Angry Man Gets Everyone Deplaned After Throwing A Rage Tantrum Over A Crying Baby
Even in the 21st century, as safe as it is, travel can be unpredictable. Weather and human error can add up and make routine trips uncomfortable. Flying, for example, forces you to sit in a long, metal tube, often for hours. Everyone has their own horror stories of turbulence, loud children, and the misbehavior of other passengers.
A man documented the extended ranting of an airplane passenger who was fed up with a crying baby. While deep down, we all can somewhat relate, most of us would probably not take it out on the crew and other passengers. The irate passengers’ torrent of anger was so humorous that the video went viral.
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Flight delays and crying babies are not fun for anyone, but an adult should be able to keep it together
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A man on this way to Florida documented a passenger who exploded with rage at a crying baby after they were forced to delay landing due to weather
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Air travel does come with a lot of stressors that can push people to the edge
“Air rage,” or the general trend of people being irate on an airplane is so widespread that researchers have begun quantitative studies to try and pinpoint why this kind of travel just makes us so grumpy. One study questioned hundreds of passengers on what caused them the most discomfort. Confinement and other people were the number one answer. We’ll get to the other factors in a bit. Still, just the combination of these two has created a boatload (or planeload, if you will) of interpersonal drama, often ending with concussions, passengers being physically dragged off an airplane by security, and riot-like scenes from unruly airport visitors. The story from this TikTok is almost familiar, as there are hundreds of similar videos of “air rage” out there.
Yes, this behavior is immature at best and downright dangerous at its worst, but it’s important to look at the picture as a whole. Air travel isn’t just being on an airplane. Airports, which are often situated on the outskirts of a city, are a hassle in of themselves, with check-ins, security, lines, and flights that require you to get up a lot earlier than you would normally. Plus those aforementioned people? They are all at the airport with you. The constant noise, hunger, tiredness, and even smells all play a factor in making a passenger feel under attack by a hundred tiny irritations. Being an adult means not making these irritations someone else’s problem, but you can’t expect a literal baby to know that.
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“Air rage” is becoming unfortunately more common
Even boarding the plane can create some level of agitation. First, you often have to wait in line, after waiting in at least one other line at the airport. If you are flying first class, some of your troubles might end there, if not, you have to walk past the already-seated people on your way to economy. Researchers have found that this feeling of envy often manifests as inner “air rage,” which has the potential to explode outwards if there is some other trigger, such as a delay. It’s all the worse to be sitting in an uncomfortable seat with too little legroom while you know that some people up front are probably a lot more comfortable. To be clear, none of this is a justification to scream and shout at the crew or other passengers.
Unfortunately, these incidents have slowly become more common, to the point that, in the US, roughly a third of passenger-induced disruptions actually necessitated flight diversions. Even though it boils down to a handful of such flights a year, most of us aren’t actually hopping on a plane day in and day out. No one wants their yearly holiday disrupted because an infantile adult has thrown a hissy fit. Ideally, people would learn to be better adjusted and deal with their psychological hold-ups. This is probably not going to happen. This TikTok involved a grown man yelling “If you put them cuffs on that kid, I’m good with going to jail,” which is just not even on the same planet as rationality.
Some did see the passenger’s side of it, as being trapped in a confined space with a noisy baby is highly distressing
Commenters had a field day laughing at the man’s incessant tirade against the baby and aircrew
The difference between him and the baby is the baby will grow out of the attention seeking yelling phase.
My children were usually quiet and happy on planes as little children and babies. The one time one of them cried loudly it's because he had slight congestion and his eardrums were on the verge of rupturing as we descended. It was horrible for him and the flight attendants were concerned and giving us some help to try and alleviate the pressure. Maybe others were bothered by the crying, but honestly I didn't think about them, he was in so much pain. I do think it's true that some parents have more strength than others at calming their children, but sometimes there is something going on that's out of anyone's control. Compassion is the appropriate response. All of us were once crying children.
My spouse said he thinks it’s the difference being a parent and being tuned into hearing your own child cry.
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Dude needs to grow up. If you are that sensitive to kids crying on a plane, buy noise cancelling headphones or earplugs. Either way...some kids cry because they are scared, some don't feel good. But no parent has a magic wand to get the kid to stop crying just because you want it. One thing you learn about babies, you can't negotiate with them to do what you want. If they want to cry...they're going to cry.
THIS is why a good pair of noise canceling over-the-ear headphones is a must have when flying. Crying baby or belligerent passenger? No problem. Just tune them out and chill.
You hit this right on the head. Like it or not, babies cry. I'm not saying it never happens, but it is unusual for a parent not to try and mollify a crying baby. If you are choosing to fly, you need to control what you can control. Noise canceling headphones are the best solution available. We were all babies once, we all cried when we were, and babies are going to fly. Folks need to start realizing they aren't that damn special and quit whining. If it bugs you, quit expecting the world to change for you and do something about it. A grown man throwing a fit about a baby crying is a great definition of entitlement.
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She chose to marry him and stay married to him.
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Baby is crying because there's something it needs and can't otherwise express it. Mom is probably stressed and anxious because after you've tried everything you can think of, all you can is comfort baby, all while knowing other passengers are likely annoyed and most probably judging her. Man can't control his rage and does the one thing that will not only not help but actually make it worse. What an a*****e.
"He's just saying what all the others were thinking"? Yeah that old chestnut, that's how racists always sell their "opinions".
Jerry Shore...SMH. You clearly aren't the brightest bulb if you think the parents "allowed" this to go on. You obviously have zero empathy. Babies are not "unruly", they can't communicate other than crying. You sound like a real delight, though. Would love to hear from your mother.
An infant that screams on a plane can have many reasons, most likely, the ears are painful due to the pressure difference, but also fear, like noise, smells and many other things, and sometimes, there's just nothing one can do but to try to soothe the wee one. Some adults need to grow the fk up and accept this, and i have an extremely high tolerance level for this if it happens, because of - infants can't do much.... ='/ ---- When it comes to bigger kids, the parents will have to tell them to behave, yes.. absolutely - they don't get to run riot on a plane, kick seats or whatever else sh*t they feel like? Not so much... Parents have a duty here...
Did the parent(s) try to calm the baby? If yes, then that is just life, and he should deal. If NO, he was justified in his outburst, and that family should be banned from that airline. Parents do NOT deserve special consideration. This same nonsense happens on the job where childless people are expected to defer to the needs of those with children. That is a hard no.
Boeing should start adding sound proof rooms to their planes. If baby starts crying get up go to sound proof room. Yeah it addd cost. But you'll gain more customers potentially if marketed well.
I get it, crying babies is annoying but that's what they do. Get some noise cancelling headphones and don't be a prick and ruin things for everyone else. I feel bad for his poor wife having to deal with that bs.
Baby's EARS HURT. Rub their ears and jaw to get ears to pop from altitude difference. Same with train or car when traveling over varied terrain.
refused to get off the plane so we are all being deplaned..this is when they arrive at the destination. i think being deplaned is what happens anyway....its called getting off at your destination.
I think plane was sitting on runway waiting to take off. It taxid back never left
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There are many parents out there who would also like flights where no children are onboard. Some would like child free restaurants too.
And many many many would like entitled-free and Karen-free flights, restaurants, shop, business, etc. Babies are part of the society. As long as it’s not an adult activity, they have their place. Especially in transports.
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All those people that say flying is bad for the ears of their babies should not take a plane for your own convenience with their child as this is extremely selfish. And airline companies should also not allow this but you know, profit. So quit bitching about a know problem.
Sometimes they HAVE TO fly, there's no alternative. What we should contemplate is child free flights the same way there are child free hotels. Only people who can't accept discrepancy objects those.
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Please show on the doll where the mean baby touched you.
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So families aren't allowed to travel for a few years after having a kid? Did you use any brain cells when you wrote this?
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Because people sometimes need to travel. Can’t leave the baby at home can they🤦♂️
Load More Replies... The difference between him and the baby is the baby will grow out of the attention seeking yelling phase.
My children were usually quiet and happy on planes as little children and babies. The one time one of them cried loudly it's because he had slight congestion and his eardrums were on the verge of rupturing as we descended. It was horrible for him and the flight attendants were concerned and giving us some help to try and alleviate the pressure. Maybe others were bothered by the crying, but honestly I didn't think about them, he was in so much pain. I do think it's true that some parents have more strength than others at calming their children, but sometimes there is something going on that's out of anyone's control. Compassion is the appropriate response. All of us were once crying children.
My spouse said he thinks it’s the difference being a parent and being tuned into hearing your own child cry.
Load More Replies... Dude needs to grow up. If you are that sensitive to kids crying on a plane, buy noise cancelling headphones or earplugs. Either way...some kids cry because they are scared, some don't feel good. But no parent has a magic wand to get the kid to stop crying just because you want it. One thing you learn about babies, you can't negotiate with them to do what you want. If they want to cry...they're going to cry.
THIS is why a good pair of noise canceling over-the-ear headphones is a must have when flying. Crying baby or belligerent passenger? No problem. Just tune them out and chill.
You hit this right on the head. Like it or not, babies cry. I'm not saying it never happens, but it is unusual for a parent not to try and mollify a crying baby. If you are choosing to fly, you need to control what you can control. Noise canceling headphones are the best solution available. We were all babies once, we all cried when we were, and babies are going to fly. Folks need to start realizing they aren't that damn special and quit whining. If it bugs you, quit expecting the world to change for you and do something about it. A grown man throwing a fit about a baby crying is a great definition of entitlement.
Load More Replies... She chose to marry him and stay married to him.
Load More Replies... Baby is crying because there's something it needs and can't otherwise express it. Mom is probably stressed and anxious because after you've tried everything you can think of, all you can is comfort baby, all while knowing other passengers are likely annoyed and most probably judging her. Man can't control his rage and does the one thing that will not only not help but actually make it worse. What an a*****e.
"He's just saying what all the others were thinking"? Yeah that old chestnut, that's how racists always sell their "opinions".
Jerry Shore...SMH. You clearly aren't the brightest bulb if you think the parents "allowed" this to go on. You obviously have zero empathy. Babies are not "unruly", they can't communicate other than crying. You sound like a real delight, though. Would love to hear from your mother.
An infant that screams on a plane can have many reasons, most likely, the ears are painful due to the pressure difference, but also fear, like noise, smells and many other things, and sometimes, there's just nothing one can do but to try to soothe the wee one. Some adults need to grow the fk up and accept this, and i have an extremely high tolerance level for this if it happens, because of - infants can't do much.... ='/ ---- When it comes to bigger kids, the parents will have to tell them to behave, yes.. absolutely - they don't get to run riot on a plane, kick seats or whatever else sh*t they feel like? Not so much... Parents have a duty here...
Did the parent(s) try to calm the baby? If yes, then that is just life, and he should deal. If NO, he was justified in his outburst, and that family should be banned from that airline. Parents do NOT deserve special consideration. This same nonsense happens on the job where childless people are expected to defer to the needs of those with children. That is a hard no.
Boeing should start adding sound proof rooms to their planes. If baby starts crying get up go to sound proof room. Yeah it addd cost. But you'll gain more customers potentially if marketed well.
I get it, crying babies is annoying but that's what they do. Get some noise cancelling headphones and don't be a prick and ruin things for everyone else. I feel bad for his poor wife having to deal with that bs.
Baby's EARS HURT. Rub their ears and jaw to get ears to pop from altitude difference. Same with train or car when traveling over varied terrain.
refused to get off the plane so we are all being deplaned..this is when they arrive at the destination. i think being deplaned is what happens anyway....its called getting off at your destination.
I think plane was sitting on runway waiting to take off. It taxid back never left
Load More Replies... There are many parents out there who would also like flights where no children are onboard. Some would like child free restaurants too.
And many many many would like entitled-free and Karen-free flights, restaurants, shop, business, etc. Babies are part of the society. As long as it’s not an adult activity, they have their place. Especially in transports.
Load More Replies... All those people that say flying is bad for the ears of their babies should not take a plane for your own convenience with their child as this is extremely selfish. And airline companies should also not allow this but you know, profit. So quit bitching about a know problem.
Sometimes they HAVE TO fly, there's no alternative. What we should contemplate is child free flights the same way there are child free hotels. Only people who can't accept discrepancy objects those.
Load More Replies... Please show on the doll where the mean baby touched you.
Load More Replies... So families aren't allowed to travel for a few years after having a kid? Did you use any brain cells when you wrote this?
Load More Replies... Because people sometimes need to travel. Can’t leave the baby at home can they🤦♂️
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