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102 Posts That Capture The Sheer Audacity Some Men Bring Into Women’s Lives
Some men truly seem to believe that the world revolves around them. These "God's gifts to women" exist in a golden bubble, where household chores, common courtesy, and even common sense don't apply to them.
There are grown men who are able to hold down a job, drive a pick-up truck through peak-hour traffic, operate heavy machinery and figure out complex tech... Yet they have no idea how to load a dishwasher, sort a pile of laundry, say "please" and "thank you," or treat people with respect.
From weaponized incompetence, to partners expecting praise for doing the bare minimum, and entitled first dates, women have been sharing how certain men have been making their lives a living hell. Bored Panda has compiled a list of some of the most infuriating screenshots, posts and pics that might serve as the perfect motivation for a women-only, remote island nation.
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#1
If Equality Starts At Home, Maybe You Could Actually Help Your Wife With The Chores And The Baby Too
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#2
How My Husband Wrote The Date That He Opened This Orange Juice
#3
Husband Replaced Last 2 Advil With Kibble
Jeff White 1 hour ago
Why? What did he hope to achieve? I am seriously confused. If he was just trying to "prank" you (i.e., be an a*s) hit him with a stick.
It was a man who invented the lightbulb. A man who first set foot on the moon. A man who brought us the telephone. Heck, a German inventor called Jacob Christian Schäffer was the first to design one of the earliest hand-powered washing devices, which would later evolve into a washing machine.
Yet, ask some men to do a load of washing and all you get is blank stares, or white shirts turned pink. Call it laziness, weaponized incompetence, entitlement, or being a few cards short of a deck, these guys are the ones who expect women to do the bulk of the heavy lifting.
#4
How My Husband "Opens" Spices
Kristiina Männiste 2 minutes ago
But does he have other issues in managing his everyday life? For he seems, how to say it politely... stupid.
#5
I Tore My Rotator Cuff So My Husband Told Me He’d Finish The Interior Painting On Our Downstairs. He Says He’s Done
#6
My Husband Asks Me To Wrap My Own Christmas Gifts Every Year
A quick scroll through this listicle provides more than enough proof that weaponized incompetence is alive and kicking. Painting around the coats hanging on a rail, asking your wife to wrap her own Christmas gifts, writing "Today" as the date on a juice bottle, not understanding the concept of thawing meat... Really?
Psychology Today defines weaponized incompetence as "strategically avoiding responsibility—by pretending to be incapable or inept at a task so that someone else helps, takes over, or stops delegating tasks to them."
In this way, adds the site, the imbalance becomes entrenched over time. And quite frankly, we're over it.
#7
This Dude Slept Thru Our Lunch Date And Blames Me (Because I Don’t Exchange Numbers Until Meeting/Vibe Check). Because Apparently I Should’ve Woken Him Up And Waited
#8
My Now Ex Boyfriend Has Been Sending Me Texts Non Stop. I Sent Him A Message Saying Me Moving Out And Us Breaking Up Is For The Best, And This Was His Response
#9
My Boyfriend : *Does The Dishes* The Sink :
Some of these posts are so infuriating that they might make you dream of migrating to a women-only, remote island nation. Oh, if only there were such a thing... But wait, there is. Almost.
In the heart of rural Kenya lies a village called Umoja. It's entirely run by women, and no men are allowed. Umoja was founded in 1990 by Rebecca Lolosoli, after she was thrown out of her community and beaten by a group of men for speaking out against the mutilation of females.
#10
Thinks He’s Entitled To My Time, My Advice, And My Sympathy
#11
I Have Decided To Post All My Old Dating App Screenshots
#12
High Value Man
Umoja means "unity" in Swahili. The village began with 15 women but has been home to up to 50 families at a time since its inception. Only women and their children, of course. They build homes for each other, and have also constructed a school. The women also sell honey and handmade beads to tourists.
“I don’t want to ever leave this supportive community of women. We don’t have much, but in Umoja I have everything I need,” one resident, known only as Mary, told Salam Lab. Mary sought refuge in Umoja after being sold to an 80 year old man in exchange for a herd of cows, at the age of 16.
#13
Found Some Old Screenshots Of A Nice Guy I Went On A Few Dates With A Couple Years Ago. There Is Some Text Missing Between That I Didn’t Find
bill boley 16 minutes ago
If that's all you have to complain about shut the f**k up, get in the kitchen and make some f*****g sandwiches you useless c**t
#14
My Husband, The Love Of My Life, Decided To Trim His Hair This Morning Before Leaving For Work
I Am Really Tempted To Just Ignore This And Use Bidet And Bath Faucet And See How Long This Stays Here.
bill boley 16 minutes ago
If that's all you have to complain about shut the f**k up, get in the kitchen and make some f*****g sandwiches you useless c**t
#15
My Husband Keeps Opening New Jars Of Jam Before He's Even Finished The Last One
Robin Roper 2 hours ago
Stop buying the Jam and if he buys new, hide it so it can't be opened. This would make me crazy.
Umoja isn't the only women-only village in the world. Over in Egypt, lies Al Samaha. It was created in 1998 by the Ministry of Agriculture. The initiative was aimed at giving divorced women and widows a place to live, as well as a source of income.
"In Al Samaha, the government provides women with plots of land and furnished houses. Residents are able to pay off the costs of housing due to the profit made from agriculture, tending cattle and selling handicrafts," reports Salam Lab.
Today, Al Samaha is also a refuge for women who have survived domestic violence.
#16
My Husband Threw Away All My Plastic And Silicone Cooking Utensils And Replaced Them With 5 Sets Of Wooden Salad Tossers
Jeff White 1 hour ago
And why is that so horrible? Other than the need to had wash wooden utensils each time?
#17
This Is Not What I Sent My Husband To The Store For
Sent my husband to the store for paper towels and a few other items. Comes back with pie and only pie. I ain’t too mad about it, because yeah, I’m gonna eat some pie, but it sure would be nice to have some paper towels to wipe my mouth with afterwards.
bill boley 15 minutes ago
If that's all you have to complain about shut the f**k up, get in the kitchen and make some f*****g sandwiches you useless c**t
#18
I Didn’t Know They Did Autism Diagnoses Through Hinge Now
bill boley 10 minutes ago
If that's all you have to complain about shut the f**k up, get in the kitchen and make some f*****g sandwiches you useless c**t
#19
Chill
bill boley 10 minutes ago
If that's all you have to complain about shut the f**k up, get in the kitchen and make some f*****g sandwiches you useless c**t
#21
This Is Really Gross
Jeff White 1 hour ago
For once, the phrase "My crazy ex" is appropriate. Ok, maybe it has occurred more than once.
#22
Weaponized Incompetence
bill boley 9 minutes ago
If that's all you have to complain about shut the f**k up, get in the kitchen and make some f*****g sandwiches you useless c**t
#23
Posted The Tinder Screenshot And Got This In My Dms, So Predictable
bill boley 9 minutes ago
If that's all you have to complain about shut the f**k up, get in the kitchen and make some f*****g sandwiches you useless c**t
#24
A True Gentleman
bill boley 13 minutes ago
If that's all you have to complain about shut the f**k up, get in the kitchen and make some f*****g sandwiches you useless c**t
#25
My Husband Said This Belongs Here
#26
Gone For Two Weeks. My Husband Piled His Clothes By The Washer Instead Of Doing His Own Laundry
#27
Husband For Sale
bill boley 12 minutes ago
If that's all you have to complain about shut the f**k up, get in the kitchen and make some f*****g sandwiches you useless c**t
#28
Woke Up To This. My Husband Told Me Last Night "Not To Worry" About The New Shelving Unit. I Wasn't. I Should Have Been
bill boley 7 minutes ago
If that's all you have to complain about shut the f**k up, get in the kitchen and make some f*****g sandwiches you useless c**t
#29
My Husband Put This Much Milk Back In The Fridge
bill boley 7 minutes ago
If that's all you have to complain about shut the f**k up, get in the kitchen and make some f*****g sandwiches you useless c**t
#30
Asked My Husband To Hang The Clothes
Apparently there was no more space in the rack and everything else were "small items" (kids tshirts, socks and shorts) needless to say, nothing at the top got dry..
bill boley 7 minutes ago
If that's all you have to complain about shut the f**k up, get in the kitchen and make some f*****g sandwiches you useless c**t
#31
The Way My Husband Opened The Cheese
bill boley 7 minutes ago
If that's all you have to complain about shut the f**k up, get in the kitchen and make some f*****g sandwiches you useless c**t
#32
I Married A Monster. This Is How My Husband Just Cut The Corn Bread
bill boley 6 minutes ago
If that's all you have to complain about shut the f**k up, get in the kitchen and make some f*****g sandwiches you useless c**t
#33
Asked My Husband To Pick Up A Christmas Tree
bill boley 6 minutes ago
If that's all you have to complain about shut the f**k up, get in the kitchen and make some f*****g sandwiches you useless c**t
#34
Moving And Caught My Husband Packing Like This
bill boley 6 minutes ago
If that's all you have to complain about shut the f**k up, get in the kitchen and make some f*****g sandwiches you useless c**t
#35
My Husband Ate The Yummy Top Off The Meatloaf I Cooked
bill boley 5 minutes ago
If that's all you have to complain about shut the f**k up, get in the kitchen and make some f*****g sandwiches you useless c**t
#36
Morning Infuriation: Husbands “Helps” To Clean Med Cabinet By Combining All The Allergy Pills In One Bottle. Whether They’re The Same Or Not. (Hint…they’re Not)
bill boley 5 minutes ago
If that's all you have to complain about shut the f**k up, get in the kitchen and make some f*****g sandwiches you useless c**t
#37
Husband Scrapes His Toast Crumbs Back Into The Butter Container
bill boley 5 minutes ago
If that's all you have to complain about shut the f**k up, get in the kitchen and make some f*****g sandwiches you useless c**t
#38
Brand New $72 Moisturizer. Husband Said He Needed Something For His Elbows
bill boley 4 minutes ago
That HE paid for, If that's all you have to complain about shut the f**k up, get in the kitchen and make some f*****g sandwiches you useless c**t
#39
I Learned Today That My Husband Doesn’t Actually Wash The Pots We Boil Pasta In. According To Him They Aren’t Actually Dirty Since It Was Just Boiling Water. I Am Appalled
bill boley 4 minutes ago
If that's all you have to complain about shut the f**k up, get in the kitchen and make some f*****g sandwiches you useless c**t
#40
Husband Only Put Icing On His Piece Of Cake
bill boley 4 minutes ago
If that's all you have to complain about shut the f**k up, get in the kitchen and make some f*****g sandwiches you useless c**t
#41
My Husband Overfilled The Dishwasher So Nothing Got Clean Then Got Mad When I Asked How He Expected The Water To Reach Everything
bill boley 3 minutes ago
If that's all you have to complain about shut the f**k up, get in the kitchen and make some f*****g sandwiches you useless c**t
#42
My Husband Is Physically Incapable Of Finishing A Bag Of Chips
Why are people like this!!?? Every single bag still has chips in it. The Dorito bag has like 4 chips and crumbs…. Who leaves 4 chips in a bag!??! I think he might be insane ;)
#43
Where My Husband Dumps His Dirty Clothes vs. Where The Laundry Basket Is
bill boley 3 minutes ago
If that's all you have to complain about shut the f**k up, get in the kitchen and make some f*****g sandwiches you useless c**t
#44
My Husband Will Never Close A Draw Or Shut A Cupboard
#45
Husband Leaves Trash To Be Washed?
The trash can is right next to the sink…
bill boley 2 minutes ago
If that's all you have to complain about shut the f**k up, get in the kitchen and make some f*****g sandwiches you useless c**t
#46
My Husband Never Empties The Vacuum After Using It. He Let's It Build Up Until It's So Full It Stops Working Properly To Empty It
Despite me telling my husband every single time he uses the vacuum to empty it after every use, he STILL doesn't empty it until til it stops working properly. It's a small stick vacuum, so it's not like it's a daunting task ....
#47
This Is How My Husband Put His Leftovers In The Fridge
bill boley 1 minute ago
If that's all you have to complain about shut the f**k up, get in the kitchen and make some f*****g sandwiches you useless c**t
#48
My Husband Leaves Gunk In Sponges/Scrubbers After Washing Dishes
It used to be this and leaving the sopping wet sponges at the front of the sink which would drip down the cabinets onto the floor. So at least he's halfway there?
bill boley 1 minute ago
If that's all you have to complain about shut the f**k up, get in the kitchen and make some f*****g sandwiches you useless c**t
#50
My Husband Likes To Leave The Yoghurt Container Like This In The Fridge
...and the best part is, last time he had even opened a new one but still didn't get rid of this one
#51
My Husband Made The Bed
bill boley 4 minutes ago
and? problem? If that's all you have to complain about shut the f**k up, get in the kitchen and make some f*****g sandwiches you useless c**t
#52
Husband Makes Extra Effort To Be Lazy!
I did a bunch of laundry, and carried it up from the basement. I left both baskets at the bottom of the stairs for us to carry up on our way to bed.
Hubby went to bed. He walked around BOTH baskets without moving either of them. (We're pretty nocturnal, so he went to bed about an hour ago, and I'm going up now.
bill boley 3 minutes ago
iron the clothes and put them away first, If that's all you have to complain about shut the f**k up, get in the kitchen and make some f*****g sandwiches you useless c**t
#53
Husband’s Bedside Table That I Am Making A Point Of Not Doing For Him
It’s been gathering all this c**p for 2 weeks
bill boley 2 minutes ago
If that's all you have to complain about shut the f**k up, get in the kitchen and make some f*****g sandwiches you useless c**t
#54
Throwback To The Scariest Day Of My Life
bill boley 2 minutes ago
If that's all you have to complain about shut the f**k up, get in the kitchen and make some f*****g sandwiches you useless c**t
#55
"Did I Hurt Your Feelings?"
bill boley 1 minute ago
If that's all you have to complain about shut the f**k up, get in the kitchen and make some f*****g sandwiches you useless c**t
#57
Who Do I Tad To Share These Icon Screenshots?
bill boley 1 minute ago
If that's all you have to complain about shut the f**k up, get in the kitchen and make some f*****g sandwiches you useless c**t
#58
Wish I Was Kidding
#76
How My Boyfriend Folds Socks Versus How They Should Be Folded
Fungus John 38 minutes ago
Should? they're socks, as long as the pair stays together what does it matter?
#78
I Spent Over 2 Hours On This Casserole And Asked My Husband To Put It Away While I Put The Kids To Bed, This Morning I Found It Still On The Stove
#81
I Put A Laundry Hamper In The Bathroom And My Husband Still Throws His Clothes On The Floor
#89
My Sweet Husband
Whom I love so much drives me insane with the trash bin. I appreciate him taking the garbage, but he never puts the bag in when he does. It isn't garbage day, so I wasn't anticipating the empty bin and tossed coffee grounds in before noticing. Yes, I've talked to him about it. Yes, we both deal with the garbage. He does so much for the home, he just tends to not finish this particular job. I have resigned myself to living with this one character flaw until I d**.
#100
The Way My Husband Opened This New Pack Of English Muffins
Bread tag is still intact. I live with a monster.
#102
The Way My Mom And Brother Left The Dishes For Me After A Twelve Hour Shift. The Dishwasher Was Empty But They Put All The Dishes In The Sink
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