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Guy Snaps After His Studies Are Constantly Interrupted With Babysitting Demands: “He’s Your Son”
Young man with headphones around his neck looking down, reflecting on responsibility towards girlfriend's son.

Guy Snaps After His Studies Are Constantly Interrupted With Babysitting Demands: “He’s Your Son”

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Personal and family responsibilities don’t always align. Take university student and Reddit user Kb10131, for example. Recently, he had planned to spend the entire weekend preparing one of his assignments, but, at the very last minute, his stepfather told him he had to babysit his stepbrother. The guy tried to object but didn’t receive any sympathy, so he snapped and blurted out everything he thought was wrong with the situation. This led to a tense standoff, and now he’s wondering if there was a better way to handle the predicament.

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    For people pursuing their degree, it might be even more difficult. According to a survey conducted by Morning Consult on behalf of McGraw Hill, a majority of students who responded reported feeling overwhelmed (57%) and stressed (56%) because of their studies.

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    Because of this, two‑thirds of students (66%) say they have to choose between schoolwork and obligations outside of school.

    Most of those who read what happened said the student did nothing wrong when setting his boundaries

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    But some believe he should’ve been more accommodating

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    Rokas Laurinavičius

    Rokas Laurinavičius

    Writer, Senior Writer

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    Rokas is a writer at Bored Panda with a BA in Communication. After working for a sculptor, he fell in love with visual storytelling and enjoys covering everything from TV shows (any Sopranos fans out there?) to photography. Throughout his years in Bored Panda, over 300 million people have read the posts he's written, which is probably more than he could count to.

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    Rokas Laurinavičius

    Rokas Laurinavičius

    Writer, Senior Writer

    Rokas is a writer at Bored Panda with a BA in Communication. After working for a sculptor, he fell in love with visual storytelling and enjoys covering everything from TV shows (any Sopranos fans out there?) to photography. Throughout his years in Bored Panda, over 300 million people have read the posts he's written, which is probably more than he could count to.

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    Seán Baron
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YTA replies are crazy.

    marcelo D.
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YTA are idiots as always. nobody "asked" him to babysit. They imposed. They decided without his input and ignored when he clearly said he wasn't going to do it.

    Rathoren
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow the YTAs are unhinged!! So the first born son of the woman who has only been dating a guy for what maaaybe 3-4 years is getting basically kicked out for the "new" younger son.... W*f

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    Seán Baron
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    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YTA replies are crazy.

    marcelo D.
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    YTA are idiots as always. nobody "asked" him to babysit. They imposed. They decided without his input and ignored when he clearly said he wasn't going to do it.

    Rathoren
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow the YTAs are unhinged!! So the first born son of the woman who has only been dating a guy for what maaaybe 3-4 years is getting basically kicked out for the "new" younger son.... W*f

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