A while ago I posed the question, "What Makes You Really Angry?" here on Bored Panda. To be honest, I braced myself for a deluge of personal grievances... What I received, however, was a rather good outlook on our modern society. To me, it became clear that our anger, varied as it is, intertwines to form a map of societal concerns that are often topics of great importance.
As I said before, I wasn't quite prepared for the overwhelming surge of responses that poured into the thread. I would love to thank everyone for their answers and opinions!
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Men thinking they have any right to decide what a woman can and can't do with her own body.
I am so shocked at how the USA just stepped back in time. ,50 years back. Nothing good is going to come from this, NOTHING.
It's depressing, but not really shocking. I was born, and spent the first 27 years of my life living all across the US. The quality and intelligence of the average american has decreased sharply in the 38 years i've been alive, while entitlement, willful ignorance and aggression have been steadily rising. Americans are brought up to believe that america is the greatest, bestest most number one-ingest country in the world despite so much evidence to the contrary. It's a $hit show, and the worse everything gets, the more people allow themselves to be distracted by unimportant bull$hit that plays on peoples outrage, so nefarious, damaging stuff like this can be maneuvered into place. It's embarrassing, it's shameful, but for anyone that's been paying attention it's also expected.
Load More Replies...Let's cut the BS here 40% of women who voted in the last two elections feel the same way. I hate to say this but looks it's going to happen again in 2024. You can't complain about the democracy you refuse to participate in.
brainwashing exists, caused by that delusional religion
Load More Replies...They haven't gotten rid of abortions. They have gotten rid of SAFE abortions.
Hey “pro-lifers”, isn’t it funny how a child’s safety only matters to you when it wouldn’t interfere with any of your other desires? You’d want to save children from school shootings, but oh! Having your guns is more important than that.
They are anything but pro-life; they are anti-choice, pro-forced birth, and pro-control but they are never pro-life. If they were pro-life they would care about homeless, sick, and hungry with same vigor they care about a blood clot. Sooner we start calling them with their true self the better.
Load More Replies...Agreed that men contribute to the problem, but let's not blame men for everything. Women are part of the anti-abortion movement too.
Given men are surgically transitioning to become women, maybe this should be, "No uterus or ovaries, no opinion?"
Load More Replies...And this is why I'm THRILLED Issue 1 failed in Ohio yesterday. This November there is a vote to add reproductive rights to our ballot. The pro-lifers tried to circumvent Ohioans voting for it by raising the bar to passage. It is my hope Ohio will once again have safe, legal abortion again. No woman should be forced to bear a child that either threatens their health or is unable to provide for due to circumstances beyond their control.
Kind of agree with this. Although I have my own views on abortion, as a man I don't really feel it's within my purview to have an opinion about it. And it seems strange that this decision was made mostly by old white men
I don't actually. I really wish the Supreme Court would have just left this one alone. Terrible. Now lets get rid of selective service, I have 4 sons and 1 daughter all under the age of 22. World is looking a little rough right about now and the idea that the government can draft my kids into doing their BS is just to scary.
This issue is to detract from real issues, like housing, wages and mass shootings. Get people riled up about a pea sized fetus and they lose their minds. On the other side, it has caused more women to stand up and be heard. They're trying to push us back in the kitchen but they're gonna get burned.
Bored Panda reached out to Leonardo M. Jones, an expert on emotional intelligence and the psychology of emotions, for insights on the misunderstood emotion of anger. Here's what he shared:
"Society often labels anger as a destructive emotion due to its potential outcomes—things like hostility, violence, and aggression. This perspective might come from various sources, such as cultural, religious, or societal norms. Yet, several researchers and psychologists argue that anger can be quite constructive."
People hurting children or animals!
And sadly, people look the other way… someday we’ll see the fire of hell that we are living in.
I had a slightly similar talk with my 19yo nephew a few months ago about spanking children; I am completely against spanking and he's rationale was, "as long as you have a good reason, like a really important lesson." To which I responded, "Spanking doesn't teach a kid to learn your lesson, it teaches them to be more sneaky. And if we humans are so much smarter than cavemen, why resort to caveman behavior with a kid, "You bad, me angry, me hit you!". And lastly, you would never teach an adult a worthwhile lesson with violence, why not? Why won't you hit another grownup when they do something wrong? But you'll hit a kids because...?". And that's how my nephew was converted into non-violence against children. 😁
YES!!!! If it's fine to euthanize innocent animals in shelters, than we should DEFINITELY euthanize those horrible mother f*****s!
Load More Replies...Yes!!! People need to stop hurting animals! If someone murders a person? They go to jail. Someone euthanizes an innocent animal because it wasn't adopted in time?They don't go to jail and get to keep doing there sickly actions. Someone abuses a person? They go to jail. Someone abuses an animal? Sometimes they go to jail, a lot of times they don't, and sometimes when they do its not as long as you would be in jail for abusing a person. IF PEOPLE GO TO JAIL FOR HURTING OR KILLING OTHER PEOPLE, PEOPLE SHOULD GO TO JAIL FOR THE EXACT AMOUNT OF TIME FOR HURTING OR KILLING AN ANIMAL!!!!!!!
So, because children are cruel you are cruel to teach them not to be cruel. Great. That makes a lot of sense.
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Cruelty to animals.
I don't understand people who get a dog and chain them outside to never let them off it or let them inside but also never go out and spend time with it. Why the heck did you even want one if they're to be tied/chained 24/7???
Can't upvote this enough. My dogs were both rescues from Mexico. My first one was chained to a chair as a puppy and my second one was living on the streets. Can't imagine the trauma they went through.
Load More Replies...I would love to see animal abusers treated the same way the abuser treats animals. Does that make me cruel?
I am sitting on my couch drinking my morning coffee with a 60lb 4yo black lab mix on my left and a (just rescued) 65lb 8mo golden/Pyrenees on my right. People who don't snuggle their dogs don't know what they are missing. All dogs deserve humans. Not all humans deserve dogs!
Thank you for rescuing! And I agree, so many people do not deserve dogs!
Load More Replies...And yet, people who take animals away from abusers are more hated. "How dare you take that poor woman's pet away from her?" is the usual reaction by literally everybody.
paying people to breed, enslave, torture and kill them is also cruetly btw. Please stop doing this
Yeah, especially when breeding dogs like pugs and bulldogs, because they are deformed and are miserable there hole life
Load More Replies...So much this. My cat was abused in her previous home, and while I've tried to make the rest of her life as good as I can possibly make it, she still has some trauma from the year and a half she spent there. It makes me angry. People who abuse animals are evil.
They ARE evil. They're not just evil, but wicked, mother f*****g a*****e scumbags who deserve to suffer in hell in the worst ways imaginable. Thank you for being such a great person, your cat is definitely grateful for you
Load More Replies...I am probably going to get attacked for this but this isn’t abuse. They painted the number on them to identify them after birth so they know what mother they go to. They won’t be wearing that forever. I follow a sheep rancher on YouTube. They do this for records so they can record vaccinations, make sure they are gaining weight, etc. This is actually a good thing. I am an animal lover and would be the first one to step in for animal abuse.
Yes, that doesn't at all seem like abuse to me. Maybe it seemed like blood to the person who added the picture, it looked like blood at first but now I can see the numbers.
Load More Replies..."Anger is a tool, really. When harnessed correctly, it offers vital insights that allow us to interact effectively with our environment. It's like a feedback system—alerting us to internal and external cues and guiding our reactions to them."
When people hate groups of people they have never actually tried speaking to.
Yes! I wish people would stop hating others just for their beliefs. It isn’t worth it; your judgement could mislead you. Even political opponents have sh*it in common.
Be sure to include Republicans to this. Not all of us are Trump loving morons.
Soon after I went to high school I came out as Bi. Because of this so many people I barely knew started hating on me. :( I wish people could stop doing this
I'm sorry your peoples are so close minded. My hometown was the same, nobody was safe to come out until they were grown and left town. I remember one particular moment in the "christian" church I was forced to attend where the pastor made an announcement to the entire congregation about a former member who had just graduated highschool and moved away for college and the "sin" he is living in my having relations with other men. That solidified in my mind, "Nope! Definitely can say shít about my sexuality!". If you're in the US, come to the west coast and the average human will accept your beautiful self as you are.
Load More Replies...Like people online who like to bash an entire nation they've never been to? Like those types of bigots?! ARE WE TALKING ABOUT UNEDUCATED BIGOTS, BPers?!?! 🤨🤔
Hate is a very harsh word. I try not to use it. Negative thoughts are self-perpetuating.
Many things:
1. People torturing animals
2. People causing riots over something they don’t like.
3. People being abusive to others
4. Karens, Kyles, etc.
5. People who litter and think they are too good for rules
6. Bullies
7. People being hypocrites
8. The treatment of homeless people.
Currently trying to help a friend get out of an incredibly abusive relationship. I swear I'm not a violent person but I want to put that b***h's face in the toilet so bad and flush until she gets the message. Who can even do these sort of things and look at themselves in the mirror ??
I'll go give you some highly basic soap to cause corrosion if you want
Load More Replies...I feel like there's a distinction to be made between rioting over something you don't like, and rioting to finally get attention on a serious issue that is being ignored. I'm not saying I always agree with the tactic, but historically, some major American growth has occurred due to rioting
No. 5 really tick me off, I have the tendency to pick it up and throw it back at you...
Nope, I 1000 times disagree with "don't riot". Rioting over your favorite sports team l losing or winning (looking at you, Philadelphia) is stupid. But a good riot against not liking social injustice so absolutely called for. Portland, OR is REALLY good at rioting against social injustice (and then the police literally started kidnapping people. True story, I saw it with my own eyes.).
There’s a difference between peaceful protests and rioting. Destruction and violence over things is rioting. Holding up signs and marching for protests is not rioting, but peaceful protesting. Grand Rapids had to deal with a lot of damage due to some riots and heavy looting, I forget why, but it was a demonstration of sorts, idk.
Load More Replies..."At its core, anger serves as a shield. It equips us to fend off perceived threats. Those who recognize and express their anger judiciously often navigate their paths more effectively. Think of anger as a push towards our aspirations. Surprisingly, anger can cultivate hope. Recognizing what fuels our anger can spotlight areas of personal growth." He told Bored Panda.
Roe vs Wade being overturned!!
I just heard that Canada welcomes women from the US to come there when an abortion is needed. Free of charge. I don't know how true this is but I'm hopeful.
When this happened, the state of Maryland said that women from other states would be welcome here. And a new clinic was built right by the border with West Virginia..
Load More Replies...After their confirmation hearing, where they had to say they understood it was a law. What is the point of a confirmation hearing if they can just lie without repercussions and do something that, at the VERY least should have been voted one by the people they were upending and really should have been left alone.
*unintelligible sigh of disapproval that is unclear what party it is pointed at*
Roe should've been codified into law by Congress. Lawmakers let it go for fifty years and this is the result.
We've got a nice civil war coming that this is going to help kick off.
Load More Replies...When my friend heard I got a message from her and she just said “I’m mad”
Thanks to all of you right-wing religious nut cases along with the Republicans. Can I say that on here?
Yes we too can be as crowded as India. God I love crowds, long lines to get anything done, and general poor quality living due to overpopulation. All the extra competition for dwindling resources in a country that can barely maintain food and housing availability. Go Third World America! I can't wait!
I thought we already went through this. It should not be an issue again. How many times will we have to fight for the right to own our bodies
Load More Replies...Women in red states should have equal rights to those in a blue state.
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Bullying. Only those who have been bullied know the full extent of psychological damage it does.
I was bullied at my previous school, this year I changed schools and the people their are really nice to me but my old school still haunts me, so I can really relate to this. I told some of my classmates about it and they were really supportive about telling me how they ( the bullies) were super stupid and jealous of me. With bullying, you kinda have to go through it to really understand how bad it really is.
I’ve been bullied. It’s very difficult. People’s sympathy, I feel, won’t go towards someone if they just don’t understand. Sympathy is fine and all, but it’s little difficult to give. I’ve been through a lot of shiz. I hope you do better. I’m still fighting some of my demons in my head. Bullies are dopehead pieces of f*cking shiz, and they need a taste of their own medicine. Have you read the count of Monte cristo? It’sa story of cold revenge. I’ve read it and it makes me feel better. I’m sorry to hear about you being bullied; there are many bored pandas who can relate and agree: bullying is for f*cking shizheads.
Load More Replies...I was constantly bullied from first grade all the way through high school. The worst part is, when the bullying first started, the teachers witnessed it and did nothing. When I went home and told my dad, all I ever got from him was, "Why don't you quit being such a baby? Why don't you grow up and be a man? Fight your own battles." I was a kid and my dad already expected me to be an adult. By the time I was in third grade, I stopped telling my dad anything because it was obvious he was never going to help me.
Teachers and parents made it even worse for me. 1974 to 1981 were my dark bullying years. Glad I now have a wife as a social interaction proxy because I stopped social interactions with the fear of being bullied again.
Load More Replies...My heart goes out to you !!! 4th grade, 8 years old. 1946, School playground in Omaha, NE, minding my own business when some other 4th graders were bullying a beautiful girl with long black hair. I am small person 5' 8 " and asked what is the problem ? " She's a Jew and does not belong here ". Adrenaline kicked in and so did the other 6 bullies. Got my licks in but they kicked my butt. I am Catholic and attend any church you will invite me to. She and I were good friends until we graduated from high school. When we parted ways, her to U of Nebraska and me to the USN 1959. One tiny little bitty kiss was our farewell. She became a doctor and I retired as a Naval Officer ( submarines, demolition diver, deep sea diving officer . Be yourself because you are one of a kind and that is God's intent for all of us. Peace be with you always. mr h
Went to about 8 schools. Each school, except in Pre-K, had groups of kids ganging up on me, trying to find my vulnerable aspects and just targeting because... I dunno. My appearance, my hair, my voice, my clothes, my name (which is a VERY common name), my interests, the way I drew, the gap in my teeth, my skin disorder, the bike I rode, and have few friends. Every good friend I happen to meet lived across the street but would go to a different school, or ended up moving a year later. I spent a lot of time on my own among kids, just listening, observing. Became a really good listener and vigilant. To this day, as I'm nearing 40, I'm wary of anyone's attention and hyper fixate on subtleties and micro-expressions, always second guessing intentions and I don't believe anyone at work is capable of being a friend.
i’ve been bullied many times, the worst of it being the past few years and the worst part about it was that i didn’t even realize. changing districts now and i’m so glad to never have to see those jerks again.
I was bullied when I was at school student. bullied for 12 years. My parents refused to make a transfer, given the good reputation & status of the school. I graduated almost 20 years ago. certain things still trigger me, statement is 100% true.
its awful. it made me want to leave school forever. please do not bully people.
I never realised until recently but I was constantly "bullied" by my so-called "friends" And they wonder why I never kept contact with any of them
"Highly emotionally intelligent individuals harness anger's wisdom. Before diving into deeper emotional wounds, anger acts as a buffer. It's a surface emotion that hints at concealed facets of our persona. To genuinely liberate ourselves from its potential negative grip, it's pivotal to uncover and address its root causes."
People thinking you can "just don't feel that way" about mental illness. Like you can choose to not have depression. I don't see anyone out here telling diabetics to just make their own insulin.
*beats them repeatedly with a bat* have you thought about, you know, not bleeding?
Or telling other people that “______ shouldn’t bother you” or telling you to ‘just power through it’ I’m allowed to have feelings.
I have, among other things, bi-polar. I can't just not hurt, I can't just settle. I am on three bi-polar meds and still have trouble dealing with life. It's just an illness that originates in the brain rather than the body and is just as real.
I know someone, a little too close to me, who once said my cousin "ruined her career prospects by choosing to be diagnosed with PTSD" after she got robbed and beaten while out running errands. She wanted to be a cop. She's now a car photographer, which I'm guessing she has more passion for. But when I heard her say that my cousin "CHOSE" this diagnosis, I was appalled and nearly leapt out of the car we were in just to get away from her disgusting drivel.
Someone once started detailing all the good, happy things in the world when I said I have depression like yeah I know that people are happy and things are good but I have a medical condition that prevents me from feeling good 90% of the time and will most likely kill me before I'm an adult cause I can't get medication
If you could just “not feel that way” (almost) nobody would have a mental illness
Nothing makes me angry anymore. I can't do anything with anger. I'm over it. I'm just incredibly disappointed, saddened, disgusted, and ashamed of most people. I'm sick of it all. People are just sad saps. I refuse to let anyone dictate to me about how I should feel. So, having said that, I'm going to go outside and tiptoe through the tulips. When I come back in, I'm going to bake some cookies. I hope everyone has the nicest day possible.
Awesome my dearest friend, As Mr Rogers used to say " Won't You be My Friend "
Yes, I love making new friends. My name is Leasa and it is nice to meet you! You have caused my first smile of the day and I thank you for it. Neighbor.
Load More Replies...I'm somewhere past anger at this point. It's permeated through me sufficiently where I'm not even aware how angry I am all of the time.
My last batch was Oatmeal raisin cookies. They are gone. Next batch, oh, I'm thinking sugar cookies. What's your favorite cookie?
Load More Replies...I save my anger for where it will actually do something. Most times it's ineffective, so I let it go. Made my life much easier.
Oatmeal raisin cookies. Pretty good ones too. If I do say so myself.
Load More Replies...Tiptoe through the tulips are lyrics from a Tiny Tim song. I said that to say I was going to go out and enjoy my day.
Load More Replies...Yes! It's no use to get angry about things you can't change and it doesn't help. I'm walking on sunshine whoohoo and don't it feel good. https://youtu.be/iPUmE-tne5U
I like walking on sunshine. I love it actually!
Load More Replies...I shall allow no man to belittle my soul by making me hate him. ~Booker T Washington
"When approached with awareness and intent, anger can be transformative." Leonardo highlighted. "Beyond its guarding nature, it stirs proactive endeavors, catalyzes change, and promotes self-enhancement. It's all about harnessing it right."
People that feel the need to divide other people into groups just so they know who to hate.
And people who automatically force you into a political party because of one statement you make. There are actually more than two political parties in this country people!
To divide and conquer is a political tactic as old as civilization. No one learns from history, alas.
Was just thinking about this last night. You know that 15 year old that was invited on a podcast, and he was making assumptions these OF girls are illiterate. Most people in the comments were applauding the kid. Many were recognizing he was trolling the whole podcasting with a fake accent and coming off pompous on purpose. I listened to most of it, taking in what everyone at the party was saying. There was nothing interesting being talked about. If anything, the kid made it watchable. But, despite how people raved about the boy, I thought both sides in the podcast were just people who are full of themselves and playing a character. Everyone likes to have their heroes and villains. Society tends to collectively agree on one and pick a side, without each person taking the time to think about what they really want to think.
The issue is the human condition. There has to be the 'others'. Cowboys and Indians, East verses West, Boys verses Girls, we can't help ourselves we have to pick a team.
Lol, yet here you are doing the very thing you accuse another group of doing. 😂
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I have no problem with vegans. Eat what you want. But if you make your pets agree with your beliefs, that's just messed up. Fido is meant to eat meat, and making him eat a head of lettuce for breakfast, lunch and dinner is not healthy.
Obligate carnivores, I think it's called. Cats can't synthesize an amino acid found only in meat. I think it's taurine, but I wouldn't swear to it. Vegans shouldn't be allowed to have pets without signing a legal document saying they'll feed their pets the proper diet.
Load More Replies...I'm a vegetarian and have absolutely no problem looking for good meat/fish for my pets (I could never do that for humans). Because I love them more than anything in the universe and always do what is best for them. I might be a vegetarian but they are carnivores. Period!
Wait, your dog eats kangarooo? Not trying to be rude, just curious
Load More Replies...ABSOLUTELY!!! As a proud vegetarian I couldn't agree more. This is an important issue and it is so important to speak up. Thank you.
It's animal cruelty. I'm still not comfortable selling CBD dog and cat treats in my store.
Extreme vegans owning pets are hypocrites. Vegans who are that extreme tend to believe all animals should be free and not live in captivity.
That's the thing with vegans/vegetarians, LGBTQ+ community, etc. I am delighted to see that you are happy, healthy, and leading a life that you think is good. I have no problem with any of them. But, if you are getting in my face, starting arguments, ruining my fun time, etc, that's when it gets exhausting. And then, especially LGBTQ+ people, you proceed to hide behind your whole non vegan/LGBTQ+ people being "mean" "selfish" "sexist/racist" "animal abusers" and etc, then you are the problem. However, no hate to the Vegan and LGBTQ+ community. Stay happy, stay healthy, and respect the planet AND THE PEOPLE, in your own fabulous way.
Plants have lives too! They can feel pain, they are not just some green things stuck in the ground for you to eat.
The fact that half the population goes through a period every month, and it’s still ‘embarrassing’ or ‘inappropriate’ to talk about.
And that women have to pay so much for menstrual supplies. (And I'm a dude)
That's changing. Remember when nobody talked about "the change?" I'm literally sitting hear listening to Halle Barry talk about how she is going through menopause right know.
I know a lot of women hate their periods. I hated mine when I got them. But it's a sign you're a healthy woman. If you're like me, who doesn't get periods due to a hormone disrupting condition, like prolactinoma, I wish you the best and hope you have the courage to go through treatments. Since I have high levels of prolactin, it's causing deficiencies in vitamins, and joint and bone health, and had made it a b***h to lose weight and get the body I once had. It may affect my eyesight, my dental health and emotional and mental stability, and majorly affecting my sex life in a negative way. The sex hurts a lot and it's hard for me to be mentally into it for long. In order to get my prolactin levels under control I either need to take expensive medication or get surgery to remove the tumor in my pituitary gland. I have CT scans every 2 years and a yearly eye exam. Plus monthly blood tests early in the morning. I HATE blood tests. I hate needles. The more I think about it, it really wasn't so bad getting a period. I was healthy back then.
I disagree because period blood is not the same as poop or pee. We can’t hold it in. It just happens and if we say a thing about we’re told we’re gross and need to shut up. That should change!
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People who are inconsiderate, offensive, or intolerant.
They are EVERYWHERE!
Racists, bigots, and misogynists are three good examples to get the ball rolling. People who let their feral offspring run riot through restaurants, cafes, pubs, and supermarkets, whose only parenting 'skill' is to shout 'stop it!' at the top of their voices. People who think that their religion gives them the right to look down on others, zealots who shout at you or blow you up, churches and preachers that hoard money as if it's going out of fashion. People who demonize or criticize others because of their race, gender, or lifestyle choices.
In a nutshell, anyone who intentionally says or does something that hurts another person, whether physically, emotionally, or otherwise.
Tim says, 'Always consider how your actions or words will affect someone before you say, write, or do them.' Tim seems like a nice guy. Be like Tim.
(I don't know who Tim is, but he was polite, so I let him have his say.)
Came here to write exactly this. It's definitely got worse over the last couple of decades (well, since the 90s at least).
Unfortunately internet has its part of blame. Before it was widely spread, if a person was inconsiderate, intolerant or offensive, they were easily shut by more sensible people around them, and they had less occasions to find a group of similar people that supported them. Now, if you are a stupid prick, surely you will find your community at least online if not in the real world, a community that fuel your insensate hatred and intolerance. Of course, unfortunately, this kind of people always existed, but nowadays it's easier for them to communicate one with another and with all the world
Load More Replies...To be fair, there are a lot of people now that are really hard to tolerate.
This is why I want to build a cabin deep in the forest and just let the world burn.
Yep. And please, don't forget that no matter the topic in question, they are ALWAYS found in BOTH sides.
People who do not use turn signals. People who think stop signs and red lights are yield signs.
Or people who use their turn signal but don't turn in the direction indicated. Left turn signal on but turns right. Right turn signal on but turns left. Then there's a third type of driver. The kind that has a turn signal on but doesn't turn until they get to the street and/or building they're at.
I accidentally do that, I’m really bad with the blinkers! Sorry if you run into me…
Load More Replies...As a pedestrian, I cannot possible know if you're trying to turn left or make a U-Turn. I cannot know if you're going straight or making a right turn. Use ya blinkers and stop U-Turning at pedestrian crossings.
And then give the pedestrian a dirty look for going when they want to turn
In Tennessee, most drivers consider turn signals to be enemy action.
Then stay the hell out of Atlanta! Hardly anybody here seems to know what a blooming turn signal is.
Littering.
I dont care how far from a bin you are, carry it till you reach one. It's not hard!
My then 3 year old niece taught me this. I unpacked an icecream, couldn't see a bin and just dropped the wrapper. She picked it up and carried it til we reached a bin. I never did it again.
My daughter taught me treat joining traffic like a zip. It's not your right of way. I've been a little bit less angry ever since. Nothing wrong with learning from others, no matter their age.
Load More Replies...ABSOLUTELY! It blows my mind that anyone IN. THE. WORLD. thinks it is okay to throw their trash ANYWHERE except in a trashcan,wastebasket, garbage can, etc., etc. And, yes, if there is no garbage can, keep it with you until you find a trash can or bin.
here in japan u rarely see a trash bin it skinda annoying for me tbh but i always keep my trashes on my bag so that i could throw it when i get home. The problem now is you can see trashes on the street, not a lot doe but u can see people littering
please excuse my grammar my english is getting worse
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We don't have a cost of living crisis, we have a greed crisis driven by a need for companies to always show higher profits. Stop letting them get away with the lie and start taxing excess profit.
Also no person should earn more than 100 times the average pay of the rest of the staff. If they want to earn more pay everyone more.
Landlords in the town I live in, jumped at the opportunity that inflation has given them. Pure greed is fueling inflation.
The economic model changed many years ago to reward the worst excesses of coporate greed, it had been coming for a long time. What has changed now is that people have more information available to them and are more likely to question 'accepted wisdom' The 'accepted wisdom' in dealing with inflation is to raise interest rates. The thought being that this reduces spending power and prevents prices further spiralling. Of course this does not address the drivers of inflation which, in this case, is the war in Ukraine pushing food prices and refusing to buy oil/gas from Russia driving oil/gas prices. While the govt capped suppliers prices to an extent (causing many to go bust) they didn't cap producers prices who had no extra costs and were merely profiteering. THIS is what people are talking about. The other problem is that whilst many other food/retail prices went up due to excessive costs added to transport (due to fuel) they have not come down again as fuel came down..
I would genuinely love to be educated. From a naïve perspective charging less and taking less profit so others can have more seems like the best way to protect the market rather than lead to it's collapse. Or do people become multi billionaires by actually paying their staff properly? No aggression in the questions would very much welcome your thoughts to improve my understanding.
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Anyone that can harm or abandon any animal that is reliant on us for care, love or sustenance.
I love that this isn't limited to pets, but covers all animals in human care. I hate how that often is limited to pets, to cute animals or to rare animals, as if the single individual would know or care if they're meant to end up in a stomach, or how many of them exist. They don't care, neither should we, as there's no sound reason to.
I don't know how people can just leave their pets out in the middle of nowhere.
Prejudices—whether religious, national, or political—encourage the worst in people.
It's difficult to spot prejudice that's not aimed at you. So if someone tells you they are prejudice believe them..
Some people just moved in the apartment across the hall. They say they're not predjuiced because they have some Jewish friends who are "such nice people." And the first thing out of their mouth was "are you Christian?" Red flags galore with these people. I judge by person, not at all if I don't know them, but this person just oozed nastiness.
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Belittling older people. Thinking older people ruined your life, personally or societally. Failing to acknowledge the incredible challenges older people have faced and dealt with, even if they didn't succeed too well. Making older people the bucket for your grievances. Treating older people badly in service industries, especially humiliating them on social media, which should be Elder Abuse IMO since it is done knowing they don't know what is being villified against them.
This one is very true, most of the rights people have were fought for by older people boomers and older.
Civil rights - kicked started by the silent generation. Recycling and green programs started by boomers. Yes there are poisoned apples in that generation but painting them all with the same brush isn't fair.
Load More Replies...Ain't nobody getting younger. Their turn will come and they'll probably not remember what they said. I'm running out of people older than me to blame.
No, aging is an indicator of survival attribute. An indicator of resilience. I hope Jess that you begin to value your own worth soon.
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Fruit and vegetables wrapped in plastic. We survived fine with them being sold loose upto the last few years. Now it's suddenly a health risk to not have everything covered in shrink wrap?
It's hypocritical of grocers to provide those plastic bags but "ban" the other plastic bags.
ALL single- use plastic bags should be banned. Period. Either buy reusable bags or get used to juggling paper bags.
Load More Replies...I could see the safety reason of covering fresh fruits and veggies, especially ones that are cut, but it would be better if people could find away to cover them with cardboard or some sort of compostable material instead of plastic
Shrink wrap. Shrinkflation. Instead of buying a whole melon for $10, you can now get 4 slices for $5.
That' 12 bags. For T-shirts. That should be completely unacceptable. Or the soft drink manufacturers - here's to you, Coke and Pepsi - who keep increasing their orders for plastic. And mist of this plastic ends up as ltter
The insane and obscene ...and useless....use of plastic EVERYWHERE. I ordered some shirts from JCPenneys. Every shirt was wrapped in plastic. If two shirts were the same - in my order that affected 3.pairs of shirts - the two shirts.of the same color.went into a.plastic bag. Then all the individually wrapped shirts were placed in two MORE plastic bags. So I ordered a.total of 8 shirts. 8 plastic bags. For the same-colored shirts, 3.more bags. For the total order 2.more.bags. That's
Listeria and salmonella have become increasingly large problems with produce. I agree, it's wasteful. Sorry to say necessary.
I do understand, but just think of people who handle those things with their dirty hands.
The real culprits here are the oil companies for whom the manufacture of plastic makes them more money. Will the USA do anything about
except billybob will be picking his nose, wiping his finger on his dungarees, then picking up a fruit, looking at it, putting it down. It's a hygiene issue.
When someone tries to gaslight me and then acts like I’m the problem for not falling for it.
Gaslighting is the worst. It can be done in such a way that gets others to be on the gaslighter's side, because they're "trying to be a good, caring person". There's a good chance everyone has worked with one. They'll be the ones being super chill with you to your face, then backstabbing you and gossiping behind your back to other coworkers. They'll also be the ones making a big stink out of the most minor mistakes you make, and perhaps go talk to your supervisor about how you messed up, as if it were the worst thing ever. Best thing to do is pay them no mind and don't speak to them unless it's necessary.
Watch the actual movie Gaslight to see what it really meant by that term.
Canada still sanctioning the clubbing of baby seals. Don't you guys always brag about how progressive you are?
Yeah well we ain't exactly winning any gold stars to the south of you either!
Load More Replies...This is up in the North near the arctic circle, and not something most Canadians partake in. We don't like it. It is complicated, as the Inuit do have rights to maintain their cultural lifestyle that is necessary for survival in a land that is difficult to import affordable food. BUT, the Humane Society International even says clubbing and shooting baby seals is inhumane and unnecessary, even for Inuit culture, and I have to agree, full heartedly. The Canadian government is always at crosshairs with Indigenous people and their demands of preserving their cultural way of life, and progressing Canada forward to protect everyone's rights and the wildlife.
Full use of the animal is encouraged for pelt, meat and oil. The harvesting of harp seal pups, known as whitecoats, and hooded seal pups, known as bluebacks, is illegal in Canada and has been since 1987. The seals that are harvested are self-reliant, independent animals.
I don't agree with the practice, but it's complicated.The pups are killed, because the mother is dead. Would you let a cat or dog starve and freeze? Animals are put down to prevent suffering when they are pets. The practice is wrong, but letting the pup starve is even more cruel. It's not just Canada, most Nordic countries and Japan do it. Why do they get a pass? Answer:Marketing. Japan, Norway and Iceland hunt seals AND whales, but there is no videos so they are okay?
Well, I think that you should take a baby animal to a wildlife center if their mother is dead, not kill it, but you definitely shouldn't let it just freeze and starve either. I mean, if you found a child whose parents were dead, would you kill it, or would you bring it to an orphanage or something like that? If we take care of parentless children instead of killing them, we shouldn't be killing baby animals when we can take them to wildlife centers and things like that instead
Load More Replies...Well now, who demands the fur of these baby seals? Could it be people with more money than brains?
YES! THIS ONE! I LOVE SEALS FROM THE BOTTOME OF MY HEART AND THEY ARE DOING THIS?
Wait. Seriously? I thought I loved everything about my friends to the North.
Like any country, Canada has it's dirty secrets. But yes, tens of thousands of baby harp seals are butchered every year. Most are shot, but many are clubbed in the brain with a big metal spike. They sit there, defenseless, not even able to escape.
Load More Replies...I'd love to complain about things but honestly, I'm not 100% educated in some of the things I want to vent about, and there's already so many depressing things pointed out in here. So instead, I'm just going to remind everyone to stop scrolling for a few minutes, get a glass of water, and don't dwell too much on these things. The world is an awful place, but one person isn't going to be able to fix it all overnight! Just remember to do your part, and try your best to (kindly) educate others; even though everyone here wants to change the world, and work together, we need to keep in mind that sometimes we need to focus on our mental health, too. You're important, and amazing, and even if you don't have the time, resources, or energy to lead a protest or fight back every single moment, even the little things like picking up trash and being kind to strangers can stack up and make a huge difference!
And, yet, just a handful of evil humans have the power to destroy the entire Earth. And unfortunately our DNA says somebody will someday actually do it.
"So instead, I'm just going to remind everyone to stop scrolling for a few minutes, get a glass of water, and don't dwell too much on these things." Great advice.
When someone scolds you for something and then goes and does the exact same thing they told you not to do.
...or those who scold you for something, because they have gotten something completely wrong, and no matter what you say or do, they just cannot realise how stupid they are, and then you are being told off for speaking up. ...and the only thing you can do, is to comply with what they tell, only to watch the house burn down around them as a consequence. Then, somehow you are still apointed to be the bad guy, as an "I told you so" is rarely apreciated.
Hypocrites.
ALL of them (I mean ALL hypocrites).
Load More Replies...Republiclowns who will do anything to stay in power. Even when it means to strongly stand behind a fool who tried to destroy our country.
This thread is full of so much stupidity I have to stop here ... I can't take it. There's an old saying that is absolutely 100% true ... if you don't like being around hypocrites, dig a hole, get in, cover yourself up, and then you'll just have to deal with one.
Nah, not everybody is a hypocrite.
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War, racism, bullying, hate, people who are homophobic, hurting animals, men thinking they are better than women...
And women thinking they are better than men… I know I might get downvoted for this but we shouldn’t create a culture where all men are immediately assumed to be misogynistic
Women thinking they are better than other women. The only time I see "queens supporting queens" is in the celebrity scene and noticed by gay men youtubers. I can be surrounded by groups of women, hear them talk to one another, then wait for some to go, and hear them talk trash about the ones who left. I get to hear their fake nice voices change to snarky, disappointment tones in a snap. Oh, Oh. If any of you have heard of Aba and Preech on youtube, there's this video here where they saw this female social interaction where one woman was collectively snubbed from the rest. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q2IcWyuE7nM
I have the answer to the world's problems. After men reach a certain age, they should be castrated. Until then they are needed to make babies. Once testosterone is eliminated the world will be a more pleasing place and war will be no more.
Inflation.
Especially, like has happened in the USA recently, when the inflation is driven in very large part, by GREED. Pil companies posting record earnings. Banks posting record earnings, etc. Amazon posting record earnings. Inflation is being pushed by companies for whom it is not enough to post good profits enough to keep your investors happy, but instead keep raising prices (and thus inflation) that results in record earnings. Because the type of unfettered capitalism practice in the US is based ENTIRELY on greed with no consideration for anyone else who lives on the earth. Because GREED.
The egg producing industry in the United States, saw egg prices, double and triple last year. They blamed it on avian flu. Somehow the egg industry production made record profits to me that sounds more like price gouging
A little bit of inflation is good. Without it, everything would be worth barely anything. As time goes on, consumers become willing to pay more for products, causing inflation.
unsurprising. If you ask for pay increases, or if capitalists want to make more profits, or if imports get taxed more, or if the currency devalues, you are going to get inflation. There's nothing unsual about it.
And caused by the would-be dictator before him. Rot in hell, Donnie.
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Having to repeat myself. It infuriates me.
My pet hate is the other side of the coin. Someone shouting from another room 'fnr hmr fnr' No, I can't hear you and I never will. Talking while faced away from someone who has partial hearing loss? I'm not gonna hear you. Does me reminding you I have a hearing problem and constantly having to ask you to repeat yourself on deaf ears?
Yesss! My kids yelling to me from the other room is an absolute no no unless it's an emergency. I don't do it to them so I expect the same in return.
Load More Replies...I'm going through this with my 9 yr old. She says, "what?" to everything I say to her. It's driving me mad! There's nothing wrong with her hearing either.
I have APD. Sometimes, especially if you don't have my full attention (like if you aren't talking to me and then start talking to me) I genuinely cannot understand human words. I can hear the sounds and tell you what it rhymes with occasionally but it just doesn't sort itself into words, or takes a minute to do so. Get my full attention before talking to me, make sure I can see your mouth (helps with the and idk why) and speak clearly, then get mad at me for not understanding. If you don't do that, it isn't my fault I've got APD
Thinking that you can just say things once, and then that should be it, is a bit naive. As we do not have a limitless memory, some sort of sorting and prioritisn needs to take place as we simply do not have capacity to store everything. The system for choosing what sticks and what goes is infact rather primitive, so what is priorised to be valuable enough to be stored is generally that which we use often, e.i. what is repeated...and then there is the hack that important things, e.i. those that cause a lot of emotions, is also in general remembered (e.i. touching a hot plate hurts). So you'll just have to be prepared to say something over and over again, as humans are imperfect, and we are constantly flooded with information, and you have to adapt to that fact.
When the ziplock feature on resealable plastic bags stops working.
Queue barging.
As a Brit, I was at the airport, trying to pay for some stuff, and joined what I thought was the end of the queue. I woman tapped me on the shoulder and said something along the lines of the crazy queue up the middle of the shop. I raised my eyebrows and shrugged. It was chaos and I was feeling very discombobulated (wow I can't believe I got that into a sentence!). She tried again and said I had joined in the middle of the queue. I was mortified. 50 years of social conditioning. Don't queue jump folks, this is the 11th commandment.
Oh, so much this!!! Of course, this does give rise to some great Karen stories!
That I live in a country that can't seem to get it's s**t together. 1. We complain about the number of shootings, yet we still refuse to address mental health as an issue that needs serious funding and resources to allow people to get the help they need. 2. We have some of the best medicine in the world, but you can only get it if you are willing to shell out your current and any future life savings. The fact healthcare for a dying person can be withheld if they can't pay boggles the mind. 3. That we have fields of work that are vastly understaffed, but fail to see that low pay and expensive colleges are to blame instead of using the excuse that people are lazy. 4. That our own basic selfishness prevents us from doing something for the safety of your fellow man out of a deranged belief that your government finds you important enough to keep you under their thumb. 5. The fact that our situation is getting worse everyday, but we are like cattle to the slaughter voting in members of the same two political parties and hoping that their own personal agendas won't stand in the way of actual progress...again. I hate that nothing changes and everything is this endless cycle of stupidity and selfishness.
America actually has rather poor healthcare. (something like 30th in the world). Largely down to the fact America is the only developed country that doesn't have a federal healthcare system. Only state wide small healthcare businesses. A lot of the problems are around Americans thinking they have it better, than it actually is.
I wish I didn't have to cry today, Carol. You are very correct so I'm going out to my job and will attempt to make a few lives better.
All you say is true. I would also add to your #1.....we desperately need common-sense gun laws, like background checks, 24 hr. wait period, NO unlicensed gun sales, NO military-style weapons. Notice that I am NOT advocating for taking guns away - except from abusers and convicted criminals. I am advocating for being more careful with guns. If we treated guns like we treat cars and driving, THAT would be a major step forward.
We have many problems and that's why I want to move to Iceland or Canada.
Have mentioned above but we're not great in Canada either haha. I mean sure, we've got free healthcare and better control of shootings, but we've still got a loooooong way to go...
Load More Replies...no dude that is literally just america. Healthcare is free elsewhere. Many places have free basic education with food for kids (Free) and some even have free higher education like germany. Many people vote, and many countries have more than two parties. Ours (South Africa) has a few hundred, and the contest is usually between four.
Load More Replies...ROE V WADE GETTING OVER TURNED!!!!!! No rich white guy or ANYONE who isn't me, shouldn't have the right to tell me if I can or can't do something with my body. Also dress codes. There's dress codes at Disney which makes sense but school dress codes are really stupid. Also most of American laws in general. Guys can be shirtless but girls can't wear spaghetti strap tank tops? B******t
For this (US) supposedly being a 1st world country, the old, rich, corrupt, white guys have sent us back quite a few decades. Not only on Roe v. Wade, but on civil rights (they are disenfranchising POC as fast as they can), and on LGBTQ+ rights. And yes, school dress codes are almost ALWAYS sexist.
Abortion is not murder if the fetus can't live outside the body or giving birth puts the person's life at risk. If it isn't viable, it's not a person, it's a parasite.
Load More Replies...People who've owned firearms their entire lives, paid the dues, took annual safety, maintenance and handling training and have taken pride in shooting and gun sports for decades TURNING ON A DIME and deciding it's every idiot's right to own a machine of death without training, oversight or limits on anything. We remember you from the ranges, you were always the big mouths yammering on about what you owned when you couldn't hit the side of a barn with a goat if your life depended on it. But now you're Captain Monday Morning Quarterback talking endless sh about "good guys with guns" as we analyze the dozen highly trained LEO who stood outside Robb Elementary in Uvalde for an hour while small children got turned into unrecognizable mincemeat by another white trash loser who thinks his inherited skin color makes him more than a flesh sack with donatable organs.
And now the repubs want to arm teachers against military style weapons, when armed and trained police officers are scared to death of them. Really??
If I needed organs, I wouldn’t use a murderer’s organs, especially not the white trash uvalde shooter’s organs.
I would! Especially if the organ was torn out of his living body!
Load More Replies...Has any good guy with a gun other than the paid security guard at Topps Market in Buffalo even try to confront a shooter? Eff no. BECAUSE NO ONE IN HER RIGHT MIND takes on a wingnut with an AR15 without greater arms. Never gonna happen. And every responsible gun owner knows it. But this white trash will keep insisting an old retired cop making 50 grand is gonna take on a shooter with a handgun and save your kids. NOOOPE..
Anyone who lies in the workplace to make themselves look better than others.
racism. we are all bleed the same and we are all from the same creator
Wtf?! We are all human and deserve the same treatment. Same here, I don't get racism.
Yep, cut me open and bleed blue. No, wait, it's red. Earthlings, er, I mean humans bleed red.
Yup. There is actually only ONE 'race' of humans - the human race. Anything else - skin color, eye color, hair texture - is simply a mutation to make it easier for those humans to thrive where they have settled. Dark skin - protection against tropical sun. Light skin - adaptation for those who live in northern latitudes to soak up enough vit. D.
People being for "Freedom" only for things they approve of.
Having to sit through a thirty second commercial to watch an eighteen second sports clip
People not understanding what someone else is going through, then critising them and calling them pessimistic and making them feel even shitter than they did in the first place Srsly wat is so hard abt accepting and understanding without judgement?...
Or like "lol why are you sad? That doesn't make sense. Maybe you'll feel better if you try to be happy!!!!!!!!!"
Load More Replies...Yeh, welllll recently been diagnosed or watever with extremely severe anxiety, stress n deppresion n tryna work it all out in my head n for the past yr ive known it but everyone is always asking me why i get grumpy so quick n im always sad n deprsssd even tho it isnt acky tru im like always happy n ppl pick up on it when im not soooo im jus living confused
This is so relatable, and I even start to judge myself, thinking I have no right to be sad, that I'm over reacting. This all comes from the peopel who don't understand. They don't know that it sinks in, and you begin to agree they you shouldn't be sad. That your just blowing it out of proportion. This is coming from somone who cries easily, somone who has dealt with sh*t time and time again, but remember that you have a right to have feelings. You ate not over reacting. You are not as sensitive as peopel call you, you may heav depression or other disorders, but you are a person and deserve help. You can't just get over it. We all have ups and downs, but disorders are different. Peopel need to learn to understand and try to help, how ever that is.
yeh, im starting 2 believe im jus a weirdo
Load More Replies...When someone wakes me up.
My younger sister was the worst person to wake up ever, up to age of 6-8ish. What made it even worse is because she would literally fall asleep anywhere and anytime, like on the toilet and face all in her plate of food and even on a very bumpy hay ride in a pumpkin patch lol. I would dread waking her up anytime I was asked to, my sister was absolutely miserable when woken up, screaming, crying and literally acted as if it was the end of the world. Thankfully she grew out of it for the most part..lol.
fr like dont wake me up just to ask me if im sleeping like wtf?ik its a joke but stop it before i cut u in half and hit u with ur limbs and intestines
HOMOPHOBIA
Dont hate people. I mean, i dont like asparagus but that dosnt mean i attack people who do.
i dont understand most sexuality but i dont hate people who r part of the lgbtq+.
Currently? Gas Prices.
you don't understand causation. This follows on from the sanctions on russia. Choose. Either russia gets to bully everyone or your gas prices stay down.
The USA blowing up the undersea gas pipeline from Russia to Scandinavia didn't help.
Biden's stupid policies are the major reason for high prices. Russia added to this, but price increases started when he went into office.
Nope. You are blaming the wrong person. Gas prices only began to rise after Putin invaded Ukraine. Get your s**t straight.
Load More Replies...Where to even start 😂😂 1) When someone tries to push their religion onto me after I tell them I'm atheist and don't believe in religion. Respect my lack of religion and I'll respect you following your beliefs. 2) Often goes hand in hand with the first one, but when people are clearly hypocrites. 3) Any attempt by someone else to control my life automatically triggers me. I've had enough of that s**t growing up.
Ok this! So I'm christian, I'm happy to admit it. But there is little that irks me more than someone trying to push thier views on others. I had a woman at my church tell me if I wasn't going to try and save my cousin (atheist) than we were both going to hell and deserved it. Well i would much rather have a healthy happy relationship with my cousin rather than have him alienate himself because I wouldn't stop trying to force something on him he didn't agree with. And can I just say it's not very Christian-ly to tell someone they deserve hell, is it? Nope!! Believe or don't believe in whatever you want just don't be a d*ck to others! That's my motto!
"Christian" bible-thumpers are the worst of humanity. They are under the impression that they are the ONLY ONES that live a righteous life, and all others are going to suffer the flames of hell. They have pictures of "Jesus" in their homes showing a blue-eyed white boy, failing to admit that Christ was a Mid-Eastern, dark skinned man. If Jesus came back to earth today, they would probably nail Him up again.
My dad assumed I was going to have kids. I'm aroace and don't want to. Why take care of a random fetus when it's going to die anyways?
Don't do it if you don't want to, just to make others happy..
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Roe vs Wade overturn. Humans are not going extinct. Get over it. Seems like we are heading for quantity of life instead of quality of living for those already here. What good is it to bring more children into poverty, Is it good for the children they suffer a life of possible starvation or homelessness? This country has few social safety programs and even less for low income parents to have paid childcare. Suffering poor children are better than non-existent children I guess.
Yes we too can be as crowded as India. God I love crowds, long lines to get anything done, and general poor quality living due to overpopulation. All the extra competition for dwindling resources in a country that can barely maintain food and housing availability. Go Third World America! I can't wait!
Amber, we are already there. To the outside world America has the appearance of being fat and affluent. There are far too many human beings living below the poverty line. Your post was excellent. Some Americans literally never see this side of our culture while others cannot escape it.
Load More Replies...That is a horrible thing to say “so what if some unborn kids die”
Load More Replies...I assure you, an abortion is not a convenience. It is a decision that is not taken lightly, and is a serious medical procedure. That said, there are many reasons and situations that would legitimately drive a woman to this choice. The point is no one, including you, has any business telling a woman how she should approach that decision.
Load More Replies...Politics. I DON’T CARE WHO YOU THINK IS AN IDIOT SAMANTHA, THEY’RE ALL IDIOTS, DEAL WITH IT!
Can we all just shut up about each party and actually help the people suffering and do something good for once?!?!
ABSOLUTELY! I don't care what side of the aisle they sit on, none of them give a damn about any of us who aren't lining their pockets. We must demand better candidates! We must ALL vote. We need to get these greedy, detached dinosaurs, and these do nothings the hell out of office.
Yeah everything has become too political. Human rights? Political. Healthcare? Political.
People using r******d in place of stupid. It's so bad that my special needs brother picked it up and actually used r******d to call someone stupid. His mentality is that of a 4 year old and doesn't understand how wrong it is so that was fun trying to explain to him. We need to stop misusing words
People being a******s has meant the language has had to evolve. Words like 'idiot' and 'cretin' were once medical terms..
Mental, coercive and verbal abuse and manipulation. Gaslighting managers and corporations who use anything against you to tear down your sanity to the point you're getting flashbacks and memorizing the abuse years later. Customers who treat workers like slaves. Park your a*s down, shut up and drink your damn double double you chose to pay for at an establishment known for crappy coffee you CHOSE to patron. (F**k that feels good to say.) Ignorant people who don't listen.
Politicians getting disgustingly wealthy in office.
while not representing the values of the majority of their constituency
I’m not allowed to comment for 5 days because 2 of my comments were “against the guidelines” (they weren’t I’ve checked the guidelines)
It happens when your comment gets to -10 downvotes. The third time that happens, you get banned. I don't like this rule either.
It's not right. People should be allowed to disagree with someone's opinion. People should be allowed to down vote, it's their opinion too. But unless you're saying something blatantly hateful/offensive, you should not be banned. One night I was really stoned and decided to make a silly, nonsensical comment on every thread in a post. Apparently that really upset a lot of people, and I got a temporary ban. You can't be arbitrarily silly on BP.
Load More Replies...I got permanently banned once. The email told me to email them back if I disagreed with the ban. I did, admitting my mistakes on how my comments could be misconstrued. They lifted the ban, for which I'm grateful. But people downvoting others because they disagree with their statements is wrong. Banning should be limited to hateful comments and spammers.
Being told I'm not good enough, feeling helpless and powerless, people pushing at me their interpretations of me or gossiping about what I supposedly did and why, reverse racism and prejudices, being discarded...
Bro somone said I eat playdo, when I've only tasted it ONCE. only once. I wanted to know how it tasted..
I studied geography. We had to taste clay from the ground to see how much sand was in it. Totally normal. As a kid I ate paper and grass to impress other kids. LOL my son drank from a ditch. His friends told me. They were shocked. I was like: oh he must have inherited that from me. I did that too. Don't do it anymore though son. It's really filthy.
Load More Replies...Stop worrying about what other people say or think. You be YOU. Hard lesson, but improved life immensely once I learned it.
The way western leaders ignore Isreal's crimes
The way the Palestinians have been treated over the decades is shameful, our leaders have no problem talking about crimes that happened in the past but do nothing about current ones. A whole group of people disenfranchised from their land because someone decided that they belong to the wrong race/religion.
They don’t just ignore them, they give them billions of $ every year to buy arms to kill more Palestinians. Even the civilians kill Palestinians in the worst possible ways and are then lauded by their fellow Israelis. They are sick.
War crimes, Crimes Against Humanity and the US in particular breaks international law in order to fuel this. The reasons why it does this are bizarre. This is done to ensure donations from the religious right Christians (no, it's not a Jewish conspiracy) They will contribute heavily to candidates who back their views. Their views aren't to be supportive of Israel or of Jewish people but are actually to push towards bible prophecies bringing Armageddon. The reason this sounds seriously flaky is because it IS..
People who go to Costco (or wherever) and stand in the middle of the aisle with their giant cart and have a conversation with another person in the middle of the aisle who also has a giant cart so no one can get past. And they seem so oblivious to the fact that they are IN THE WAY! For the love of Pete! Go somewhere else to catch up!
Love this! Every Tues. and Thurs. a local assisted-living community busses people over to the store where I shop. Several of them, with their big carts, will inevitably end up talking to each other in the middle of the canned goods aisle (one of the busiest). They just had breakfast together!!!
No one seems self-aware these days.... it's not all about YOU Debbie!
Yes!! I'm a server in a small restaurant & people stand right in the walk way! I say Excuse me, louder & ruder each time I have to go past
people calling others gay as an insult
I’ve always thought it’s funny when they call someone gay as an insult but that person is gay (like me). I just laugh and say thank you
Liv, reclaim the language! They're bloody idiots anyway.
Load More Replies...I'm old enough to remember the word "gay" as free of any sexual connation
people littering my friends do it and I get so mad
I've witnessed it with a dumpster in sight and within walking distance. Shame shame people. What's wrong with you, that you can't be bothered?
It's horrible to litter I would never do it
Load More Replies...Republicans. They're not even trying to hide their nefarious agenda anymore.
I accidently watch my state's (Michigan)Republican primary debate last week, because they played it instead of one my DVR'd shows! Bunch of whack jobs, including one who just had his house raided and was arrested for January 6th. Pathetic bunch of sheep! How can so many blindly follow this c**p? I am not talking about ALL Republicans, but these ones, definitely all the loudest ones, SMH.
People who b***h and moan about how unfair things like overturning Roe v Wade are, and then don't even both to vote. Just letting Republican assholes occupy every level of government so what do you expect?
Yes... I had to remind someone that they have never voted in their life and they are 68 yet complains about everything.
68 year olds are NOT the problem. According to the Census, 76% of people 65-74 voted in 2020 while only 51% of people 18-25 did. My 26 year old has never voted because he moved to a red state for college and thinks his vote doesn't matter. None of his friends do either and they are all very progressive in their views. When I lived in Virginia, it went from a solid red state to a mostly blue one (recent backslide, unfortunately). But that will never happen if you don't vote. If young adults become a powerful voting bloc, a lot of politicians would change their policies. Very few Republican office holders, especially at the National level, are Christian fundamentalists, but those people are very loud and vote regularly, so the Repubs all have to pretend that they believe in their views. Their playbook is clearly working; you need to steal some plays from it, and the easiest one is to VOTE.
Load More Replies...I vote but always for the lesser of two evils Because that's all that is out there. The devil you know or the devil you don't know. Politicians are liars. I'm a middle-class American 63 yo. Female ( married no kids )There has never been a politician or political party that's ever done a damn thing for me or my financial class. Prove me wrong. ( I'm lower middle class, financially speaking)
Oh, YES! The fact that 2 MILLION registered Democrats (probably misogynist) could not get off their lazy asses and vote Democrat in the 2016 election. ALL of the c**p hitting the fan since then is on YOUR heads. For the lack of fewer than 100,000 votes, we got to watch Comrade Cheetolini and his accomplices tear down what was left of American democracy. AND put three lying creeps on the Supreme Court.
The only people to blame are the ones who VOTED FOR THE MORONS who pass these stupid laws.
Women having fundamental rights taken away from them. The fact that we live in 2022 and it may as well be 1022.
Yes! IMO it's not about right or wrong, it's the fact that men sitting in offices can tell me what I can & can't do WITH MY BODY!
I was very active in the women's rights movement back in the 1970s. Little did I know, we'd have to fight that fight all over again - when I was IN my 70s.
Load More Replies...Interesting to see a down vote. A panda who doesnt like women having rights is very surprising
Right now it’s christians thinking their religion should discrete how other people live their lives and make their own decisions. My other mother in law (step?) keeps posting bible c**p to slam abortion. It just makes me want to slap her. Not everyone follows the same religion or any religion for that matter! It’s not like she follows her own bible anyways!! She and her husband have tattoos. They wear mixed fabrics. They work on Sundays. They don’t follow their own religion that closely so why do they expect everyone in the world to? They have a daughter. I love that kid dearly but she’s weird. They’ve made her weird. She isn’t a normal child and it’s because they’ve hidden her away in religious home school programs and limit everything she does. That’s their right as her parents. I know that and I don’t ever get between them. So why are they trying to be in everyone else’s business? Just because someone else is on a diet, doesn’t mean everyone is. Just because someone doesn’t agree with gay marriage, doesn’t mean they can stop someone who does! They are just the most narrow minded people. I’ve tried to talk with them before in childish synonyms and ridiculous metaphors but they just don’t listen and I’m angry. I can’t actually fight back because then we’d lose that kid forever. I can’t handle that. So I have to make up half playful put downs without making waves and I just hate it. I hate knowing that they’re raising her racist, homophobic, transphobic, and every other “-phobic” you can think of. I hate the misinformation they spread about everything they hear. Covid? China virus but it’s fake. Abortion? Devil sacrifice dating back a thousand years. Gay? It’s a choice and since it is a choice they must worship the devil to want to go to hell. Trans? Liberal media brainwashing children to serve the devil. Ridiculous c**p. I refuse to let other people’s religions dictate my life.
Christian here- I totally get where you’re coming from, but please remember we’re not all bad- just the ones who scream loudest
I'm sure you're lovely, but what we really need is for you to scream loudest. That what the Christian Taliban is pushing is nonsese, couldn't be less christlike and has nothing to do with anyone's religious affiliation, rather their own tremendous greed, entitlement, hunger for power and enjoyment at the suffering of minorities. Who better to put that very true message across than you and normal xtians.
Load More Replies...Religion is like a penis. It is okay to have one. It is also okay to be proud of it. But please, PLEASE don't go whipping it out in public and waving it around in our faces.
Precisely! They make no sense. Apparently I'm magnetic now and glow in the dark because I got my vaccine and then later, the booster shot. Oh, well. I'll be a hit at raves if I ever get off my couch.
Load More Replies...Take a look at the death count. still fake, sharon?! Also homophics and other phobics. It's not a phobia, its failure to accept the future. I don't see why people always have to yell at somonefor theire life choices. Last time I checked,, it's thier life, not yours. Let them be themselves. (Not directed at u, I just had to.)
Makes me wonder if there is someone with an actual phobia of homosexuals, and can't tell anyone without being hated
Load More Replies...I was told everyone needs a low salt diet. I have seizures from low sodium but yeah, that Karen needs a low salt diet so we all do.
Bored Panda called me LAZY
BP is re-publishing posts from a year ago and have the cheek to call US lazy! 😂
lemME gues past my bedtime i dont go to bed until 1 am maybe sharp
SCOTUS with an agenda instead of precedent and law.
People talk to a disabled person like they're dumb or can't understand them. Just because they can't speak back or respond the way you're used to, doesn't mean they don't know exactly what you're saying and if you can't muster up the f*cking courtesy to speak to them with respect than you can go to h*ll and take your stupid f*cking false kindness schtick with you. ... Ok maybe it angers me a little more than I realized... Lol
It furthers dehumanizing viewpoints when really the people you are trying to "protect with kindness" just want to be approached like a "regular" person; you know, with dignity. (And patience)
People treat me like a baby when I try and ask a question I am unsure about. I have autism and it is really annoying.
Load More Replies...I knew a lady once who had a family over for lunch with two blind teenage sons (something genetic). Every time someone said something the hostess would yell it to the boys. I wanted to yell at her that they were blind not deaf.
It's not just the disabled my mum has a foreign accent but has been in Australia for 52 years, a citizen for 47 years. People are constantly dumbing down their conversations to her. It is really frustrating especially when scammers double down and assume she will be intimidated by quoting non existent laws and huge repercussions.
Stupid and ridiculous censorship, climaxing in those words around the actually meant one. Killing is Unaliving and the like. Needs to be UnInVeNtEd, that cräp.
Currently, I will rant to anyone who will listen about some states limiting or outright banning the teaching and discussion of sensitive topics in schools. Here we (teachers) are, doing our best to teach both compassion and critical thinking skills. There they are, the legislators, trying to turn students into unquestioning automatons.
Why 'sensitive' subjects? Slavery happened. Teach about its horrors so they aren't repeated. LGBTQ+ people? As long as there have been people, there have been LGBTQ+ people - it's a fact and teaching should deal with facts as they come up. Women's bodies. Well, women have bodies and are just over 50% of the world's population. Don't treat women's bodies - and their bodily functions - like they are something disgusting. If I ran the zoo, every middle-schooler and high- schooler should take a matter-of-fact 'sex' education class. The US seems to be stuck in its puritan times.
I hate it when people call animals it. Its like you are calling the animal an object, and we are animals too. They are putting animals (many whom we are treating horribly) below us.
Babies, too, especially when the person knows the sex or the name of the baby. Calling a baby or an animal "it" does sound like they're being reduced to a second class creature.
I thought about that a lot, actually. I think maybe we say "it" when referring to a being that relies on us for protection, love and sustenance-so, yes, babies included. I think its cute and reminds you of your responsibility to care for them.
Load More Replies...As silly as it is I've been trying to use "they" more often when I talk about animals ^^
We objectify a LOT of life forms on this planet it's really sad. Personally I feel like when we treat them as second class life forms it makes it easier for humans to justify exploiting them.
With all the talk of pronouns I had begun to wonder why we even use them? If we are giving a physical description of someone wanted or missing then yeh, I get it. But when we're telling a story about something that happened like someone losing their ticket on the train, say, why do we include it then? We are literally including their genitals in the story. Like 'I saw someone on the train and their ticket flew out the window' Vs 'I saw this penisowner on the train and his ticket flew out the window' The story doesn't improve by knowing he owns a penis, it's not relevant. But I've noticed there's a tendency in the US in particular to include skin color (only if not white) in this too. So it would becomes 'I saw black penisowner's ticket fly out the window' This is some wacky s**t, stop it..
Ok, but then don't get pissy when we just use he or she when we don't know
Not angry. Sad. Despairing. North Korea. So much there. Also we’re the only country other than North Korea that doesn’t recognize Parental Alienation as a violation of children’s human rights. Americans have to be in poverty to have any social safety net so I can’t afford to work or I’ll lose my health insurance. My medical costs are at least $20K every month so I try to tell myself I make $20,000 per month. Myself calls BS on that. I’m sad about the non-supreme Supremes and the criminal ways they were approved. I’m sad going all the way back to Gerald Ford’s pardon of Nixon, normalizing criminal activity in the government and Newt Gingrich’s declaration of hatred on the left.
Speaking of NEWT, he was screwing around with who is now his "new" wife, while his previous wife was dying of cancer.
Where poverty and other problems still exist believe it or not
Load More Replies..."Also we're the only country other than" But doesn't state which country.
these days? the aita threads where people complain about s**t their partners have been doing, but instead of leaving they just post on the internet hoping for some magical suggestion, if the relationship was abusive, to the point posters are afraid to leave it would be more understandable but a lot of these there's nothing stopping them from getting rid of the "garbage" but a lot of these are just "my partner did X" and "am i being unreasonable for not putting up with X" if you're one of these people heres some advice to save you some time typing your reddit post--- JUST LEAVE THEM THEN!!!!!!
Foie gras. Google it. (Don't.)
For those who are wondering (probs going to get downvoted), foie gras is basically duck liver, but it’s fed on a special diet that is force fed by a funnel. It’s banned in many places, but many enthusiasts will go and eat it for the rich, fatty flavor. Never tried it, but I know someone who had and says it’s weird.
I've never found a place that sells that, the only venison I can get is from local hunters
Load More Replies...Just throwing your junk anywhere. You live amongst humans; A bin a close by.
Come live in Jordan. It’s a giant trash heap. I was shocked when I came here.
Competitive people who think they need to up the ante when you tell them a story. For example my mom was attacked by a dog last fall (irl) and the person I told was like, “oh, sorry but I was, too.” It’s not a freaking contest!
Maybe the person was just trying to say: Yes I know how it is, because it happened to me too
I know exactly what you mean, I've probably been guilty of it myself. People love to hear themselves talk. So sorry!
Load More Replies...Uh, no. I have known her for almost 15 years and everything is a contest with her. Personal and professional. Got old quick and I have pruned her from my friendship tree.
Parents who put their children's lives in danger by doing something stupid. How many children have been hurt or killed in zoos by dangerous animals because the parents decided to lower their kid over the barrier for a better look only to lose their grip and drop them. Then there's the parents who go down an escalator with the baby still in the stroller instead of using the elevator.
Injustice. Very general, but I get angry at a lot of things and this sums it up pretty well.
You get angry at being angry, in other words. No wonder you have health problems!
People who claim to speak for everyone. This is especially prevalent in politics. You really hear it when people discuss their states. "Montanan's (using my own state) think this, or Montanan's don't want that." You know what? I'm a proud Montanan, but I don't think the way you do, so F**K OFF!!!
Yeppeople who start their diatribes, err comments, with "every body knows" or "every body believes"......You do not, nor will you ever speak for anybody but yourself, you sure as heck to do not represent my opinion much less the opinions of the 7 billion plus people who call this good earth home and I will not be intimidated into believing I hold an unpopular opinion by these types of people. That is their ultimate aim, to shut opposing opinions down by classing them as being against what every body else knows.
Also "no-one cares" oh how many people did you ask about that?
Load More Replies...Being anti-science and deliberately spreading falsehoods. People can die because of these attitudes and behaviours.
Tell that to Donnie Dumb-Dumb and the imbeciles that still believe he is the second coming of Christ.
When people are lying to me, especially when i know the truth. It makes me really angry
tRump still claiming he won an election that he lost where a record number of voters in this rejected him. Nobody ever had more people vote against tRump in our history, but he still thinks he won.
Racists . They're the worst
our australian government. do something with our housing and the cost of living!
The lack of structure and accountability across society and public life in general. There is so much regulation and so many regulatory bodies, so many private and public services and everything is the fault of the citizen. If you have a public service you have to make an account, give all your information and submit it yourself, so what is the service exactly? When you get a license or a certificate or something the issuing body says "we do not take responsibility for the validity of this candidate" and other legalese. Really? Then what are you issuing certificates for?
That three people in recent memory perjured themselves in front of Congress to get lifetime appointments to jobs they were clearly unqualified for, and due to politics were appointed anyways, and now are pushing a deeply regressive and unpopular agenda, and have gotten away with it.
I have a ton but mostly: slow walkers ( they drive me insane), and people who drive over the lines and just stay in the middle of the road. I don’t even drive yet and Ik better than that .-.
Some of us are slow walkers because of a disability so give us some slack!
In some parts of Europe it is commonplace to drive over the white line ie in the middle of a two way road, on narrow roads. The idea is to pull across when you see something coming the other way. I'm not saying this is a good idea, it's a TERRIBLE idea just be aware..
Known as country driving in the US. Rural roads are narrow and it gives better visibility for animals, etc. But doing this on a road with traffic both side should be a fining offense.
Load More Replies...Human stupidity which is everywhere so I guess every single thing about earth.
It doesn't take much lol, I have misophonia. well, actually, having misophonia makes me really angry.
OMG I’ve struggled with misophonia for so long and I’ve never found anybody else with the same thing. It is verrrry maddening.
Earplugs and an eyemask or else I don't sleep and get even more angry. I hate apartment living.
Random people being rude to me. Example. Yesterday I was walking in the mall, pretty crowded. I have bone & blood issues in my limbs, meaning I react quite badly to temperature fluctuations. We're not sure what it is but its genetic and very painful (the same feeling that you get after having a vaccine, if y'know what i mean. Dull but sore and very weak). So I was having a little problem due to the weather changes. My legs ached like hell, so I was slowly walking to find a free place to sit down. A group of highschool students behind me began yelling at me to hurry up. Literally screeching. At a stranger. I mean, granted, they we're apologetic after I told them off, but still. Its not the first time someones been randomly rude to me or my friends either. Something has got to be wrong with people these days. I could have been a really violent person, and they would have gotten hurt. That incident has been ruining my day all week.
people who's sense of entitlement over rule basic human decency
Right now? The current state of America. I feel like I probably don’t need to elaborate on this one… Being sad is exhausting so I’ve switched to anger instead.
TRRRRRUUUUUUUUUUUMNNNMMMMPPPPPPPP
How people who confess to be Christians are voting for the son of Satan. No, it doesn't make sense.
My brother
After reading this list and the comments: VIRTUE SIGNALING
It's funny how guns, flags, support the vets and Jesus are normalized, while anything "woke" is virtue signaling. We're humans with opinions -- it's all wearing our beliefs on the outside.
People who scream about 'woke' are, to a person, either racist, homophobic, or misogynist. Or all three.
Load More Replies...Having someone say sorry, but does the thing they said sorry for. Like, are you really sorry?
30 minute ads on YouTube. I like to listen to things as I fall asleep. I don't mind the 15 second adds, but when I have to disturb myself to reach for my phone and adjust my eyes to see the screen to find the skip button, that just defeats the purpose of trying to relax.
I hate the ads completely. Especially when I'm in the middle of a song.
I also hate ads in the middle of songs. But if it's a long video I can tolerate a few ads. Without them, YouTubers wouldn't be able to make money, forcing them to work another job, and not be able to make as many videos.
Load More Replies...Just download the clip instead. If enough people start to do it, then platforms will need to stop taking the p**s with big ads.
Customer service voicemail hell. First, the computer can't understand you. I understand you have a billing issue. NO I want tech support! Then they start haranguing you to go to their website, making you listen to them read out the entire web address like you are going to remember that. If I had a question that could be answered by the website, the only reasons I would be calling are: 1-I don't have access to the internet or 2-I don't know how to use a computer. Then it wants some account number that you don't know because you do online bill paying, or the card is in your wallet somewhere else in the house. Then you may be asked for some pin number that if you do know it, you are so annoyed by now that you can't see what you are entering. So then you are on hold 35 minutes give or take, it starts to connect to a person and then disconnects the call. So, second or third time around, an hour or so later, you get a person and 50% of the time, they are the wrong department or they start reading off all the steps you have already done to solve the issue and that's all they've got, so you get to go through this all a 3rd or 4th time with another number. Sometimes, they come up with something else like your warranty is expired and you have to pay $45 for them to tell you your printer cannot be fixed. Lately I've been getting a choice of music between crappy pop, old fogey jazz or sleep inducing classical, because if you choose silence, you can sit there for an hour and not realize the call has dropped again. I am not normally a big cusser but if anyone is actually monitoring those robot voice services, they are getting an earful.
people who ignore you when you say something.
or they're hyperfocused and are listening to their own train of thought? I have this happen all the time. I have to snap out of thinking mode to listening mode before I can hear anything.
Not being able to plug something into an outlet in the dark. Why is that so difficult, or is it just me?
Many of the things that make me angry have already been stated. But being a commuter, I get so angry at terrible drivers. I don't know when common sense driving went out the winder but it seriously has.
People judging something/someone from stereotypes and not taking the time to actually find stuff out about it/them.
What makes me really angry is the fact that I can still get angry, instead of leaving anger to people who are good at it.
When my husband treats me like a child.
When my dad asks if I know what a word means. My step mom decided to explain theme to me. I'm in the f*cking fourth grade, of course I know.
Republicans.
The video ads on BP. I am fine with static ads, I know BP needs to make money. But the video ads are so freakin' annoying and distracting, and tapping pause only works for a bit. So I just turn my adblocker back on because I don't want to be enraged.
Adblock. I didn't even know BP has that many ads until a friend who doesn't use adblock told me.
I use an adblocker that is very effective. I turn it off for certain websites that I want to support, like BP. As mentioned, I'm fine with static ads however I can't deal with the distracting videos.
Load More Replies...This is more of a pet peeve but still gets me mad. WHEN SOMEONE CHEWS WITH THERE MOUTH OPEN.
The mistreatment of furries. People automatically assume that the community has a bunch of people doing bad stuff to animals. That's not true because some of us are really nice and want to make people feel better about themselves.
Yes! And assuming furries are zoophiles. Sure, there might be some bad furries, but guess what? Every religion, country, club, anything like that, has some bad people in it. Doesn't mean there all bad
Load More Replies...What really gets me mad is the people of one minority, going against the community and actively harming it, like when they come for us, who will they come for after? You. You're not doing any favors by being on the hateful side. (LGB without the T, I'm looking at you.
I missed adding to this. Mine is: Rich and powerful people (Politicians mainly) not being held accountable for lying, cheating, fraud and misrepresenting themselves (plus heaps of others things, but these will do for starters).
When I go to the "Show More" tab at the bottom of the BP post I'm reading and it refuses to load more. It seems to happen with posts I'm most interested in reading.
Having to listen to other people's music when driving or at the beach. I hate it when someone pulls up beside me with their music blaring or when I'm trying to relax and listen to the waves at the beach and they are blaring their music.
Or when in a public place and people are using their speaker to have their conversation.
Load More Replies...This is more of a pet peeve but still gets me mad. WHEN SOMEONE CHEWS WITH THERE MOUTH OPEN.
The mistreatment of furries. People automatically assume that the community has a bunch of people doing bad stuff to animals. That's not true because some of us are really nice and want to make people feel better about themselves.
Yes! And assuming furries are zoophiles. Sure, there might be some bad furries, but guess what? Every religion, country, club, anything like that, has some bad people in it. Doesn't mean there all bad
Load More Replies...What really gets me mad is the people of one minority, going against the community and actively harming it, like when they come for us, who will they come for after? You. You're not doing any favors by being on the hateful side. (LGB without the T, I'm looking at you.
I missed adding to this. Mine is: Rich and powerful people (Politicians mainly) not being held accountable for lying, cheating, fraud and misrepresenting themselves (plus heaps of others things, but these will do for starters).
When I go to the "Show More" tab at the bottom of the BP post I'm reading and it refuses to load more. It seems to happen with posts I'm most interested in reading.
Having to listen to other people's music when driving or at the beach. I hate it when someone pulls up beside me with their music blaring or when I'm trying to relax and listen to the waves at the beach and they are blaring their music.
Or when in a public place and people are using their speaker to have their conversation.
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