easy choice!
I think there was talking before posting. A "I will do it properly next time" quote suggests it.
Load More Replies...I find Japanese men messy. I see them in hotsprings, gym etc and a lot of them don't clean after themselves. However, some of those pictures, if true, seem to be done on purpose ... Maybe to annoy the wife? I mean, there is "not cleaning" and "finding a way to leave a mess".
Really? Come see what my husband does lady. I have had to scream, "Why are there dirty socks on my kitchen counter!!" And, "Why is there a switch blade sticking out of my wicker basket on the floor! We have babies, you can't leave that there!"
I can so relate to this. I lived with a guy for about a year and he was just like this. I was forever tripping over his shoes in the night when I went to the toilet and he had just left them in the middle of our bedroom floor. He used to shave and cut his hair in the bath and then just leave it, but what used to annoy me the most was when he left wet towels on the bed after a shower or bath, it wouldn't be so bad if it wasn't always my side of the bed.
What struck me most was this quote: "He answered that HE works hard at work so at home, he relaxes." More Japanese women work outside the home than American women (earning just 60 cents on the dollar!), so I doubt she sits around the house eating seaweed bonbons all day. Plus, the house is spotless...except for his little trail of breadcrumbs. I think he is purposely taunting her, really.
Her house is in almost perfect order, if you ask me. If she calls this a mess, she just never saw one.
Eh, most of this seems staged. You should see my flat and then talk about mess.
Why is some people down voting my comments with the translation that I found on google translate..? I spent so much time to make sure that everyone could understand the captions :(
How dare you be so thoughtul and helpful??!! Don't take it personally - as yo momma wrote people do come here just to downvote. It takes all sorts...
Load More Replies...Let's see: partnership problems. a) Talk to each other b) Post pictures on the Web. Easy choice!
I think there was talking before posting. A "I will do it properly next time" quote suggests it.
Load More Replies...I find Japanese men messy. I see them in hotsprings, gym etc and a lot of them don't clean after themselves. However, some of those pictures, if true, seem to be done on purpose ... Maybe to annoy the wife? I mean, there is "not cleaning" and "finding a way to leave a mess".
Really? Come see what my husband does lady. I have had to scream, "Why are there dirty socks on my kitchen counter!!" And, "Why is there a switch blade sticking out of my wicker basket on the floor! We have babies, you can't leave that there!"
I can so relate to this. I lived with a guy for about a year and he was just like this. I was forever tripping over his shoes in the night when I went to the toilet and he had just left them in the middle of our bedroom floor. He used to shave and cut his hair in the bath and then just leave it, but what used to annoy me the most was when he left wet towels on the bed after a shower or bath, it wouldn't be so bad if it wasn't always my side of the bed.
What struck me most was this quote: "He answered that HE works hard at work so at home, he relaxes." More Japanese women work outside the home than American women (earning just 60 cents on the dollar!), so I doubt she sits around the house eating seaweed bonbons all day. Plus, the house is spotless...except for his little trail of breadcrumbs. I think he is purposely taunting her, really.
