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Employee Gets Their Schedule Done By Manager Who “Hates” Them, Wakes Up On Their Day Off To A Voicemail Asking Why They Aren’t At Work
Employee Gets Their Schedule Done By Manager Who “Hates” Them, Wakes Up On Their Day Off To A Voicemail Asking Why They Aren’t At Work
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Employee Gets Their Schedule Done By Manager Who “Hates” Them, Wakes Up On Their Day Off To A Voicemail Asking Why They Aren’t At Work

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Everybody knows how hard it is to build relationships at work. Power dynamics, personality clashes, good old trust issues – whatever it is, only a few of us get lucky to develop any actual friendships. 

This Reddit user that goes by u/jeffyjeffs, for instance, didn’t click with one of his managers and is now getting punished for simply existing. Turns out, the woman changed his schedule without his knowledge! 

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    Woke up on my day off to a voicemail asking why I wasn’t at work. Apparently, someone changed my schedule without my knowledge and that’s my fault??” – this internet user took to one of Reddit’s communities dedicated to mildly infuriating things, to rant about how his work had scheduled him for his day off without consulting him in advance. The post managed to garner over 44K upvotes as well as 2K comments discussing the audacity of some higher-ups.

    It’s no big shocker that working is far from easy. Pressure, immense workload, conflicts with difficult colleagues and stressed managers, poor work-life balance – whatever it is, it’s easy to lose the passion you once had for your field. 

    Still, having a love-hate relationship with your role is not uncommon, but when things take a personal turn – that’s a big, red no-no. For instance, to give you a more illustrative example, research from Totaljobs has established that 49% of workers quit their jobs because of their strained relationship with a superior! I mean, chances are even you yourself have thought about waving your job goodbye because of a “boss-zilla.” 

    Yes, we all get worked up every once in a while – it’s life, after all. However, developing disdain for your subordinates and failing to maintain a professional and courteous relationship only shows that you’re an unfit candidate for such a position. 

    We’re busy people, and having a steady schedule to base the rest of our day/week around is important. Of course, it’s a well-known fact that some companies fail to recognize that their employees have a life outside their job; yet, changing the rota and neglecting to inform the person it concerns is, hands down, a total jerk move, especially if it was done out of malice. 

    Everyone’s entitled to their own emotions, and it just so happens that sometimes we don’t like certain individuals, be it because of something they have done or simply because you just didn’t vibe with each other – but the point stands, and openly showing this attitude when you’re supposed to be the top of the so-called chain is tasteless, to say the very least. 

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    He later finds out it was the handiwork of a manager who “hates” him

    Image credits:  Leeloo Thefirst (not the actual photo)

    So, let’s do a little recap! u/jeffyjeffs took it online and attached a screenshot of a text conversation he had with one of his superiors regarding a no-call, no-show. The issue is he was never supposed to work as he’s unavailable on Tuesdays, and the company was well aware of it, as it was established before he was hired. Still, despite the explanation, the man was told that he was in charge of checking the schedule every week! 

    Naturally, the netizen continued to stand up for himself; he clapped back and said that it shouldn’t be his responsibility to check the schedule, let alone when it was an abrupt change done without his knowledge/consultation. 

    In response, the r/mildlyinfuriating community members shared their own stories about encountering similar workplace dilemmas, congratulated the employee for setting boundaries and sticking up for himself, and mentioned the possibility of claiming unemployment should the company decide to boot him out on the grounds of their own screwup.  

    But that wasn’t the end of the story, as the Redditor provided an update a few days after uploading the post. Turns out, a manager who hates him was recently given the task of sorting out the rota, therefore being the responsible party for the issue.

    What’s more, the OP is unable to file any sort of report to the general manager, as those two are pretty close-knit – we’re talking best friends and “bridesmaid at a wedding” kind of “close-knit” – so his chances of not being a scapegoat are zero to none. 

    How would you handle this if you were in the author’s shoes? 

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    Darja is a Content Creator at Bored Panda. She studied at the University of Westminster, where she got her Bachelor's degree in Contemporary Media Practice. She loves photography, foreign music and re-watching Forrest Gump.

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    Darja is a Content Creator at Bored Panda. She studied at the University of Westminster, where she got her Bachelor's degree in Contemporary Media Practice. She loves photography, foreign music and re-watching Forrest Gump.

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    Saulė Tolstych

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    Saulė is a photo editor at Bored Panda with bachelor's degree in Multimedia and Computer Design. The thing that relaxes her the best is going into YouTube rabbit hole. In her free time she loves painting, embroidering and taking walks in nature.

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    Brad Shorter
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a similar situation. My foreman was best friends with the plant manager. He made me look bad at every opportunity. My manager saw my value. He put in a position to fail whenever he felt like power tripping. Nobody else could do my job but me. Including my Foreman. Let's just say he would withhold just enough information that if I didn't double, triple check my work, It could cause big delays in production. He would alter job information sheets and leave out details. He alway gave me just enough info to make my job harder than others. When I had had enough of his games, I took notes, dates and times as well as comparison to other employees. I quietly asked for a meeting with my manager without divulging the content. I told him how concerned I was about affecting their friendship. Then I methodically laid out my entire case (unemotionally) I just asked why he didn't like me? And wondered how his animosity made the company better? Things instantly got better.

    ShirleKing
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    I’ve gained only within four weeks by comfortably working part-time from home. Immediately when I had lost my last business, mtg I was very troubled and thankfully following website___________ https://onlinesite76.blogspot.com/

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    GadgetGirl
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Best buy was notorious for this when I worked there. Schedule is posted, everyone writes it down, and I don't think there was a single hourly person they didn't try this with. *AND* they said calling and having someone check and tell you was still your problem if they changed it after that. They wanted everyone to check in person daily. But not really. They just wanted an excuse to fire people who made a few cents over minimum wage. So everyone started taking pictures of the schedule when it posted. When the inevitable change on our day off came, we would reply with the photo. "But it was updated after that, it's your responsibility to come in and check it". Until people started filing to get paid for that time. That's about an 1 hour extra every day. For each part timer. It put a lot of people into overtime. They accepted the photo after that. But it still sucks they can get away with it.

    Ken Beattie
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There seriously needs to be legislation around work schedules that govern how often they can be changed, how far in advance and what notification is required to the employee. And it should include clauses for exclusions, like can't work school hours, or never works Saturdays.

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    El Howard
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My daughter got busted in a similar way, her boss moved her start time up by half an hour, then yelled at her for showing up late. Apparently she was expected to check the schedule (online?) every day before work. She just recently decided they weren't going to train her as originally discussed, so she quit.

    Dzusty
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How ridiculous! It's like they forget that people have lives outside of work. Once the schedule is posted people actually plan their lives around it. Checking schedule everyday before work is not going to do any good if someone's got other plans. I used to say i'm not at your disposal 24h a day and if you need to make some changes ASK.

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    Joshua David
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I worked in corporate executive HR, all the directors VPs and the president and CEO all knew each other either from fraternities or elsewhere. I mean, why else would they've gotten the jobs.

    Janet Howe
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People have been known to lie. Someone will ask you to switch shifts with them. You say NO, you can't do it. But they'll go to the schedule behind your back and make the change. Always protect yourself. Double check schedule. There were times when I worked retail as a second job. This happened at one P/T job. When I was initially interviewed, I told the manager I wouldn't be available the dates of my 2 week vacation from my primary job. She said that was not a problem and hired me on the spot. Fast forward 3 or 4 months. The manager who hired me left for a better job. They promoted a weasel to manager.. Closing in on time for my vacation, he wouldn't let me go. Said he couldn't spare me. Even with the agreement with the previous manager. She liked me. The weasel didn't. So I quit with only 1 week notice. So they probably had to scramble to fill my hours anyway. And pay the regular employees O/T until they found someone else. So what did they gain?

    Dzusty
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just reading this gives me PTSD. Retail is truly messe up. And why there's always got to be this one "manager" that has his head up in his a*s... Is it a requirement to become one? Lol

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    leendadll
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you live in the US, contact your local State Labor Board. They VERY nice and love screwing over bad employers!

    Florence O'Grady
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My deceased aunt used to be a Wage and Hour Compliance Officer, for the Department of Labor, for the State of Alabama. This is the only job title I know of, but it might be a place to start.

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    Lp Johnson
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a bobble head manager at Walgreens do exactly this to me decades ago, change the schedule on my OFF day, to put me on the schedule for my SECOND off day, then declare ME at fault for not checking the schedule! The one and only time I've been fired, and I'm STILL salty twenty five years later. Lol.

    Angie Falzarano
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was 19 and graduated hs and was living with my boyfriend and I started working at a pizza place (small pizza joint not a big name place 1980). My boss asked me out and I said no. He knew I was living with somebody. So he changed the schedule so the day I was suppose to be off he changed it so that I was suppose to work. No phone call no nothing. I show up my next shift and got fired for no call no show. Texas is a hire at will state and I was too naive to know I should have taken it to the employment office and reported him. But unfortunately even if I had it would have been my word against his. I had no witness to him asking me out and cell phones were not around so I couldn't have take a pic.

    CM Kar
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    R, why shouldn't she be bothered by it? Bosses couldn't pull that mess today as it's sexual harassment and if found out they'd get fired, and possibly fined or charged.

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    Sherrie H
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband died recently leaving our 16 year old daughter devastated. She had been working her very first job in fast food for about three months. The manager was kind and told her to take as much time as she needed and call when she was ready to come back to work. A week later, same mgr. called and griped her out for no-show. Told her she should've checked the schedule. My daughter was too sad to even talk about it. Needless to say, she never went back.

    CM Kar
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So sorry for your loss and I'm glad your daughter never went back. Sounds like a crummy manager and sorry she went through that.

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    Scott Rackley
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is not a hard one...if you're willing to get ballsy. Ask HR for a copy of the availibility form you filled out and a copy of the schedule. Ask HR for a meeting with scheduling manager and a rep from HR. Something like, "I believe (scheduling manager) was not given all the information needed to make a schedule that reflected the availability of all associates." Show the information to both. "Going forward, I'm sure this information will help (scheduling manager) craft a more reliable schedule." You are not asking, you are informing.

    Carina Mone
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I did exactly this when I worked for Longhorn as a line cook. I was part time at the end of my employment with them because I was in college full time. Different manager on a power trip (and she didn't like me) took over kitchen manager duties. She pulled me into the office one day and told me she was moving me to full time open availability. I told her I was in college full time and could only work weekends because of that. She told me she could do whatever she wanted with my schedule and there was nothing I could do about it. I went to the GM, requested a copy of my availability and called corporate (that's Darden Inc). Corporate backed the MANAGER. They said that "availability is only a suggestion, that I could be scheduled at will and I would either comply or quit". So I put in my notice. The witch of a manager tried every day of my notice that I worked to provoke a verbal altercation with me as an excuse to fire me, but it didn't work. I now have a far better job in a medical lab.

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    Brad Shorter
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a similar situation. My foreman was best friends with the plant manager. He made me look bad at every opportunity. My manager saw my value. He put in a position to fail whenever he felt like power tripping. Nobody else could do my job but me. Including my Foreman. Let's just say he would withhold just enough information that if I didn't double, triple check my work, It could cause big delays in production. He would alter job information sheets and leave out details. He alway gave me just enough info to make my job harder than others. When I had had enough of his games, I took notes, dates and times as well as comparison to other employees. I quietly asked for a meeting with my manager without divulging the content. I told him how concerned I was about affecting their friendship. Then I methodically laid out my entire case (unemotionally) I just asked why he didn't like me? And wondered how his animosity made the company better? Things instantly got better.

    ShirleKing
    Community Member
    2 years ago

    This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

    I’ve gained only within four weeks by comfortably working part-time from home. Immediately when I had lost my last business, mtg I was very troubled and thankfully following website___________ https://onlinesite76.blogspot.com/

    Load More Replies...
    GadgetGirl
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Best buy was notorious for this when I worked there. Schedule is posted, everyone writes it down, and I don't think there was a single hourly person they didn't try this with. *AND* they said calling and having someone check and tell you was still your problem if they changed it after that. They wanted everyone to check in person daily. But not really. They just wanted an excuse to fire people who made a few cents over minimum wage. So everyone started taking pictures of the schedule when it posted. When the inevitable change on our day off came, we would reply with the photo. "But it was updated after that, it's your responsibility to come in and check it". Until people started filing to get paid for that time. That's about an 1 hour extra every day. For each part timer. It put a lot of people into overtime. They accepted the photo after that. But it still sucks they can get away with it.

    Ken Beattie
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There seriously needs to be legislation around work schedules that govern how often they can be changed, how far in advance and what notification is required to the employee. And it should include clauses for exclusions, like can't work school hours, or never works Saturdays.

    Load More Replies...
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    El Howard
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My daughter got busted in a similar way, her boss moved her start time up by half an hour, then yelled at her for showing up late. Apparently she was expected to check the schedule (online?) every day before work. She just recently decided they weren't going to train her as originally discussed, so she quit.

    Dzusty
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How ridiculous! It's like they forget that people have lives outside of work. Once the schedule is posted people actually plan their lives around it. Checking schedule everyday before work is not going to do any good if someone's got other plans. I used to say i'm not at your disposal 24h a day and if you need to make some changes ASK.

    Load More Replies...
    Joshua David
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I worked in corporate executive HR, all the directors VPs and the president and CEO all knew each other either from fraternities or elsewhere. I mean, why else would they've gotten the jobs.

    Janet Howe
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People have been known to lie. Someone will ask you to switch shifts with them. You say NO, you can't do it. But they'll go to the schedule behind your back and make the change. Always protect yourself. Double check schedule. There were times when I worked retail as a second job. This happened at one P/T job. When I was initially interviewed, I told the manager I wouldn't be available the dates of my 2 week vacation from my primary job. She said that was not a problem and hired me on the spot. Fast forward 3 or 4 months. The manager who hired me left for a better job. They promoted a weasel to manager.. Closing in on time for my vacation, he wouldn't let me go. Said he couldn't spare me. Even with the agreement with the previous manager. She liked me. The weasel didn't. So I quit with only 1 week notice. So they probably had to scramble to fill my hours anyway. And pay the regular employees O/T until they found someone else. So what did they gain?

    Dzusty
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just reading this gives me PTSD. Retail is truly messe up. And why there's always got to be this one "manager" that has his head up in his a*s... Is it a requirement to become one? Lol

    Load More Replies...
    leendadll
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you live in the US, contact your local State Labor Board. They VERY nice and love screwing over bad employers!

    Florence O'Grady
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My deceased aunt used to be a Wage and Hour Compliance Officer, for the Department of Labor, for the State of Alabama. This is the only job title I know of, but it might be a place to start.

    Load More Replies...
    Lp Johnson
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a bobble head manager at Walgreens do exactly this to me decades ago, change the schedule on my OFF day, to put me on the schedule for my SECOND off day, then declare ME at fault for not checking the schedule! The one and only time I've been fired, and I'm STILL salty twenty five years later. Lol.

    Angie Falzarano
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was 19 and graduated hs and was living with my boyfriend and I started working at a pizza place (small pizza joint not a big name place 1980). My boss asked me out and I said no. He knew I was living with somebody. So he changed the schedule so the day I was suppose to be off he changed it so that I was suppose to work. No phone call no nothing. I show up my next shift and got fired for no call no show. Texas is a hire at will state and I was too naive to know I should have taken it to the employment office and reported him. But unfortunately even if I had it would have been my word against his. I had no witness to him asking me out and cell phones were not around so I couldn't have take a pic.

    CM Kar
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    R, why shouldn't she be bothered by it? Bosses couldn't pull that mess today as it's sexual harassment and if found out they'd get fired, and possibly fined or charged.

    Load More Replies...
    Sherrie H
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My husband died recently leaving our 16 year old daughter devastated. She had been working her very first job in fast food for about three months. The manager was kind and told her to take as much time as she needed and call when she was ready to come back to work. A week later, same mgr. called and griped her out for no-show. Told her she should've checked the schedule. My daughter was too sad to even talk about it. Needless to say, she never went back.

    CM Kar
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So sorry for your loss and I'm glad your daughter never went back. Sounds like a crummy manager and sorry she went through that.

    Load More Replies...
    Scott Rackley
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is not a hard one...if you're willing to get ballsy. Ask HR for a copy of the availibility form you filled out and a copy of the schedule. Ask HR for a meeting with scheduling manager and a rep from HR. Something like, "I believe (scheduling manager) was not given all the information needed to make a schedule that reflected the availability of all associates." Show the information to both. "Going forward, I'm sure this information will help (scheduling manager) craft a more reliable schedule." You are not asking, you are informing.

    Carina Mone
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I did exactly this when I worked for Longhorn as a line cook. I was part time at the end of my employment with them because I was in college full time. Different manager on a power trip (and she didn't like me) took over kitchen manager duties. She pulled me into the office one day and told me she was moving me to full time open availability. I told her I was in college full time and could only work weekends because of that. She told me she could do whatever she wanted with my schedule and there was nothing I could do about it. I went to the GM, requested a copy of my availability and called corporate (that's Darden Inc). Corporate backed the MANAGER. They said that "availability is only a suggestion, that I could be scheduled at will and I would either comply or quit". So I put in my notice. The witch of a manager tried every day of my notice that I worked to provoke a verbal altercation with me as an excuse to fire me, but it didn't work. I now have a far better job in a medical lab.

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