30 Instances Of Single Moms Facing Online Backlash For Their Delusional Demands (New Pics)
InterviewBeing a parent is one of the hardest jobs in the world. That’s why it’s crucial for moms and dads to have support systems they can rely on and friends they can share their experiences with. But there’s a big difference between finding a community of like-minded parents online to bond with and begging for handouts from others who can barely support their own families.
Below, we’ve gathered some of the most entitled posts from parents online that have been shared in the Single Mom Is Not a Coupon Code Facebook group. From asking for free furniture to fancy presents for their kiddos, enjoy scrolling through these posts, and keep reading to find a conversation with Mathieu Mall, one of the group's administrators!
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Her Kids Have Dirty Clothes? She Doesn't Have A Sink?
Or a laundromat? Heck, or washing clothes in a sink, a bathtub, or a bucket, if she’s that desperate. My mom handwashed our clothes in a bucket with a washboard and hung them to dry during one of the rougher patches of my childhood.
The Facebook group Single Mom Is Not a Coupon Code has only been around since June 2022, yet it has already amassed over 105k members. It’s quite an active community as well, as there have been 15 new posts today, and 250 new members have joined in the past week. And while you might be thinking that this group is harmful to single parents, as it does shame some, it doesn’t call out anyone who didn’t already make unreasonable requests online.
The group also requires that anyone mentioned in a post must be kept anonymous, so nobody can be doxed or harassed online. From asking for car insurance payments to demanding that others help them put food on the table, there is no end to what parents will ask for online. And while community aid can be a powerful tool for those in need, it’s important to go about asking for help the right way. If you just bought a new car, and now you’re complaining about not being able to feed your kiddos, your priorities might not be in the right order.
A ‘Please’ And ‘Thank You’ Would Be Nice…
Also, she wants leather? She probably should get one made of marine upholstery that’s been Scotchguarded and then wrapped in plastic, if she’s got 3 kids. XD
To learn more about this group and how it started in the first place, we got in touch with Admin Mathieu Mall, who was kind enough to have a chat with Bored Panda.
"This group comes from a joke between colleagues at work," he shared. "A female colleague who had become single started to ask us for more and more expensive services, like repairing parts of her car or giving her our old freezer, etc. The group was just a 'joke' between us, but as time went by, I saw that it was common on social networks to make similar requests."
Is that all I need to do to be able to ignore parking laws? Just write a note....got it. Oh wait! You mean you'll still ticket me? But I wrote a nice little note...../s
Mathieu added that he doesn't often see this behavior in France, but he's noticed these kinds of posts becoming more and more common online. And because there are so many funny posts being shared in the group, he has a hard time choosing a favorite.
But the administrator did want to make it clear that he has mixed feelings about the group, noting that he understands where these parents are coming from. "I don't hate single women or those who call for help on the internet," he told Bored Panda. "I think it's a desperate act motivated by a real need: to survive. I'm no one to advise people on how they should lead their lives, or how to survive it. I think in their place I'd do the same if it really worked," he admitted.
Mathieu went on to note that although there's a funny side to this group, there's also a dark side to it that he takes very seriously. "It's a breeding ground for racists and people with various problems," he noted. "The consequences are often nasty, such as extreme stalking which has even led to someone losing their job. And it often happens that this kind of behavior is reported to me, or the harassment of a single person recognized via their post. I never tolerate this kind of behavior, and it's banned directly."
I Finally Found One In The Wild
"By the way, this group would be nothing without the wonderful co-admin: Cayla Hrycyschyn," Mathieu added. "Yes, the group is mainly run by a single woman! She's the one who administers almost everything and keeps the group alive. Thanks Cayla!"
She's Not Begging But Seriously, How On Earth Does She Think This Makes Sense?? I'm Waiting For The Replies To Roll In
You need a time machine to go back and not spend so much on a party
According to the Pew Research Center, the United States has the highest rate of kids living in single-parent households in the world. Nearly a quarter of kids in the US live with only one parent, while globally, only about 7% of children do. After the US, the UK, São Tomé and Príncipe, Russia and Denmark have the next highest rates of single-parent households, Finances Online reports.
And the vast majority of single parents who live with their kiddos are mothers. In the United States, there are nearly 15 million single moms taking care of their families, while there are only 6.5 million single fathers taking care of their kiddos. In fact, women between the ages of 35 to 39 have a 9% chance of being a single parent in the US, while men only have a 2% chance of being single parents.
Continuing The “Bringing It Up For No Reason Because It’s Automatic” Theme
Unnecessarily snarky on this one, I think. Single min gives context a to why she might be clueless/stressed out, probably doesn't have a lot of time.
So... her baby was born at 6 months gestation and that put her into a coma for several months and she woke up paralyzed from the waist down and can't work? I'm sorry to be so cynical, but who was caring for her older child during this time? How were any of the NICU/medical bills being handled? If all these things happened, maybe her 9-year-old doesn't need a PS4 and she should use that $70 towards necessities.
Posted In My Town's Buy Nothing Page. She's All Kinds Of Salty With Anybody Questioning Her. I'd Like A 50 In TV And A Ps4 Too Please!
There’s no question that single parents face additional challenges that married or coupled moms and dads don’t have to worry about. According to Finances Online, 60% of poor children in the United States live in households with single moms. In fact, nearly a third of kids who live in families with unwed moms are in poverty, while only 15% of families with single dads are in the same boat. Single parents spend an average of 34% of their income on childcare in the US, while most families only need to spend around 10% of their income on childcare.
Single mom....... pregnant with twins........ 7 other kids. I... I just can't. I'm literally speechless.
"Hi. I Need You To Take Care Of My Kids All The Time Without Expecting To Be Compensated Much For Your Time, Oh, And That Time Starts At 4 Or 5 In The Morning"
Being a single parent can make it much more difficult to work 40 hours a week, to have time to prepare healthy meals for the family, to spend quality time with your little ones and to be able to ever relax and unwind by yourself. Growing up poor can also have a huge impact on children’s well being, and they might have experienced trauma through watching their parents divorce or losing a beloved parent from their life. Whether a parent passed away, left by choice, was arrested, etc., their absence can have a huge impact on their children.
“I’m not asking for MONEY, I just want someone to bless my Apple Pay.”
She Is Failing Them
I swear if people got so mad about politicians and preachers asking for money, as they do about moms asking for help...we might make some important progress
This Just Happened To Me Today. She Contacted Me On My Business Page, Inquiring About One Of My Valentines Day Treat Boxes. Why Is It That Every Begging Single Mom Always Has Every Single Form Of Payment
This totally gives me the "Im poor and in need of food and a rolex" vibe
Because single parents and children of single-parent households face so much adversity, the Annie E. Casey Foundation is dedicated to providing resources to make their lives easier. This foundation is focused on strengthening financial safety net programs and providing affordable housing for families, ensuring that education is affordable and accessible for all children, maximizing two-generation community development strategies to help kids and their future families, offering support for kids and families who have experienced trauma and supporting the needs of young parents.
We Ate Whatever My Mother Put In Front Of Us Or We Didn't Eat. Young Mr Nuggie May Have To Adjust His Palate
"Cabana For The Deck"
Had To Throw It In At The End For Absolutely No Reason
If she was driving around her regular car and didn't have her actual driver's license on her, boy is she lucky she didn't get pulled over by the police for any reason at all. That's a dumb risk to take.
According to Marriage.com, some of the biggest hurdles single parents face are loneliness, navigating disciplining their children, dealing with low self-esteem, feeling a sense of guilt and navigating the financial burden of raising kids alone. But thankfully, there are a few solutions that can make parents’ lives slightly easier. When it comes to dealing with loneliness, Marriage.com recommends replacing negative thoughts with positive thinking.
“Redirect your energy to more productive activities. If you are in the custody of the children, then spend time with them. Remember, they look up to you for their emotional needs,” they note. “Similarly, the partner with no children must go the extra mile to socialize and engage in community activities to pass the time rather than wallow in pity.”
I Finally Found One, Lol
So... breast implants/tummy tuck for Mommy is more important than providing for her kid(s)? Plastic surgery is serious, actual SURGERY (my mom has had many many procedures done) that requires weeks of recovery time. How is she going to care for/provide for her kids while recovering?
No Please, No Thank You And You Have To Deliver. Can't Even Provide Her Own Toilet Paper?
Just as a point of reference, the cheapest 2015 Honda Odyssey I see on KBB in my area is $13,000 XD
When it comes to disciplining kids as a single parent, Marriage.com recommends regularly touching base with the other parent, if they’re still in the picture, to ensure that you both instill the same rules in your kids. If you’re the only parent around, it might be wise to reach out to close friends or family members who can help ensure that your rules and morals are understood by your kiddos. If you’re struggling with low self-esteem, don’t be afraid to reach out to parents in similar situations or a therapist who can help you build confidence.
Your problem with healthcare as I see it, is you live in the US. Meanwhile in the UK - operation is free. Oh, the other problem is that you have a credit card you've maxed out. Credit cards aren't a necessity. Millions live quite adequately with just a debit card and a small thing called "being a financially responsible adult". You should try it some time.
Always Anonymous Which Makes It Hard To Trust
When I Tried To Go To Comments Or See How Many Laugh Reacts Nothing Would Come Up. The Area She Is Asking In Are Retired People And People With Very Little Money
Again, how dare someone struggling and overwhelmed by responsibility, ask for help. I do hope she at least found someone willing to help her transportation issues. Funny how there's no single dad's page making fun of the parent...gotta be American as I am.
If you’re struggling with guilt as a single parent, remember that this is not productive. Do not blame yourself for the situation you’re in, and remember that you have to be there for your kiddos. You’re doing the best you can, and there’s no such thing as a perfect parent, anyway.
And when it comes to the financial burden of raising kids, don’t be afraid to explain to your little ones that money is tight. But assure them that you’re all safe and that they have nothing to worry about. Making ends meet will take some extra sacrifices as a single parent, but it will be worth it to raise happy, healthy children who always know they’re loved.
You Don’t Need Coffee, You Don’t Need Chips. Why Do The Broke Ones Always Have Baby Animals. Always Got Kittens N Puppies. Stop It
If you have pets or children, sometimes you go hungry so that the vulnerable, helpless living beings that YOU are responsible for do not go hungry. Coffee is absolutely unnecessary.
Literally, What Was The Need To Even Mention The Relationship Status Or Mobility??
Mobility: she may not be able to pick it up. Single: don't tell her to have her husband put it up. The picture: annoys me. Shouldn't matter what she looks like.
I Can't
This is just wild- inviting total strangers including spouses and kids to a baby shower solely to obtain gifts. Honestly, I'd respect the "I'm a single mom, please help" approach more than this entitled mess.
Whether you’re a single parent or not, we sincerely hope that you have everything you need to take care of your family, pandas. But if you don’t, we hope you know there are better ways to get what you need than by simply posting on Facebook. Keep upvoting the pics you find particularly entitled, and if you’d like to check out even more photos like this, you can find Bored Panda’s last article featuring Single Mom Is Not a Coupon Code right here!
So Bc She Hurt Her Ankle She Can’t Afford To Pay Anyone?
The money apps are a bit much but it's not written in a way that screams entitled or demanding. It's not like she's demanding money for her Amazon wish list or to get her nails done.
I'm sorry but this doesn't seem "entitled", either. She's asking for someone she knows, nobody is asking for money or listing their cash app/ venmo. Asking for a used appliance when you cannot afford one isn't entitled. Demanding a 2k Samsung washer with wifi or money to buy one is entitled.
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Dear god, what next? “67 times homeless people were rude to passers-by”? I’m not saying it’s fun to deal with this, but it’s even less fun to be in their shoes, so tell them to knock it off without seeking validation from the whole internet.
exactly. If Bored Panda did a piece on "cats, let's shoot them" the rage would be real. it takes a village, people.
Load More Replies...There is a difference between asking and demanding. The last one fits the term "entitled". The first does not. And then there's also begging. While you could say, begging is "dirty" - sometimes it's needed because do YOU approach a person and giving them money, food, clothing when they don't ask? No, because sometimes you can't see on the outside what they need. If you need something, you can ask. If you want something, you can ask. Can you ask for non-essential stuff? Ofcourse! Poor people want to LIVE, not just survive. Most of these were just shaming a person for using the term "single mom" - most were people asking for things, not demanding. A few were rude, mostly the sob stories in private messages. But come on. So many of these were not sob stories but just giving more info.
some of these are horrible and entitled, but there are a few that are genuinely polite, offer to pay, etc. and in that case adding you are a single mom just adds a bit of context (like being stuck with child care and currently short of a hunky male to carry a washing machine) I do judge people with 7 kid however, that's unnecessary.
Dear god, what next? “67 times homeless people were rude to passers-by”? I’m not saying it’s fun to deal with this, but it’s even less fun to be in their shoes, so tell them to knock it off without seeking validation from the whole internet.
exactly. If Bored Panda did a piece on "cats, let's shoot them" the rage would be real. it takes a village, people.
Load More Replies...There is a difference between asking and demanding. The last one fits the term "entitled". The first does not. And then there's also begging. While you could say, begging is "dirty" - sometimes it's needed because do YOU approach a person and giving them money, food, clothing when they don't ask? No, because sometimes you can't see on the outside what they need. If you need something, you can ask. If you want something, you can ask. Can you ask for non-essential stuff? Ofcourse! Poor people want to LIVE, not just survive. Most of these were just shaming a person for using the term "single mom" - most were people asking for things, not demanding. A few were rude, mostly the sob stories in private messages. But come on. So many of these were not sob stories but just giving more info.
some of these are horrible and entitled, but there are a few that are genuinely polite, offer to pay, etc. and in that case adding you are a single mom just adds a bit of context (like being stuck with child care and currently short of a hunky male to carry a washing machine) I do judge people with 7 kid however, that's unnecessary.