“She Never Barks And Is The Best Hiking Buddy Ever”: Guy Has Had His Friend’s Dog For 2.5 Years When Friend Asks Him To Ship Her Back, Guy Refuses
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Almost all of us love dogs. Some of us dream of having furry friends, whereas others have them already. In fact, they not only make individuals feel less alone and are very cute, they also can help you stop feeling stressed, they motivate you to move, and they can even make you seem prettier, according to scientists.
However, it is important to not forget that any pets cannot just be taken and placed back whenever you please. You must devote as much time, love, and attention to them as you can!
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Imagine being attached to a new puppy and then receiving a request to return your furry friend
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After having the dog for 2.5 years, a guy asks the community if he is wrong to refuse to ship her back to her original owner
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The common consensus among dog owners and specialists is that dogs are not toys, and hence it would not be fair to take it back when it’s convenient
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A guy shared his story in one reddit community asking whether he was being a jerk by refusing to give back a dog to his friend after having her for 2.5 years. This article sparked debate, garnering 2.8K upvotes and more than 260 comments. The man was voted “Not The A-Hole” by the audience in this situation.
The background of the story begins with the author’s buddy leaving his dog, Venus, in his care when he moved abroad. They initially agreed on a temporary basis, but as you are aware, it is incredibly challenging to find accommodation that is pet-friendly. This led to a conversation that the OP can keep the dog if he wants and for 2.5 years, she has been happily living in her new home.
Following this, the original owner called the author and requested that the dog be shipped back to him as he found a place to live where he could take his furry friend. After the author clarified that they had agreed he could have the dog, his buddy offered to buy back his own dog for $2,000. However, the author under no circumstances wanted to return the dog.
Additionally, it is important to note that this situation happened approximately 2 years ago, meaning during the time when the quarantine was strictly enforced. “Up to 4 months in quarantine to dogs according to the British website,” one user researched. Other users were also worried about the dog’s health for a trip like this: “It’s been 2.5 YEARS, she’s settled and happy, it would be unfair to her to put her through all of that! And depending on her age and health, the trip could kill her!”
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Additionally, most of the folks were strict: “Having a dog, or any pet, is not just when it’s convenient. It’s for life.” Additionally, one of the users added: “He stopped being your friend’s dog the moment the friend said “you can keep him.”
Now, according to Starwood Pet Travel, pets don’t like the thought of change, and a move is a significant adjustment. Additionally, Emily Gantt, who is a content creator at the pet tech company “Wag!”, states that even while dog transportation is mostly safe, it’s not unheard of for animals to disappear, sustain injuries, or even pass away in cargo holds, although these occurrences are incredibly rare. After all, dogs are real creatures with feelings and wants, not just a lamp or an item of clothes. After 2.5 years, it appears that shipping a dog alone may not be the greatest decision for its health and experience, as this could cause long-term damage for the dog.
Additionally, the journey might be troubling for a dog, but in this case the change of owners might be even more upsetting. According to Kayleigh Roberts, who is a dedicated dog owner and writer at “Cuteness.com”, many things, such as the dog’s age and previous living situation, will affect how they respond to a new place. Rehoming is typically a very difficult time for dogs. They frequently experience periods of depression and anxiety, especially if they come from a happy environment. And that looks to be the case in this story.
So guys, do you think the author is being wrong for refusing to give back the dog? Have you ever heard of or been in a similar situation?
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Bored Panda contacted Dr. Georgia Jeremiah, who is DVM at Wag! Group Co. to get a more insightful and professional opinion on this situation.
“I would not recommend shipping this dog back to the original owner after 2.5 years of living with another person. Dogs bond closely with their families and experience emotional trauma when their living situation suddenly changes. We are all familiar with seeing depressed and confused pups in shelters who have been abandoned through no fault of their own.
This dog will have established both an emotional connection and routine with his/her current owner and being removed from their current family poses a significant risk to their physical and emotional well-being. It is also important to consider the age of the animal and what percentage of their life (given life expectancy) they have spent with this new owner,” Dr. Jeremiah emphasized.
There are many things to take into account when weighing the benefits and drawbacks of moving a dog. Dr. Georgia Jeremiah listed a number of these, including which owner the dog likes, whether the present owner wishes to keep the dog, how well the dog lives with each owner, and how much time can be given to the puppy.
Now, she agreed to share her experience when dealing with a similar situation. “I once had two Rottweilers in a consultation room and the owner asked me to surgically remove the microchips and replace them with new chips because she and her husband split up. She wanted to move across the country with the dogs that were registered in his name. Sadly, there are laws surrounding animal ownership and both the owner and veterinarian can incur legal ramifications for facilitating such actions.”
And finally, Dr. Georgia Jeremiah highlighted that “Ideally a dog should stay with their original owner where possible, however, in this instance the dog has already adjusted to a change in owner and environment. Whatever the two owners decide, any transitions the dog experiences should be as smooth as possible to minimize the emotional impact on the dog.”
People expressed their outrage in the comments section over the author’s friend’s audacity and shared their own experiences in similar situations
Here's a great way to avoid this in the future which I ended up using myself years back. Long story short we bought a Tamaskan pup from a breeder, when leaving we asked if she could pass our details onto any other owners of the same litter in case they wanted to meet up for playdates etc. Now a year down the line we get a call from another pair of owners who were having a hard time with theirs. We meet up, let the dogs play and discuss behaviours, training etc month later they phone up again saying they can't cope and if we can take him in. They tried to sell him to us first and we refused and then they relented and said we could just have him to which we instantly agree. Seeing the potential for the above story, I write up a short document stating they are willingly giving the dog to us, so ownership etc is passed to us. Dated and signed by both parties. Its a great way to protect yourself from the exact same issue OP had later down the line
Excellent. Great foresight. Hope your newest doggo is happy now and doing well.
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A dog is not furniture. You can't just uproot them if convenient. If you take a dog from another person make sure you have a written agreement so you have proof of ownership.
I haven't seen this comment yet...don't they have dogs in England?? Just get your kid a new dog. If he cared at all for that dog he would never even think of uprooting that poor thing.
Here's a great way to avoid this in the future which I ended up using myself years back. Long story short we bought a Tamaskan pup from a breeder, when leaving we asked if she could pass our details onto any other owners of the same litter in case they wanted to meet up for playdates etc. Now a year down the line we get a call from another pair of owners who were having a hard time with theirs. We meet up, let the dogs play and discuss behaviours, training etc month later they phone up again saying they can't cope and if we can take him in. They tried to sell him to us first and we refused and then they relented and said we could just have him to which we instantly agree. Seeing the potential for the above story, I write up a short document stating they are willingly giving the dog to us, so ownership etc is passed to us. Dated and signed by both parties. Its a great way to protect yourself from the exact same issue OP had later down the line
Excellent. Great foresight. Hope your newest doggo is happy now and doing well.
Load More Replies... A dog is not furniture. You can't just uproot them if convenient. If you take a dog from another person make sure you have a written agreement so you have proof of ownership.
I haven't seen this comment yet...don't they have dogs in England?? Just get your kid a new dog. If he cared at all for that dog he would never even think of uprooting that poor thing.
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