People Support This Boss For Refusing To Completely Change The Uniform For One Plus-Size Worker
Work uniforms are a very contentious topic. Some employees love ‘em and understand that they can create an atmosphere of professionalism. Others, however, think that they’re far too restricting and stifle individuality. Some even go as far as to make a huge fuss and look for discrimination where there is none.
That can be a huge headache for your well-meaning manager. Case in point, redditor u/whistlerblue16 opened up about how they handled a situation at work. Their plus-size employee wanted a completely different style of shirt and got upset when her demands weren’t met. Read on for the full story.
Uniforms have their pros and cons, but dress codes usually apply to all employees equally
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One manager shared how they refused to make a dress code exception for a dissatisfied employee
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If everyone were to be granted an exception to the dress code, there would be no point in having uniforms at all
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The entire point of a uniform is that everyone wears the same clothes. If some members of staff are required to wear the uniform while others are allowed to do whatever they like, it breaks the entire perception of unity and cohesion. Or, to put it bluntly: either everyone wears the uniform or nobody does.
Asking for special treatment (e.g. to wear a different style shirt) is unfair to your colleagues. It also means that your manager now has to deal with a tense situation at work. One which could have easily been avoided.
Unless they’d personally written the company’s policy on the approved dress code, they probably don’t have the power to change the rules. So they’re only left with one option—asking their coworkers to kindly comply with the rules.
Now, don’t get us wrong, there should be no tolerance for discrimination in the workplace. However, in this particular case, it doesn’t appear like there was any of that going on.
The manager was happy to order a larger shirt for the worker, but they wouldn’t budge on the style of the shirt. A uniform is a uniform, and the same rules apply to everyone.
Of course, not all dress codes are made equal. Some of them are overly strict and impractical. Others are unfair and actively discriminate against specific employees.
Truly problematic dress code rules ought to be addressed and changed
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For example, as ‘People Management’ points out, employers should not impose different standards on women and men without the proper justification.
The dress code policies should not be identical; however, the standards ought to be equivalent. A big red flag would be demanding that women must wear make-up, skirts, or a specific hairstyle if there’s no similar requirement for men.
Ideally, you want to create an atmosphere of respect and inclusivity at the company so that your employees feel safe and empowered to do their jobs well. Frankly, workers detest it when there are blatantly different standards for different people.
It’s hard to say what the future of dress codes will look like. It’s possible that workplace uniforms will survive and even thrive in industries that require constant contact with clients.
At the same time, things could take a very different turn. Let’s not forget that just a couple of decades ago, wearing jeans to work would have been frowned upon in some larger, more prestigious corporations.
These days, however, (business) casual jeans are usually accepted very widely. Some businesses have relaxed their dress codes even more in the wake of the pandemic, with so many professionals still working remotely or having embraced a hybrid system.
The author clarified a few details in the comments
Some readers wanted to show their support for the manager. Here’s their take on what happened
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Usually I'm on the employee's side, but in this case I think the manager has been accomodating enough. There's a policy of a uniform uniform, which is not unreasonable and he has ordered a bigger size. which should fit. Now she complains about the style of the uniform which she only have to wear 8 hours a day. She's not getting her way so out she trots the horse of the 'toxic working environment'. Probably in any other situation I would agree, but she's just using 'toxic working environment' as a way of getting her way. She's not being treated disrespectfully, she's not bullied, not made to work unreasonably hard in an unsafe environment. She's just not getting her way. Let's use 'toxic environment' for those cases where it really applies, but I'm afraid it's going the same way as 'traumatic' is going: every setback nowadays is traumatic instead of what it is, a setback you have to deal with, because such is life.
I don't buy argument uniforms "stifle individuality". C'mon you are at WORK! Team effort.
I agree. People like that have to look for jobs like that, they are not entitled to change a uniform they simply don't like once in the job.
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though I totally agree with this, she asked for a different style of shirt, not a different fabric
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Usually I'm on the employee's side, but in this case I think the manager has been accomodating enough. There's a policy of a uniform uniform, which is not unreasonable and he has ordered a bigger size. which should fit. Now she complains about the style of the uniform which she only have to wear 8 hours a day. She's not getting her way so out she trots the horse of the 'toxic working environment'. Probably in any other situation I would agree, but she's just using 'toxic working environment' as a way of getting her way. She's not being treated disrespectfully, she's not bullied, not made to work unreasonably hard in an unsafe environment. She's just not getting her way. Let's use 'toxic environment' for those cases where it really applies, but I'm afraid it's going the same way as 'traumatic' is going: every setback nowadays is traumatic instead of what it is, a setback you have to deal with, because such is life.
I don't buy argument uniforms "stifle individuality". C'mon you are at WORK! Team effort.
I agree. People like that have to look for jobs like that, they are not entitled to change a uniform they simply don't like once in the job.
Load More Replies... though I totally agree with this, she asked for a different style of shirt, not a different fabric
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