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“Proof That You’re The Trash I Always Knew You Were”: MIL Proudly Drops DNA Test Results, Regrets It
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“Proof That You’re The Trash I Always Knew You Were”: MIL Proudly Drops DNA Test Results, Regrets It

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It seems that just when we think a mother-in-law can’t possibly get any wilder or more wicked, one proves us wrong and does exactly that. In this particular case, a MIL was so convinced that her son’s wife had cheated that she secretly DNA-tested their daughter.

The meddling MIL got exactly what she wanted when it emerged that the child’s DNA didn’t match that of her father. But what granny didn’t realize was that the father already knew, and it was never a case of the wife cheating, but rather, something much more traumatic, violent and sad. The wife says the damage has been done, and a family has been left reeling.

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    Her MIL thought she had it all figured out when she DNA-tested her granddaughter without consent

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    But her actions have opened up deep, traumatic wounds that can never be stitched back together

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    The woman explained how the MIL possibly got her DNA

    She revealed that she was planning to tell her daughter about what had happened to her

    “No excuse for this intrusive attack”: Many felt the MIL’s actions were unforgivable

    She then explained where things stand and how her daughter had reacted to hearing the news

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    She later clarified a few things and revealed that the family had retested just to be sure

    Is it legal to test someone’s DNA without their knowledge or consent? Experts explain…

    The Cleveland Clinic defines DNA as the genetic material inside your body’s cells. “It acts like an instruction manual to help make you who you are,” notes the site. “You inherit DNA from both of your biological parents — half from each parent.” Maternity refers to the mom, while “paternity” refers to the male parent.

    “When we test a biological father, both the child and their father will share identical sections of DNA at each marker. If the man tested is not the child’s biological father, there will be differences in the DNA,” reveals AlphaBiolabs, a laboratory that specializes in DNA testing.

    The lab’s team warns that consent for DNA testing is not just a formality. It’s a legal and ethical requirement put in place to protect people’s privacy and autonomy. They add that DNA contains highly personal data that can reveal details about a person’s identity, family relationships, and genetic predispositions.

    The United States has laws like the Genetic Information Nondiscrimination Act (GINA) and the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act (HIPAA), which protect individuals’ genetic privacy and prohibit the unauthorized sharing of genetic information.

    Another DNA testing lab, Validity Genetics, notes that DNA testing laws vary by state. In some states, it’s illegal to collect or test someone’s DNA without their consent, while others may allow it for non-legal, private use.

    That site adds that testing items for DNA found on your own property (home, car, property) or in a communal area (garbage, etc) is not necessarily illegal, particularly if you have a right to possess the items and the testing is for personal use.

    “Additionally, it’s important to note that all laboratories that test these kinds of non-standard samples, such as clothing, bedsheets, or personal items, do so under the doctrine of Implied Consent,” reads the Validity Genetics site. “This means that when an item is submitted for testing, the submitter is attesting they have the right to test that item.”

    According to Validity Genetics, the laboratory’s role is to test the sample as provided, and not to verify ownership or consent—unless it is a legal (chain-of-custody) case.

    In the case of an AlphaBiolabs DNA test, adults have to register their test online and provide their own consent via an electronic signature. Only then can their DNA samples be used for testing.

    When it comes to minors, a parent or legal guardian MUST register the test and provide consent on each minor’s behalf.

    “By providing consent on behalf of a minor, you are making a legal declaration that you have the lawful right to sign on that minor’s behalf for the test that has been ordered,” explains the site.

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    Marno C.
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    3 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I caught the line that even if OP wanted to terminate, it would have been nearly impossible to get the procedure where she lived. I support OP in her decision but I wish that she and women like her were actually empowered to make an actual choice.

    Janelle Collard
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    4 days ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And you thought *your* mother-in-law was bad! Sheesh! This MIL gets her own statue!

    Upstaged75
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    4 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow! I too would have had a hard time not punching that woman in the face, How rotten inside do you have to be to do something like that??? She even felt the need to accuse her DIL in public. I hope she rots alone for the rest of her life.

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    Marno C.
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    3 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I caught the line that even if OP wanted to terminate, it would have been nearly impossible to get the procedure where she lived. I support OP in her decision but I wish that she and women like her were actually empowered to make an actual choice.

    Janelle Collard
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    4 days ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And you thought *your* mother-in-law was bad! Sheesh! This MIL gets her own statue!

    Upstaged75
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    4 days ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow! I too would have had a hard time not punching that woman in the face, How rotten inside do you have to be to do something like that??? She even felt the need to accuse her DIL in public. I hope she rots alone for the rest of her life.

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