17-Year-Old With Depression Asks r/RoastMe To Roast His Photo So He’d Have A Reason To End It All, Internet Responds
Depression has no face, so recently one guy from Russia decided to show his, for a chilling reason. Recently, u/MufasaQuePasa posted his picture to a subreddit called r/RoastMe, a notorious community specializing in saying the nastiest things about people they can think of. “17-year-old Russian with crippling depression,” he wrote. “Give me a reason to end it all.” Surprisingly, this time was different. Everyone went against community rules, trying to explain to the guy why he should keep on fighting. Continue scrolling to check out the heartwarming responses that will restore your faith in humanity. At least for today.
The story went viral on another subreddit called r/Wholesemememes as well
Nobody living with depression wants to die, they just want to stop feeling pain.
I really hope so. It's not me, but I have family members battling mental illnesses all their lives and sometimes they've mentioned suicidal thoughts. One of them self-submitted in a hospital because of this once. Now they seem better, they are taking their meds, but the mental health care here isn't very good - just sending you to psychiatrist and giving you strong meds, no psychological counseling or something like this, so they are left to cope with all the strange things that go through their minds themselves. They aren't 100% all right, they are a lo better, but they still have depressive episodes sometimes. I talk with them and visit whenever I can, I don't know if I am of much help, but I try to do what I can.
Load More Replies...I live near a very famous and popular suicide spot called Beachy Head, it's a giant cliff. I also used to work in the mortuary at the local hospital. The saddest thing was when people who jumped had grit and gravel under their ripped apart fingernails, from when they changed their mind once they'd jumped and tried to claw their way back up or tried to stop themselves falling. Luckily a different hospital looked after child deaths but suicides were definitely the hardest to deal with.
[Trigger warning-I don't usually warn about what I post, but this is particularly sensitive] This reminds me of a friend-of-a-friends son, local boy who hung himself at the age of just 10 yrs old. When he was found he had scratch marks on his neck from where he changed his mind and tried to stop it; but it was too late. That was over 20 years ago, just devastating.
Load More Replies...I'm so, so glad that people actually offered to help him, it shows that there is still good in the world — perhaps, another reason we all should be fighting? This world has good, this world has bad. I am being quite hypocritical since there has been more than several times when I have considered taking drastic steps, but there has been times when I'm glad I didn't. Internet can bring us down, it can lift us up. I hope he's still alive and resumes fighting again. And bless all those helpful commenters.
"I am being quite hypocritical since there has been more than several times when I have considered taking drastic steps" → That's the very opposite of being hypocritical, so, please, stop thinking you are. You're obviously speaking from experience, a bad experience that you hopefully overcame, because, as you say, the world does not suck as it seems to sometimes. Stay strong, seek help if you need, and don't let irrational thoughts take the best of you. Our brains can be such merciless trolls sometimes.
Load More Replies...I think about this every single day. I could never leave my husband and baby. But depression is a monster that never goes away.
i know what you mean. i`ve thought about ending it all for about a quarter of my life, but i couldn`t do that to my parents... stay strong!!
Load More Replies...I tried slitting my wrists when I was 16. It was a very dark place I was in. I still have the scars on my wrists. Know who's really happy I saw the blood, threw up and went to tall to my school counsellor the next day? My Baby Girl. She's 20 now. But had I succeeded she wouldn't be here either. Who would explain to your dog why you're not there to scratch his ears? I'm not going to say it gets better. Im not going to say it gets easier. All I'll say is it's worth it.
This may sound strange, but the guy should get a puppy or a kitten. Knowing another life depends on you living is a very strong motivator to live. I've been there and that has helped me tremendously when the dark thoughts creep in. Make a promise to be there for them and keep it.
According to one of the comments within the post, he does have a dog.
Load More Replies...I hope the guy living in the same building studying in the same Highschool rings at that guy's door some time and cheers him up if he can...
Don't know if you will ever see this dear boy: several times in my life I was where you are. Life was too hard, unbearable, I couldn't take the emotional pain, I have been despondent. I never went through with it for different reasons, but each time my bottom line was that it was my right to experience as much of life's joys as possible, even crumbs of happiness -- and I know that sounds weird, right? Who would want crumbs? Well, me -- I'll take as much as I can get, even the smallest bit it so worth it. No one can promise you life will be easy, but please know that life is hard for most of the 7.53 billion people on this planet. Whatever it is that causes you such deep sorrow, you are not in it alone. I cannot recommend therapy enough -- I have been in therapy for years because I need guidance. It's one of the best things I have done for myself. Please be good to your friend MufasaQuePasa. Big warm comforting hugs to you.
He posted another photo with a smiling face, thanking everyone for their response and asked to be actually roasted, and this time, he wasn't spared :D s2fi2wr7ib...766aae.jpg
in 1991 I jumped in front of a tube train in London. Luckily I jumped too soon, and lay under the train as it roared overhead. Luckily, I lived. I have had the most wonderful life since then. Met and married my husband over 20 years ago and now live in beautiful Cornwall by the sea. Life is worth living. I didnt really want to die, but I just couldn't cope with the depression and anxiety. Life will not be better if you are not here, the people who love you will be devastated. I am so glad my family didnt have to go through that. I am so happy to be alive, and try to help everyone I meet who has depression (easy enough to spot once you have been there yourself!) It gives even more meaning to my life to help others escape this cruel illness. Stay strong, people. Seek help. You ARE worth it !
Glad you made it Nancy. Thanks for writing this
Load More Replies...Nobody living with depression wants to die, they just want to stop feeling pain.
I really hope so. It's not me, but I have family members battling mental illnesses all their lives and sometimes they've mentioned suicidal thoughts. One of them self-submitted in a hospital because of this once. Now they seem better, they are taking their meds, but the mental health care here isn't very good - just sending you to psychiatrist and giving you strong meds, no psychological counseling or something like this, so they are left to cope with all the strange things that go through their minds themselves. They aren't 100% all right, they are a lo better, but they still have depressive episodes sometimes. I talk with them and visit whenever I can, I don't know if I am of much help, but I try to do what I can.
Load More Replies...I live near a very famous and popular suicide spot called Beachy Head, it's a giant cliff. I also used to work in the mortuary at the local hospital. The saddest thing was when people who jumped had grit and gravel under their ripped apart fingernails, from when they changed their mind once they'd jumped and tried to claw their way back up or tried to stop themselves falling. Luckily a different hospital looked after child deaths but suicides were definitely the hardest to deal with.
[Trigger warning-I don't usually warn about what I post, but this is particularly sensitive] This reminds me of a friend-of-a-friends son, local boy who hung himself at the age of just 10 yrs old. When he was found he had scratch marks on his neck from where he changed his mind and tried to stop it; but it was too late. That was over 20 years ago, just devastating.
Load More Replies...I'm so, so glad that people actually offered to help him, it shows that there is still good in the world — perhaps, another reason we all should be fighting? This world has good, this world has bad. I am being quite hypocritical since there has been more than several times when I have considered taking drastic steps, but there has been times when I'm glad I didn't. Internet can bring us down, it can lift us up. I hope he's still alive and resumes fighting again. And bless all those helpful commenters.
"I am being quite hypocritical since there has been more than several times when I have considered taking drastic steps" → That's the very opposite of being hypocritical, so, please, stop thinking you are. You're obviously speaking from experience, a bad experience that you hopefully overcame, because, as you say, the world does not suck as it seems to sometimes. Stay strong, seek help if you need, and don't let irrational thoughts take the best of you. Our brains can be such merciless trolls sometimes.
Load More Replies...I think about this every single day. I could never leave my husband and baby. But depression is a monster that never goes away.
i know what you mean. i`ve thought about ending it all for about a quarter of my life, but i couldn`t do that to my parents... stay strong!!
Load More Replies...I tried slitting my wrists when I was 16. It was a very dark place I was in. I still have the scars on my wrists. Know who's really happy I saw the blood, threw up and went to tall to my school counsellor the next day? My Baby Girl. She's 20 now. But had I succeeded she wouldn't be here either. Who would explain to your dog why you're not there to scratch his ears? I'm not going to say it gets better. Im not going to say it gets easier. All I'll say is it's worth it.
This may sound strange, but the guy should get a puppy or a kitten. Knowing another life depends on you living is a very strong motivator to live. I've been there and that has helped me tremendously when the dark thoughts creep in. Make a promise to be there for them and keep it.
According to one of the comments within the post, he does have a dog.
Load More Replies...I hope the guy living in the same building studying in the same Highschool rings at that guy's door some time and cheers him up if he can...
Don't know if you will ever see this dear boy: several times in my life I was where you are. Life was too hard, unbearable, I couldn't take the emotional pain, I have been despondent. I never went through with it for different reasons, but each time my bottom line was that it was my right to experience as much of life's joys as possible, even crumbs of happiness -- and I know that sounds weird, right? Who would want crumbs? Well, me -- I'll take as much as I can get, even the smallest bit it so worth it. No one can promise you life will be easy, but please know that life is hard for most of the 7.53 billion people on this planet. Whatever it is that causes you such deep sorrow, you are not in it alone. I cannot recommend therapy enough -- I have been in therapy for years because I need guidance. It's one of the best things I have done for myself. Please be good to your friend MufasaQuePasa. Big warm comforting hugs to you.
He posted another photo with a smiling face, thanking everyone for their response and asked to be actually roasted, and this time, he wasn't spared :D s2fi2wr7ib...766aae.jpg
in 1991 I jumped in front of a tube train in London. Luckily I jumped too soon, and lay under the train as it roared overhead. Luckily, I lived. I have had the most wonderful life since then. Met and married my husband over 20 years ago and now live in beautiful Cornwall by the sea. Life is worth living. I didnt really want to die, but I just couldn't cope with the depression and anxiety. Life will not be better if you are not here, the people who love you will be devastated. I am so glad my family didnt have to go through that. I am so happy to be alive, and try to help everyone I meet who has depression (easy enough to spot once you have been there yourself!) It gives even more meaning to my life to help others escape this cruel illness. Stay strong, people. Seek help. You ARE worth it !
Glad you made it Nancy. Thanks for writing this
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