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Karen’s Bad Manners Cost Her A Significant Amount After She Could Have Gotten Everything For Free
Karen’s Bad Manners Cost Her A Significant Amount After She Could Have Gotten Everything For Free
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Karen’s Bad Manners Cost Her A Significant Amount After She Could Have Gotten Everything For Free

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Few things are more stressful than being an emergency medical care provider, yet some people manage to make their job even more difficult than it already is.

An accident & emergency department worker, redditor ‘Disastrous_Encounter’, recently discussed the time they encountered someone who made their job needlessly difficult. There was a patient who came in with a sprained ankle, but that didn’t stop her from being rude to the staff and disparaging of the treatment she was getting, consequently resulting in her getting petty revenge, too.

Scroll down to find the full story below, where you will also find Bored Panda’s interview with the user ‘Disastrous_Encounter’, who was kind enough to answer a few of our questions.

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    Being a healthcare professional is a challenging job as it is

    Image credits: Mikhail Nilov / pexels (not the actual photo)

    But some people, like the patient in this story, can make it even more difficult

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    Image credits: MART PRODUCTION / pexels (not the actual photo)

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    Image credits: Disastrous_Encounter

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    Troublesome patients are unfortunately not that uncommon

    Being a healthcare worker is far from easy, yet thousands of new professionals enter the workforce every year. In the UK, for instance, where the OP’s story took place, the number of such professionals has been increasing for more than a decade, Statista reports (with one drop in numbers during the Covid period in 2021).

    According to said source, there were approximately 1.5 million health professionals employed in the United Kingdom in 2020. (Globally, there were reportedly more than 65 million of them working in the field in the same year.)

    In a recent interview with Bored Panda, the OP shared that they now work on the other side of the world from where their story happened back in the early ‘90s. “The rules around NHS billing for tourists may well have changed by now,” they said.

    The redditor recalled that what got on their nerves the most was the patient’s arrogance and how rude she was to the nurses. “She complained about the wait, which was due to someone else being really sick, while she could wait with no ill effect. She implied we were incompetent for not dealing with her quickly as was her ‘right’ (when she actually had few).”

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    The OP emphasized that the patient was a particularly annoying example of a type they had dealt with before. “Most of the time we let it slide. That time I had the tools for petty revenge.”

    Image credits: MART PRODUCTION / pexels (not the actual photo)

    Rude patients are “fuel for burnout”, the OP says

    “ED [emergency department] and A&E [accident & emergency] staff meet rude and aggressive people very regularly. Often drunk and aggressive, too,” the redditor continued, pointing out that troublesome patients are not that rare of an occurrence. “I’m now fortunate that I do something more specialized, so people tend to realize they ought to show some normal courtesy by the time I see them.”

    The OP added that rude and negative people make the job harder. “Placating them sufficiently so they don’t cause even more problems is a time sink and slows things down for everyone around them. It’s also demoralizing to know that you’ve done things right, but for some it is never good enough. That’s fuel for burnout.”

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    Experiencing burnout is, unfortunately, an unsurprising but upsetting reality of people who spend countless hours studying and working hard so they can help those in need. Needless to say, the recent pandemic hasn’t made things any easier for the professionals in the field, either.

    A study conducted by the Qatar Foundation and the World Innovation Summit for Health (WISH) found that, during the pandemic, burnout affected somewhere between 41-52% of healthcare workers. “The pressure isn’t new, but COVID-19 has brought into sharp focus the need for better care for those who care for us,” Sultana Afdhal, Chief Executive Officer of WISH, emphasized.

    The least we can do to take better care of those who care for us is being respectful and kind to the healthcare workers that look after us. And if that is not enough for someone to change their rude behavior, having to pay for something that would have been free otherwise might do the trick.

    Image credits: Cedric Fauntleroy / pexels (not the actual photo)

    The OP provided fellow redditors with more details

    People shared their thoughts and discussed similar experiences in the comments

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    Miglė Miliūtė

    Miglė Miliūtė

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    A writer here at Bored Panda, I am a lover of good music, good food, and good company, which makes food-related topics and feel-good stories my favorite ones to cover. Passionate about traveling and concerts, I constantly seek occasions to visit places yet personally unexplored. I also enjoy spending free time outdoors, trying out different sports—even if I don’t look too graceful at it—or socializing over a cup of coffee.

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    Miglė Miliūtė

    Miglė Miliūtė

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    A writer here at Bored Panda, I am a lover of good music, good food, and good company, which makes food-related topics and feel-good stories my favorite ones to cover. Passionate about traveling and concerts, I constantly seek occasions to visit places yet personally unexplored. I also enjoy spending free time outdoors, trying out different sports—even if I don’t look too graceful at it—or socializing over a cup of coffee.

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    Gabija Saveiskyte

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    Hi there! I am a Visual Editor at Bored Panda. My job is to ensure that all the articles are aesthetically pleasing. I get to work with a variety of topics ranging from all the relationship drama to lots and lots of memes and, my personal favorites, funny cute cats. When I am not perfecting the images, you can find me reading with a cup of matcha latte and a cat in my lap, taking photos (of my cat), getting lost in the forest, or simply cuddling with my cat... Did I mention that I love cats?

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    Gabija Saveiskyte

    Gabija Saveiskyte

    Author, BoredPanda staff

    Hi there! I am a Visual Editor at Bored Panda. My job is to ensure that all the articles are aesthetically pleasing. I get to work with a variety of topics ranging from all the relationship drama to lots and lots of memes and, my personal favorites, funny cute cats. When I am not perfecting the images, you can find me reading with a cup of matcha latte and a cat in my lap, taking photos (of my cat), getting lost in the forest, or simply cuddling with my cat... Did I mention that I love cats?

    What do you think ?
    Upstaged75
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's totally NOT true about rude people getting better care in the US. Total load of BS.

    Linnoff
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just within my family I've seen doctors become a lot more attentive when someone starts making a fuss. My mom would have died if she hadn't yelled at the doctors that something was wrong after her surgery, but they thought she was just overreacting about the pain until they did another scan and realized they screwed up.

    Load More Replies...
    General Anaesthesia
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The story starts with "A long time ago..." and later OP responds to a question, "...I really don't know now, I haven't been a UK resident for decades...". Scraping Reddit for content is one thing, scraping (at least) twenty-year old anecdotes like this one resembles a quest to find boorish Americans.

    David Beaulieu
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bored Panda is quickly turning into Buzzfeed but with all the content coming from poorly read Reddit posts. Its a shame.

    Load More Replies...
    Alexandra
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Healthcare in the USA is nothing to brag about. Also, healthcare in the UK right now is also a shambles. These are two first world countries: what's going on?

    General Anaesthesia
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe so-called conservatives in both countries doing their darnedest to prevent or destroy healthcare for the people in favor of healthcare for the profit of shareholders?

    Load More Replies...
    ConstantlyJon
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For reference for my UK pandas, I went to the ER in the US a month ago for some numbness that had us concerned for a stroke. They did an EKG and some cognitive tests and everything was fine. My PCP says I'm too stressed, probably. They didn't even do any brain scans or anything. Just got the ER bill (with good health insurance): $1,200.

    Libstak
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mum is currently under specialist care for her kidney and heart disease, out of 4 doctors, 3 are from the U.K. we are in Australia, damned lovely people, you sent us your best so far as I can see, can't imagine being reticent with any of their care.

    WubiDubi
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “The rules around NHS billing for tourists may well have changed by now,” Yes, anyone not British gets a NHS bill. There are discounts for some countries.

    laura lee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe not now, I think Labour just ran the gamut.

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    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Absolutely wrong" are all American. Good manners come free, bad manners however have a price.

    Danish Susanne
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I disagree with Unable-Confection 509. There is no reason to be rude, but sometimes it is not enough to tell them it hurts. I was in hospital in 2002 and it was really life threatening, but the nurses told my family, that they didn't know it was so bad, because I didn't complain about the pain. I had thought that telling it once was enough, but maybe they thought I was getting better when I didn't do it every day. I ended up being in hospital for 7 months.

    Philly Bob Squires
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    here in the US... it's just SoHaLiSim!! GOTTA cater to big PHARMA and f**k all! 2 tylenol ( paracetamol) is like 500 bux US! Such fun, yeah! BUT we let it go! Can't have humanity here in the US because BIG BUCKS!!! Our politicians SUCK a$$!

    laura lee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maga sucksass conservatives suckass mostly those of maga, stop voting for them (collective usage) and we'll have Universal Healthcare

    Load More Replies...
    CaptainFluffy
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just want to know what the Canadian commenter was doing up a tree 😄

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    Upstaged75
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's totally NOT true about rude people getting better care in the US. Total load of BS.

    Linnoff
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just within my family I've seen doctors become a lot more attentive when someone starts making a fuss. My mom would have died if she hadn't yelled at the doctors that something was wrong after her surgery, but they thought she was just overreacting about the pain until they did another scan and realized they screwed up.

    Load More Replies...
    General Anaesthesia
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The story starts with "A long time ago..." and later OP responds to a question, "...I really don't know now, I haven't been a UK resident for decades...". Scraping Reddit for content is one thing, scraping (at least) twenty-year old anecdotes like this one resembles a quest to find boorish Americans.

    David Beaulieu
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bored Panda is quickly turning into Buzzfeed but with all the content coming from poorly read Reddit posts. Its a shame.

    Load More Replies...
    Alexandra
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Healthcare in the USA is nothing to brag about. Also, healthcare in the UK right now is also a shambles. These are two first world countries: what's going on?

    General Anaesthesia
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe so-called conservatives in both countries doing their darnedest to prevent or destroy healthcare for the people in favor of healthcare for the profit of shareholders?

    Load More Replies...
    ConstantlyJon
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For reference for my UK pandas, I went to the ER in the US a month ago for some numbness that had us concerned for a stroke. They did an EKG and some cognitive tests and everything was fine. My PCP says I'm too stressed, probably. They didn't even do any brain scans or anything. Just got the ER bill (with good health insurance): $1,200.

    Libstak
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Mum is currently under specialist care for her kidney and heart disease, out of 4 doctors, 3 are from the U.K. we are in Australia, damned lovely people, you sent us your best so far as I can see, can't imagine being reticent with any of their care.

    WubiDubi
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    “The rules around NHS billing for tourists may well have changed by now,” Yes, anyone not British gets a NHS bill. There are discounts for some countries.

    laura lee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe not now, I think Labour just ran the gamut.

    Load More Replies...
    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Absolutely wrong" are all American. Good manners come free, bad manners however have a price.

    Danish Susanne
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I disagree with Unable-Confection 509. There is no reason to be rude, but sometimes it is not enough to tell them it hurts. I was in hospital in 2002 and it was really life threatening, but the nurses told my family, that they didn't know it was so bad, because I didn't complain about the pain. I had thought that telling it once was enough, but maybe they thought I was getting better when I didn't do it every day. I ended up being in hospital for 7 months.

    Philly Bob Squires
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    here in the US... it's just SoHaLiSim!! GOTTA cater to big PHARMA and f**k all! 2 tylenol ( paracetamol) is like 500 bux US! Such fun, yeah! BUT we let it go! Can't have humanity here in the US because BIG BUCKS!!! Our politicians SUCK a$$!

    laura lee
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maga sucksass conservatives suckass mostly those of maga, stop voting for them (collective usage) and we'll have Universal Healthcare

    Load More Replies...
    CaptainFluffy
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just want to know what the Canadian commenter was doing up a tree 😄

    Load More Comments
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