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Psychologists think we tend to ignore red flags because we simply don’t want to be right. Falling in love can really mess up our minds, and turning a blind eye to behavior that’s obviously not right is one way. After all, finding someone you truly like is like winning the lottery these days, but no matter how much we’d want to fall in love, some glaring signs indicate we may be better off without them.

Examples of Red Flags (Funny But True)

When X user Lauren Chanel (formerly of Twitter) asked, “What’s a simple red flag that has never failed you? Something small like a person quoting 48 Laws of Power”—it struck a chord with many people. 

The illuminating replies started pouring in, and they definitely shed light on what to be cautious about in our love interests. You might find some of the biggest red flags in a guy funny at first glance, but they actually reveal what kind of a person they are. From people who say they hate animals to “littering,” some things may look basic or funny at first, but when you really think about it…

Whether you find the biggest red flags in a girl funny or not, the following compilation may save you from taking the wrong step. By the way, this isn't just a collection of funny red flags for girls; it includes funny red flags for guys, too!

#1

arion_exclusive tweets about service workers as red flag in relationship

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Dre Mosley
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4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Took a woman on a date years ago who did that. Had our waitress constantly attending our table, you could tell she got off on having a "servant." It was a major turnoff. Didn't go out with her again after that.

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    cmpriest tweets about people who hate animals as red flag in relationship

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    Raine Soo
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have always wondered why people think that it is alright to say that they hate cats. The general response would be "Yeah, I get it. Cats are assholes." If you say you hate a dog, then the whole world is against you. "How dare you hate a dog? What sort of sub-human are you?" To cat-haters: what in the world did a cat ever do to you? So, yes, I'd run far, far away from someone who would harm a cat, or any animal, really.

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    Razafirme tweets about why women don't like good guys as red flag in relationship

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    Have you ever been in love? Your best friend, your family friend, your parent? If so, you’d know very well how love changes people. Thankfully, the transformation is usually for the better, but sometimes, we fall head over heels so deeply that we lose the ability to detect doubts and other negative reactions we have with our love interests.

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    Elite Daily interviewed some experts. Here’s what they had to say about blind love and its impact on the people in the relationship.

    In fact, very few of us are immune to this phenomenon, says nationally recognized psychotherapist Dr. LeslieBeth Wish, who considers blind love to be something that doesn’t have to do with appearances. It usually hits during the honeymoon phase, when we still haven’t had enough time to experience the negative side of our loved ones.

    #4

    happyhappywho tweets about alpha male as red flag in relationship

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    RERittenhouse tweets about janitor as red flag in relationship

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    Troux
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There's some sense to this statement. You can have respect for your fellow human and also respect the roles that different people have. If you make a big spill in a mall or airport, will you get a mop or a janitor? Just apologize and show gratitude.

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    #6

    Juel92 tweets about everyone else in their life is the problem and not them

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    Troux
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Fact: All drama magnets are negative polarity.

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    According to relationship expert Susan Winter, who also spoke to Elite Daily, the honeymoon phase brings all the best parts of our significant others to the spotlight. “We haven’t experienced the many times they’ll disappoint, let us down, and hurt us. These are the things that occur later in a relationship. Without knowing the totality of our partner, we are forced to see them in a state of love blindness.”

    #7

    but_im_kim_tran tweets about littering as red flag in relationship

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    Keri O'Donnell
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    omg - the most violent person I know is a huge litter bug - flings stuff all over the place, disgusting...also a serial domestic abuser and physically violent

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    #8

    elizabethjoy_xo tweets about humour and jokes as red flag in relationship

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    Pamela24
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Those people also often can't stand jokes of similar type aimed at them.

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    #9

    HelenKennedy tweets about people who are rude to waiters as red flag in relationship

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    MiniMaus
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Took my date to a great restaurant where one of my best friends was our waiter. I introduced them to each other. On the ride home my date said to me " I cannot believe you would introduce me to a waiter... and what is it with you wearing a trench coat to a luxe restaurant.. don't you have anything nicer?" LAST DATE.

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    After the honeymoon phase ends, many lovebirds start to see and experience the not-so-pretty side of their relationship. This is why recognizing your initial doubts at the beginning of a relationship is crucial. Cherlyn Chong, a dating and breakup recovery coach, suggests seeking a person who can meet one’s needs “regardless of surface or social standing.”

    “They need to not completely judge people right off the bat, but they should also prioritize those compatibility traits.” Thus, often, that very first hint of a negative reaction you have may be the most telling one. Basically, don’t ignore the red flags!

    #10

    j_derekb tweets about name pronouncing as red flag in relationship

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    Periwinkle
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's part of someone's identity, It's important you get it right to respect them if they are sensitive or feel more comfortable with you doing so.

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    #11

    JessBot5000 tweets about knowing how many days until a girl turns 18

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    Kiss Army
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree. I worked at a fast food restaurant in my younger days and this one guy would come in and ask me if I was 18 yet - answer was always NO (even though I worked there until I was 20)! I never told him the age of consent is actually 16 in the state we live in because I didn't want him to harass other girls. I did; however, let him know my dad was a cop so he started leaving me alone after he showed up in uniform while the guy was eating there.

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    MRSS
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Best part of that, other then how simply creepy and gross it is, is the fact that all these "Men" thought that they had a chance at getting them.

    Leo Domitrix
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think I just threw up in my own brain at this. omg.

    Oskar vanZandt
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or men who "date" teenaged girls claiming they were convinced "...she was 21"... I call b*llsh*t on that.

    embarrassed american
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like an 18 year old would want to be with pervs like that

    Debrina Blackmoon
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Had an 18 yr old pursue me when I was 14 and my "parents" agreed I should marry him(yes, the freak sort of proposed). He chased me for over 7 years then told everyone he was actually gay...even had a boyfriend.

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    ZenChickChristine
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would say this should go both ways (minors are minors, period) but I’ve never known any women to do something like this. The ONLY time this is acceptable is when that adult is counting down to wish a genuine happy birthday to a young person in their family or a friend’s family.

    RoseTheMad
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember that UK s**t-rag "newspaper" The Sun literally had a countdown until the day Emma Watson turned 18. It's f*****g disgusting. They should have been shut down for that but no, they're still printing their bollocks today. :/ And honestly, I feel the same thing is going to happen to Millie Bobby Brown, there's some really, really disturbing comments I've seen about that poor girl.

    Mim Sörensson
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Eugh… The Sun. I’m a goddamned swede and even I despise The Sun. Admittedly it’s no business of mine, but some things seem hard to avoid. The Sun is one of them.

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    spencer
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    they did it for billie eilish, literally, like MIDNIGHT of her bday they were making comments about her + her body

    Zaza Pheuteu
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is so very disturbing 😱

    Phoenix
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That’s....very very creepy

    Bill
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lex and Terry radio show had a countdown clock since the Olsen twins were 12

    Craig Reynolds
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    WTF? Is that like, 3, 2 , 1, sexual assault is okay??? WTF?

    Roxy Eastland
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sun newspaper did this for when Sam Fox would be old enough to be photographed topless for their page 3. How awful is that?

    Mohsie Supposie
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Whenever I saw any of those pages, I was out of there immediately!

    Krzysztof Ziętek
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh s**t, that gave me creeps. :/ WTF is wrong with some people?

    lemsip
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What they mean is that they think they have a chance with them and they would be happy for the age of consent to be lowered to 14 so they can have them then.

    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    SO.MUCH.THIS. She's not a year older, she is literally one minute older than 17 at midnight.

    Lily Winchester
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    2 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Drake "They're only 'friends' until they turn 18"

    1.21Gigawatts?!
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    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m pretty sure the actors of Danny Tanner and Joey Gladstone were among those who did it. Only Uncle Jesse was the normal one of the three

    Chris Challis
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    for what reason? these grown men were never going to meet, let alone have any congress with the Olsen Twins or any other 18 year old....

    Mark Kelly
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And a grown man who doesn't wait until 18.

    Carole Caporale
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Remember Howard Stern's count down on the olsen twins.... Ewwww.

    Rukkia
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes!!! Creepy and inappropriate. At what point did this become acceptable in any way. they are children!!

    backatya
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    nothing says she has to go with older men it takes 2 unless she's forcibly taken. S**t hollywood has been doing it for years especially the old movies.

    Ryan Deschanel
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is it really a thing? Do those people really exist?

    Poly Amorous
    Community Member
    3 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep. The day Emma Watson turned 18, photographers played down in the ground and took pictures up here skirt bc "now it's legal"

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    Sara Jean
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once new a man child like this except he and his buddy literally check out 12 year olds at the beach and openly admits it , can you say pedophile?!

    Peter Malthus
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Men who vocalize this stuff always do it in a hungry tone of voice. Makes every single layer of my skin crawl

    Ivana
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is a few days going to make a difference? Like 50 years from now they still won't have a shot in hell.

    Wendy Lam
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Creep! I would lie and tell it to my brother, he will provide you a knuckle sandwiches!

    I I
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    as a male i find that both creepy and mentally weird

    Gary h
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I remember this, I had a crush on mary-kate, we're almost the same age before you dummies start crying pedo, btw. Everybody thought they were going to pose in playboy... Nope! Went and did a bunch of crack instead! I haven't really followed them, hope they're doing better than in 2009.

    Chewie Baron
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    One of Murdoch's newspapers here in the UK (gone now, it was heavily involved n the phone hacking scandal), had a countdown calendar to when Charlotte Church turned 18. I think it started when she was 15.

    DKS 001
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yeah .... like "Oh look, this many days until they're no longer jail-bait! Then they're MINE!" (shudders)

    Melvin Dragvelk
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is creepier that you kept track of this on the internet.

    Tala Koala
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    4 years ago

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    It was a f*****g joke ... no one actually thought they had a shot with them!

    Shawna Kimble
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    They did this for the OLSEN TWINS? Really?? Eww. They look like Troll dolls to me.

    No one
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Please stop making fun of people. Maybe you are jealous of them or something. I don't care. Just be quiet.

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    MiraiJack
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    4 years ago

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    Disgusting. Counting time as if we couldn't be turned on by underaged people.

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    Olsen twins? Are you serious?

    Nicola Roberts
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    4 years ago

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    There are plenty of countries that deem someone can consent at 12 years old.

    JessG
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Are you defending this behavior?? That is barbaric and disgusting and has been changing steadily over the last few years. Child marriage is a crime in most developed countries.

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    humahasit tweets about people who try to bond by talking badly about other people

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    mph seti
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, I've never understood people who bond over and constantly talk about things they hate instead of things they like. Sure, it's fine to mention it when it comes up...But to actively seek out things to hate is sad.

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    #13

    kianamoods tweets about apologize as red flag in relationship

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    David Retsler
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A basic apology demonstrates remorse for something you did or didn't do. You start by saying "I'm sorry." Then you identify what it was that you did or didn't do to offend, you show you understand it hurt or offended the other person and how it hurt or offended them, and you tell them what you will do to avoid repeating it in the future. For example: "Hey, John- I'm sorry I told Mike you were getting divorced. You told me that in confidence and I know I betrayed your trust by sharing it with him. I value your trust, John, and promise you that if you ever confide in me again, my lips will be sealed." Notice I didn't offer an excuse like "I did it just that one time" or " I didn't know it wasn't public info." OWN IT when you apologize. Explaining yourself can come later if THEY request it. Otherwise, you're just throwing out excuses and not owning it.

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    LusraGray tweets about appearance as red flag in relationship

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    Remi Flynne
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ex friend kept doing this to me. I would start a conversation that she would wave away with with the comment 'oh, you and your x idea' as though it was weird when it was usually just something I'd seen in the news and wanted to share thinking she'd be interested. She'd roll her eyes and pull faces if she didn't understand or agree. She would demean compliments I got from people to make them appear worthless. I realised her low self esteem got a boost from belittling me. People who only feel better when they try to diminish you are not genuine friends. Real friends would want to listen and support you. Even if you miss the fun times (I do) it's truly not worth the other times when you go home upset and thinking 'what on earth was that for?'.

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    #15

    mitzy247 tweets about who can never accept whe they've made a mistake

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    Remi Flynne
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People who won't apologise. Accept it if you have stuffed up. There is no weakness in recognising that and saying sorry to those you have hurt. It is weak to try and hide it, cowardly to try and pretend you did nothing wrong.

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    PeterAstridKane tweets about shopping carts as red flag in relationship

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    Mohsie Supposie
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In UK, in most supermarkets, you have to put a £1 coin to get a trolley. If you want your coin back, you must return the trolley. (and yes, we call it a trolley!)

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    #17

    GleaningSage tweets about not listening to a small no as red flag in relationship

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    Ozacoter
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Like when you dont drink alcohol and people keeps pushing you to have one.

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    #18

    ehs06702 tweets about everyone else is a bad as red flag in relationship

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    Some Cool Guy
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She obviously doesn't drive all day for a living

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    #19

    WaltHasNoCell tweets about not holding doors as red flag in relationship

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    troufaki13
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or not saying thank you when someone holds the door for you

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    #20

    LisaNNwachukwu tweets about scamming as red flag in relationship

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    Chicago Dog Lover
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Similar to "if they will cheat with you, they will cheat on you."

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    #21

    AlisaValdesRod1 tweets about hating all their exes as red flag in relationship

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    Remi Flynne
    Community Member
    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My sister would believe 100% every critical story about every new boyfriend's exes. Boyfriend after boyfriend - they all had evil exes. Then, shock, discover that her boyfriends were actually the people with the problem. Not saying that applies in all cases but be wary if it's a trend in the partners you pick.

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    #22

    AlisaValdesRod1 tweets about men who call it cute as red flag in relationship

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    Wendillon
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What about a woman thinking it's "cute" when a man cooks them dinner? Are we throwing those women in the trash too or is this a gender specific thing?

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    #23

    megpillow tweets about someone who gets angry when their sport team loses

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    Troux
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    100%. It tells me they are more a fan of cults than sports.

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    #24

    freddymac2020 tweets about converstations as red flag in relationship

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    Vic
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I see narcissistic behaviour is rising among people, or maybe it was always there any social just makes it more evident.

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    #25

    kjxoxo tweets about they don't ussually find women interesting as red flag in relationship

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    Kristof De Smet
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just a quick remark: men are not the only ones who do this

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    #26

    officialsadgyal tweets about people who leave food on the table as red flag in relationship

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    Pink kitty
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I used to work as a cleaner. I couldn't understand why some people would leave their lunch rubbish on the table when you had to pass the bin to leave the room!

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    #27

    SarahSmith4WA tweets about man who follows a no thanks as red flag in relationship

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    Wendillon
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I feel like this might also be the influence of movies showing that you have to be persistent and if you keep trying he/she will fall in love with you so "don't give up".

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    #28

    LisaNNwachukwu tweets about drama in life as red flag in relationship

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    Leo Domitrix
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    IMHO? We have to be careful what we mean by "drama", as in, do we mean overexaggerating small problems, or do we mean the person is a self-fulfilling prophecy of doom, or do we mean that they had bad luck and are feeling crappy about it?

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    #29

    janieboo25 tweets about men who say I word hard and play hard as red flag in relationship

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    Giovanni
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I barely work and barely play, i mostly take depression naps. Is it ok?

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    #30

    _Astro_Nerd_ tweets about people who have to announce every good deed they do

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    Katie Lutesinger
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've never been religious, but I do like that line in the bible about how when you do good deeds it doesn't count if you brag about it afterwards. Because it's true - you should do kind, charitable things for their own sake, not just to make yourself look good.

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    #32

    thelexep tweets about people are so sensitive these days as red flag in relationship

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    mph seti
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hate this one. People have always been having their feelings hurt by insensitive (and bigoted) comments. It's just that nowadays it's much more acceptable to call people out on it. For example, decades ago, women had to just quietly take workplace harassment or be fired.

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    #33

    LacieDank tweets about politically correct to say as red flag in relationship

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    Truth Monster
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I disagree with this one. There is a lot of politically correct racist and misogynist things said and there are a lot of not politically correct things which are not racist and misogynistic. The preamble is to recognize that you may not agree with what they are saying. That doesn't make it automatically wrong.

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    #34

    kindaashady tweets about good guys as red flag in relationship

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    Paul Mitchell
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or... I'm a nice person.... it's not for them to judge, it's for people who know them to decide if that's what they think.

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    #35

    astro78 tweets about kids and father as red flag in relationship

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    StIJN
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    actually it means something worse : "they don't want to see their kids"

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    #36

    WarmestRegardss tweets about trusting women as red flag in relationship

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    Hermitbunny
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's easy to assume women who don't have women friends must not like women. When really tons of us are just too f*ckin shy ^.^;;

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    #37

    Juva881 tweets about man who says ride or die as red flag in relationship

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    #38

    Teacher_Toni tweets about generation as red flag in relationship

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    Iggy
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No generation is soft. Those who suggest it should stop paying attention to silly Daily Mail nonsense.

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    #39

    msdanifernandez tweets about saying perfect for her as red flag in relationship

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    Oskar vanZandt
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think the key of the OPs concern is that the men who say she's perfect barely know her... a bit premature to make such an evaluation. Plus those men probably have unrealistic expectations about a relationship with her...

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    #40

    rosiebuttoncups tweets about Elon Musk as red flag in relationship

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    Ziva Kravdahl
    Community Member
    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh! I have one red flag! People who do not like others JUST because they like different things and judging others by it.

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    Did you enjoy those funny red flags? Well, we hope you did and also learned a thing or two about blind love. So, next time you notice a red flag, don’t turn a blind eye to it. What are some of the red flags that you have experienced? Don’t forget to let us know in the comments. Also, share this with your friends and steer them away from these red flags!

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    EQXL
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Americans making too much out of a word. Sure it's not something to just say all the time, but it has become such a big thing that it also scares those who really feel it and wanna be honest about it.

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    dlk2000
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this is the only one of these that I don't agree with. I don't want kids and whenever it casually comes up in coversation, its like i'm some kind of monster. Not like I go around hating children, but that seems to be how everyone reacts to this point of view

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    Barbz
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't think some of you understand what she's saying. A male gynecologist most likely knows the hygiene around the female body. The girl in this tweet is talking about men that know nothing about female anatomy and are telling women how to clean their genitalia. This isn't uncommon, I've seen men that say women should clean their crotch with soap, when in reality, if they did that they'd most likely develop a yeast infection. You guys are putting so much effort into wrapping your heads around this tweet. It's not that deep.

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    StIJN
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    if exceptions exist, maybe 100% wasn't correct percentage.

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    Vic
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Really? I'm just asking for opinions..

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    Troux
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you can bankrupt a casino, you're not a good businessman. If you can bankrupt FIVE casinos, you're the largest parasite known to science.

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    Troux
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This needs context. There are some overcontrolling types who demand devotion and almost worship in a relationship and they call it 'loyalty' in the same way they expect a dog to by loyal. On the other hand, there are people who ask for loyalty simply because they've been cheated on or abandoned in some form and are just looking for a person who will stick with them and not get bored or dismissive or dishonest towards them.

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    Raine Soo
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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Entrepreneur is the new meaning for unemployed. Oh, wait, or is that an influencer?

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    Foxxy (The Original)
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I disagree with this. I honestly do not care what people think of me (online) but I am not an asshole and don’t use it as an excuse to be terrible.

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    Periwinkle
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Psychopath, except they forgot to act it this time.

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    Mohsie Supposie
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This will depend entirely on the person. I would definitely not call that a red flag. For example, policemen/women will always refer to people as male or female. Are all policemen/women red flags?

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    David Retsler
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a key indicator of a loser with a victim mentality.

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    Truth Monster
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Playing devil's advocate can help you see more points of view and identify weak or flawed spots in logic.

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    4 years ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not bad to recognize the neurological happenings in our brain, but they end up seeing selfless behavior that is also self interested as all bad. It's kind of beautiful imo, being kind is also selfish? How weird is that.

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    StIJN
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    4 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    in general, or just in batman context? the dark knight one vs the joker vs the zany joker of the animated series vs romero. i think some can be a fan favorite without having mental issues.

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