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Family Drama Ensues When Man Feels Unwelcome At Christmas Gathering Because Of Seasoned Food
People become picky eaters for several reasons, including genetics, learned behaviors, and underlying medical or psychological conditions. Whatever the case, their preferences can sometimes pose a problem for those around them.
Take this man, for example. His aversion to all seasonings except for salt has made him a headache to deal with. He even caused a rift in his sister-in-law’s family, whose Christmas dinner plans had been ruined by his dietary restrictions.
The woman tasked with cooking dinner has gone on a rant online, which you will read below.
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It can be difficult to deal with a picky eater
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This woman had to deal with a dinner guest who had an aversion to all seasonings except salt
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The issue escalated into a full-blown holiday drama
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The woman now wonders whether she was out of line
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The author clarified some parts of her story
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She also shared a similar story involving Ben
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Genetics plays a role in people who grow up to be picky eaters
Ben’s food restrictions have caused a ton of frustration to the host family, which is understandable. However, he may not be entirely to blame.
According to Smithsonian Magazine, a specific gene known as TAS2R38 determines how strongly a person perceives bitter flavors. Further studies have found that adults with this bitter receptor have grown particular with their food preferences, some of whom have steered clear of sweets.
The report also noted that human taste is heavily influenced by environment and personal experiences. If a person is repeatedly exposed to specific foods at a young age, they are more likely to accept them as adults.
Mental conditions may also cause strict food preferences. While the author noted that Ben is “perfectly normal and healthy,” she may not be aware of other factors at play.
According to Monell Chemical Senses Center researcher Marcia Pelchat, depression may affect appetite in multiple ways. Worse, their pickiness may also exacerbate their mental state due to social impacts like the inability to go to restaurants or share meals with others.
Empathy and understanding are advised when dealing with picky eaters, such as offering them suitable food choices. The author did provide Ben with different options, which he declined and, instead, requested an unfair menu overhaul. Her refusal to comply was understandable, given that Ben wasn’t the only guest.
The woman answered some questions from readers
Many people sided with her
However, some of them called her out for making fun of their guest
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Emilu 12 hours ago
Right? These YTAs seem dumber than the usual, too (which is saying a lot).
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Corwin 02 12 hours ago
Entitled 23 year old man child who should grow up , I am surprised his parents haven't booted his entitled a*s out of the house yet
Did I say that out loud? 12 hours ago
They're probably the reason he's so entitled, though.
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marcelo D. 11 hours ago
As always the YTA are idiots that cannot read, and say stupid stuff like "just separate some food before putting spices", when OP literally explains how the entitled manchild expected everyone no eat the blandest food so it wouldn't bother his delicate eyes being close to food with spices
wobbly jelly 9 hours ago
there was no mention of juice box or tippie cup I'm worried for him. What about "I'm a big boy" badge - even picky children aren't that fussy but would have to sit to the table. Do what some families do - have a childs table in another room - this was normally down to number of people, but in this case.... then he can have his blanky too
Crystalwitch60 12 hours ago
Lmao YTA trolls yet again NEVER ACTUALLY READ IT ,n no that entitled brat doesn’t have AFRID n yes I know exactly what it means to lol ! This thing is a sodding sociopath!! His behaviour at the wedding shows that ,plus the I’m cling to your home for Xmas nice ty , but do NOT use any spices what so ever in ANY food hell to the f right off Ben ! Stay alone , jeez he’s a wrong un , I do blame his parents 100% cos he should have been take. To doctors early on ffs not enabled, the parents made a rod for their own backs , n now they had enough , oh dear shame that , OP NTA hope all went well n the last few Xmas since have been Ben free to lol
Emilu 12 hours ago
Right? These YTAs seem dumber than the usual, too (which is saying a lot).
Load More Replies... Corwin 02 12 hours ago
Entitled 23 year old man child who should grow up , I am surprised his parents haven't booted his entitled a*s out of the house yet
Did I say that out loud? 12 hours ago
They're probably the reason he's so entitled, though.
Load More Replies... marcelo D. 11 hours ago
As always the YTA are idiots that cannot read, and say stupid stuff like "just separate some food before putting spices", when OP literally explains how the entitled manchild expected everyone no eat the blandest food so it wouldn't bother his delicate eyes being close to food with spices
wobbly jelly 9 hours ago
there was no mention of juice box or tippie cup I'm worried for him. What about "I'm a big boy" badge - even picky children aren't that fussy but would have to sit to the table. Do what some families do - have a childs table in another room - this was normally down to number of people, but in this case.... then he can have his blanky too
Crystalwitch60 12 hours ago
Lmao YTA trolls yet again NEVER ACTUALLY READ IT ,n no that entitled brat doesn’t have AFRID n yes I know exactly what it means to lol ! This thing is a sodding sociopath!! His behaviour at the wedding shows that ,plus the I’m cling to your home for Xmas nice ty , but do NOT use any spices what so ever in ANY food hell to the f right off Ben ! Stay alone , jeez he’s a wrong un , I do blame his parents 100% cos he should have been take. To doctors early on ffs not enabled, the parents made a rod for their own backs , n now they had enough , oh dear shame that , OP NTA hope all went well n the last few Xmas since have been Ben free to lol
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