
Marriage Advice To Young Ladies From 1918 By A Suffragette Is Radical And Hilarious At The Same Time
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If International Woman’s Day did anything it shed light on how far women have come and how far we still have to go, but either way, we still have a lot of feminists to thank who have fought for equality through endless movements along the way. One of the most notable feminist movements and groups in history was the suffragettes, who fought for women’s right to vote and gender equality across society.
Naturally, this set of fiery women had some strong views on all topics, not just voting, or work equality but about marriage as well. A post on marriage advice from 1918 suffrage history has been making the rounds on the internet and has gone viral – and when you read it it’s easy to see why.
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The suffragette movement began in the late 19th and 20th centuries because men in the United Kingdom had the right to vote but not the women. From this inequality was born two groups, the National Union of Women’s Suffrage Societies and the Women’s Social and Political Union. The term suffragette comes from the word suffrage, which means the right to vote in political elections and was actually created by newspapers to mock these women.
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There were both men and women who didn’t support the idea of women voting, but they campaigned on with peaceful protests, banners, and badges. In 1900 the Suffragists’ had gained enough momentum that several bills in support of women’s suffrage won support in Parliament but not enough to pass. Following this defeat, the movement evolved and would employ more extreme protest tactics from hunger strikes to stepping out in front of the King’s racehorse. Through their work women finally gained the right to vote in 1928.
Recently a 1918 pamphlet from a suffragette, on display at the Pontypridd Museum in Wales, went viral – for its sage advice for women who are thinking of getting married
Her advice starts off strong, maybe too strong, with the simple statement “do not marry at all.” Of course, as promised she follows up her number one rule with actual advice for those who want to marry the mostly “lazy, selfish, thoughtless, lying, drunken, clumsy, heavy-footed, rough, unmanly brutes.” Much like dogs sister suffragette says that if you want to keep your man happy just “feed the brute.”
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1918, the year the pamphlet was published was a breakthrough year for womens’ suffrage. A bill was passed in Parliament that granted some women the right to vote as long as they were over the age of 30, and owned property or were married to someone who owned property.
Women in the comments joked that much of this advice was just as relevant today
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People says that this is very sexist. It is, it is not nice to generalize and insult men. But we need to understand how badly women were treated back then.Men did not allowed then to vote, to study, to have a profession, open bank acounts, start business, deny sex to their men, uae contraception. They werel ocked in asylums for harmless things like reading or enjoying sex. I do not agree with what she said but I understand why she was so angry.
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Two wrongs make a right? Men that were sexist and treated women badly were in the wrong. Women that are sexist and treat men badly are also wrong. Sexism is never right or acceptable either way.
Agreed - but please consider context. This was written just over 100 years ago and in such a vastly different set of circumstances. No-one should think it's okay today.
It wasn't just sexism. For much of the Victorian era a man owned a couples children. If they separated he could forbid her from ever seeing them again. And treating people badly is not the definition of sexist. It's more a matter of rights and power.
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It wasn't even ok (and obviously not accurate) 100 years ago, no matter what the circumstances were. How can #4 be ok under any circumstances?
No matter what the circumstances were? Wow.
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Doesn't excuse the sexism or the response of actual people today who should know better.
The suffragette wife's words are 100 years old and very much a product of the age. Women were treated exceptionally badly in those days, particularly those fighting for suffrage. It can't be much of a surprise that she would be so very bitter. People today? There is still a lot to be done before men and women stop sniping at each other, accept our differences and recognise that this doesn't make one better than any other. So very little tolerance around.
This is pretty sexist but funny. And back in the day, i think the rage against men was more justified.
It is still justified way too often. That's what's sad about this, all too true all too often
Wanting to vote was based a lot on how many alcoholic abusive husbands there were. Classes were mixing a lot more after the Industrial Revolution. The middle class got larger and more empathetic to the poor. They wanted to be able to vote for Prohibition, which did get passed. It did not fix all problems and caused a few more but at least women were able to vote.
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As funny as a rape joke.
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Lol! TJler, you NEVER cease to disappoint me! Keep up the good work! 😂
SnoopyCereal - TJler/Tyler is a troll. He was banned under the username TJler then created another account with a subtle difference in the name. Banned again and so now he's pretending to be GayBar101. He made a lot of unpleasant remarks about gay people so probably thinks he's being funny. He has a small baby and posted photo updates - hence people taking the piss about wanting 'anudder baby update'. We don't. As his intention was to get as many downvotes as possible people prefer to upvote him. Hope that helps. Cheers.
GayBar101, TJler - you really aren't fooling anyone you know.
Can someone please update me on this TJler nonsense?? I need to be in on the joke boys!
I love how we've adopted this guy XD
Not Alec... how did you know I’m a girl?
I don't understand why you think I'm TJler? I'm with snoopycereal- I don't get it
Oh my god — this guy IS TJler isn’t he?? Anyway good for BP finally banning him
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He TJ! How’s life?
We’re trying to get him to go away
What surprises me is how he gets 4 upvotes for just saying “hi”.
Barry B, I have started upvoting all the trolls- there are lots of them on here. I believe they are all in competition to say the most bigoted, sexist, racist etc things and are collecting downvotes. So upvote them- they hate it.
Hi Tyler. Why are you pretending to be a gay man? How's your little baby doing?
I want “Anudder baby update”
Also guys, UPVOTE HIM
Yes ma’am, we’re all trying to get him in the green zone
Don't be disingenuous TJ.
GayBar... we know you’re TJler. You have a color background, and you say the sam BS as TJ. Think.
You! I want to take you to a gay bar, gay bar, gay bar Let's start a war Start a nuclear war At the gay bar, gay bar, gay bar Waoow! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zVdtqRtG_qY
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People says that this is very sexist. It is, it is not nice to generalize and insult men. But we need to understand how badly women were treated back then.Men did not allowed then to vote, to study, to have a profession, open bank acounts, start business, deny sex to their men, uae contraception. They werel ocked in asylums for harmless things like reading or enjoying sex. I do not agree with what she said but I understand why she was so angry.
This comment is hidden. Click here to view.
Two wrongs make a right? Men that were sexist and treated women badly were in the wrong. Women that are sexist and treat men badly are also wrong. Sexism is never right or acceptable either way.
Agreed - but please consider context. This was written just over 100 years ago and in such a vastly different set of circumstances. No-one should think it's okay today.
It wasn't just sexism. For much of the Victorian era a man owned a couples children. If they separated he could forbid her from ever seeing them again. And treating people badly is not the definition of sexist. It's more a matter of rights and power.
This comment is hidden. Click here to view.
It wasn't even ok (and obviously not accurate) 100 years ago, no matter what the circumstances were. How can #4 be ok under any circumstances?
No matter what the circumstances were? Wow.
This comment is hidden. Click here to view.
Doesn't excuse the sexism or the response of actual people today who should know better.
The suffragette wife's words are 100 years old and very much a product of the age. Women were treated exceptionally badly in those days, particularly those fighting for suffrage. It can't be much of a surprise that she would be so very bitter. People today? There is still a lot to be done before men and women stop sniping at each other, accept our differences and recognise that this doesn't make one better than any other. So very little tolerance around.
This is pretty sexist but funny. And back in the day, i think the rage against men was more justified.
It is still justified way too often. That's what's sad about this, all too true all too often
Wanting to vote was based a lot on how many alcoholic abusive husbands there were. Classes were mixing a lot more after the Industrial Revolution. The middle class got larger and more empathetic to the poor. They wanted to be able to vote for Prohibition, which did get passed. It did not fix all problems and caused a few more but at least women were able to vote.
This comment is hidden. Click here to view.
As funny as a rape joke.
Hi
Lol! TJler, you NEVER cease to disappoint me! Keep up the good work! 😂
SnoopyCereal - TJler/Tyler is a troll. He was banned under the username TJler then created another account with a subtle difference in the name. Banned again and so now he's pretending to be GayBar101. He made a lot of unpleasant remarks about gay people so probably thinks he's being funny. He has a small baby and posted photo updates - hence people taking the piss about wanting 'anudder baby update'. We don't. As his intention was to get as many downvotes as possible people prefer to upvote him. Hope that helps. Cheers.
GayBar101, TJler - you really aren't fooling anyone you know.
Can someone please update me on this TJler nonsense?? I need to be in on the joke boys!
I love how we've adopted this guy XD
Not Alec... how did you know I’m a girl?
I don't understand why you think I'm TJler? I'm with snoopycereal- I don't get it
Oh my god — this guy IS TJler isn’t he?? Anyway good for BP finally banning him
This comment is hidden. Click here to view.
My Boy pal makes $seventy five/hour at the internet. She has been without a assignment for six months however remaining month her pay have become $16453 genuinely working at the internet for some hours. immediately from the source.............HERE? www.payshd.com
He TJ! How’s life?
We’re trying to get him to go away
What surprises me is how he gets 4 upvotes for just saying “hi”.
Barry B, I have started upvoting all the trolls- there are lots of them on here. I believe they are all in competition to say the most bigoted, sexist, racist etc things and are collecting downvotes. So upvote them- they hate it.
Hi Tyler. Why are you pretending to be a gay man? How's your little baby doing?
I want “Anudder baby update”
Also guys, UPVOTE HIM
Yes ma’am, we’re all trying to get him in the green zone
Don't be disingenuous TJ.
GayBar... we know you’re TJler. You have a color background, and you say the sam BS as TJ. Think.
You! I want to take you to a gay bar, gay bar, gay bar Let's start a war Start a nuclear war At the gay bar, gay bar, gay bar Waoow! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zVdtqRtG_qY
👏👏👏👏👏
This comment is hidden. Click here to view.
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