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Hollywood Actress Triggers Outrage After Surprising Demand For Safer Intimate Scenes Resurfaces
Actress Maggie Gyllenhaal once questioned whether she needed an intimacy coordinator on set, but her first-hand experience eventually changed her mind.
Now, the actress’s comments about protecting performers during intimate scenes have resurfaced online, prompting a heated debate over whether Hollywood actors need these safeguards.
Highlights
- Maggie Gyllenhaal admitted she initially thought she didn't need an intimacy coordinator, but her experience changed her mind.
- The actress argued that signing an intimacy agreement shouldn't stop performers from withdrawing consent, even at the last minute.
- Social media users pushed back against her views, drawing comparisons to the stunt coordinators present on set.
Some question why intimate scenes need special precautions, while others argue actors should be able to change their minds without production pressure.
“Do you not read the script to what you are acting in? Real simple, don’t want to do it, don’t do it!” one netizen wrote.
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Maggie Gyllenhaal admitted she initially thought she did not need an intimacy coordinator on set
In September 2019, Maggie Gyllenhaal appeared on Tell Me Everything with John Fugelsang to discuss the third and final season of HBO’s The Deuce.
The series is a drama about the adult content industry in New York in the 1970s and 1980s.
The show was among the early major television productions to bring an intimacy coordinator on set.
Gyllenhaal explained that she initially didn’t think she needed help, having performed intimate scenes for nearly two decades.
“I have been doing s*x scenes since Secretary, right? Or maybe even a tiny bit before that. It’s almost 20 years,” she said during the interview.
“And it used to be you just figured out how to deal with it. And there were tons of compassionate people around to help you. You just figured out who those people were.”
Maggie said she also took it upon herself to make sure younger actors were comfortable during intimate scenes.
However, she began reconsidering her approach after other actresses questioned why productions routinely hired specialists to manage potentially dangerous stunts but didn’t have equivalent professionals for intimate scenes.
She recalled asking, “Why is it that whenever there’s a fight scene, anything, someone grabs your neck, you know, but it’s like nothing. There was always a stunt coordinator and a fight coordinator there, no matter what. Why is there never anybody there for s*x scenes?”
Although Gyllenhaal initially welcomed the coordinator, Alicia Rodis, primarily for the benefit of younger actresses, she eventually discovered that the professional could help her, too.
The 48-year-old actress explained how an intimacy coordinator helped her feel more comfortable filming intimate scenes
Maggie Gyllenhaal reveals Hollywood sex scenes had ZERO protection for 20 years while fight scenes always had full coordinators and how a cut-up yoga mat was once the only barrier
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“And then in season 3 [of The Deuce], I have a lot more. And, um, here she comes into my trailer, and I’m like, okay, cool, I’m good. And, um, and then she was amazing. Amazing!” the actress recalled.
“For me, I’m not particularly concerned about n*dity. I think n*dity is a really interesting way of communicating things on film,” she added.
“I am concerned about, like, actual contact with another person, especially somebody who I don’t know.”
During the first season of the HBO series, her character, Candy, shared scenes with numerous men, prompting the actress to request a physical barrier between herself and her scene partners.
“I was in bed with so many different men, and I wanted there to be a real physical barrier between us,” she said, explaining that the crew cut up a yoga mat, put it in a pillowcase, and used it as a barrier.
With Rodis on set, Maggie said she had someone who could help her work through such concerns and explore different options.
“She comes in and says, let me know if you have your period,” Gyllenhaal recalled, adding that she and her co-star Emily Meade had previously discussed how they handled such situations.
Maggie argued that actors should be allowed to change their minds even after signing n*dity agreements
One of her most significant points concerned the difference between agreeing to film an intimate scene and feeling comfortable going through with it when the time comes.
The actress acknowledged that, as a mature performer and producer, she felt confident speaking up if a scene no longer felt right.
“But that is not true of a 22-year-old who’s gotten this gig, and she’s psyched, and maybe she signed an agreement and gets to set and doesn’t feel comfortable,” she explained.
Gyllenhaal said Rodis helped create an environment in which performers could reconsider their boundaries without feeling they had to challenge the production themselves.
“If you don’t feel comfortable, you come and tell me, and we will have it changed,” Maggie recalled the intimacy coordinator saying once.
“The reason you have a n*dity rider, which is like a legal agreement, is so that you wouldn’t come to set and go, oh no, no, I changed my mind. And then the whole shooting is stopped, and hundreds of thousands of dollars are lost or whatever,” she said.
“But there’s something kind of f**ked up about that, right? That’s not real consent.”
The actress continued, “So on our set, even if you signed a n*dity waiver, it’s not binding at all. If you change your mind, it isn’t what you want to do, you’re not going to do it.”
Social media users questioned the need for intimacy coordinators, comparing intimate scenes to dangerous on-set stunts
As the interview resurfaced, some social media users pushed back against the idea that intimate scenes require dedicated professionals to protect performers.
One commenter wrote, “These people are so insanely soft. Don’t sign onto a movie if you don’t want to do the s*x scenes. Simple as that.”
Others questioned Gyllenhaal’s comparison between intimate scenes and stunts, with one asking, “Because stunts can result in serious injury and s*x scenes are fake?”
Another commenter argued, “Take responsibility. If moving your career forward is worth doing n*dity with no help or protection, blame yourself, not the bad system. It’s elective.”
“Car scenes should have a car coordinator. Walk scenes should have a walk coordinator and grocery store scenes should have a produce coordinator as well,” a third user quipped.
Another comment read, “One way to not be in an uncomfortable situation is to just not agree to it when you sign up for a role.”
Others expressed, “You can’t agree to do the scenes, cash the check, then cry 2 decades later!”
“If you mess up a s*x scene, you make a mess. If you mess up a fight scene, people lose their life,” one netizen wrote
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Tabitha 2 hours ago (edited)
All the men in the comments saying s*x scenes are nothing, and just refuse to do them are speaking from their own entitlement. They don’t understand what kind of underhanded c**p can happen when a women is n**e and surrounded by a bunch of mostly male crew. They don’t understand how a director can change the scene so it’s very different, and not always on a good way, for the woman (mostly to pander to their own sick fantasies). They don’t understand that an actress just starting out is not in a position of power to say no to a s*x scene. She could lose that job in the snap of a director’s fingers, lose the paycheck that goes with it, nd have to start over auditioning for another part—-and probably being badmouthed by the director for being difficult, when she only asked for fairness—-making it impossible to ever be hired again. That’s just how ephemeral a career in movies or on the stage can be, ruined by the petulance of some man with power just because you said no to pandering to his sick fantasies. So yes, intimacy coordinators ARE necessary, because they advocate for BOTH the men and women who are called upon to appear in s*x scenes (or more accurately, s*x-simulation scenes), because a lot of sketchy stuff can end up happening of the people who are naked do not have an advocate on their side to put a halt to everything once they see that their clients are uncomfortable. Just ask Maria Schneider about the sketchy sh*t that happened when she appeared in Last Tango in Paris with Marlin Brando, and Bernardo Betolucci, the director, floated an idea to Brando for part of an upcoming s*x scene they were filming—-without mentioning any of it to her before it happened! So yes, really awful men who make movies CAN DO AND HAVE DONE some really awful things when it comes to FILMING s*x-simulation scenes.
J. Maxx 1 hour ago
Do you realize that male actors get s****************d, too, right? James Van Der Beek, Terry Crews, Michael Gaston, Brendan Fraser, & Alexander Polinsky, to name a few. Leaving men out is a form of misandry.
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Frank Ropen 38 minutes ago
Wow, they literally said, you said yes at the beginning therefore you can’t say no later on. Guess what? You can. The same is true for stunts, a stuntman can say no, if you isn’t comfortable doing the stunt. And a script doesn’t always going into great detail what happens in a s*x scene, so no, you don’t necessarily know what you signed up for
Tabitha 2 hours ago (edited)
All the men in the comments saying s*x scenes are nothing, and just refuse to do them are speaking from their own entitlement. They don’t understand what kind of underhanded c**p can happen when a women is n**e and surrounded by a bunch of mostly male crew. They don’t understand how a director can change the scene so it’s very different, and not always on a good way, for the woman (mostly to pander to their own sick fantasies). They don’t understand that an actress just starting out is not in a position of power to say no to a s*x scene. She could lose that job in the snap of a director’s fingers, lose the paycheck that goes with it, nd have to start over auditioning for another part—-and probably being badmouthed by the director for being difficult, when she only asked for fairness—-making it impossible to ever be hired again. That’s just how ephemeral a career in movies or on the stage can be, ruined by the petulance of some man with power just because you said no to pandering to his sick fantasies. So yes, intimacy coordinators ARE necessary, because they advocate for BOTH the men and women who are called upon to appear in s*x scenes (or more accurately, s*x-simulation scenes), because a lot of sketchy stuff can end up happening of the people who are naked do not have an advocate on their side to put a halt to everything once they see that their clients are uncomfortable. Just ask Maria Schneider about the sketchy sh*t that happened when she appeared in Last Tango in Paris with Marlin Brando, and Bernardo Betolucci, the director, floated an idea to Brando for part of an upcoming s*x scene they were filming—-without mentioning any of it to her before it happened! So yes, really awful men who make movies CAN DO AND HAVE DONE some really awful things when it comes to FILMING s*x-simulation scenes.
J. Maxx 1 hour ago
Do you realize that male actors get s****************d, too, right? James Van Der Beek, Terry Crews, Michael Gaston, Brendan Fraser, & Alexander Polinsky, to name a few. Leaving men out is a form of misandry.
Load More Replies... Frank Ropen 38 minutes ago
Wow, they literally said, you said yes at the beginning therefore you can’t say no later on. Guess what? You can. The same is true for stunts, a stuntman can say no, if you isn’t comfortable doing the stunt. And a script doesn’t always going into great detail what happens in a s*x scene, so no, you don’t necessarily know what you signed up for
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