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Plus-Size Employee Threatens To Quit If Boss Doesn’t Change Her Uniform, The Internet Takes Boss’ Side
Person wearing a pinstriped uniform serving coffee and dessert on a tray, showing support for uniform policy.

Plus-Size Employee Threatens To Quit If Boss Doesn’t Change Her Uniform, The Internet Takes Boss’ Side

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Work uniforms are a very contentious topic. Some employees are totally onboard and feel that they can create a professional atmosphere where everyone’s on the same page. Others, however, do not want to be restricted and think that uniforms hinder individuality. Some even go as far as to make a huge fuss about it and look for discrimination, even when there is none.

That can be a huge headache for your well-meaning manager. Case in point, Reddit user u/whistlerblue16 opened up about a particularly frustrating situation at work. Their plus-size employee wanted a completely different style of shirt and got upset when her demands weren’t met.

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    One manager shared how they refused to make a dress code exception for a dissatisfied employee

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    If everyone were to be granted an exception to the dress code, there would be no point in having uniforms at all

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    The entire point of a uniform is that everyone wears the same clothes. If some members of staff are required to wear the uniform while others are allowed to do whatever they like, it breaks the entire perception of unity and cohesion. Or, to put it bluntly: either everyone wears the uniform or nobody does.

    Asking for special treatment (e.g. to wear a different style shirt) is unfair to your colleagues. It also means that your manager now has to deal with a tense situation at work. One which could have easily been avoided.

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    Unless they’d personally written the company’s policy on the approved dress code, they probably don’t have the power to change the rules. So they’re only left with one option—asking their coworkers to kindly comply with the rules.

    Now, don’t get us wrong, there should be no tolerance for discrimination in the workplace. However, in this particular case, it doesn’t appear like there was any of that going on.

    The manager was happy to order a larger shirt for the worker, but they wouldn’t budge on the style of the shirt. A uniform is a uniform, and the same rules apply to everyone.

    Of course, not all dress codes are made equal. Some of them are overly strict and impractical. Others are unfair and actively discriminate against specific employees.

    Truly problematic dress code rules ought to be addressed and changed

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    For example, as ‘People Management’ points out, employers should not impose different standards on women and men without the proper justification.

    The dress code policies should not be identical; however, the standards ought to be equivalent. A big red flag would be demanding that women must wear make-up, skirts, or a specific hairstyle if there’s no similar requirement for men.

    Ideally, you want to create an atmosphere of respect and inclusivity at the company so that your employees feel safe and empowered to do their jobs well. Frankly, workers detest it when there are blatantly different standards for different people.

    It’s hard to say what the future of dress codes will look like. It’s possible that workplace uniforms will survive and even thrive in industries that require constant contact with clients.

    At the same time, things could take a very different turn. Let’s not forget that just a couple of decades ago, wearing jeans to work would have been frowned upon in some larger, more prestigious corporations.

    These days, however, (business) casual jeans are usually accepted very widely. Some businesses have relaxed their dress codes even more in the wake of the pandemic, with so many professionals still working remotely or having embraced a hybrid system.

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    The manager later clarified a few important details in the comments under their post

    Some readers wanted to show their support for the manager. Here’s their take on what happened

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    Rokas Laurinavičius

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    Greta Jaruševičiūtė

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    Greta is a Photo Editor-in-Chief at Bored Panda with a BA in Communication.In 2016, she graduated from Digital Advertising courses where she had an opportunity to meet and learn from industry professionals. In the same year, she started working at Bored Panda as a photo editor.Greta is a coffeeholic and cannot survive a day without 5 cups of coffee... and her cute, big-eared dog.Her biggest open secret: she is a gamer with a giant gaming backlog.

    What do you think ?
    UKGrandad
    Community Member
    41 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'll reserve my comment until BP posts the inevitable TikTok video that the employee will make whining about being discriminated against 'just for existing as a larger person'. You all know it's coming...

    Joyce Brown
    Community Member
    2 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm here for this. You are nta. She is way out of line. However, I want to mention a couple of things about being plus-sized, neurodivergent (sometimes comes with fabric sensitivities, etc.). It's possible that the 2x looks great on her, but binds in all the wrong places. One or two sizes up might make her look like she's wearing a tent! Being autistic, I have always been overly sensitive to fabric and fit, even to the point where I pull at and adjust my clothes when they feel binding. After I had children... fuggetaboutit! If I had to wear a non-stretchy belt with all the waist expansion i experienced; I would just stay home. Now that im much older, I have found many life hacks that help my situation(s). Like stretchy belts:) I hope she has a good friend who can tell what looks good on her and can help her pick several styles of pants that go well with her uniform shirt. I also hope she can recognize that she is being way overly sensitive and aplogize.

    UKGrandad
    Community Member
    41 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'll reserve my comment until BP posts the inevitable TikTok video that the employee will make whining about being discriminated against 'just for existing as a larger person'. You all know it's coming...

    Joyce Brown
    Community Member
    2 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm here for this. You are nta. She is way out of line. However, I want to mention a couple of things about being plus-sized, neurodivergent (sometimes comes with fabric sensitivities, etc.). It's possible that the 2x looks great on her, but binds in all the wrong places. One or two sizes up might make her look like she's wearing a tent! Being autistic, I have always been overly sensitive to fabric and fit, even to the point where I pull at and adjust my clothes when they feel binding. After I had children... fuggetaboutit! If I had to wear a non-stretchy belt with all the waist expansion i experienced; I would just stay home. Now that im much older, I have found many life hacks that help my situation(s). Like stretchy belts:) I hope she has a good friend who can tell what looks good on her and can help her pick several styles of pants that go well with her uniform shirt. I also hope she can recognize that she is being way overly sensitive and aplogize.

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