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According to communication researcher and social scientist Elizabeth Dorrance Hall, attributions are thoughts we have about people that help us make sense of why others do the things they do.

There are two types of attributions we make about others' behavior:

When we make situational attributions, we believe their behavior is due to something in their situation. For instance, our coworker might have been short with us, because he is tired or overworked.

Personality attributions are more about a person's character. When we make these attributions, we believe the behavior is due to the person's personality. Assuming that the same coworker who was short with us is impatient or unkind is making a personality attribution.

Focusing on the latter, Reddit user u/booja87 posted a question to the platform: "What's something you secretly judge people about?" And people answered it. Here are some of the most interesting replies.

#1

Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) I think antivax people dumb AF

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Foxxy (The Original)
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And rightly so. I judge antivaxxers HARD.

Chris
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Me too. This post says "secretly judge"... I don't do it secretly. I do it loudly. These idiots should not be alllowed to let their dangerous batshit opinions spread.

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Deborah B
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They're in the same boat with young-earth-creationists and flat-earthers. You can't educate the willfully delusional.

Louloubelle
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I like that - willfully delusional. And plan on stealing it.

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Marcellus the Third
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Downvote, because there should be nothing silent about the judging.

Rukkia
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't secretly judge anti-vaxxers. I am very open about it.

Tad Smurgley
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Everyone knows anti-vaxxers are judged, so no secret.

Susan Maves
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also I think if they are stupid enough to believe one ridiculous theory-they believe all the others....flat earthers...Trump...white supremacy...etc

Confused koala
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Especially when they are vaccinated themself and their children are not they are protecting them self and not thier kid

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    #2

    Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) The way people treat animals. I'm an Indian I have seen my fair share of abuse of street dogs and other domestic animals. The way people care for their pets or in general any animal. If I have a pack of biscuits and I see a stray puppy that's looking at me, I'll always empty out the packet for it to eat. What I mean to say is, acts of compassion and kindness towards animals does tell a lot about the humanity of the person.

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    TJay
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I totally judge people by how they treat animals...animal abusers suck

    Lola
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never trust a person who doesn’t like animals.

    Mazer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I will drop whatever I am doing if somebody is abusing an animal or another human being I will risk my life for that creature

    Max
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Someone who treats animals poorly probably treats people poorly. It doesn't work the other way around though - some people who are nice to animals can be right d*cks to humans too.

    Vicky Z
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly! This is not only because it's a horrible behaviour in the first place but also because it's proved that it might lead to criminal behaviour against people too...

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    MagicalUnicorn
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this! the way people treats animals and staff says everything one needs to know

    I want cake
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You're right, but somehow putting both those groups in one sentence feels a bit off.

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    Renee Letkiewicz
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We aren't deserving of animals... that being said my cat is a goddess in my household!

    BlahBlahBlackSheepah
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not an animal person but i respect them. Still when i sawy cousins ex harshly shove her dog from sniffing the table i knew he was a pos immediately (i was right} people who hurt innocent creatures like animals and children are monsters. It's it's terrible to hurt any adult living thing too but there something extra sick about harming the most vulnerable Edit; i have had pets that i love very much, but most of the time i want 5 feet between me and an animal

    Yara Balabanova
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope that everyone condemning animal abuse realizes that food animals are also abused

    Ozacoter
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not if you buy meat from farmers who treat their animals well. But yeah lets pretend that people who disagree with your diet are all monsters.

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    SuperChicken
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have no patience and zero tolerance for animal abusers (or, any abusers for that matter). I find abusers one of the most detestable beings.

    Foxxy (Not Original)
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was at a graduation party of my cousin, and I was talking with this person that was a couple years younger than me (8-9), and I thought that she was great until her dog came out. All he wanted to do was sit on a blanket with us, but she hit him again and again. It really ruined any positive things about her.

    Derek Clark
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have hit her. No excuse. And take the dog with me. Who needs family.

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    #3

    Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) People who litter. Scum of the earth

    r0ll3rsk8 , John Cameron Report

    lunar eclipse
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wanna throw that garbage in their house so bad.

    Alastor the radio demon
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'll help I hate people let their s**t in my yard and leave I will throw that s**t at them if I'm mad enough

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    Brandi VanSteenwyk
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This falls along the lines of people who cause issues (like litter, dirty dishes, gross left-behinds etc) and walk away with the knowledge or assumption that SOMEONE ELSE will take care of it. Teaching the generations how unacceptable this practice is can help the world in MANY ways.

    BetweenTheCracks
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People move to my area because it's got a huge natural park. Guess what it's used for? Leaving loaded diapers behind, mostly. Stupid people reproduce and then trash the world their pwecious widdle puddin' has been brought into. How is that the least bit intelligent?

    William Teach
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not sure why you have to secretly judge. This should be open judging

    Vicky Z
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You know what? I'm always weighing the situation... sometimes you don't know how the other person will react and you might put yourself in danger! I've been attacked in the past for cursing a driver who almost ran over me passing a green light!!! He came out of the car ready to hit me! He didn't do it cause there were too many people around, but after that I hesitate a lot in these situations....

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    Renee Letkiewicz
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Especially the ignorant d***s who throw garbage out windows while they're driving!!!

    Elaine Everett-Klimas
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Here in Australia you can report these tossers to the police and they will receive a hefty fine and points on their license. Even better if you have dashcam!

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    Vicky Z
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also when you litter in front of cleaning staff because you feel they are your slaves you are worse than the garbage you just threw!!!

    Andrew Gibb
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Disgusting behaviour- shows complete contempt for the planet.

    Philly Bob Squires
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I live in the Pocono Mountains of PA (USA) and we are in the middle of 3 resorts. If I had a dime for every asshole I see tossing a bag of trash off the back of their trucks etc because they are too cheap to go to the dump and pay $1.00. Then the bag gets ripped open by animals and the crap flies all over the place. :( I'd love to put them in a bag and let the bears rip that one open!

    3004Hardly
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just don't know how to educate these people. How do we stop it?

    cassiushumanmother
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just use the "you forgot it!" or "it felt behind you" sentences while giving them their trash back when i see them, using my most genuine face and tone. Option1: they go red and take their trash back while thanking you because "they didn't saw it fell". Option2: they assume being idiots, go mad and they shame themselves in public. Both ways they are not really comfortable so my naive side want to believe that they would eventually stop if this happens several times.

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    #4

    Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) How they treat servers, waitstaff, or hotel clerks. Nothing irritates me more than grown-ass adults who think service professionals are somehow beneath them or that they're somehow indentured servants. And how they treat janitors/custodial staff, and whether people leave more of a mess than they should because 'it’s their job to clean up after [them]

    Linux4ever_Leo , Egor Gordeev Report

    BetterBitterButter
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This. I have seen people with very high educational qualifications misbehaving and treating cleaners, waiters, gatekeepers etc and treating them like they are not humans. No matter how much schooling such people have done they are not educated.

    Mrs. Jan Glass
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Why are you so nice to waiters/the barista/that cashier?" Because I worked food service and retail myself, and know that 95% of the people usually suck. You're shocked I treat them like human beings?

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    Renee Letkiewicz
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Server for 20 years... we'll never go back... mentally scarred me from all the s**t ppl threw at me... at time literally. People are horrible.

    Alexis Draskinis
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same here! Between that & the "fake niceness" folks. They're the ones who hug you on their way out, tell you everything was great, & STILL stiff you on a tip. So glad that being great made me pay out the kitchen staff so you could eat

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    Andi
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    best judgement of a person's true character is how they treat people they don't have to be nice to.

    Paul C.
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to play semi-pro football and after evening games we would often go for a Curry or Chinese meal. We had some guys who worked in well regarded professions, such as Lawyer, Solicitor, and a Managing Director of an Estate Agents. They without fail, used racially derogative terms for the waiting staff. It drove me mad, but they just laughed it off as banter, if challenged. My extended family have run Restaurants all my life, trust me, you really don't want to be rude to the person who is behind a closed door with your food!

    Catlady6000
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your last sentence. I always wondered at the thinking of these people, and they still eat and drink without even thinking they will be retaliated against

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    Mazer
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’ve given up a good friendship because of this. I will not stand for people abusing other people if you got something to say fine talk about it but demeaning people yeah I’m gonna be standing up for something like that

    TK 421
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Servers and clerks are the most interesting people anyone could ever know. They’ve met more people in a month than most would in a year. Most are just a blast if you give them a chance and just talk to them. My wife and I strategize our date nights and staycations to coincide with the shifts of our favorite people. It blows our minds to see them tolerate the jerks at the next table over. Tip for all of you out there who would like to put a stop to their abuse. When you see or hear it, ask to see the manager and complain to the manager rather than taking on the jerks. Other tables will back you up and the problem children get thrown out and likely banned from coming back. Problem solved, servers are happy, and your server will thank you.

    I want cake
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to work as a cleaner and it was startling how differently I got treated as soon as I picked up the cleaning equipment. People would start to say hello, spot the mop or cleaning cloth and just stop short and turn away, like I was some kind of leper. Once I walked into a classroom and someone had knocked over a half full cup of cocoa on the windowsill and just left it. It cost me half an hour to clean it, it had dripped behind the radiator and soaked into the carpet, and I only had 2,5 hours to do the whole 2 floors.

    BetweenTheCracks
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sorry this happened to you. People are idiots.

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    AnnaBanana
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It tells me that person is massively insecure if they have to treat others they consider 'beneath them' poorly.

    Mrs. Jan Glass
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is the crux of it. The ones I knew who did turned out to be deeply insecure, pathetic people.

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    Philly Bob Squires
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everyone should spend at least 3 to 6 months in the hospitality / entertainment industry. Then they'd (maybe) know what it's like to have some asshole belittle you, make fun of you or just be outright demanding. Having worked in both (I was the entertainment manager for a resort / bar) I've gotten hit with it. You learn how to treat your people. They can make your experience way better or way worse!

    Mrs. Jan Glass
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ITA. Like how some countries have required military service or something. Everyone should have to deal with working to serve the public for at LEAST six months. During the holidays. In America, at least, you get to see really quickly how most of our country's promises and ideologies are complete b.s.

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    Lauren Caswell
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you treat your "lessers" poorly then that suggests a bad moral/empathy compass to me. You treat people and animals well regardless, because if you were them you would want the same. Kindness is social lubricant for the gears, and every little drop helps. Ppl who are only kind for a reason that benefits them, aren't really using kindness at all. Just faking it to gain whatever it is they seek.

    Louloubelle
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, just because you put lessers in quotes, does not make that okay. How about saying servers, or retail workers, depending on what they're doing for you? I get your message and agree with it, but I'd rethink the choice of that word.

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    #5

    Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) People who use their speakerphone for music or conversations in public places. I hate it

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    Marianne
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Rule #1: If the conversation is on speaker, it is allowed to join the conversation and ask for details.

    AzKhaleesi
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    omg same. I was stuck in a VERY long line once and had to hear a very loud conversation about how this lady was yelling at her kid because they ordered the wrong hair extensions. Although I learned what Remy hair was and what the different numbers meant. I also learned that her kids were too lazy to get on the app and make a return. OMG.

    Hermione
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like you learned a lot. Stuck in a line I don’t mind listening to someone’s personal conversation. Passes the time.

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    Anna McHugh
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ABSOLUTELY. If you need the speakerphone to hear the thing because you can't hear it up close to your ear, you need a hearing test. It's anti-social, embarrassing (for you), and possibly indicative of a problem.

    Dolevaal
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hatte these people who walk around with these big Bluetooth-boxes so that the whole street can hear their (almost always shitty) taste in music. Use. bloody. headphones.

    Tami
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A woman at my gym does this constantly, she's always watching videos and never uses headphones. I often shoot her dirty looks but she rarely looks away from her phone.

    Rannveig Ess
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's a shame the establishment doesn't TELL her to use headphones. I see this is so many places. You cant sit in a restaurant yelling at the top of your lungs. I'd report her and explain there are other gyms to go to, and you're not paying to be disturbed.

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    Susan Bosse
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I. Cannot. Stand. This. I wanna punch them in the throat.

    Carole Reid
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Too bad. I have hearing aids and my phone is on Bluetooth.

    Dorothy Cloud
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So, so irritating. Try to go grocery shopping a person had a conversation thru the whole store!!

    Kimberley Gayle Thomas
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can deal with people talking loud on their phones provided they're not being louder than they have to be. I can even deal with a baby crying. But I draw the line at assholes using Bluetooth to play their so-called music as they're a DJ for higher on a speaker as if it's the 1980s. I didn't like then, I don't like it now. The ones who don't wear earphones are the worst. Lately, I've been trying to hack into their Bluetooth so that I can play my music so that they'll understand how it feels. So far they've been password protected. Crap! Keep your business to yourself. I am tempted to ask someone about the conversation as they're talking if they're talking so loud I can hear them more than say 20ft away.

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    #6

    Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) Not wearing masks properly. My job the last year has involved making sure people wear masks properly. I don’t understand people who wear it but under their nose or chin. Like what is the point?

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    Hermien Greeff
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This should be higher. Someone with the mask under the nose irritates me even more than someone with no masks. Just do it right, it is so so easy. Or people with masks that are clearly too big or loose so they have to pull it back up every 5 seconds.

    Brian Bennett
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just imagine a Doctor who does this, and then whines to his patients that he was sick with Covid. I told him he damn well deserved to get it and asked how many people he exposed. He told me he was no longer my Doctor. I reported him to every possible agency in Canada and what was done as far as I know nothing really. The facility where he worked did not even notify patients that he had Covid. Frustrating as hell!

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    TK 421
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Florida, we came across a person who argued that we don’t have to wear masks anymore. My wife and I still do even after getting the vaccine. I just cheerfully say, “I really don’t think you want me to. I work in the infectious disease ward.” Then I try to touch as much of their stuff as possible and watch them break out the wipes and run away. It’s the simple things.

    lunar eclipse
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I actually like wearing masks. My country has very low cases now and some areas have lifted the mask mandate. I still wear it and everyone keeps asking me why.

    Bender Bending Rodríguez
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same with me. I am fully vaccinated and even though mask mandate has been lifted I still wear mask. Not going to take any chances plus I get less seasonal allergies when I have mask on so and most importantly I don't have to fake smile at people.

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    Trillian
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This! The pandemic has been going on for 16 months now. Like, are you too stupid or just being an a-hole? Either way, you shouldn't be out in public.

    Mrs. Jan Glass
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of my masks says, in silver glitter, "I'm Wearing This Because I'm Not an A**hole."

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    Marianne
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once met a man who wore his mask under his nose in a museum tour. When my husband asked him to readjust it, he had the audacity to answer: "Oh, it doesn''t matter. I never breathe through my nose anyway." Mhm, sure.

    cassiushumanmother
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Last time on the bus i discovered a new way to wear it, never seen it before. I was amazed by this gross man hability to be a "different" kind of idiot. He was wearing it under his nose and above his chin. Amazing origami skills! Imagine the time it took to fold it to only cover 2cm on his mouth instead of wearing it properly. I had mixed feelings, wanted to slap his naughty face hard with a mask elastic string, and wanted to praise his dedication being an new kind of "Richard".

    Random Panda
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had an experience like that a while back and the most irritating part is that in an empty bus the guy sat next to me. I got so annoyed I had to get up and move.

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    ChinmayGhule
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The point is that they don't give a f**k, until they see death in the face.

    Brazen
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I get what you're saying, but hear me out. I cannot wear a mask over my nose and my mouth because I get severe panic attacks and then can't breath at all. It sets off my asthma when I'm that panicked. And before you say it's just an excuse, it's not. Someone tried to kill me as a child by suffocating me to death. Nothing I have tried, including therapy, has been able to fix this for me. It's not always about being stubborn. I wish I was not this way.

    K Witmer
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I understand I have asthma and bad anxiety too. If I cough too much I have an asthma attack. However I like my mask bc it keeps out the allergens that make my breathing 100% worse. At least most places don't have a mask mandate anymore. You could try a cage under your mask. It props ur mask up so it doesn't touch your mouth or nose just your cheeks and the bridge of your nose. That new strain is spreading quickly

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    Vicky Z
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not wearing mask properly, approaching me for no reason, speaking out of the fiberglass, complaining about these measures, making fun of us who "believe what the media tell us". No no no no and NO!!! GO AWAY!

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    #7

    Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) Cheating. Apparently this is an unpopular opinion in the world now, but I have a severe fear of being cheated on. I think it’s horrible. So whenever I hear one of my friends talk/almost brag about cheating on their partner, I automatically lose a lot of respect for them.

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    Giovanna
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, honestly what kind of person brags about cheating on their partner?

    Dynein
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's not an unpopular opinion at all, it just seems like that to you because you socialize with the wrong people. I can't think of ANYONE I know who'd brag about cheating. Maybe some of them do cheat - who knows - but no-one would ever think about admitting this. Get new friends.

    Pam Wilson-Hallinan
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My ex bf did. Told me about all the women he cheated on and with!

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    Foxxy (The Original)
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am the same. I had a friend that cheated on her partner and I lost so much respect for her. Even though I know logically it had nothing to do with me and was none of my business. Still changed the way I saw her.

    Vicky Z
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It does change the way we see others! It's true! We have a personal ethics and we live and choose our friends according to that.... it's totally understandable to feel somehow "betrayed" because we feel that with our friends we share the same ethics!

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    AnnaBanana
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a guy cheat on me many years ago and it completely scarred me for years - my subsequent relationships were ruined by my paranoia for about 10 years after.

    Chaos&Roses
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My ex cheated with a married woman 16 years younger. The girl he hooked up with later was 5 years older than our grandaughter, still a teenage girl. Amazing what being a meth dealer gets you in sexual favours.

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    Dee gee
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Have the balls to end your relationship if you don't want to be committed to it. Cheating is a cowards move.

    Mrs. Jan Glass
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes. Especially since there are so many non-monogamous relationship and lifestyle options that weren't possible even ten years ago. Dude, don't get married, just stick to the tinder hookups for FWB.

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    Bobert Robertson
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always wonder how these people, themselves, would respond to being cheated on

    Pam Wilson-Hallinan
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The cheaters that get cheated on talk about the 'others' like dogs! They don't realize they are talking about themselves also. My ex bf was one of them!

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    Pervinca
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If people around you make you see this as an unpopular opinion, you should really think to change friends. One thing is wanting a bit more fun and remaining single or staying in a open or polyamourous relationship. That's totally fine. Another is consciusly cheating on your partner. Lack of respect, lack of discipline, cowardice, lack of values and lot of immaturity. You have to lose respect for someone like that

    AzKhaleesi
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    AMEN!!!! I can't stand cheaters. If you're not happy with your current SO , LEAVE.

    Simzabandz
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You know this should be higher up there!!!!!! DONT BE A CHEATER!! its funny how they all think they can sort their cheating problems by apologising to the person they cheated on!! funny how it is always a mistake! Like whole emotional endevours and even getting there is disrespect enough. You cheat, you dont lose my respect, but you automatically become disgusting!

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    #8

    Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) Not liking animals. It’s one thing not to want a pet — they’re a lot of time and money. But people who say, 'I don’t like animals' get a hard side-eye from me.

    Sad-Outside-7260 , PEXELS Report

    AnnaBanana
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't trust ANYONE who doesn't like animals. I get it that some people prefer not to be jumped on by dogs, or having a demanding cat want to jump in their lap, but to outright say you "hate" animals is a massive warning for me that there's something not right about that person.

    T.
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's a big difference in not liking and hating somthing..

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    Desiree McKinnon
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't trust a person who says they don't like animals., but I 💯 WILL trust ANY ANIMAL that doesn't like a human.

    Lauren Caswell
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Then you cannot trust my left hand Lol! Nah it was when I met my parents new cat, he's old and I didn't know he was jumpy and has bad vision, and I held out my left hand too quickly for him to sniff and scared him! He didn't trust it for months, I could only use my right hand to pet him when I visited. He trusts it now, almost 😆. But yes I do think animals are good at knowing the intentions/nature of people you are 100% right!

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    Maria Schneider
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't "like" animals. I ADORE them

    Bender Bending Rodríguez
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love animals but from far away. When animals are close it makes me nervous however if an animal comes to me for some pats I'll suck it up and give em pats but you won't see me running towards animal to touch them. In fact I will change my sides if I see one on a sidewalk. It doesn't mean I hate them, it's just I avoid touching them. I love animals I just can't force myself to actively go touch them.

    Carrie DeHaven
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Being wary of animals, especially if you haven't interacted with that type of animal much, is just a healthy sense of self preservation. That's different from disliking them.

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    Jew
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some ppl r scared of dogs and That's totally OK

    Ozacoter
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is different from disliking them.

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    Philly Bob Squires
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even though my cats are secretly judging me (and probably plotting to kill me with help from the dog!) I do love animals!

    Foxxy (The Original)
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't get it personally. How can you not like animals? In saying that though, I don't judge someone for it.

    Dorothy Parker
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd want to know more. Often these prejudices are learned from parents or siblings, or from a traumatic experience involving an animal.

    Erjenn Rejano
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If I didn't have allergies, I would have a bunch of pets

    Andrea Paternioner
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know a woman who is highly disgusted by fur, living or dead, therefor she cannot like animals. but she would never harm them

    chrissy goodman
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    well considering she doesnt like fur that alone says she wouldnt harm them. good woman shes probably allergic to the dander or something

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    #9

    Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) Not washing hands after using the toilet

    vvalkir , Danny Greenberg Report

    AnInconcisivePanda
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some public toilets would be understandable... sinks that have mold growing and crap like that

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    cassiushumanmother
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Here is an interesting map about it. Percentage of people washing their hands after using the toilet in Europe in 2015. (i'm french) lavage-de-...5-jpeg.jpg lavage-de-mains-2015-60d9afe486ba5-jpeg.jpg

    K. Anderson
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is more common than you think

    Dre Mosley
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've seen that a work. Saw a guy go in a stall, s**t, flush, and walk right past the sink. SMH.

    Celeste Grant
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is one I really do judge people on; it's downright disgusting to nit wash your hands after the loo. No one should be exposed to the germs you spread by failing at this simple task.

    Steve Barnett
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Worked once at a place where I saw the canteen cook come out of a cubicle and then not washing his hands. Never ate in the canteen again.

    Suzanne Haigh
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How clean are the sinks and taps though?

    Pam Wilson-Hallinan
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    About 3 years ago I got sick because a lady NEVER washed her hands after using the bathroom. I was a receptionist and the closest for her was in the lobby area. She would go in and I could hear the flush. She would already be out the door while the flushing was taking place. She would cover for me during my breaks and lunch. Well, she caught something and soon I had it too. From that point on I kept sanitizer and Lysol at my desk and cleaned EVERYTHING she could have possibly touched, mouse, pens, keyboard, phone, etc. I haven't been sick since I left that place. I was a temp worker but I worked there for 2 years. I now do seasonal data entry. Because of Covid we sanitize our chairs and computer equipment before we start and at the end of the day. We also wear a mask for 8 hours (except when eating) and we social distance. Since this is a federal facility, we will be doing this until the end of 2021! Yes, I've been vaccinated also.

    Margaret Martin
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And people who scrawl/ paint graffiti!

    Joe Smith
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Even worse, people who do not flush,

    Pam Wilson-Hallinan
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was at a friends house last week. I sent to the bathroom to wash my hands from being outside and helping HIM move stuff into the house he purchased. He hadn't been flushing. He said it's to conserve water. I find that men often do this but not women. Women don't want people seeing what they done in this very private room! Why men, Why?

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    #10

    Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) How their kids behave and their parenting choices. When the parents think a tantrum is funny or cute. I was watching a little girl throw a huge fit at a store the other day, and the mom and grandma were both giggling about how 'sassy' she was

    mwalker324 , pixabay Report

    Renee Letkiewicz
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't judge too much... being a parent is hard and sometimes kids can be assholes. Lol

    Mrs. Jan Glass
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most of us get that meltdowns happen and kids are jerks, and even that there are situations where removing a child isn't possible. But if your kid is screaming in a restaurant, I don't care if you haven't gotten your food yet: someone needs to take the kid outside to calm it down. If your kid is running around someplace, it is the parent's responsibility to get that kid out ASAP. Those behaviors affect others and are dangerous. The number of times I've seen parents let their kids run around a restaurant where hot food is being served, with nary a blink, is infuriating.

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    Anne
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My nephew had his first tantrum in a supermarket. We were so surprised by it that we started laughing. We couldn't stop laughing either.. he snapped out of it quite quickly because we were near crying from laughter. I mean.. kids throw tantrums. it's just their way of dealing with sensory overload. But.. we just.. didnt expect it.

    Night Owl
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aww, poor kid. Supermarkets are sensory overloads for me too, and I'm a grown up (No, I don't throw tantrums - just in case anyone was wondering :D)

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    Andy Acceber
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Heck, if they're just watching and not giving in to whatever she's tantruming about, I think it's okay. There's something to be said for parents not reacting.

    Hilary Mol
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "She's not SASSY, Edith. She needs a NAP."

    Rachknits
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm not sure about this one. I'd rather see this than parents hitting their child for throwing a tantrum which unfortunately I have. Girls especially can be taught not to express anger but be a good girl which can cause issues in later life. Sassy is good

    ChloeClementine
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, no, I’m judging the person who is so upset about a toddler crying.

    Jj321
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is tough. Sometimes it is best to ignore the bad behavior. It is usually for attention. And while giggling at it is obviously not ignoring, sometimes kids do ridiculous things and it is hard to ignore! Throw in the fact you know your kids poor behavior is being judged, it makes correcting it harder and more uncomfortable.

    lara
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And they grow up to behave exactly the same way and become "big children" NEVER adults.

    juztme
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sassy?? Ya get spoiled kids that way. My son did that ones. I said to him "Ok, bye bye" I walked away, he noticed and run after me. Never did that again.

    Trillian
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This but for a different reason. Kids (at least until a certain age) don't throw tantrums because they are being bratty. They can't control their (very real) emotions that well. It's not something to be ridiculed, that is just cruel.

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    #11

    Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) People who have to try and dominate every discussion or have to one-up every other person who contributes to the discussion.

    HealthHappy9890 , Mimi Thian Report

    Lauren Caswell
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was taught that sharing similar stories was a way to talk to people: with time I have learned that this is dangerously close to above behaviour of one-upping, and always try to watch myself when chatting so i dont do this reflex when im nervous. It comes across as selfish to people sometimes i think, but there was a difference in my mind anyway between one upping, or listening and letting them tell you how it felt, and sometimes sharing an experience in return, like a show of solidarity? I just don't know nowadays maybe I am coming across rude to all, not just some?

    I want cake
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Apparently it's common for people with adhd to relate to people like that. I was diagnosed at 29 and it's one of the things that caused a lot of tension in y friendships growing up. I try to not do it now, or at least frame it better "Having experienced 'x' I think I can reasonably say that I have some understanding of what you're going through, if you ever want to just unload I'm here". It's hard though because to me it's the most genuine way of expressing a shared emotion or experience.

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    Derek Clark
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some don't do that on purpose, people with ADD and ADHD aren't aware of what they're doing. If you know somebody who has that and is dominating the discussions often to your annoyance, just talk to them about it. I always ask people to tell me if it happens, since i'm not aware of it.

    Erica Cochrane
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    knew a girl in HS who always had to one up you on anything, especially medical or sadness related. eventually i decided not to bother with her any more after I ran into her and told her that I'd just been at my grandfathers funeral. her response was 'THAT'S NOTHING! my grandfather is in hospital dying of cancer.' i feel like dead grandpa is higher up that dying grandpa... i said nothing and just never spoke to her again.

    Celtic Pirate Queen
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is classic narcissistic behavior and also shows a serious level of insecurity. I no longer speak to my sister because of this. I finally realized that I hadn't been allowed to finish a sentence without her interrupting me in years. Obviously, nothing I had to say was of interest and it was all about her. Not even sorry.

    MarsFKA
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My sister-in-law doesn't know how to conduct a conversation – she just loudly bulldozes right over the top of anyone who is talking. She is a good woman, with a heart of gold, but when I'm in the same room as her, I abandon any thought of a conversation with her.

    Question everything
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    After reading the comments above and yours, maybe you want to check if your SIL has ADHD. If she is a nice person, she is not bulldozing over for selfish reasons.

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    Mo Poppins
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Insecure & narcissistic. Self-unaware & overcompensating.

    Elizabeth Stewart
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One uping drives me crazy. Not everything has to be a contest!

    Anon
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Tbf I have a lot to say lol

    Lyn Moffett
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or. Two people have the EXACT same dining table bought in the EXACT same store yet one cost hundreds of pounds more!!! Piss off artists

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    #12

    Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) Leaving cigarette butts everywhere. Bonus judgement if it's still "fired up" and they don't care where it lands.

    snikinail , janekszy46 Report

    AnnaBanana
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a smoker and I never put butts anywhere they're not supposed to go. Living in Australia and seeing catastrophic fires started by some loser flicking a lit butt out a car window makes you pretty careful!

    cassiushumanmother
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For environment in general, it's just littering. I do smoke but i have a pocket ashtray on my key ring. So i have my own ashtray wherever i go, there is no excuse for littering. Those kinds of ashtray are sealed with rubber and it don't smell at all. If there is no trashbin i use my ashtray and when i see a bin i empty it. It is so simple. (the tiny wallet carry an emergency poopbag. I carry them in my pockets but with an emergency one i'm covered if the dog is very "prolific" or if i forgot them thinking my pockets loaded) 20210628_1...97214f.jpg 20210628_134017-60d9b8697214f.jpg

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    TK 421
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My baby sister once picked one up and handed it back to the smoker. She was around 5 or 6, and announced, “Hey! You dropped this!” In the middle of the park. Wish I could remember the details, but we laugh about her innocent shaming to this very day.

    Alexia
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Two years ago, one of my neighbours threw a cigarette but in the dumpster. It was still lit and it started a fire. I happened to walk by (it was midday) and noticed the smell and thick smoke. I was able to alert everyone in due time. Fire was extinguished, but things could have turned really bad.

    Vicky Z
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Blowing your smoke to someone else's face! True story: I'm in an open coffee place and there's a woman in the next table holding her cigarette next to my face!! She is with another lady holding distance from her and letting all her smoke to go on me!! When i protested she had the audacity to tell me that her friend is pregnant and she can't blow it towards her and if I'm so annoyed i should stay at home to drink my coffee!!!🤬🤬🤬🤬 yes i used every Greek curse I know and oh we have a big variety!!

    cassiushumanmother
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "i don't want to mess with my friend's health so i blow my smoke to your face because you are nothing to me" is an excuse who deserves every greek cursing words (and i don't know any).

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    Reynard
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The world is not an ashtray. Anyone who rides a motorcycle/bicycle can tell you that at every stop light just look at the ground/gutter and you'll see a lot of cigarette butts on the ground. How (some) people don't think that this is littering I'll never understand.

    veronica bingham
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have an old mint tin l carry with me for when l'm finished a smoke. I learnt early to clean up after myself.

    Mazer
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I happen to think this is one of the most filthy obnoxious habits out there. I also feel deeply for people who are addicted to smoking. About a decade ago San Francisco actually separated all the garbage that their street sweepers had pulled off of the street and they are separated out all the cigarette butts went to court sued the cigarette companies because it was costing them so much money to clean up the streets…they won!

    Janet C
    Community Member
    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People who still smoke at all. It's disgusting, it's dirty, it's super unhealthy, and it's now mega expensive. Anyone who still smokes is an idiot.

    Leona Black
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to smoke i always made sure it was out

    Mer☕️🧭☕️
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cigarette debris is so gross. I'm a smoker and can't stand to see where trashy people have dumped out a load of cig. butts. Use a trash can and if you can't find one, don't dump them out like that. It's just nasty. And it's not hard at all to snub out your cigarette, make sure the "fire's out", then put the cold butt in the plastic wrap that comes on the pack of cigarettes. Shove that in your pocket until you get to a trash can.

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    #13

    Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) Volume of their voice

    sneakertotheizm , Marie-Michèle Bouchard Report

    Donkey boi
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My cousin talks so loud it's almost shouting. He's deaf in one ear as a result of a lightning strike. Unless someone tells him, he doesn't realise he's being so loud. So maybe don't judge...

    M O'Connell
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My HR director at work has absolutely no volume control, apparently due to falling out of a tree at 16.

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    fire bug
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm guilty of this. I tend to be loud. Its not that I am trying to overpower the conversation but my voice carries better than some and I do tend to talk loudly. :(

    Aunt Messy
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    You know this, so learn to tone it down. You're bragging about being obnoxious.

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    Moona Teljomaa
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I get excited about something (which happens a lot, I'm too easily excited), my volume goes way way up, without me realising it. :( My better half points it out, but we are not always in the same place. So, I apologize for my behalf, I don't do it in purpose.

    Dude!
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have ADHD, and many people with adhd don’t realize how loud they are. Be careful about how you correct it, as many of us also have rejection sensitivity!!

    blue
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This needed to be said. Thank you.

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    Valisbourne Spiritforge
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate going into a restaurant and I can't hear my wife talking to me from across the (not wide) table for all of the loud mouths sitting and nearby tables.

    cassiushumanmother
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Last time i was at a restaurant with my mother and a woman behind her was shouting during her entire meal(they were just 2 at their table,in front of each other), we knew it all about her sad life, teacher training, bad coworkers... I was imitating her and my mother was like "shhhh", and when it was the time the waiter ask them if they would like a dessert, i just told a bit loudly to my mother " they don't deserve a dessert". The obnoxious woman was doing it on purpose, so everybody can enjoy her conversation in a tiny restaurant. If it weren't for my shy delicate mother i would have shout and imitate her until she would stop, like a kid because she was acting like a brat. I'm French and in my country if you act like that that's more than disrespectful, you may get stabbed with a fork by another customer or even the waiter or owner if it's at a fancy restaurant. If you can't behave, go to a cafeteria, brasserie or fast food place, where you can make all the noise you want.

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    Tenement_Funster
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I want to downvote this a million times. There are people (like me) who have problems with their ears/hearing and don't notice if they're talking louder than others. Reading something like this makes me feel really bad about myself.

    Anna McHugh
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes - loudness generally is indicative of someone who hasn't developed any kind of self-awareness. They're only interested in satisfying/communicating their own state and completely unaware that other people a) exist and b) are uncomfortable because of this.

    Jessica Aubé
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thats a pretty broad, general, and unfair assumption .. someone may not be self aware but that doesn’t mean they are only interested in their own communication

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    Helen Burns
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I naturally seem to have a loud voice and I project really easily. I work in a school so a lot of the time, it’s a positive when dealing with classes. But also, my mum was deaf in her later years and my current assistant is deaf (she’s uses powerful hearing aids). At the end of a day, I forget to turn the volume down and there are times I walk away from a conversation cringing at how loud I realise I probably was. Being loud isn’t always about trying to shout everyone else down. Volume aside, I’m not a loud (extroverted) person by nature so it’s not a reflection of that. Some people are quiet or mumblers, others are louder. I think I’ve always been that way as I remember at age 5 being chosen to do a reading in class as I had “a nice clear voice”. I’m actually a quiet person… just not when I speak! Please don’t judge me for it! 😳🤫

    blue
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I also have a naturally loud voice 99 % of the time I have no idea I am practically shouting. Until I see a look of discomfort on someone's face or they step back from me. Then I realize I am being way to loud. I am.really embarrassed by it and try to work on speaking softer but natural habits are hard to break. My sister is the same way. I am not an attention seeker and feel horrified by this. I wish I was not like this. Please do not judge.

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    Esther Evans
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know everyone is going to judge me....I'm hard of hearing, and my own family have told me I have no volume control....I wish people around me would speak up, because with all the masks at this time I can't even lip read !! I find when I'm faced with someone who won't speak up, I get even louder...So judge away everybody and while you're at it, pray that you don't ever have a hearing problem....

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    #14

    Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) Not putting their shopping cart back. My first job was to collect carts and bag groceries. If I can put my cart away with two small children in tow, so can you!

    eeznutz066 , David Clarke Report

    Giovanna
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We have to put a coin in the carts in order to unlock them and use them. The coin gets returned when you put the cart back. I honestly have never seen carts not put back.

    Sam rice
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a great practice. Aldi's in the US does it. Even if you don't have a quarter the cashiers will give you one to use

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    Bender Bending Rodríguez
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well my first job was collecting carts and bagging groceries and I will respectfully disagree. Going out to collect carts A) kept me employed B) was like a break away from demanding customers. More time I spent out in parking lot less time I had to spent dealing with karens. and C) Nice cardio while getting paid.

    Andy Acceber
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nope. I know a lot of people with disabilities who are so exhausted after grocery shopping, they need the cart as a support to reach their cars. They face a whole lot of hate for not putting the cart away. I say, so long as it's not left completely blocking a sidewalk, we should all show some compassion and give others the benefit of the doubt. It's no hassle for me to put an extra cart or two in the bay when I'm done.

    Calypso poet
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was just going to say after 2 foot surgeries over 2 years they really need to put a place for carts near the handicap spots. If I see a loose cart there I grab it. Or my husband offers to take it for the person. He still does most of the grocery shopping and remembers what a hassle it was grocery shopping with me and a cart lol.

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    Greg Mingus
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Be careful with this one. Many people have disabilities that are not visible. They use carts like walkers and returning it to the store and walking back isn't within them.

    Nikki Owens
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Then how did they get from the car to the store in the first place?

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    Dean Garner
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I read a study that said trolley ditching is borderline psychopathic behaviour. Something to do with no empathy or thoughts about potential consequences of your actions. Just put your f**king trolley in the rack. Simple.

    John C
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nah, this is another example where I'll hesitate to judge. Even if the person looks normal, maybe they're having an arthritis flareup or any number of other conditions unbeknownst to me. I'll wait until I walk a mile in that person's shoes.

    Neill Powell
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I declare those people to be the first that will be culled if the war ever broke out. No Judge, no Jury, straight to execution. If you fail the cart-test, you are unable to self-govern yourself. Nobody wants them in the new world order.

    Maximiliano Rodriguez
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is a theory about this since it allows to determine if a person can think of a greater good despite not receiving anything in return. (Of course there are exceptions to consider but it is interesting at least to think) Returning it is the right thing to do, I do good to a stranger who will never know what I did, plus I do not get anything in return. But if I don't (usually), there is no punishment either. It only remains in my conscience to do it or not. There was a post here a while ago about this: Someone Tweets This Shopping Cart Test That Tells If You’re A Good Or A Bad Person And It’s Pretty Accurate

    Lsai Aeon
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My son now puts carts away for me, he's old/big enough. I did my best when he was little but, wheelchair + small kid = very difficult to put cart away

    Pheebs
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The ones that really tick me off take their cart and stick them next to the cart return, where it’s in the way of a parking space. You walked your butt all the way over and still couldn’t mange? Bonus if the cart return wasn’t full.

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    #15

    Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) When the kids boss the parents around

    maddiewithgoals , Jose Ibarra Report

    SuperChicken
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same here. Sadly, many parents think it's cute and funny.

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    Lauren Caswell
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Im dealing with a child with oppositional defiance disorder, so I see lots of eye rolls when my kid is having a lot of emotion and I'm talking him through it/getting us through it. They have no idea they think "oh spoiled kid and stupid mum". But I can tell you I've seen the difference before and after a change from their to my strategy, when he gets upset if he's having an evening at my parents. I can chat to him on the phone plus give them tips on what to do/where the line is where I come collect him, no sleepover. It has to be tailored to the situation. ODD is really hard to handle I'm still learning how to help my kid, with help of professional advice etc. But I am familiar with this ignorant judgement coming my way.

    Andy Acceber
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'd say there's a different in engaging a child and helping them explain their needs (which is what it sounds like you do) versus letting them run all over you. I think we as a society are getting better at recognizing parents doing the first -- though a lot of people still aren't great at seeing it. I'm sorry people have judged you for it.

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    N G
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What age kids? What level of bossing? When my niece was a bit younger than two she "bossed" us around because she hadn't learned how to communicate her needs and wants fully ("No Auntie N, dolly goes *here*"; "Help me with shoes....peees!")

    Monday
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's not really bossing around though, it only becomes "bossing around" when the kiddo is old enough to understand the difference between asking and demanding.

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    veronica bingham
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can't blame the kids if the parents allow / encourage it. Kids live what they learn.

    Tami
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, that behavior needs to be nipped in the bud for sure.

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    Mazer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Do you mean when parents let their kids boss them around….yea

    Black Pug Puppy
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Knew many people like this. The parent was always afraid of the child. On time a the child (Evelyn) was kicking around a friend's flipflop and the parent didn't try to stop her. They are always going to make excuses. In this case the parent said she was just playing.

    Dude!
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depends on the age. If I see a 7 year old telling their mom to shut up, that’s not ok. but if it’s a teen, studies show that occasional back talk is healthy and natural.

    Curry on...
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or toddlers hitting the parents. Not cute.

    BluEyedSeoulite
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've seen older kids basically physically abuse their parents while they are trying to talk to workers, teachers, nurses. These aren't long convos and the kids are just going at it while the parents just ignore it. The kids were WWWAAAYYYY too old for that strategy to work!

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    Mrs. Jan Glass
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of the main reasons why I disconnected with my three cousins. All of a sudden, they're the mothers of kids who scream things like "YOU SUCK! I HATE YOU!" and swing a fist at their face, and they sigh and just go "Now, boo, don't do that." That let's me know that it is not safe to be around them OR their child. I had one of the kids grab at a book of mine and announce "It's my turn to play with this!" and I said "No, that's not a toy." They screamed "YOU'RE A MEANIE!" and stomped off and slammed the bedroom door. Cousin looked at me with wide eyes. "Now she's mad at you!" she gasped. I said "So? She's a five year old kid, she'll be fine in ten minutes." She still did not get to grab an expensive book of mine to "play" with.

    Soleil SanMao
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was in a deli and a teenager called her mother “an a*s.” My mouth fell open. I got an instant flash of what my mother would have done to me if I was temporarily insane and said that to her.

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    #16

    Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) The background wallpaper on their phone. Especially when it's a picture of themselves. Who puts a photo of themselves as the background photo on their phone? Weird!

    floralboi , Dmitriy Tyukov Report

    Mihai Mara
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why are you staring in other people's phones? :D

    Sam rice
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why do people have their phones out for everyone to see all the time

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    Monday
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well if you're prone to losing your phone having yourself as the wallpaper can help you get it back.

    Alexandra Nara
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most Selfies I saw as wallpapers in phones were "lost in Photoshop" Wouldn't recognize the person in reality

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    Mazer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To me this is nitpicking what other people do maybe it’s easier for them to find their own phone because they live with multiple people….who cares

    Calypso poet
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    True, my husband has a separate work phone and that's the only way I know which is which!

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    Foxxy (The Original)
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ì certainly would never have a photo of me as a wallpaper. The less I see myself, the better lol.

    AnnaBanana
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My cats are much better looking than I am...

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    AnimalsRuleHumansDrool
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My background is of one of my dogs.

    Otter
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mine is the foliage of the big elm tree right outside my front door. The pic is appropriate for background as the apps cover nothing of importance, and it reminds me of a happy place.

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    Celeste Grant
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What wallpaper someone has on their phone has nothing to do with you! It doesn't affect you in any way, and it's a shitty thing to judge someone on.

    Mewton’s Third Paw
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    4 years ago

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    Take yourself off your wallpaper, you’re not that pretty.

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    Mary
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    well truth being told....when the phone is lost that`s the best way to find who`s phone it is so I don`t judge this particular one even though I don`t like it

    iveth
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it's pretty common where I live (wallpaper/lockscreen is either a selfie of the owner or some kind of family pic)

    Cori
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My lock screen is a black and white photo of my pigs snuggled up together. My home screen is an adorable black and white photo of my kids.

    Dwight k schrute.
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Whose phone is it? I'm not going to put a stranger as my Screensaver.

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    #17

    Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) If you have a new phone or fancy nails and your kid has worn out shoes, I will judge the [hell] out of you.

    Grumblegrumblehiss , sharon McCutcheon's profile Sharon McCutcheon Report

    Alicia Gee
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just maybe never judge parents ever please. The kid probably wrecked their two week old shoes. The grown up probably just wanted to look nice just ONCE.

    Donkey boi
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Adventurous kids go through shoes a lot quicker than others. Even as an adult I burn through a pair of shoes every 6 months. Not sure the shoes are a good standard for measurement but I agree with the point.

    BlahBlahBlackSheepah
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one ... Mmm depends. I get the idea behind it adults who spend on themselves and not their kids. But omg kids will wear what they're going to wear sometime s. My kid has a closet I new shoes but only likes to wear beat 1 pair of up sneakers

    Mazer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not me on this one when I was a kid I went through clothes so fast it wasn’t even funny. I look like a little ragamuffin and my family looked like they stepped out of Beverly Hills

    Derek Neibarger
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When it comes to grade school and elementary school children, purchasing reasonably priced slightly oversized shoes and letting them wear them as long as possible is just smart parenting. Young kids simply don't care about things like footwear (they'd happily go barefoot 24/7), and they outgrow them quickly. It's far more annoying when parents insist on buying their toddlers overpriced shoes that only fit for a few months. It's wasteful and unnecessary.

    Beezel Palomar
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sure, kids NEVER make choices about what they want to wear. Those are my kids favorite shoes, KAREN.

    Rukkia
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, really cant agree with this. I do my own nails, because they are expensive otherwise, but I do a very nice job. Second, Anything of my kids has a 50/50 chance to make it through any given day in one piece. This is why I have mended their brand new jeans they just torn instead of buying them new ones. Get them a new pair of shoes, they come home the next day with the laces half gone because they didn't tie their shoes, muddy because they were playing in the ditch, and the insole is already missing. This is an instance of kids will be kids.

    Pheebs
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seriously kid’s outfits should not be what you judge on. It’s pointless to try and keep kids spotless and in their best clothes. You’ll either go crazy trying, or your kid won’t be allowed to be a kid. I judge people who have fancy nails, clothes, and phones, but whine they don’t have enough food for groceries.

    Renee Letkiewicz
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Be a parent for a day judgy McJudgeeverybody

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    #18

    I’ve come to realize that I find negative comments about personal appearance vulgar (joking about a person’s weight, face, how old they look, etc.). Anybody who thinks it’s funny to repeatedly joke about how ugly so-and-so is, or how fat, or how bald? UGH. It really makes the commenter seem mean and unsophisticated to me.

    toonist212 Report

    JennyLaRue
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is why I struggle to watch any Adam Sandler movie - he always has characters there solely to insult on a personal level. It doesn't even add anything to the story

    BlackPearltheSeaWing/NightWing
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Jokes like this have been told at my expense and I'm still badly affected by it. I'm so concerned about my weight (I'm not even overweight. I'm actually less than average at my age) and my chin (there's a small double chin, not much but enough to notice) and it's terribly. I definitely judge people like this because they should know how much this hurts others since if this happens to them they get angry and scold whoever told the joke

    Lunar Bicycle
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree with all of this as long as it’s still okay to make fun of mullets.

    Mrs. Jan Glass
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Was it a choice, or were they born with it? THERE is the difference!

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    Yvette Desmarais
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've felt this for a long time but I'm beginning to realize that "ugly" in the eyes of the world can also be beautiful. Even parts of me. Lol

    Two_rolling_black_eyes
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ugly is and will be the last group to be treated equally, especially in the work place. A man with a PhD and a burned off nose is going to find it difficult getting work no matter how good they are. Not a lot of ugly people in commercials and I'm sure they buy things.

    Mazer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People cannot help how they look they cannot help how they speak to me this is just bullying. Are used to tell my friends I may be old I may be disabled I may be ugly it may be fat but I’m not stupid and I have an internal pitbull will go after almost anything

    Tara B.
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eh, to an extent - but keep in mind that some people bond that way. Especially in my line of work, making fun of each other is a way of coping with the crap we deal with on a daily basis. ….wait, you meant behind their backs all snarky-like, didnt you? *watches the boat sail away*

    Celtic Pirate Queen
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "If they'll gossip TO you, they'll gossip ABOUT you".

    Pam Wilson-Hallinan
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree. But what also gets me riled up is people making jokes about women's normal monthly cycles! Jokes!

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    #19

    Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) Spelling . You don't know how to write 'anaerobic'? No worries mate, it's a rare word and who needs to use it anyway? But if you're unable to use their/they're/there properly, which you have literally seen being used correctly a thousand times, then I can't guarantee I will ever consider you a bright person.

    Dicska , pixabay Report

    Thomas Price
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One challenge to this is that the person may have dyslexia and therefore have difficulty with this. Got to remember you will never know what someone else’s challenges are so don’t be too quick to judge

    SueMcB
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My friend with dyslexia has a bachelors degree and still can't spell. He's very smart, with a learning disability he has no control over. You have no way of knowing what battles people are fighting.

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    AnnaBanana
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I sometimes get a bit judgy over spelling and grammar, but that's because editing and writing are part of my job. I never criticise out loud, though. My brother had learning difficulties as a child and was bullied mercilessly and it hurt me so much to see that happening to him. I'm more than happy to help anyone write something they need help with and I've definitely learned over the years that poor spelling or grammar is definitely not a measure of a person's intelligence!

    cassiushumanmother
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, i'm french and i used to write political speaches and rereading/rewriting stuff for others, and i think that the worst people are those who make fun of people with a foreign origin. Like i know that everybody is making french mistakes, a lot! So they don't even master their own language and manage to make fun about someone else who certainly master their own language and learned another one which is super tricky. The french saying "looking at the speck in someone else's eye and failing to see the plank in our own eye" personified.

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    Foxxy (The Original)
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I never judge based on someone's spelling and grammar coz I am not ignorant to the fact that many people just CAN'T spell. There are various learning disabilities and also millions of people across the world that don't have access to education. I judge people who rudely correct or pick on someone that writes something incorrectly. It's such a d**k move in my opinion.

    Ozacoter
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes. Also many of us arent native speakers. I hate when I am making an effort in x language and a native gets angry because i misspelled or mispronounced something. I am the one making an effort to communicate they should be understanding.

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    Andrew Gibb
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Knock Knock!" "Who's there?" "The Grammar Police." "The Grammar Police Who?" "The Grammar Police Whom?"

    Auntriarch
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am a grammar nazi. But other people's grammar is none of my business, it's just rude to mention it.

    cassiushumanmother
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same for me, i'm grammarnaziing myself but don't do it with others. And i have the bad habit to make extremely long sentences in French when i write (i'm french) and sometimes i even check on words that i perfectly know just because some doubt made a way into my brain while writing. Like "uh, it look strange", "no i know it's the correct form", "but it look strange"... ok just check to be certain.

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    Nikki Sevven
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Especially my fellow Americans who speak/write with incorrect grammar, spelling, syntax, and punctuation...but are the first to disrespect someone speaking a foreign language. "Speak English!" they say. Yeah, maybe YOU should learn your native language.

    Nikki Owens
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to care more about this when I was younger & more conceited about my own intellectual capabilities. As I've gotten older, my view has changed considerably. I no longer correlate literacy and intelligence. I have met too many poor spellers who were extremely perceptive & brilliant thinkers, and just as many "educated" and literate fools who are utterly incapable of basic reasoning.

    Jessica Aubé
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aloud -allowed . Dose-does … I see this alllllllll the time .. I’m not even a grammar Nazi I’m truly not I’m way too lazy to correct your you’re and their crap but for some reason these two spellings drive me absolutely insane

    Hollysmom
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Drives me crazy. I am silently, and sometimes not so silently, judging you

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    #20

    Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) People who gossip to me about other people. I always wonder what they say about me behind my back.

    oskoMondaricci , hnd Report

    Mazer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have asked people to stop I’m not interested and I will just walk away

    Dre Mosley
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If they'll gossip with you, they'll gossip about you.

    Kyle D
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Totally agree. 100% If they're just trashing someone to you, just imagine the things that person is saying about you to others.

    ejfs
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't mind if it's positive gossip, ie: "Did you see Person's new dress? Doesn't it look good on them?", but if you're going to be mean and petty I will turn my ears off and ignore you.

    Curry on...
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I try to avoid relationships with gossipers. Can't trust them not to do the same to me. But then, I don't tell my personal business to anyone outside of my very trust worthy friends, and even they only get to hear so much.

    Shirley Heyn
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, I had a "friend" did this all the time. No longer my friend. Now she is friends with the person she used to bad-mouth to me.

    Onion rings like to make your breath smelly
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i had these friends in grade 7 that would talk about me "behind my back" even though I WAS SITTING RIGHT NEXT TO THEM. they are gossipers, all right. but i've developed a tough skin and dont care about what they say about me because i've already had so many people tell me that im annoying right in front of my face, so it's nothing new.

    JJM
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Another humungous peeve of mine. I will not contribute to gossip of any kind with anyone.

    Smelli Mel
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If they gossip about others take it as a rule that they definitely gossip about you too. It's an absolute.

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    #21

    How snobbish a person is about someone else's situation (information about wage, job, family situation, living situation, etc., and making a comment on it). They should try working on their feet for 10 hours in a hot, greasy kitchen before criticizing someone for 'flipping burgers

    ScreechPrimus Report

    J. F.
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never got that attitude. Truckdrivers, cleaning personal or garbage disposal get treated like they're at the end of the career food chain. But if they would stop working the modern society would collapse within a month

    BlahBlahBlackSheepah
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    100% if you mock someone for their job, then don't use their services and do it yourself. There are people who don't realize its other people who enable them to live their lives. You couldn't be an engineer at a desk if you had to grow your own food and get your own water. {Extreme example but you get it)

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    fire bug
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In my opinion, I don't care what anyone does to (morally) earn a living. If you are doing honest work to support yourself and your family then you deserve respect.

    SuperChicken
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly! Someone who's earning an honest day's work ranks high in my book, too.

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    I want cake
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What pisses me off the most is when people refer to jobs like that as 'uneducated jobs' like it's easy. Just because a job doesn't require a diploma doesn't mean it's easy. You have to learn a lot of skills to be good at working in a fast food restaurant or being a waitress or a cleaner or working in a factory. In my opinion those jobs are specialised as it takes a long time to become truly good and efficient at them.

    blue
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I went into security guard work at 41 after my divorce. I work the desk at condos. I dont like it but it is full time reliable work. Retail was not cutting it. I was shocked at the disdain I received from residents and their guests. I have been called lazy, stupid and uneducated. If we need to remind someone of the rules the insults come out. One 55.year old man who was politely asked to wear a t-shirt in the gym came to my desk 20 min later and spit on me twice. He told me it was not his fault I was to lazy to get an education and was stuck working as a security guard. Sadly this is a common attitude. I have worked in high end buildings with million dollar condos and buildings with all rentals. It is all the same everywhere. I am a native Canadian and I was raised poor and did not have higher education opportunities . I have high school only. So my job prospects are limited. Being called lazy and uneducated when I am just trying to keep a roof over my head cuts deep. I absolutely hate my job because of this. I have worked with highly educated people new to Canada who take these jobs while working to establish themselves in Canada and get Canadian certification. Engineers etc. I can only imagine how they feel to be called lazy and uneducated just because they work in security.

    Nikki Sevven
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They be the first ones to complain if they couldn't get their burgers, too.

    lara
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The MOST important person in an office is the secretary. Who gets things done? Who does the "boss" depend on? When the boss goes out of town does the office fall apart? Nope. When the secretary is on vacation or out sick how disorganized and dysfunctional is the office? The foundation of society is based on the people who make up the foundation. Pissing off the "workers" ensures that your life is going to be miserable.

    s. vitkovitsky
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like the judgy folks on this thread!

    Marie
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think a LOT of people were surprised by the Essential Worker enforcement, and how meaningless their jobs actually were (beyond the individual client being served). The only "non essential" workers I wanted back was the people at the employment agencies... never figured that out.

    KMill
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or when someone comments about my career choice as an Assistant. When they find out how much education and experience I have they wonder why I’m not doing more with my life. I didn’t realize being an Assistant was something I was supposed to be ashamed of.

    Unwelcomed Guest
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I currently work for a managing director of a Fortune 500 company who proudly states her career started flipping burgers at McDonalds. A proper leader much better than the incompetent private schooled boys club I have worked for before

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    #22

    Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) Bad table manners. If I’ve ever shared a meal with you and you chewed with your mouth open or made food noises, I promise that during the entire meal, I’ve fantasized about your death.

    Toadie9622 , Matt Seymour Report

    Ueda
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't ever go to Korea then. I used to live there and would go eating out with my colleagues very frequently. It took time getting used to the table manners there, as making a lot of noise when eating is pretty common over there. Almost everyone does it; from the teenage girl to the old man. It's just how it is.

    Derek Clark
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I shared my plane seats with a group of Koreans, and I have to admit their way of eating made me not hungry for mine anymore. I skipped my meal because of it. I didn't blame them or anything but man, are they loud with their eating noises.

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    Mrs. Jan Glass
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is an actual disorder where some people have visceral reactions to hearing chewing/crunching sounds. Some people love it (see ASMR), and others aren't able to stand the sound at all. People are wired differently.

    A Jones
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's worse if ya' got misophonia and can't handle sounds of smacking or other trigger sounds. :/

    Lyn Moffett
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I actually want to stick my knife in them. I wouldn't but that's how it makes me feel

    WhatEvenIsLife
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Smacking/popping gum. I still don't understand how some people don't seem to realize that the noise could be annoying to those around them.

    Hilary Mol
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This should be WAY higher. I think the only exception I'd make to this rule would be if I were in a ramen shop (anywhere, not just Japan), where you're supposed to slurp the noodles. Of course, I'd never be in a ramen shop BECAUSE people are slurping their noodles, but still. If it's something specifically culturally related, then I may still inwardly cringe, but I get it.

    Marie
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It depends on what is being eaten. Besides that I know families that have never even sat at a table for a meal at the same time. They would have no idea about setting up and eating with others.

    Phica Afton
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My whole family does this and is pisses me of

    SuperChicken
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm so sorry. That's infuriating. My brother is the same way. Luckily, he's the only one who does that.

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    #23

    Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) People who constantly film their kids at recitals and things like that. Take a few pictures, then put ur devices down and actually watch it. No point in filming a 20 minute video that you’re never gonna watch again. Also, people who go to firework shows…AND FILM THE FIREWORKS, for more than 4 seconds. That’s something you are REALLY never gonna watch again. Just live in the moment, take a couple pics, and move on

    junkymonkey123 Report

    Le Vi Nguyen
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean this could really depend. The parents might want to film their kids and send it to the grandparents. Some families live across the globe from each other and they would want to share special moments with their love ones.

    Mrs. Jan Glass
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As long as they don't disrupt others while doing it... and that's what seems to be the problem.

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    Dasha Slepenkina
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It bothers me a lot when people say things like this. I had a terrible experience of being in an accident and temporarily losing my memory... luckily I had taken pictures prior to the accident and seeing these photos helped me not only piece together what happened but also heal from PTSD by regaining a sense of control. After this, I take pictures of everything because I don't want to lose my memories of special experiences when I'm older. Often I look back on my pictures and videos and they make me really happy. People might be taking pictures or recording because they want to hold on to their memories, to share with loved ones who cannot be present, etc. If you want to be in the moment - great, be in the moment. If you're busy judging others you're not in the moment either. However, I will say that if your recording is disruptive to others (i.e. if someone is being forced to watch the event through your phone because you're blocking their view), that's just rude and unacceptable.

    Lydia Dean-Melchior
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean how does a parent, or anyone for that matter, filming their child, or something they deem beautiful affect you? Seems a bit to judgey.

    BlackPearltheSeaWing/NightWing
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is okay actually. They may be filming for other people. In fact at my last concert my dad recorded the whole thing so my mom and sister could see it.

    Gracie Jay
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Growing up mom had a camcorder permanently attached to her hand and today I’m so grateful! I love going back and watching things my siblings, friends and I did. A lot of it is boring but she got some truly great things! So I I try to keep anything my daughter might enjoy seeing later in life.

    F-Dup
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How lucky! I wish that were the case in my family. There are so few photos and no videos of so many important people and places. How cool that you’re saving things for your daughter - one day she will be so grateful. As you said, a lot of stuff we capture is boring and mundane, but honestly that’s the stuff you miss when it’s gone

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    Marie
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As an amateur photographer and my LOVE of fireworks I will never see again, I get more out of taking a hundred pics and sorting them later. My husband said I would never even look at them... I used them to make a painting last year.

    Mazer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If there is a recital I will call the school ahead of time and ask them if they’re going to film it, If they don’t have plans to film it I would ask them to film it and please post it for the people on the school website so everybody can enjoy it

    F-Dup
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m not a fan of this ‘you have to be utterly focussed to enjoy it’ mentality, and the inference that you’re at fault if you’re not. Actually, Bernard, I can take a video AND enjoy the moment, plus I can enjoy it again 20 years later when my memory might not be what it is today. I’m forever taking photos and videos - I have countless of both. And do you know what? This stuff is invaluable. Three times now, when someone I know has lost a loved one, I’ve been able to give them a disc of memories that possibly nobody else captured - not just still images but moving ones where their voices can be heard again or we can see them make that funny expression we miss so much. Nobody has ever said to me, “thanks but this is way too much, a few pictures and four seconds of video would’ve been plenty”. Just let people do their thing.

    Ionut Tautan
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    why are you telling people how to live their moments? I especially despise performers who stop their shows to tell someone to stop looking at their phones instead of them. How entitled are you? They already paid for the admission. Maybe they're bored of your performance

    Cindy Vickers
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Haha well I'd really piss ya off! I filmed my son's plane taking off when he went on a school trip - I watch it when I come across it and laugh (and cry)! He's all grown up now but still mom's baby! lol

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    #24

    Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) What part of their life are they posting on social media. Especially when they post every tiny problem in a relationship on social media

    evilislive13 , Kate Torline Report

    I want cake
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I firmly believe in the theory that a healthy relationship is barely apparent on social media, because the people in it don't crave the validation to make them feel good about it. Relationships that are splashed all over social media, particularly with gushing captions about how perfect it is always give me the impression of two people trying to convince themselves.

    Marie
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This! I admit 20 years and absolutely no desire to invite others in by social media... none of their business.

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    juztme
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always have the feeling they are faking there lives. Why would you want to post every freaking step you take on facebook? And it sounds so fake for me.. Like people post "I have such a headache, I am in so much pain" Then go lay down in the dark and put your phone away! Or worse... When a couple fights and they are gonna fight on facebook.. That cant be real.. Why on earth do you wanna do that on facebook. I really think 90% of facebook is fake or people just want attention. Why am I on facebook??? Because of a few groups about my hobby's that I really like

    I want cake
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly the same here. I have a few communities I'm part of that are on Facebook, otherwise I'd have left long ago.

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    Philly Bob Squires
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The best relationships are the ones social media doesn't know about!

    Mazer
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Here is what I don’t like about social media. I don’t wanna know what you’ve eaten and where are you eating it every single time you’ve eaten. I don’t care about your new super expensive toy it doesn’t make you a better person and it doesn’t make me jealous. I’m so tired of people hiding behind either a religion or a political stance, There is more to people than those things which you think enhance your life and I’d rather get to know the real you not the person you are when you’re hiding behind something like religion

    Manu
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Here's what I don't like about social media: SOCIAL MEDIA

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    Lyn Moffett
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I REALLY don't care what you had for breakfast/lunch or dinner!!!!

    Eslamala
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't care what people post/share. They have the right to use their social media as they please, as long as it's legal

    Simzabandz
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Once I was this way! And we all did it at some point (especially with a r/ship) so judge away!!!! lol

    CincyReds
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember at the time I was teasing my boyfriend, and said you don't have listed that you are in a relationship with me. He was like I am sorry, I but I am not telling facebook I am in a relationship with you, don't you know it already? I miss him, he passed away

    Katie Morris
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know ! Like those who post I don't have any friends ! I simple will not reply to that attention seeking rubbish ! If you are low pick up the phone and call or go to someone's house !

    K. Anderson
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Embarrassing stuff like catching your bf having sex with your friend & asking for help to move them next week everything is back to normal & posting pics with him like nothing happened. How embarrassing- did your family see this? People who know your kids?

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    #25

    Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) The behavior of their dog. There are of course allowances for dogs that were adopted/rescued that weren’t trained for a period of their lives, and some dogs have reactive behavior that’s difficult to overcome even with diligent work. However, if the only reason your dog is a little [jerk] is because you don’t care enough to train them right, I’m sitting here in judgment.

    EndoShota , James Barker Report

    Magpie
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is fine to love a pet, but for crying out loud get yourself educated on how to handle them correctly. How to make sure *their* needs are met.

    Randy Klefbeck
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People get pets and sometimes have no idea what is involved with the care of them. Like children, some folks should not have them.

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    Dynein
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some years ago I frequently walked along a trail that was very popular with dog owners (the dogs were by and large extremely well-behaved!). One group (two women with like 5 dogs) stood out to me: First time I walked past them, one of their dogs barked a lot and make quite a fuss. Second time, they stopped long before I approached and made the dog sit with one women crouching next to him. Third time, they stopped again and dog had to sit again but required less attention. Fourth time, just stopped. Fifth time, dog walked past me along with his pack mates an couldn't care less about me. Since then, I HEAVILY judge any person who just pulls the leash when their dog barks at and bothers passer-byes. Teach it which behavior you want to see instead!

    Hilary Mol
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can we tack on "using your pet as an accessory"? Carrying around a tiny dog for "the look". GAH. I hate that so much, especially for the dog.

    Lsai Aeon
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And not just the big dogs, them little ankle-biters need just as much training as the big ones.

    Rosa Leff
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I adopted an 8 year old GRUMPY, abused, malnourished, sick chihuahua. He was living in a hoard without any affection. He bit me every single time I tried to walk him for a year. He's now 12, healthy, & adores me. Everyone who meets him thinks he's a little f*cker, but I'm so proud of his progress!!

    TK 421
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’ve known people who paid to have their dogs trained, and I’ve had dogs myself (all my life) who actually did as they were told. The difference? I’ve seen those “trained” dogs just run amuck and not mind a single command until the magazine or newspaper rolled up. My dogs? I say sit, they sit, wag their tail, wait for their treat, and judge the “trained” dog jumping all around like a toddler on cocaine. I’m not a professional trainer. I’m not an expert. I just treat my dog as part of the family and work with them towards a useful understanding of how to behave in our home.

    Kristie Yuill
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People seriously need to do some research before choosing a breed of dog to adopt/buy. As a dog groomer I see way too often where somebody got a dog that requires a LOT of time, activity, or training (husky, GSD, etc.) purely because they like the aesthetic of the breed. Often they will complain to me about how badly behaved or destructive the dog is, then tell me in the same breath that they only go out for a five minute walk twice a day, or that they think it's funny to torment the dog with their hairdryer at home, or that the dog spends 9 hours a day in a kennel while they're at work. Choose a dog that fits your lifestyle! Don't expect the dog to change its biology/psychology for you.

    Maria Schneider
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People often do very stupid things while "training" their dogs: If he doesn't cone immediatly when being called, they shout at him, WHEN he finally came - making this reaction less improbable for the next event.

    Just a girl in a crazy world
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of my dogs was in a kill shelter in Texas for most of her puppyhood, and she always barks when she sees people. We did train her, because she used to bark when you come in the room or even talked. She’s come a long way, and I’m super proud of her

    Mazer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I actually train dogs for free because I don’t want people dropping them off at the Humane Society and a lot of people just do not know how to train dogs. To me it’s super easy once you understand dogs were bred to basically worship the ground you walk on and if I can get in there and trigger that button we are all golden

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    #26

    Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) Craving for attention. As an introvert, people who do that are very easy to notice and very annoying.

    hoscct , Jessica Da Rosa Report

    Julie C Rose
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This possibly sounds reasonable without context, but spend some time on /r/unpopularopinion and you’ll learn that a lot of Redditors have a pathological hatred of anyone who reaches out in even the most benign ways. I’ve seen them call cancer patients “attention seekers”. Multiple times.

    Mazer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t mind people craving attention I think a lot of people are starving for real relationships. What I don’t like it when people ask you questions and before you can finish they’ve interrupted you six times, Or are too quick to judge

    deathrose
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've always called "fishing." Like fishing for compliments.

    Simon Kendra
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    to be fair you are an introvert. some people need other people's attention to flourish... that's how it is. don't meet with them if it bothers you, let them do what they do and let others decide whether they're okay with it.

    Shane S
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Vaguebooking is the worst…

    Patricia Tornborg
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, really? Is Reddit like the official site of judgmental commentary? No wonder I never felt compelled to go there!

    F-Dup
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As an introvert myself, I’m quite grateful for these people! Let them soak up all that attention so there’s less to go around 😆

    WhatEvenIsLife
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or just being emotionally volatile in general. I remember helping a new-ish friend move, and she would absolutely lose her mind and scream her head off and throw things over every little minor thing.

    kjorn
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yeah. the other days i was at soccer with my boys and i saw 2 girl stop in the middle of the cycle path sit down and each other took pictures . people really craving for attention, this is just so f*****g sad how people are empty in their life

    Viviane
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Were they purposely sitting in the middle of the bike path in order to force cyclists and pedestrians to stop and give them attention?

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    Simzabandz
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a guy I work with, tell a story about (Exagerated example) cutting people limbs off or beheading someone, he will have a better story to tell.. talk about how nice of a car you see in the street, he will tell you a story about the same car... craves craves for attention, annoyingly and noticeably rudely! juss cant stand it!

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    #27

    Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) When they talk badly about people they were acting nice towards

    InternationalFace457 , naassomz1 Report

    Dynein
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Grey area. Are we talking about being polite to strangers, then sharing what was weird about them when they are gone? Talking badly about a weird relative or friend's friend you don't like but can't avoid? There are plenty of times when you're expected to be courteous to people you don't get along with for whatever reasons, which can be exhausting so I think it's fine to vent afterwards! What crosses the line IMO is when it delves into gossip and/or when you act like outright friends with them. Thought the line can be difficult to define across personal and cultural differences.

    I want cake
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly. My neighbour is a nightmare and the only thing that keeps her from being worse is being super nice to her. But I'd never hang out with a friend and then turn around and assasinate their character to someone else.

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    backatya
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, they should tell them to their face

    Bear Hall
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Do not say anything about anyone behind their back that you wouldn't say to their face. If you have nothing nice to say keep quite." Proved right over and over again.

    Mewton’s Third Paw
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I mean. You want them to also be rude to the person they talk bad about?

    F-Dup
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Strange take on the post. ‘Not acting nice’ doesn’t equal being rude, just civil. To me the OP is saying don’t be false.

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    #28

    Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) How open they are to differing opinions. There are certain people who immediately get defensive or shut down the whole discussion when they disagree with something, instead of having an actual conversation about it.

    crazy_cosmonaut , jamesoladujoye Report

    AnnaBanana
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People who think in black and white drive me nuts!

    Mrs. Jan Glass
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've actually pulled back from activist activities because of this. Like, we are protesting to protect trans youth because we understand gender is a spectrum, and then you say something like "Bisexual women with husbands are appropriating queer space"? We are fighting to make this crappy country a little better for POC, and you insist that "No white woman should ever run a non-profit"? or mock a white woman with mental health issues because "I'm sure the rich white lady will be fine"? And THEN you insist that anyone who disagrees is "silencing" you and should "stay in their lane"? Sorry, but your definitions are not the same ones everyone else is using. F**k gatekeeping and f**k binaries.

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    John Topper
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to agree, but at this point if someone says they love Trump I immediately dismiss them as a hopeless moron.

    qwerty
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    After Jan 6 (actually before but Jan 6 was the big one) I have to agree with you.

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    Dude!
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am very left leaning, but I am open to hearing others opinions. The only opinions that are not up for debate for me are 1) LGBTQ people deserve the same rights as everyone else 2) Poc deserve the same rights as everyone else 3)Women deserve the same rights as everyone else 4) Anti vaxxers can be very dangerous.

    Mrs. Jan Glass
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same here. Pineapple on pizza is an opinion we can debate. You thinking you have the right to tell me what I should have done with my unplanned pregnancy, OTOH, is not.

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    D. Pitbull
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's all about moderation. If the "differing opinion" is simply that? All good... let's talk. If the "differing opinion" is actually an attack and a "I shall prove my opinion better than yours and I won't listen to ANY reasoning any other way because I have to DEFEAT YOU!!!" yeah... no, not really interested in talking to you anymore...

    BetweenTheCracks
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Exactly! There is a HUGE difference between having a differing opinion and attacking someone else. People need to learn this, from both sides of the issue.

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    fire bug
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can be 100% sure I am correct but I can also still give you a few minutes to explain why you disagree. It goes both ways.

    Mrs. Jan Glass
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are also so many cases where both situations are right/correct/valid. My experience is ____. Yours is ____. Guess what, there's space for both to be true!

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    Tracy Wallick
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depends on the 'opinion'. If someone tries to tell me that X group deserve fewer human rights because of race/gender/sexuality/etc, I don't want a conversation with them.

    Dee gee
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like the majority of boredpanda cult members when it comes to anti-vax and pro-life.. The irony! The way they pounce is vile. I am not anti vax and I am also pro-choice but I respect and align with some pro-life views.. I also am not offended by people who choose not to have vaccines. Its called being a rational human being. Its called having empathy and understanding. It's called being open minded minded and willing to listen. I hate what this world has become.

    Renee Letkiewicz
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anti-vaxers put others health at risk... so yeah I'm gonna judge away when your "judgement" is gonna make me (or loved one)sick or die.

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    JJM
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Depends on how aggressive they are about their opinion.

    ChinmayGhule
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes this is not true. I just told my maternal grandmother (who I'm not very close with) that we shouldn't abuse our own kids, in short stuff like child abuse is bad. In response she argued and insulted me, and since then I haven't talked to her She is also VERY mature and didn't bother talking to me.

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    #29

    How you prioritize your money. Not how you spend it as I couldn’t care less if you can afford it, but if you’re the type of person who’s tight on money and spending it willy nilly or spending out of your means and justifying it, then your ceiling for being a bright person drops significantly. One of my exes said they had $40 in their bank account during the peak of the pandemic. She had no job and she thought she earned going to get a manicure and blowing even more than what she could afford since I think she needed to borrow money to make up for the cost. I told her that was a stupid purchase and she kept trying to justify it by saying it’s been too long and that she felt like she earned herself a treat. No. If you have $40, your treat could potentially be a McFlurry from the drive thru. Not a manicure I want to clarify again it’s not like getting a manicure is bad, but prioritizing it when you have $40 to your name is freaking moronic

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    Giovanna
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree with you. It's an incredibly childish behaviour.

    Sarah
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And these are the people who, once they've spent their last dollar, come whining in a major panic about how they are going to be homeless soon because they can't pay the rent, so they MUST "borrow" the money from you. What, you forgot until this second that your rent wasn't free?

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    Helena Houzarová
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a bit doublesided. Sometimes people need a treat, even if it's a treat they can't really afford, to kickstart themselves. If you are at the rock bottom, feeling miserable isn't going to help you get back up. I remember looking for a job after my husband died - I was working part-time because most of the day I had been taking care of him - and I was told my chances would be better if I looked happy. Like, thanks. I'm still grieving, I have a massive debt, but I will look happy for this next interview. So back to the manicure, if it's a part of a pattern, that's bad habits. But if the woman felt really low and the manicure helped her get back up and look for a job with more energy, then let her have a treat she wants.

    Sergio Bicerra
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree with you. This lst year has been difficult to many people, and treating themselves has been, in many cases i've known, the only thing that brought a smile again. But agree with OP, people should not mistake a treat with a luxury.

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    Desiree McKinnon
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's when you do your own nails. At home.

    Karl Baxter
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had a mate in a well paid job who was always skint well before payday and couldn’t understand why - even though it was obvious that he blew his cash on pointless impulse web shopping and the like. I suggested he log out his outgoings on a spreadsheet and reconcile that with his actual salary. It improved his money handling skills dramatically but I was puzzled that he hadn’t considered doing it before - especially since he works as an IT Systems Analyst. Better late than never I suppose.

    blue
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My son started doing this in his 20ties. I sucked at money handling untill I followed his lead

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    blue
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Once had a single Mom neighbour who complained she had no food. I was working poor and could not spare cash. I found her a food bank and took her there. I even pretended to need food myself so I could give her mine. Hours later I take her home and carry the grocerys inside. What do I see. Empty pizza boxes everywhere. Broke single Mom on welfare but ordering pizza. When questioned she said they were weekend treats. Some people just have no clue. Never helped anyone again. Humiliated myself at a food bank for this idiot.

    Jen Szabo
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If someone needs help, it's not your place to judge if they deserve it or not. She's on welfare for Christ's sake.

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    Ozacoter
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree. I had some friend who were always complaining about money but they would go on holidays twice a year and one of them had a Mac. Well... I used that money paying rent and food and not complaining like they do.

    Neill Powell
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love it when people ask "How can you afford that CRAZY TECH?, We're on the same pay scale!!!" ... Ahem, firstly, what's in your garage and clothes cupboard vs. mine? See? Secondly, STOP BUYING the FIRST price offered. Research, idiot. Thirdly, RESEARCH, often your impulses will be quelled by digging around a bit, often letting you rethink what you are about to spend your money on.

    Hollysmom
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why do you deserve to be broke and worse, in debt. How is that a treat?

    Shane S
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mental health is important and I was on your ex’s side up until you said she had to borrow money. Put it on a credit card if youre responsible with debt or eat ramen noodles a couple nights to make up the difference but don’t borrow money for a splurge.

    Mrs. Jan Glass
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mom was like this, and still is. If she is down to her last five bucks, she'll go buy a houseplant or a bread mix that she won't use. It got to be so toxic for me that I want nothing to do with hearing about anyone's budgets or splurges or whatever. If you are saving for a car or blowing it all on DisneyWorld, great, good for you, it's none of my business.

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    #30

    Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) People who are involved with MLMs I think they are untrustworthy or somewhat dumb.

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    Monday
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    MLM - mulit-level marketing. Companies like Avon or Herbalife that encourage their employees to recruit people below them in order to make money. You make more money tricking others into signing up as a seller than you do from actually selling the product. It's essentially a pyramid scheme that has somehow managed to stay in the legal grey zone.

    Tiny Dynamine
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thanks. I judge people who think that everyone knows every abbreviation using initial letters.

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    Ronna Stefan
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Another thing I hate about MLMs is how in the past, a "friend" will reach out and get in touch with me after a few years of not being in touch, ask me to meet for coffee, and I'm thinking, "How nice!" and feeling all warm and fuzzy inside that they thought of me and how lovely it is to get back in touch, then at the coffee meeting, they bring up whatever MLM rubbish they are peddling at the time. The warm fuzzies turn into feeling insulted and preyed upon so quickly.

    Zenozenobee
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Until now, I've been lucky enough that those "friends" contacted me via facebook. Just a check of their profile let me know within like 2 seconds that had something to sell...

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    Curry on...
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was pleased when a coworker invited me to her house for a party, only to discover it was a Tupperware party, which she managed not to mention beforehand. Not happy,

    Teresa Horton
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree. I might go to a Pampered Chef or even a Tupperware, but if you spring a Candlelite or Essential oil party on me, I'll leave immediately with a massive asthma attack, followed by nausea and vomiting, then a 2 day migraine. I'd have a few things to say to that coworker the next time we speak.

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    TJay
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Multi level marketing...

    pebs
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you. I hate this profusion of acronyms that anyone should necessarily know, according to the writer.

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    Dre Mosley
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    MLM people who think they are business owners or entrepreneurs and use tags like, #bossbabe 😂

    Lauren Moore
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can we just call them what they are? Pyramid schemes.

    albernistuff 4sale
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Its not that hard to recruit sociopaths and the desperate; the desperate soon fall by the wayside with a den full of unsold product, and the sociopaths keep moving on up the ladder, just like so much of corporate America these days.

    Mrs. Jan Glass
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you haven't listened to the podcast "The Dream," do so. Once you see how insidious this is in our politics, and how they deliberately appropriate feminist and progressive rhetoric ("This is a woman-created product! Why don't you want to support it?" "If you don't give back to the Black community by going to A's MLM party, you're racist!") to manipulate and guilt people, a whole lot of larger American issues will make sense.

    Cyr/Syr
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bro I thought it meant men love men and I was like-

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    #31

    Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) Parents who try to convince me to let their kid in a ride when they’re not big enough. Even when I tell them it’s for their own safety and the restraints aren’t designed for smaller people. It’s like they don’t care if their kid gets majorly hurt. Also parents who force their kids on rides they don’t want to get on. Traumatizing them and making them fear rides in general, but also not realizing that kids OFTEN try to climb out if rides they’re scared of, which is very dangerous!

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    J. F.
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember the times I was forced to get into rollercoasters, totally not a horror ride for children with a fear of heights

    Mia Smith
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can relate. My mother's solution to having a painfully shy 5yr old child was to start entering me into child beauty competitions! That definitely didn't mark the start of crippling life-long anxiety

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    Freyja Cooper
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree for the most part, but when I was a kid I'd get in a line for a ride, but chicken out by the time it was our turn. I as always glad when my mom forced me to ride

    Monday
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In your case you wanted to ride it though, you just lost your nerve while waiting. In that situation "forcing" can be good since the kid wanted it in the first place. But if the kid never wanted to ride it, from the time they saw the ride till the time it's their turn it feels cruel to force them.

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    lunar eclipse
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate it when a ride needs to be stopped because a kid starts crying. Ruins the fun for everyone else who paid for the turn. And those mothers don’t feel bad at all. Ewgh.

    Jordan Smith
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I forced myself onto a ride at 6. I love coasters now, but 300 feet at six years old was too much for me.

    Anyone-for-tea?
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’d like to offer an alternative viewpoint on this, as my nephew gets himself really worked up before going on a ride, crying, not screaming or shouting, but repeating I don’t want to go on, etc etc. Then he will go on it, say it’s the best ride ever, and then want to go on it multiple times. So maybe it’s all part of the process? It is a balancing act for him, there’s only a subtle difference between knowing he will never like a ride, to it will become his favourite ride ever.

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    4 years ago

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    Petika Grant
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, kiddo (6 at the time) and I waited for a good 40 mins to put them on a ride once (one that shoots up and then down again) kiddo cried and said they didn’t want to go as the poor worker strapped them in…… The kid was laughing their a**e off in the way back down then wanted to go on every scary ride they were tall enough to go on. I knew kiddo would be fine and would love it, they just needed a little shove. They are 15 now and went for their first skydive at 12 years old. I guess you have to judge the kid and know their limits, if kiddo had been the type of kid that was scared of everything them yeah I probably wouldn’t make them go on scary rides lol.

    I I
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i hated rides . especially high ones like rolla coasters , my Dad would make me go on them , i cried and screamed every time , he thought id get use to an irrational fear ,hate heights and rides even more now

    Black Pug Puppy
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was once forced to go on the pirates of the Caribbean twice when I really didn't want to go. Also it was not only my mum who made me but a girl called Evelyn (yes the same Evelyn from before. She ruined Disney land for me)

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    #32

    If you speed up to block someone with their turn signal on, you will be judged.

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    Karl Baxter
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Good road manners and consideration for one’s fellow motorist tends to cause a positive ripple effect as the person you let into the traffic flow/cross lanes/give way for, etc is likely (in the name of good karma) to extend the same courtesy to another motorist and so on and so forth. Of course some drivers will always be selfish idiots but they’re the exception.

    Tami
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yup, some drivers just have to close that gap! Probably the same ones who squeeze in front of you when there's a half-mile of open lane behind you.

    H.L.Lewis
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pass me. Just so you can turn at the next street. You just saved 2 seconds. Stupid

    Fred Buettner Sr.
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How about people that go around traffic and then floor it causing an accident and bodily injury and get a $200 ticket for going through a light? The person injured lives with that individual's stupidity for the rest of their life. They should get mandatory jail time and lose their license.

    Cydney Golden
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or, sitting at the red light and putting your left turn blinker on only after the light turns green. People get stuck behind you, rude!

    Margaret Martin
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Happens to me a lot - but one time I had a Police Officer behind me when they did it & they got pulled over... that was a good day.

    Petika Grant
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Absolutely, literally happened today, just 15 mins after I drove off the lot with my new car so I was feeling a little nervous as it was, her horn got a good work out though.

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    #33

    Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) How they treat their coworkers

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    J. F.
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Always take a look on how people treat the janitor and/or the cleaning staff.

    lara
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    EXACTLY. People are the same, their jobs do NOT define them.

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    NeonDisco
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once worked as a cleaner at a sports complex and the manager called a meeting for all staff including the 6 cleaners. Before the manager started the meeting a fitness instructor stood up and pointed to us(cleaners) and said "they shouldn't be here, they're not real staff", quick as lightning the manager replied " These guys sanitise the building and equipment so it's safe for the public....... YOU ride an exercise bike. They are as important as anyone in this room". Funnily enough, not many people gave the instructor notice after that.

    Bob Belcher
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Look at how the break room is stocked. When I worked as a traveling auditor working on site whomever I was auditing, there was always a direct corellation between hiw happy the atmosphere was and how nice the break room is. Providing decent coffee and plastic utensils consistently goes a long way. Even better if they have a nice coffee maker with real creamer. Not that powder BS.

    Tamsin Far
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ok, but with co workers on the same level this can be misleading from the outside. There are often a lot of inside jokes going on which may look like bullying from the outside... and the longer I work with a colleague and the better we know each other the more honest I can usually be in communication without dipping everything in honey, because there is a deeper layer of trust and appreciation.

    Mazer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t think anyone should treat another human being poorly I think it’s juvenile it shows a lack of empathy I mean if your narcissistic and you can’t help it you can’t help it. But I used to work at a really awesome place and it took one person to take the entire office down.

    sofacushionfort
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    although it can be argued that we live in an economic system that fosters interpersonal conflict and abuse

    #34

    Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) If I go to use the bathroom in their house and it's crusty, dusty, and covered in hair and God knows what else.

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    N G
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ew Ew Ew Ew!

    BlackPearltheSeaWing/NightWing
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you're having house guests over, please clean whatever you can. It's just a good thing to do so the guests feel more comfortable

    The Deez
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I try not to judge someone by their bathroom, honestly. (Unless it's, like, pee on the sides of the toilet or something like that! Ew.) I think it's because the house I live in is really old and, try as I might, I cannot scrub the floor tiles, sink bowl, or the bathtub enough to make it look like it's REALLY clean. And, trust me, I've tried! There are still faint marks in the tub from some bathtub crayons that my daughter had when she was about three and she just turned twenty-one! That being said, if I know I'm having guests over, I will do the best I can!

    ChinmayGhule
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is true. Many times you can't have a good and clran bathroom if it's old.

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    yellowphantom
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If they have a fluffy cover on the actual toilet seat part itself. Even a fluffy cover is a germ magnet but the SEAT! Why do companies even make these?

    Rainy Day Wolf
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this is why I rather not have visits, I am lazy and I have 5 cats and 2 dogs, everything is always covered in dust and hair no matter how much I clean it

    Margaret Martin
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love my Family / Friends & I have allergies. If I'm allergic to their pets or too much dust- I just make sure I stay outside & either bring a bedside toilet or use a restaurant/ stores before I get there.

    Jessica Aubé
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dusty toilets and “old” dirt bugs me as you know it hasn’t been cleaned in a while or is not regularly cleaned .. but as a momma of FIVE boys with one bathroom “new” dirt doesn’t bother me .. honestly I could clean that toilet hourly and someone is still gonna come visit me and find a fricking giant poop in there lol .. especially when they were all little .. it’s not so bad anymore that they are older but ugh .

    Riley Reynolds
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My house is covered in cat hair because of me,my brothers, and my moms cats

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    #35

    Taking video/FaceTime calls walking around the grocery store. Generally any public speaker phone/broadcast of their private sh*t like conversations and music. What the f**k have we come to with the combo of disregard for others and the narcissism?

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    TK 421
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I do the FaceTime thing when I’m sent on a mission by my wife for some weird grocery item and have no clue what I’m looking for. Typically, I’m in the wrong store, and I am fairly certain that she does that to me on purpose.

    Sam rice
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is too funny :) I'll do this with with my husband to make sure I get exactly the right thing.

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    Sandra
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I dont get it. Why do you have to do it in the store? If I do not have the head phones on, why should I hear your conversation?

    Ela S
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When the pandemic hit, my parents couldn't do their own shopping as there was so much uncertainty around the virus. To protect themselves, they stayed home. Sent me shopping for them. I happily facetimed my mom the whole time so she could be apart of the process. She loved it. Gave her some sort of normalcy seeing the aisles and being able to shop from home through me and the iphone.

    Helen Haley
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No different than talking to someone who came to the store with you. Doesn't bother me in the slightest unless it is super loud. But that is true of even live conversations in public.

    Sam rice
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What on earth is with everyone's obsession with face timing all the time. Most of the time no one is saying anything. Just awkwardly virtually hanging out in silence?

    Anne
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I facetime my mom in the store so she can pick her stuff and maybe some extra's. I've headphones on though

    Ivy la Sangrienta
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I take facetime calls in the store, but I wear my headphones. I'm sometimes looking for a specific item for a family member or choosing between two and they can decide which one they want. It's easier showing the product than trying to explain it.

    Honu
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just take a picture and text it.

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    JesT
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    May I ask what is the difference between this and if both parties are present and having a conversation. I understand the recording, but if it is a normal conversation what is the difference?

    Honu
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Personally, it doesn't bug me if they are modulating their voice normally. Most people seem to speak more loudly when they're on the phone. I've wondered if it's some sort of instinctive reaction to the reduced sound quality they're hearing on the phone.

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    Mewton’s Third Paw
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But,, FaceTime is the perfect tool for when you want to show your partner something in the store so you can know what they want or what to get. I do that sometimes and I hadn’t considered that it was a big deal. Good I guess. If this bothers you, you deserve to be bothered lol

    JuJu
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    4 years ago

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    I hope you don't care if I stand behind you and ask interposed questions...it's a public discussion, so I can partake.

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    #36

    Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) What they say about their kids in social media. I get that being a parent is hard, and it’s okay to talk/vent/be real about that online, but sometimes people cross the line and talk about their kids as if they’re not real people, just because they’re not grown and don’t have a Facebook account. People should imagine what their kids would think if they were all grown up and reading your internet history. If you think they would be hurt by what you said, don’t post it

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    Giovanna
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To me, in general, would be posting your children's pictures on Facebook or Instagram. Some people use their kids to get followers. I think this is borderline criminal.

    Crazy Dog Lady
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I purposely don't post pictures of my children (they are older now with their own social media) and never will. I feel like you're exposing a part of their privacy that should their decision, not a parents. You can't take those pictures back from the internet and you can decide how they get used.

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    J. F.
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bonus points if the parents use their children to voice their own opinions. Like "My 4 year old asked me how the income gap between worker and middle managment could be closed and i'm proud of him" - Sure he did....

    V Martinez
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And what about parents or grandparents who are not on social media or are deceased? My parents both didn't want to be on any social media. My mom barely had a fb page, but def no pics of herself. Just a rose. Both parents have said, "Don't put me on social media." Yet, after they passed, my siblings posted pics on their pages. They see it as a tribute as they say they have the right. I see me not doing it as respecting their wishes still. Who knows, we all have our own opinions.

    Pam Wilson-Hallinan
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    At one point in time it was said NOT to publicize your children on the internet. All that has been thrown out the window! Children are now ADVERTIZED on social media!

    Hollysmom
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Those kinds of things can impact you for life

    lara
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    4 years ago

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    Children are ALWAYS a reflection of the parent. If the children are out of control or rude or talk back or any of a million things that they can do, IT IS ALWAYS THE PARENTS' "FAULT." Children are nothing but a reflection of the parents' attitudes. And society does not think that they are "cute." Society thinks that they are a waste of resources.

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    #37

    People who act like the "anti-hero" in their own story. It seems more people I see these days dont want to be the hero in their own lives but want to be the "complex dark villain with a tragic past and stone cold appearance, but have a heart of gold" it's like no. Dave with your 4 bedroom 2 story house that your parents helped buy after you graduated university, and you now live in with your 2 kids and loving wife, are not an anti-hero and posting things like, "I'm a calm man but mess with me and I will break your bones" does not make you cool or complex.

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    albernistuff 4sale
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We are all the protagonist in our own lives. We grow up seeing ourselves as the good guy in order to delude ourselves that we haven't REALLY hurt anyone. Later in life, when you reflect on your behaviour, it is then you find your were the villain in someone else's story

    Mona Vine
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some of us are lucky enough to realize when we have been wrong and put it right where possible or apologise where not possible to put right. I have been even luckier and been forgiven and made a new friend.

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    Bobby
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel like the people that say this kind of thing the loudest are the first to back down when actually confronted on it. The quiet people are the ones that scare me

    Martha Meyer
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think anyone who approaches life as though it's a blockbuster, is a bit weird, no matter what role they picture themselves in.

    Mazer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Either that person lives in a fantasy world or is hugely narcissistic

    Tracy Wallick
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wish I could favorite a post, because this is so on the nose

    Bear Hall
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What about those who are the but of the joke in their own stories?

    Remi A. Paulin
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If only to try to justify... maybe some people who wear sunglasses inside just smoked a big fat "Bob Marley" and are so red-eyed they want to hide behind said glasses...

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    #38

    People who can’t get another person’s name right in an email conversation. It’s literally right there in my signature; there’s no excuse for calling me by the wrong name. Drives me crazy. I can sign off with my first name and have it in my signature, and people still reply, 'Hi, [Surname.]' [Screw] those guys. It’s not even a surname that could be mistaken for a first name. It just looks a wee bit foreign, so their brain stops working

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    Hermien Greeff
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I got an email this weekend from a copywriter, and she spelled my name completely wrong. Guess who did not get the job.

    Kristie Yuill
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've had Facebook friends misspell my name when they send me a birthday message. I appreciate them taking time out of your day to send a message, but considering it says Wish [NAME] a Happy Birthday! directly above the comment box, the error shows how little attention they spared.

    Mrs. Jan Glass
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I sometimes have to fight autocorrect on this. Yes, I know you think Cristine should have an H, but since I copy/pasted it from her email, I know better than you, robot!

    Kristy White
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    people have got my name wrong my entire life, the best one was when i started working for HMRC, everything had to be re-done from my email to my pay slips, i filled my forms in, obviously with the correct details, yet they spelled my first name wrong, it took nearly 3 month to get a new email address!

    Kimberley Gayle Thomas
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That makes me so mad since that's a problem I'm having now regarding a contract. I'm not signing until my name is correct. I'm not going to sign as somebody I don't know, nor have an association with to cause further issues down the line.

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    Diana Strassburg
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah why do people not simply copy and paste???

    T.
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well I get that, but not everyone has contact with ever culture, so sometimes it can be hard to distinguish fistnames and surnames even with the use of google. In my case, I have an regular, not so common German first name which is practically unknown in foreign languages exept English. My lastname is more common as a fist name in German, so I will get a lot of emails from non German writers with: Hello Surname

    Matt Fischer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I dunno, I use people's last names quite regularly so that there is no confision about whom I am talking, although only in conversation, not in text. Surnames are less common to repeat than first names.

    BluEyedSeoulite
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh! Spelling the name wrong WHEN IT IS RIGHT THERE!

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    #39

    I have an acquaintance who posts things about herself In the third person via inspirational memes. For example ( one of ten a week): “ She weathered the storm and trudged through the lightening because the electricity of the pain only ignited her fuel to accomplish more” ( I made that up but you get the picture). I judge this. I think it’s pathetic.

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    Nat Hedley
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I judge people who link up with people they clearly don't like on social media just to get the +1 to their friends count.

    Amanda Sherland
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People who talk about themselves in the third person are often narcissists.

    Sandra
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All the pictures where she îs either thinking ( apparently) or looks into the horizon or stuff like that, I know those, i generally believe it îs just stupid.

    Rannveig Ess
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My neighbor's daughter does this, and my neighbor delights in showing me every damn post or IG or FB thing her daughter puts up. Strolling on some blue, sunny beach with a scarf around her waist and her gold chains delicately hanging down, and a post full of, "She sees the waves fill her with Goddess and Love like the first water laps her feet" Neighbor thinks this daughter is an enlightened super being. I find it really creepy and also think it must be nice to be that rich that you're spending all day taking poignant photos of yourself and writing "poetry". It's such a strange detachment of one's self.

    Scagsy
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    BP should introduce a *** CRINGE *** button.

    blue
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or people who instead of picking up the phone to talk just send dozens of meme or inspirational quotes a week. It drives me crazy. We are f*****g adults. Can we not have a real conversation .

    Manu
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also, the inspirational quotes that start with "and": and then one day you realize how stupid you are...

    Shane S
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Put it in a book of poetry. Don’t post it on social media. That is a little insane.

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    #40

    Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) What they name their kids.

    harperthehomemaker , Nathan Dumlao Report

    Kat
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think it isn't anyone's business what I name my kids. Even when these names are weird (which they are not, just noting that).

    Sergio Bicerra
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes is like mistreating the child. A bad name can lead to abuse for life. I have a far cousing named Remora... not second name. She opted for Remi when she grew up and couldnt stand the bullying anymore.

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    Scagsy
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nutella, Metallica, Lego, Akuma (means devil) and Cyanide are all names that were thankfully rejected by the registrar. I know we don't like to meddle in other people's business but when you are stupid enough to name your child 'When Tallula Does The Hula From Hawaii' somebody needs to say no. Yes, that actually happened. They lost custody.

    juztme
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I heard in the supermarket while standing in line to pay that a couple thought of calling there son hitler.. Looked it up an thank god they are not allowed to call there newborn hitler. Poor poor kid if they could.

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    lara
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When you name your children this is a name THEY will have to live with forever. You may think that it is "cute" to name your kid "Barbie" or "Moon Unit." But imagine your child at 40 and a doctor or a banker and they are "Dr. Barbie Smith" or my banker "Moon Unit Smith." It is a humiliation and something YOU should be ashamed of.

    Stephanie IV
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Barbie. Tricky. Used to be completely normal. Moon Unit - doesn't she call herself something completely different now?

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    Desiree McKinnon
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All these 'unique' names are going to have some very harsh long-term effects. Just wait until Pilot Inspector Lee - Jason Lee's son - has to get a job.

    Ivy la Sangrienta
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I also judge people who give their kids names from the top 5 lists.

    Donkey boi
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    'This is my son Richard-Edward, we call him D**k-'Ed for short!'

    Ames A
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can’t tell if that’s an example of a weird name or the person saying that they will never not name their kid something strange.

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    Philly Bob Squires
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Note to young parents: When you pick a name for your kid, type it in Microsoft Word first. If the red squiggly line shows up, please reconsider. LOL Oh, and knock it off with the hyphens and apostrophes please? My name is Robert... not Ro' Be-rt!

    Sam rice
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I nicked named my kid after a pokemon but her actual first and middle name are quite normal. Its a play on her initials EV (eevee)

    Niall Mac Iomera
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Plus, Evie (short for Evelyn) is a pretty common name

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    J. F.
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And the reaction if it gets misspelled - How to get people to say the kid's name right? Don't name it after a scandinavian pan dish (No offense to the wonderful people of Scandinavia)

    Marie
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That. A few years back, I had to tend to an activity where I needed to write down kids' names... who would have guessed there were so many ways to write "Matéo" Ugh.

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    #41

    When they curse at their children or pets. I curse a whole lot but never at children or animals.

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    AnnaBanana
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'll admit I swear at my dog very occasionally. He doesn't know what I'm saying.

    Calypso poet
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you haven't called your cat a shlthead, is it even a cat? When a cat looks you in the eye as they place their butt hole on your phone screen or knock your glass of water off the nightstand...

    Mrs. Jan Glass
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think they secretly keep a record. "Hm. Today I got three 'you asshole,' and one 'shithead' from mom today. Pretty good, but not as good as the time I knocked over the glass of water INTO her book bag. Ah, well, tomorrow is another day."

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    Andrew Gibb
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I imagine a cat thinking 'meh!' and shrugging it's shoulders

    cassiushumanmother
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They are cursing at us all the time, but we just don't hear it.

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    Kiki
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i swear at my cat but not because im mad like i will say "bitch look at that f*****g ring its beautiful".

    cassiushumanmother
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But i like to curse at children and pets! But i only use funny homemade insults. I'm french but for kids it's like "Rotten wildberry sausage", "jellyfish poop"... and for my rabbit its "loony lunatic" and my dog just "noodle" when he's afraid of something he shoudn't. That's probably gentetic since my dad used to tell me "i will rip your eyes out with a teaspoon. Unsharped!" instead of "no". But i agree real insults and curses are really bad.

    Lsai Aeon
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My son is on the spectrum. He's 13. Telling him he's being an asshole and needs to adjust his behavior and attitude, works a lot better than just telling him his behavior and attitude are not acceptable. It's like *Asshole* resonates with him

    Mrs. Jan Glass
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But my cat IS an asshole! Full disclosure: I love swearing at animals and babies when they have no idea what I'm saying. It's hysterical to me to say "'Sup, motherf*cker?" to a cat rolling in the sun or a blinking infant. A friend and I used to say this to her wee one until the day he piped back "'Sup!" and we knew the next part would follow if we kept it up, so we stopped. Darn it.

    Donkey boi
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What kind of person would place a curse on their own child or pet???

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    #42

    Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) What the inside of their car looks like.

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    Chich
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It just takes your ass from point A to point B. As long as it isn't a moving trash bin its OK. People who obsess over their vehicles, that is a worry

    VulcansAreSexy
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What's it to you if someone else's car is messy?

    lara
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I use my car to go shopping and haul the dogs to the vet. When I shop I go to Sam's and the "gardening" supply place, then the grocery store. My house is clean, for a house with six dogs, but I do not obsess over it, because life is too short, I prioritize my husband, son and dogs. The rest is just detail. Kitchen and bathrooms are spotless, rest is "getting around to it."

    Mazer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Especially if you’re an Uber or Lyft driver

    Curry on...
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As long as the seat I sit in is clear and dry, I don't care what your car looks like.

    MelFunction
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Can't tell you how many times I've seen someone with an immaculate car throw their litter out the window. No thank you, my litter stays in the car until I get home. I'd rather be proud of my messy car.

    Thorfin Wolfsbane
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Especially if the steering wheel is on the wrong side! haha - Signed: an American

    Andi
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    nah .. my home is immaculate, my car a joke ... a symphony of 'redneck engineering' ... soz

    Memere
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some years back, there was an older lady who drove a nice Mercedes to our neighborhood every week day to babysit/nanny for a family 3 houses away from our house. For some weird reason, she ALWAYS parked in front of our house. After a couple of weeks of this, I wrote a note asking her to not park there - when I went to put it on the driver's window of the car, I could see a pile of plastic grocery bags filling the back seat from the floor up to the bottom of the windows, all the way across. The stench coming out of the car, with all the windows closed, was as bad as any dumpster behind a restaurant! So, yeah, major judging going on there!

    Neil Bidle
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If it's your car and the most I do is walk past it then meh. If you offer me a lift and it looks like your car was in a lake until last week, or being used as a bin, I'm going to judge.

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    #43

    Viral Thread Has People Admitting What Things They Secretly Judge Others For (40 Comments) How often they complain

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    Giovanna
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am particularly annoyed by people who complain and do nothing to change the situation. It's like they dont want to be better or improve things, they just want a reason to complain, commiserate themselves and have a justification to say "oh poor me".

    AnnaBanana
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So true! I have a friend like that and I think of her as an energy vampire.

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    Ozacoter
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel that there is a difference between venting and complaining. Everybody needs to vent and some do it more than others. But they need to try to find a solution if there is any. The problem is when they complain but dont try to change anything. Like a person complaining about their girlfriend being boring but not breaking up with her. To out a stupid example

    Honu
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think there's also something to the "how often" thing OP mentions. Yes, we all need to vent sometimes. I've met some people for whom complaining is a defining element of their personality. It's exhausting. Most conversations with them center on complaining. Some seem to take great pride in how many things they hate that other people like. I get the feeling they think that their complaints and negativity make them more interesting.

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    Nathan Pogorzala
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Teddy Roosevelt said "complaining without offering a solution is whining.".

    Aroace tiger (any pronouns)
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But it honestly makes me feel better when I complain and idk what to do about it!

    Mazer
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To me fake poverty is a big issue if somebody’s complaining about every little thing under the face of the earth I’m not gonna have any patience for that but if somebody’s complaining about some thing real big in their life I’m gonna be there for them

    Lara Verne
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't mind if people complain from time to time, who doesn't? But once I met a lady who complained about absolutely everything. Everything was wrong, all the time. It was impossible to have normal conversation with her!

    Ueda
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never ever go to France. Ever. I'm a French who has lived abroad for many years now and I'm always horrified at how much French people complain when I go back home... The complain about everything! Even when there's nothing they can do to change the situation, people will complain. Also, they will complain that our country is the worst in the world and, as soon as abroad, will try to convince everyone of the contrary. It's pretty annoying and now I'm complaining so it's even more annoying!

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    #44

    If they used to drink and then stop and then cant shut up about how evil alcohol is

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    AnnaBanana
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nothing worse than a reformed anything!

    LivingTheDream
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As someone with almost 30 years of sobriety, I will have to disagree with you. Sounds like you have some personal issues to work through.

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    LivingTheDream
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've been clean and sober for almost 30 years. I do not expect others to live their lives the way I have to because I have an addiction. If I'm not cool with a situation, I remove myself. Live and Let Live. Sure would be nice if all people could do this with their lifestyle choice instead of trying to force it on everyone.

    AzKhaleesi
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    THIS. I have quit smoking but before I quit my fiance quit first and then all of a sudden it was constant lecturing, like calm yourself my dude, you quit like a month ago lol

    Lynn Morello
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reformed Smokers are just as bad.

    Thorfin Wolfsbane
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i usually only talk about how bad alcohol is only when someone else talks about how "bad" weed is.

    Mazer
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    4 years ago

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    Yeah people who think they’re better because they went into rehab and are no longer indulging. I’m all for celebrating people making positive changes in their lives however, guess what I never started.

    Eslamala
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    4 years ago

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    Same applies to ex addicts, ex smokers, ex gamblers and such. They sound exactly like those people who "found jesus" after being horrible people and now go around calling everyone a sinner

    Sandra
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    4 years ago

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    Its an addiction, and a choice. B

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    #45

    Their driving

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