“That Was 17 Years Ago And I Still Don’t Answer Their Calls”: 30 Heartbreaking Things Committed By Close Friends That Broke People’s Trust Forever

They weren't truly your friends. Your husband was a true friend.

Calling your husband "some guy" says more than enough. Good riddance.

Good for you moving on. Life's too short to put up with immature humans.

I don't think you had a circle of "friends" at least not one I recognize.

My best friend brought pizza and her kids over to 'feed' my husband and our kids while I was across the country (lived in CA and was in FL) for my dad's funeral. She also then propositioned him while the kids were playing upstairs. She wanted to comfort him. My husband excused himself to the bathroom and called me in a panic because he had no idea what to do. I told him to give her the phone. We don't speak any longer.

I hope she reported her 'friend' as well as an accessory after the fact

There's a special place in hell for some people...

The 'friend' also thought that the rapist had a right to rape you as well, right? As they say, 'with friends like these...'

What ended up happening?

If he did have a "right to know", the police would certainly take care of that.

THIS OPENS MORE QUESTIONS: Did you testify? Did you speak up? Why were you not believed nor listened to? Why would your best friend be so utterly shunned on one person's testimony when there's you to counteract it? I'm not disbelieving you -- I have questions.

False reports should be illegal. You're destroying people's lives and making it harder for real victims to be taken seriously. Anyone who cries wolf on this issue are disgusting, despicable human beings.

Woman who cry rape without actually being assaulted p**s me the eff off. As a sexual assault survivor, I want to punch them in the face when they do that. No wonder women rarely come forward! (I'm in no way trying to leave guys out of this as I know they can be victims, too)

Well, did you speak up for him? Sounds like no

Knew someone who accused a guy of raping her. She had no after affects what so ever. I didn’t believe her even though he was a scumbag I still think she lied for the attention. She never seemed upset or anything and never had an issue being around him or even being alone with him after wards.

In high school I was the rumor police. This was around the time cell phones were gaining real traction but before the iphone. If A talked bad about B I would pull out the old Nokia and call B and loudly say "Hey A is here and they have something to say to you." And then hold out phone to A, who NEVER takes the phone. I was so known for it that eventually I didn't even have to have the person's number, people just believed I had everyone's number. Lol.

People think bullying general is a school thing, as you get older many overlook bullying. If you think about it bullying starts at higher levels governments/churches/other institutions. It would be great if bullying was made obscene to society but the sad fact is it's baked into what we accept. On a side note you bully me or mine you'll get a very loud and harsh verbal warning, you threaten me or mine you'll be running or one of us will end up on the ground. I don't accept it and will always be hardcore against bullying, while my responses to bullying may seem hypocritical it's a stand I take

The world needs more people like you.

Badass

I had such a bad reputation as a kid and almost all was due to the fact when adults bullied kids, I did not keep my mouth shut. No regrets.

The exact same thing happened to me. He did his best trying to convince me that his wife was irrational, and that he was the sane one in their relationship. I told him to get out of my house. That was over 30 years ago, and his exwife is still one of my dearest friends.

Smart choice. If he cheated on his wife and took pleasure from it, he's a narcissist and worse.

Ik what you mean. I was in the hospital for 6 months because of a brain infection, and besides a few letters from my one friend, no one ever reached out to check up on me, not even the boy I considered my best best friend. By the time I was out of the hospital, I was starting from ground zero in terms of friends. Also, COVID hit, so yeah. Thanks guys.

I had a group of close friends that I considered almost like family. When I told them that I had PTSD from lifelong emotional abuse by my mom, one of my older friends said, "I believe you, because I know you wouldn't lie about something like that, but your mom is great and I'm not going to stop being friends with her." The others said literally nothing. I don't talk to any of them anymore.

Literally same story here, I am just 30 years old now. But this happened to me a few times as well. Hard times definitely tells you who your real friends are.

Had the same thing happen to me 10 years ago when I broke my back. None of my "good friends" visited or asked to help. A couple of other people did, surprisingly.

Those weren't real friends.

About 60 is "going to die soon anyway"? Well, I'm over 60 and in fine health.

I finished my degree at age 46. I had a few classmates my age, but most were younger. I never had any unwarranted comments, but it was definitely different than when I was 18. Still love the fact that I finished. ♥️

In one of my courses, there was an older man, well known in my country, who started the same year as I did. Why was he well known? He was accused of murder over a decade previous, and was back with the intention of studying law to better help himself. I didn't know who he was at first, until I was told his name. Some of my friends and I used to refer to him as Indy whenever we saw him on campus. He wore a hat reminiscent of Indiana Jones. That was 2009. Its still not known who actually committed that murder.