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Woman Is Suspicious Of How Close SIL Is To Her Brother, Finally Learns The Truth
Sibling relationships can be complicated at the best of times. Some get along really well. Others not so much. Then there are those that are obsessed with their brother or sister. And we’re not talking about a healthy obsession where the person admires or looks up to their sibling…
She always suspected something was up. From the time her husband’s sister asked him to share a bed while they were on vacation, to when the SIL accused her of ‘grooming’ her husband. But things came to a head recently, when the woman and her partner announced their pregnancy. The sister-in-law had a literal mental breakdown and an ambulance had to be called.
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His sister has always been very “territorial” of him and can’t handle the fact that he’s married
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Her unhealthy obsession landed her in the hospital after she had a mental breakdown upon the news that his wife was pregnant
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In an update, she revealed that other family members had also suspected something dodgy
The woman later provided a lot more context about the SIL’s mental health struggles
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How bipolar disorder can wreak havoc on relationships
Bipolar disorder is a mental health condition that can cause major mood fluctuations. It can also interfere with the person’s energy levels, thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, and spill over into their personal relationships.
Someone with bipolar might be very different from one day to the next, and this is due to the different episodes they go through.
During a manic episode, someone who isn’t getting effective treatment may become irritable. This could lead to a lot of disagreements with family, friends or even strangers. They could also engage in potentially harmful behavior like binge drinking, gambling, or overspending.
When someone is having a major depressive episode, they may communicate less, be tearful or sad, and lose interest in things they previously enjoyed. They might also show signs of feeling hopeless and pessimistic.
Then there are mixed episodes. “Sometimes, a person may have symptoms of mania or hypomania and depression at the same time,” explains verywellhealth.com. “This may be confusing or stressful for their partner, who may not know what kind of reaction to expect.”
Those with bipolar can also go through something called rapid cycling. This is when they experience at least four or more episodes of mania, hypomania, and depression within a single year.
It’s important to note that there are different types of bipolar disorder. The first is bipolar I. This is when someone experiences at least one episode of mania or elevated mood for at least one week. Typically, they’ll also experience depression for at least two weeks.
Those with bipolar II have had at least one major depressive episode and at least one hypomanic episode, which is a less intense form of mania.
There’s also something known as cyclothymic disorder. “This is a milder form of bipolar disorder involving many ‘mood swings.’ It is diagnosed when symptoms of depression and hypomania persist for at least two years but do not meet the criteria for a diagnosis of bipolar I or bipolar II,” the site reads.
Living with someone who has bipolar can be challenging — here’s how to cope
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Experts warn that it’s important to take care of your own well-being if you have a family member, partner or close friend with bipolar disorder.
Self-care and coping skills are crucial. Make time to exercise, eat healthy, sleep well, and spend time with friends and family to help manage stress and keep your own mental health in check.
Boundaries are also important. Set boundaries with the person by letting them know what’s acceptable and what isn’t. For example, you won’t tolerate mistreatment (words or actions) and you won’t participate in unhealthy behaviors. Don’t forget to spell out consequences should a boundary be overstepped.
“Be gentle and compassionate toward yourself. Negative self-talk and blaming yourself are harmful to your self-esteem and mental health. Self-compassion has been shown to improve well-being,” adds verywellhealth.com.
The site notes that recurrent or extreme changes in mood can have a significant impact on those living with people who have bipolar disorder. The unpredictability can cause quite a lot of distress.
“Research indicates divorce rates are higher in couples in which one partner has the condition,” reveals the site.
Always remember you can seek professional help if things get too much. Reach out to a therapist or join a support group.
“Are you attracted to your brother?”: a full-on confrontation followed
In a final update, the woman revealed that an ambulance had to be called
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Many people took the wife’s side and felt she was justified
But some felt she handled the situation horrendously
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emlab kerba 8 hours ago
what is this 'Trend" about bridesmaids giving boudoir photos to the groom at the reception???
Miki 6 hours ago
I couldn't understand if these are a pictures of a bride or bridesmaids 😅
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LakotaWolf (she/her) 5 hours ago
I generally read these posts as "entertaining fiction" and just read them for the amusement value without inherently believing they're real/true or getting emotionally invested in them, but I have to admit that this one made my entire brain hurt, even reading it as "fiction" XD
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Spencer's slave no longer 8 hours ago
I'm still trying to wrap my head around the YTA comments. I suspect there "maybe" some projection from OP's SIL but the woman is unhinged, and yes I know that's not PC, but she has the potential to be dangerous, especially to the expected baby. I understand MIL needing to protect her daughter but she's made excuses for the behaviours. FIL seems to want it addressed by being blunt, and I 100% agree with his view, if not his approach. The man is hurting for all of them, but his support of his son and DIL speaks volumes about his integrity. I sincerely hope OP, her husband and future child stay safe, and are protected by their extended families.
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TACO Don's Authentic TexMex 49 minutes ago
Yep, same thing I was thinking
Load More Replies... DH 7 hours ago
She is obviously mentally unwell and needs help. Shouting at a mentally unstable person is not helpful but understandable. Hopefully she is now getting help. She needs years and years of therapy.
KatSaidThat 6 hours ago (edited)
I wanted to say what in the alabama fuq did I just read but bipolar is so hard to treat that a lot of private psychs in London hesitate to take those patients on. Source, a private psych in London. Hopefully she will get the treatment she needs but it's going to take a long time for this family to heal. ETA, I'm not a psych but had a conversation with one about it.
Motivated sloth 2 hours ago
I’m worried about the reading comprehension skills of Fast-Technician-375. They misinterpreted just about every single part of this post and they were just dead wrong about everything as well. That being said, this girl has obviously had an unhealthy obsession with her brother from AT LEAST the age of 14. It’s unfortunate that it took so many years and her brothers marriage for her to get help.
Emilu 11 minutes ago
Wuff. That escalated. There is a difference between mental health issues and incest. In the case of the latter, I'm a weirdo that would say that if both parties are consenting adults and nobody else is getting hurt, have at it -- you know the risks and only you can decide if those risks are worth it (just please, y'know, no kids). But in cases like here where the husband obviously does *not* feel the same way, something needs to be done.
Lara Verne 1 hour ago
Hard to believe story.....anyway, neither depression nor bipolar disorder makes you develop unhealthy attachment to your sibling, Sil has worse problem than that. A few months in a psychiatric hospital would help her.
Nads 1 hour ago
I doubt that. Psychiatric hospitals are prisons, nobody gets real care at those places. I’m with Foucault on this issue.
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LakotaWolf (she/her) 5 hours ago
Sure, the words exist. And it's no longer "okay" to label people with them now that we have a greater understanding of mental illness and mental health. They are considered slurs and insults now. You can express your opinion on Sister's mental health state without using insults and slurs.
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emlab kerba 8 hours ago
what is this 'Trend" about bridesmaids giving boudoir photos to the groom at the reception???
Miki 6 hours ago
I couldn't understand if these are a pictures of a bride or bridesmaids 😅
Load More Replies... LakotaWolf (she/her) 5 hours ago
I generally read these posts as "entertaining fiction" and just read them for the amusement value without inherently believing they're real/true or getting emotionally invested in them, but I have to admit that this one made my entire brain hurt, even reading it as "fiction" XD
Load More Replies... Spencer's slave no longer 8 hours ago
I'm still trying to wrap my head around the YTA comments. I suspect there "maybe" some projection from OP's SIL but the woman is unhinged, and yes I know that's not PC, but she has the potential to be dangerous, especially to the expected baby. I understand MIL needing to protect her daughter but she's made excuses for the behaviours. FIL seems to want it addressed by being blunt, and I 100% agree with his view, if not his approach. The man is hurting for all of them, but his support of his son and DIL speaks volumes about his integrity. I sincerely hope OP, her husband and future child stay safe, and are protected by their extended families.
Load More Replies... TACO Don's Authentic TexMex 49 minutes ago
Yep, same thing I was thinking
Load More Replies... DH 7 hours ago
She is obviously mentally unwell and needs help. Shouting at a mentally unstable person is not helpful but understandable. Hopefully she is now getting help. She needs years and years of therapy.
KatSaidThat 6 hours ago (edited)
I wanted to say what in the alabama fuq did I just read but bipolar is so hard to treat that a lot of private psychs in London hesitate to take those patients on. Source, a private psych in London. Hopefully she will get the treatment she needs but it's going to take a long time for this family to heal. ETA, I'm not a psych but had a conversation with one about it.
Motivated sloth 2 hours ago
I’m worried about the reading comprehension skills of Fast-Technician-375. They misinterpreted just about every single part of this post and they were just dead wrong about everything as well. That being said, this girl has obviously had an unhealthy obsession with her brother from AT LEAST the age of 14. It’s unfortunate that it took so many years and her brothers marriage for her to get help.
Emilu 11 minutes ago
Wuff. That escalated. There is a difference between mental health issues and incest. In the case of the latter, I'm a weirdo that would say that if both parties are consenting adults and nobody else is getting hurt, have at it -- you know the risks and only you can decide if those risks are worth it (just please, y'know, no kids). But in cases like here where the husband obviously does *not* feel the same way, something needs to be done.
Lara Verne 1 hour ago
Hard to believe story.....anyway, neither depression nor bipolar disorder makes you develop unhealthy attachment to your sibling, Sil has worse problem than that. A few months in a psychiatric hospital would help her.
Nads 1 hour ago
I doubt that. Psychiatric hospitals are prisons, nobody gets real care at those places. I’m with Foucault on this issue.
Load More Replies... LakotaWolf (she/her) 5 hours ago
Sure, the words exist. And it's no longer "okay" to label people with them now that we have a greater understanding of mental illness and mental health. They are considered slurs and insults now. You can express your opinion on Sister's mental health state without using insults and slurs.
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