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Signs He’s Not In Love, You’re Just Convenient.
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Some men jump into relationships for different reasons. For some being in a relationship gives them the convenience of having someone by their side because they hate being alone. It gives them access to having someone they don’t have to worry about impressing. If he does any of the following you are more than likely just a placeholder in his life.
1. He TEXTS, BUT NEVER CALLS.
Texting has seem to have replaced a genuine phone call. While texting is all well and good it will never replace the importance of having them hear your voice on the other end. It is more personal and shows effort in communication.
2. HE IS ALWAYS BUSY.
Let’s be honest nobody is that busy that they can’t make time for the person they claim to love. If he is always too busy for you, then he is not that into you.
3. HE NEVER SPEAKS OF FUTURE PLANS.
When a man confesses his love for his woman everything he does or wants to do will always include his lady. If he’s always talking about “I” and not “We” he doesn’t see anything past what he has with you at the moment.
4. HE STILL TALKS TO HIS EX-GIRLFRIEND.
There is nothing more disrespectful in a relationship than a man who chooses to still keep communication with an ex. Unless there is a child involved there is no reason why a man should still be talking to an ex. Not only is it disrespectful but it makes your woman feel like she is in competition with someone who should no longer be in the picture.
5. HE DOESN’T TAKE THE TIME TO GET TO KNOW YOU.
When it comes down to it, he never seems interested in getting to know more about you. It is always about him, and what he likes and doesn’t like. He doesn’t take the time to ask you anything.
6. HE NEVER PLANS DATES.
You always find yourself making plans to go out on a date, whether it’s the movies, or dinner, etc…When a man really loves his woman he makes it a priority to date her and surprise her from time to time with a night out.
7. HE ALWAYS SEEMS TO CANCEL PLANS WITH YOU.
He is inconsiderate of your feelings and doesn’t put much thought into what you had to reschedule just to make time to be with him.
8. HE MAKES BEING AROUND HIM FEEL UNEASY.
Your man should never make you feel uncomfortable being around him. Being around him should feel comforting and safe.
9. YOU DON’T KNOW ANY OF HIS FRIENDS OR FAMILY.
You may have seen them on his social media, but he has never introduced you to any of them. Men love to show off their lady specially to those closest to him.
10. HE NEVER OPENS UP.
You are always left assuming because he won’t open up and talk about anything. Every time you ask a question he leaves you wondering
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Some men jump into relationships for different reasons. For some being in a relationship gives them the convenience of having someone by their side because they hate being alone. It gives them access to having someone they don’t have to worry about impressing. If he does any of the following you are more than likely just a placeholder in his life.
1. He TEXTS, BUT NEVER CALLS.
Texting has seem to have replaced a genuine phone call. While texting is all well and good it will never replace the importance of having them hear your voice on the other end. It is more personal and shows effort in communication.
2. HE IS ALWAYS BUSY.
Let’s be honest nobody is that busy that they can’t make time for the person they claim to love. If he is always too busy for you, then he is not that into you.
3. HE NEVER SPEAKS OF FUTURE PLANS.
When a man confesses his love for his woman everything he does or wants to do will always include his lady. If he’s always talking about “I” and not “We” he doesn’t see anything past what he has with you at the moment.
4. HE STILL TALKS TO HIS EX-GIRLFRIEND.
There is nothing more disrespectful in a relationship than a man who chooses to still keep communication with an ex. Unless there is a child involved there is no reason why a man should still be talking to an ex. Not only is it disrespectful but it makes your woman feel like she is in competition with someone who should no longer be in the picture.
5. HE DOESN’T TAKE THE TIME TO GET TO KNOW YOU.
When it comes down to it, he never seems interested in getting to know more about you. It is always about him, and what he likes and doesn’t like. He doesn’t take the time to ask you anything.
6. HE NEVER PLANS DATES.
You always find yourself making plans to go out on a date, whether it’s the movies, or dinner, etc…When a man really loves his woman he makes it a priority to date her and surprise her from time to time with a night out.
7. HE ALWAYS SEEMS TO CANCEL PLANS WITH YOU.
He is inconsiderate of your feelings and doesn’t put much thought into what you had to reschedule just to make time to be with him.
8. HE MAKES BEING AROUND HIM FEEL UNEASY.
Your man should never make you feel uncomfortable being around him. Being around him should feel comforting and safe.
9. YOU DON’T KNOW ANY OF HIS FRIENDS OR FAMILY.
You may have seen them on his social media, but he has never introduced you to any of them. Men love to show off their lady specially to those closest to him.
10. HE NEVER OPENS UP.
You are always left assuming because he won’t open up and talk about anything. Every time you ask a question he leaves you wondering
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Ruthanne Schmeltzer 9 years ago
First of all IM friends with MOST OF MY EXES! And their girls or wives! So that's a bunch of BULL S**T! The relationship is completely plutonic and we are more like family! Or should I say they have no family and my family adopted them! They became friends with my brother and so on! And I know if I ever needed them or they needed me we would be there for one another! But we don't talk everyday! And the last time we were together was YEARS ago! It's called being secure! And furthermore if a man DOES NOT HAVE a good relationship with his babies momma chance is you need to RUN BC then he is NOT going to have one with you either if things go south! TRUST AND BELIEVE ME! And if he doesn't get being friends with exes he isn't going to be secure enough for you to be friends with yours! You need to meet someone who is emotionally as secure as you or as emotionally needy as you or it's not going to work! The problem is when 2 pool are secure individuals is finding the balance to rely on both
Ruthanne Schmeltzer 9 years ago
First of all IM friends with MOST OF MY EXES! And their girls or wives! So that's a bunch of BULL S**T! The relationship is completely plutonic and we are more like family! Or should I say they have no family and my family adopted them! They became friends with my brother and so on! And I know if I ever needed them or they needed me we would be there for one another! But we don't talk everyday! And the last time we were together was YEARS ago! It's called being secure! And furthermore if a man DOES NOT HAVE a good relationship with his babies momma chance is you need to RUN BC then he is NOT going to have one with you either if things go south! TRUST AND BELIEVE ME! And if he doesn't get being friends with exes he isn't going to be secure enough for you to be friends with yours! You need to meet someone who is emotionally as secure as you or as emotionally needy as you or it's not going to work! The problem is when 2 pool are secure individuals is finding the balance to rely on both
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