Cat Rescuer Explains How Cat Social Behavior Is Often Misinterpreted By ‘Dog People’
Have you ever wondered how we actually compare dogs with other animals as if they were our default animal species? Well, according to cat rescuer and writer Elle M., “this hurts cats” since “cats are social creatures” too.
It turns out that many assumptions we have about cats and dogs are due to our inability to recognize their social behavior and the meaning behind them. So in order to shed some much-needed light on canine and feline minds, Elle M. has penned an illuminating thread that explains from the bottom up how both dogs and cats are social in their own special way.
“Cats are ignored and neglected because humans refuse to understand them,” they tweeted, so let’s see the whole thread right below.
One Twitter user, Elle M., has penned an illuminating thread on recognizing social behaviors in cats and dogs to debunk the myth that felines aren’t social
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The author explained how dogs shouldn’t be held as humanity’s default animal just because we often fail to understand that cats are social creatures too
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Bored Panda reached out to Elle M., the author of this viral thread and cat rescuer to find out more about them and their love for cats. “I used to be terrified of cats; as a kid I found them incomprehensible and pointy. But my husband had grown up with cats and wanted one badly, so I gave him what I thought was an impossible challenge: find a Sphynx (hairless) cat and you can take it home,” Elle M. recounted.
“Well, he did, and thus began my cat re-education,” Elle M. said, referring to their cat Rhea the Sphynx, who made them realize that cats weren’t incomprehensible at all. “They were intelligent and complex and above all social creatures who needed love and attention just as much as dogs.”
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In 2018, Elle M. moved to Spain, where they volunteered to take in a few “foster” cats and a litter of orphaned kittens. In addition to their own 4 cats, Elle took in so many cats that they remembered “oh my God, so many more kittens.”
In Spain, where overpopulation of street cats is a huge problem, Elle M. became “that American who takes in cats” and found themself dedicating their time, money, and energy into helping as many sick, injured, and abandoned cats as possible.
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“The idea that cats are loners is, unfortunately, one deeply entrenched in our cultural understanding. And it is true that cats are not cooperative hunters (well, except for lions) so their social behaviors are different from dogs’ social behaviors. They don’t look at one another as members of a ‘pack’ and their hierarchies are mutable and complicated,” the author of the thread told Bored Panda.
According to Elle M., since humans kind of see dogs as the “default” animal, the fact that cats have distinctive ways of communicating can be hard for us to understand. “But using the Dog Default to judge cats is unfair; a cat may not be the same as a dog, but they are just as capable of complex interactions and relationships,” they explained.
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Not only are cats deeply connected to one another, they are also capable of working out problems among themselves. “Two of the orphaned kittens I bottle-fed—Litwick and Gastly—were raised together and deeply bonded. When Gastly passed away, her sister Litwick mourned for weeks. She called for her sister, refused to eat and began to over-groom herself due to stress. It took months for her to adjust and her very obvious sense of loss was heartbreaking to watch.”
Elle M. concluded that “watching cats interact has been hilarious, heartbreaking, fascinating, and frustrating, but above all, they’ve shown me that just because they don’t act like dogs doesn’t mean they aren’t complex social animals with complex social needs.”
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“This is an interesting topic – maybe because people’s definition of “social” differs so greatly,” Molly DeVoss, a certified feline training and behavior specialist who runs Cat Behavior Solutions agency told Bored Panda. “Some people think a cat being social is acting like a dog; others think it is a cat who requests attention from its owner; others think it’s cats who like strangers.”
The feline behavior specialist confirmed that cats and dogs have evolved differently along social lines. “Dogs have status and rank among their family unit, whereas cats have a solitary evolution; they don’t live in family units. In the wild, one cat will claim a territory and defend it vehemently.”
Moreover, “social interaction between cats is fluid and changes throughout the day; whereas dogs have a family hierarchy and it typically doesn’t change much.”
Elle M. believes that there are real consequences to our misunderstanding of cats
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Turns out, “there have been many scientific studies that show how dogs recognize emotion in people’s faces, understand some of our speech, and know how we feel, but very little research has been done with cats.”
Molly explained that this is because “dogs want to please the family members higher up on the social ladder (always the people and sometimes other canine family members), they will exhibit behaviors that are pleasing to us; these could be obedient behaviors as well as seeking out affection. Cats have no instinct to satisfy other members of the household – as long as their basic needs are met.”
The author concluded that cats have very complex social relationships that should be acknowledged
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“How a cat is raised during its sensitive development period shapes how confident and social it will become. Many cats who have limited experiences are more fearful of things they haven’t encountered before. Cats are also home-bodies due to their territorial nature, so when a cat isn’t comfortable going on a car ride, or visiting a friend’s home, they often get labeled as ‘unsocial’.”
Another author similarly shared how our misunderstanding of feline social behavior leads to wrong assumption that cats are “mean”
So they debunked some of the most common interpretations of cat behavior, and revealed what they mean instead
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The cat behaviorist assured that cats can be very independent, but they can also appreciate the companionship of a human, or other cat, very much. She continued: “People sometimes generalize cats’ personalities as independent, aloof, and uncaring, but I’ve found that each cat is a unique individual, with different comfort levels.”
Molly added that cats are a different species than dogs, and should be understood that way. “If you know what a cat is instinctively feeling, and respect that, you can form a close social bond with them,” she concluded.
And this is what people had to comment on the subject matter
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I don't understand how anyone can not see this, especially if you live with a cat. They are so loving and loyal! My cat always greets me (meows) when she sees me or I let her in. When I go out at night, she will come and see me safely inside, so matter what time I come home. She has her favorite people (me and my son) and always tries to hang out in the same room, even when we are working or playing on the computer.
I once had to leave my Tom at home alone overnight. When I came back next morning, he was looking at me and that look said: "Where the hell you've been ?' It is said that dogs have masters, cat's have a staff.
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This post, time 100000. Grew up on a farm, and it's common sense that *different species act differently*. Stop expecting cats to be dogs.
This article and the responses explaining cat behavior illustrate precisely why I like dogs. I don't hate cats. I just like how dogs are always ready for fun and excited to go places. And dogs do approach for petting/scratching and like to hang out. To be fair, I don't like how dogs chew valuable items and bark for no good reason, and I don't like how cats kill birds for fun and jump over walls to crap in my garden.
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Finally! I see too many people being like "ugh cats are just mean, attack you, trick you, want to kill you. Just learn some basic cat body language. And every cat is different. Some want to be with humans but not be pet, some want to sleep on top of you at all times. This cat and dog difference is also why there is a "cats and dogs hate each other" stereotype. They don't, their body language is just different. What dogs see as "play with me!" is for cats "wanna fight?!" (Tail wagging, running towards each other, making a lot of noise etc)
I don't understand how anyone can not see this, especially if you live with a cat. They are so loving and loyal! My cat always greets me (meows) when she sees me or I let her in. When I go out at night, she will come and see me safely inside, so matter what time I come home. She has her favorite people (me and my son) and always tries to hang out in the same room, even when we are working or playing on the computer.
I once had to leave my Tom at home alone overnight. When I came back next morning, he was looking at me and that look said: "Where the hell you've been ?' It is said that dogs have masters, cat's have a staff.
Load More Replies... This post, time 100000. Grew up on a farm, and it's common sense that *different species act differently*. Stop expecting cats to be dogs.
This article and the responses explaining cat behavior illustrate precisely why I like dogs. I don't hate cats. I just like how dogs are always ready for fun and excited to go places. And dogs do approach for petting/scratching and like to hang out. To be fair, I don't like how dogs chew valuable items and bark for no good reason, and I don't like how cats kill birds for fun and jump over walls to crap in my garden.
Load More Replies... Finally! I see too many people being like "ugh cats are just mean, attack you, trick you, want to kill you. Just learn some basic cat body language. And every cat is different. Some want to be with humans but not be pet, some want to sleep on top of you at all times. This cat and dog difference is also why there is a "cats and dogs hate each other" stereotype. They don't, their body language is just different. What dogs see as "play with me!" is for cats "wanna fight?!" (Tail wagging, running towards each other, making a lot of noise etc)
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