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“[Am I The Jerk] For Throwing A Kid’s Bag And Taking His Seat After He Refused To Move?”
Teen sitting on crowded metro with fed-up rider nearby in urban transit environment.

Teen Takes Up Five Seats And Plays Music Loudly On Crowded Train, Passenger Finally Snaps

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Riding a crowded metro can test anyone’s patience, especially when personal space feels nonexistent. Millions of commuters face packed trains and buses every day, and a single inconsiderate passenger can make the journey stressful for everyone.

Today’s Original Poster’s (OP) story highlights one of those moments. After a teenager took up multiple seats, played music out loud, and ignored polite requests to move his belongings, he decided to take matters into his own hands.

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    The author got on a crowded metro but noticed a teenager who took up multiple seats and played music out loud

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    Image credits: freepik / Freepik (not the actual photo)

    He politely asked the teenager to move his bag, but when he refused, the author checked the bag for fragile items and tossed it down the train

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    Image credits: Yulia Raneva / Freepik (not the actual photo)

    The teenager yelled and went to retrieve his bag, while the author calmly claimed the empty seats and invited others to sit

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    When the teenager returned, there were no seats left, and the author stood firm by refusing to stand up for him

    The OP got on the metro heading somewhere, but it was packed. He then noticed a teenager sprawling across multiple seats on a crowded metro. Not only did he claim the seats with his body, but he also had his bag occupying one chair and was playing music blasting from his phone with no headphones.

    He politely asked the teen to move his bag so a seat could be freed, but instead, the teenager rolled his eyes, smirked, and said he “didn’t think so”. The combination of the teen’s arrogance, loud music, and selfishness left the OP feeling angry, so he decided to take action. After checking the teen’s bag wasn’t fragile, they tossed it further down the train.

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    The teen jumped up, shouting, demanding that the OP get his bag back, but he stood firm and told the teen to go get it himself or there would be a problem. While the teen retrieved the bag, the OP sat down and invited other standing passengers to take the remaining seats.

    When the teen returned, there was no room for him anymore and he started yelling. This left the OP feeling a bit like a bully, however, he needed the teen to learn that he couldn’t just do anything an expect everyone else to put up with it.

    Image credits: freepik / Freepik (not the actual photo)

    The Urban Doctor notes that overcrowding and rude behavior on public transit may not make headlines, but they are among the most common complaints for commuters. Millions of people rely on buses, trains, and subways every day, and when riders ignore basic etiquette, it creates unnecessary stress and tension for everyone.

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    NW Bus provides clear guidelines that reinforce this idea. Riders are encouraged to limit the space they occupy, keeping backpacks on their laps and avoiding sprawling across multiple seats. They also highlight that maintaining a quiet environment, no loud phone calls, music without headphones, or strong odors, is equally important.

    Research from Psychology Today shows that standing your ground in minor conflicts and in situations like this can effectively establish boundaries without escalating into serious confrontations. Calmly asserting what behavior is acceptable protects your space while minimizing the risk of verbal or physical escalation.

    Netizens were on the OP’s side, with many people arguing that the teenager was the real instigator and that his behavior crossed basic public-transit boundaries. Others acknowledged that tossing the bag wasn’t exactly polite, it was justified given the situation. What do you think about this situation? Do you think the OP went too far, or was the teen asking for a reality check?

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    Netizens emphasized that consequences are sometimes the only way people learn, especially when no one else is willing to intervene

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    Ifeoluwa Adesina

    Ifeoluwa Adesina

    Writer, BoredPanda staff

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    I'm a writer and bookworm (eyes glued to an e-book, more accurately) who happens to have a suspiciously deep knowledge about pop culture. When I'm not writing, I can most likely be found taking yet another online quiz to find out which soda matches my personality.

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    Ifeoluwa Adesina

    Ifeoluwa Adesina

    Writer, BoredPanda staff

    I'm a writer and bookworm (eyes glued to an e-book, more accurately) who happens to have a suspiciously deep knowledge about pop culture. When I'm not writing, I can most likely be found taking yet another online quiz to find out which soda matches my personality.

    What do you think ?
    Earonn -
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had someone doing that, long ago. I just sat down on his legs. I'm not superfat, but clearly overweight, and my, what he complained. What do these babies expect, that we let them do their little show? Nope, we turn it into a learning experience.

    Roy
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm 6'5" 245 and an ex bouncer! I would have just told him to move! I'm used to giving attitude adjustments!😀

    Reemerger
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh boy, one of these days that'll be me. Thank Jeebus I don't have to take public transport often.

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    Earonn -
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I had someone doing that, long ago. I just sat down on his legs. I'm not superfat, but clearly overweight, and my, what he complained. What do these babies expect, that we let them do their little show? Nope, we turn it into a learning experience.

    Roy
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm 6'5" 245 and an ex bouncer! I would have just told him to move! I'm used to giving attitude adjustments!😀

    Reemerger
    Community Member
    1 month ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh boy, one of these days that'll be me. Thank Jeebus I don't have to take public transport often.

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