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58 “Nice Girls” Who Got A Brutal Reality Check For Their Entitled Behavior (New Pics)
A lot of us have had the misfortune of dealing with a self-proclaimed “nice guy.” You know the type: someone who makes a big point of being kind and respectful, then gets very annoyed when all that supposed niceness doesn’t earn them the attention they were hoping for. Of course, that particular attitude isn’t exclusive to men.
The r/Nicegirls subreddit collects examples of women showing a similar mix of entitlement and unrealistic expectations, often when dating or dealing with relationships. We’ve rounded up some of the posts shared there below, so scroll down to read them and see what you make of it.
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#1
I Don't Care Anymore. Useless Beggars
Norwegian🇳🇴panda 2 days ago
I will never understand people begging or hinting about money from complete strangers online…. I wouldn’t even ask my best friends to borrow money!
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#2
That's A First
StarCrossedFriday 2 days ago
Is this some kind of 'clever' tactic? Or just proof of a very ignorant and unpleasant personality?
#3
Girl Completely Flips Out On Me For Asking To Split The Bill At Nobu
Every so often, we all have to deal with people whose behavior gets under our skin. Maybe they’re rude, selfish or simply difficult to be around. Whatever the case, it usually doesn’t take long for us to notice when somebody else is acting badly.
Yet when it comes to judging ourselves, we tend to be much less critical. A lot of us probably believe that we’re decent and generally treat others well. In our own minds, we’re usually one of the good ones.
#4
I Asked If She Would Split The $350 Sushi Dinner She Wanted For The First Date…
#5
Suggested A Date, Got A Lecture
I suggested we meet for drinks somewhere with a view, or check out a new exhibit at a museum that looked interesting. She asked if we could get coffee the following week. Cool, that works. When I followed up to set up the date, she sent this. What's really funny is that I don't drink alcohol either, it's right there on my dating profile.
Alexandra 1 day ago
Uh, a first date is meant to get to know each other, right? Why would you want to organise an expensive dinner, then meet someone and know immediately that this person isn't your cup of tea and then have to suffer through an entire dinner for which you probably are expected to pay for as well?? That just doesn't make any sense. Coffee and museum sounds perfectly charming to me...
#6
Can’t Make This Up
In fact, research suggests that almost everyone thinks this way. A study by i2 Media Research found that 98% of people believed they were among the nicest 50% of the population.
Clearly, the numbers don’t quite add up. We can’t all be nicer than most other people at the same time, which suggests that at least some of us may have a slightly generous view of our own behavior.
#8
Mad At Me For Sleeping
#9
She Is 41 Btw
Lauren Caswell 2 days ago
The red flags are so numerous, adds one yellow and you've got semaphore
And we don’t only do this when judging our personalities. Researchers from the universities of Chicago and Virginia found something similar when they studied how people saw their own appearance.
Participants were shown photos of themselves that included the real image alongside versions that had been digitally altered to look slightly more or less attractive.
When asked to identify the original, people were more likely to choose an enhanced version of themselves. When they looked at pictures of other people, however, they were much better at choosing the real one.
#10
Sometimes You Just Gotta Dish It Back
#11
I Hate Dating Htx Girls
Binky Melnik 2 days ago
She left a word out; pretty sure she meant "high-class CALLgirl," though I seriously doubt the "high-class" part.
#12
The Bullet That Dodged Itself
So why are we sometimes so bad at judging ourselves? Part of the answer is something psychologists call illusory superiority. It’s a cognitive bias that leads people to overestimate their positive qualities and abilities compared with everyone around them.
Seeing ourselves in a positive light can help protect our self-esteem and make us feel more confident about what we can handle.
#13
Matched With Her, Didn’t Respond Immediately, And She Sent This
Norwegian🇳🇴panda 2 days ago
Wth.. its TWO minutes from first to last message. People are usually not stucked to the phone 24/7…
#14
I’m Sure He Fumbled
#15
Just Your Normal 1st Chat Questions
As a result, someone can genuinely believe they’re being kind while still behaving in ways that hurt the people around them.
Pointing that out may not always go down well either, especially when it clashes with the positive image they have of themselves. Of course, some may be perfectly aware of what they’re doing and simply not care.
#16
Why Even Ask What I'm Looking For If You Assume I'm Immediately Lying?
#17
Did I Say Something Wrong Here?
Gadaffi Duck 2 days ago
I've never had chicken pox and I'm older than the vaccine by a good few years.
KitchenToto 1 day ago (edited)
I don't understand about the importance of having had chicken pox, but then I'm from the UK. I was a child in the 1950s and there weren't vaccines against most childhood diseases, and we didn't have chicken pox parties. I did have chicken pox. Then whooping cough, then measles. The one I didn't have was german measles which is the one that is dangerous because if a woman gets it whilst pregnant it can harm the baby in the womb. So we did have german measles parties. Later on vaccines were available for all these childhood vaccines. Interestingly no parents ever refused to have their children vaccinated
marianne eliza 1 day ago
For those confused about why having had chicken pox or the vaccine should read up on shingles.
Crystalwitch60 2 days ago
I’ve had chicken pox so has my daughter my son however hasn’t he’s now 22 ! And uk has only just started the vaccine for that in young kids ,I had it as a young kid daughter was 7 woke up on her b day covered in bloody spots neither of them had the vaccine for it as it wasn’t a thing ,we always had pox parties to get ur out the way back in my childhood days 1965 on ,
FluffyDreg 2 days ago
Are you ignoring they were playing the game based around identifying the lie someone is saying?
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She Regularly Posts Trash Like This On Her Story, With A Good Combination Of "Men Are Trash" + "Why Am I Single "
According to YourTango, there are several signs that can reveal whether someone is genuinely nice or simply wants others to see them that way.
One thing people who aren’t quite as nice as they seem often struggle with is taking accountability. Being told you’ve done something wrong can be uncomfortable, and admitting you messed up takes a certain amount of self-awareness.
Someone who constantly explains away their behavior or finds a way to make every problem somebody else’s fault may not be as considerate as they believe. The same goes for those who regularly put others down, only to dismiss it as a joke when someone gets hurt.
#19
"My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Sa Him. Wtf???"
#20
All Because I Didnt Respond For 2 Hours
#21
Am I Crazy Here?
A genuinely good person is also likely to show gratitude. They notice what others do for them and make it clear that they value having them in their lives. Someone who rarely appreciates anyone, on the other hand, may be revealing a much less generous side of themselves.
And if they constantly look down on others, that can sometimes come from underlying insecurity. Putting someone else down can become a way of protecting their own self-image and feeling better about themselves.
#22
Was Her Opening Message Btw
#23
Not The First Time I’ve Come Across “I’ll Probably Hurt Your Feelings”
#24
Does This Profile Count? LOL
So it’s worth paying attention when someone seems very invested in convincing everyone that they’re a nice person, yet their actions rarely back that up.
After all, making a good impression is easy. Living up to it takes much more. In the end, how someone consistently treats others usually tells you far more than the image they try to present.
#25
This Isn’t A Dating Bio, It’s A Hostage Agreement
#26
Is It Time To Breakup With My Girlfriend?
#27
If Your Parents Are Divorced… Out
#28
When Your Dating Bio Hands Men A Job Description
#29
I Dated This Woman For 9 Days. The Selfishness She Speaks Of Was My Monthly Date Budget Being “Only” $400
Crystalwitch60 2 days ago
Effeminate and soft 😳so a lovely caring lad ,seems she wants a pos who beats her n treats her badly ,
#30
I Simply Respected Her Rejection
#31
Greet With The Wrong Name? Must Be Gay
#32
Known Each Other For A Week With Dry Convos To Boot
#33
Literally Nothing I Can Say Except That’s Crazy
#34
Taking A Week To Respond Just To Be Rude Is A Different Level Of Audacity
#35
Messaging On Work Number After I Blocked Her
#36
Was Having A Nice Chat About Our Travels And Then I Asked Her Out In A “Non-Assertive” Way
Binky Melnik 19 hours ago
I hope these men appreciate these women revealing their characters quickly before they've typed too much or spent any money!
#37
She Preaches Love And Kindness, Then Calls Me Meaningless For Not Worshiping Her God
#38
Dating Is Exhausting
#39
That Was An Easy Left Swipe For The “Tough Girl”
#40
Brotherrr, I Was Just Making Fun Of Myself
Susan Ostling 1 day ago
Some of these long rambling comments from these entitled stupid people make reading their comment boring
#41
20 Minutes Is Too Long For A Response Apparently
#42
This Is What Peak Delusion Looks Like
#43
For Your Viewing Pleasure
#44
Girl Wants Me To Join Her Discord Right As We Start Talking. Flips Out When I Say No
StarCrossedFriday 2 days ago (edited)
Fascinating priorities - mostly her Discord demand, but also people who apparently spend an amazing amount of time on Discord and/or Reddit.
#45
I Kindly Told Her In Person I Wasn't Romantically Interested After 1st Date
#47
Idk You Tell Me
#48
I Cant Believe She Posted This And Thought She Was In The Right
Binky Melnik 19 hours ago (edited)
Ack! I remember seeing this (and even doing it once) as a teenager, and it makes me wince when people hint about something insteada just coming out and ASKING for something. It would never dawn on adult Me to say something like "Waaah! I don't know a chauffeur/chef/massage therapist/general practitioner/dentist/etc" in an embarrassing, lame attempt to get something for free. Who the hell is raising people nowadays, and who let them procreate? This is why the world is full of a******s now. 🤬
#49
Risky First Message. Glad She Didn't Overreact
Binky Melnik 19 hours ago
People don't seem to understand that when they put "lol" after something, it makes whatever came before it a joke. "I have cancer lol," "I was fired lol," and "I'm broke lol" all make me wonder whether they're looking for sympathy or don't know how to interact with people. I have no clue whether those people laugh when saying the same things IRL.
#50
This Girl Added Me On Instagram Randomly. I've Known Her For About A Week, And Told Her Today I'd Be Busy (She Didn't Acknowledge It) And Because I Wasn't Responding, Had This To Say
Binky Melnik 19 hours ago
I think he is, in fact, ghosting her but she's not getting the message, and if he's not, he SHOULD.
#51
Her Answer After Months Of Ghosting Me
#52
She Told Me She Didn’t Care About Money But Quality Time. I Thought She Was A Good Catch Until…
Five Years 1 day ago
The five minute relationship, so satisfying, ahhhh but now it's over. On to the next five minute conquest.
#53
The Warmth Exudes From This Beautiful Soul
Binky Melnik 19 hours ago (edited)
She's awfully b****y for someone trying to date when she's fifty. Last time I created a dating profile, I listed what I *wasn't* looking for and wowie! I got waaay more hate mail than I was expecting. (Yes, it was from the people I excluded.) (And that meant I needed to open everything to see whether it was a "nay" or a "yay." That was not fun.) (For future reference, just know that if you mention you're not looking for religious people that religious people will say "Hold my beer!" and organize to show you how wrong you are. 😰😰😰) I learned HARD that posting negatives is an excellent way to bring out the hate. 😕
#54
I Come Across Some Of The Best (Worst) Profiles
#55
10 Min Girl
#57
Welp, It Finally Happened
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