Woman Gets Suspicious And Texts Husband’s Best Friend Pretending To Be Him, She Falls Right Into Her Trap
Intuition is an interesting thing. You can try to ignore your gut telling you that something is off, but completely disregarding its warnings is often impossible.
So when Reddit user -Calm-Palpitation- overheard her husband’s female best friend bragging to other people that she had him wrapped around her finger, the woman couldn’t shake the feeling that it was more than just a bitter ego trip.
And, as she explained in her post on the subreddit ‘AITAH,’ there was.
A wedding is supposed to bring the couple a happily ever after
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But instead of looking to the future with her partner, this woman began digging into his past
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Snooping through your partner’s phone is quite common
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According to a survey of over 13,000 Americans by Avast, an antivirus software company, 1 in 4 women and 1 in 5 men admit to secretly checking their partner’s phone.
The survey found that while the majority of women do that because they are just nosy, a quarter of married women, just like the author of this post, suspect their spouse is cheating on them and want to find evidence.
“It is an invasion of privacy and property,” therapist Shannon Chavez said. “To check a phone without consent shows that there is a communication breakdown. Looking for something on your partner’s phone without permission immediately breaks trust to fulfill your own needs. It leads to suspicions and assumptions that trigger insecurities and upset.”
However, according to the aforementioned research, seven out of ten women who turn to their partner’s device to find proof their partner is deceiving them have found it.
Another survey of 1,000 Americans between the ages of fifteen and fifty-five regarding relationships, phones, and trust found that 48% of women and 31% of men think snooping is fine, and that 68% of people who did it do not regret their decision.
But Chavez thinks “the problem is that checking a partner’s phone has become easier than being vulnerable and sharing how you are feeling and why you feel compelled to check the phone.”
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As the woman’s story went viral, people suggested all sorts of avenues she could take
Eventually, she did find a way to investigate her husband further
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Update: Hi! This is my update: he is cheating. I went through his deleted messages but it was empty so he has been deleting the deleted messages as well. I don’t know if there’s further steps to find them? I don’t know. I sent her “wyd” because this is how he texts when he is bored. She said she was in bed I said I (he) was in bed too watching succession. She asked if I was sleeping. Then it didn’t take long before she started sexting. In a way that made it obvious that they’ve done it multiple times. I ended it quickly because honestly I felt nauseous. I didn’t want to sext her. I sent myself all the evidence. Tomorrow I will be moving back to my parents place and start the divorce. I will not tell him why
Once you've reached the point of feeling the need to "snoop" and all the emotions tied to it, the relationship is at its end. Either you snoop and confirm your suspicion and the relationship is over, or you snoop and find nothing, turning you into the red-flag,obsessed, member of this now toxic relationship, and it's over. My wife is always free to look through my phone, we are 2 separate individuals who share a strong love for one another. This means there is always trust and it must work both ways equally. The moment you recognize there is an imbalance of trust, the relationship will fail. Unfortunately it requires that both of you are adults capable of being genuine about who you are
This only works when both are behaving in a manner consistent with being trustworthy and not showing any signs of duplicity ... guiltless behavior need not be suspected ...
Load More Replies...Update: Hi! This is my update: he is cheating. I went through his deleted messages but it was empty so he has been deleting the deleted messages as well. I don’t know if there’s further steps to find them? I don’t know. I sent her “wyd” because this is how he texts when he is bored. She said she was in bed I said I (he) was in bed too watching succession. She asked if I was sleeping. Then it didn’t take long before she started sexting. In a way that made it obvious that they’ve done it multiple times. I ended it quickly because honestly I felt nauseous. I didn’t want to sext her. I sent myself all the evidence. Tomorrow I will be moving back to my parents place and start the divorce. I will not tell him why
Once you've reached the point of feeling the need to "snoop" and all the emotions tied to it, the relationship is at its end. Either you snoop and confirm your suspicion and the relationship is over, or you snoop and find nothing, turning you into the red-flag,obsessed, member of this now toxic relationship, and it's over. My wife is always free to look through my phone, we are 2 separate individuals who share a strong love for one another. This means there is always trust and it must work both ways equally. The moment you recognize there is an imbalance of trust, the relationship will fail. Unfortunately it requires that both of you are adults capable of being genuine about who you are
This only works when both are behaving in a manner consistent with being trustworthy and not showing any signs of duplicity ... guiltless behavior need not be suspected ...
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