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“It’s Not A Prank, It’s Insane”: People Urge Woman To Run After Husband’s Deadly “Joke”
A spouse is supposed to be your other half, someone you intend to grow old with. And for that marriage to last, you must be able to trust that person with your life, among many other things.
That trust dissipated for this couple one night when the husband pranked his wife by jokingly dangling her from a parking garage from a few floors above the ground. When the woman didn’t take his antics kindly, he tried to turn the tables by faulting her for ruining their evening.
Despite being in grave danger, the woman still wondered if she was out of line for canceling their date plans after what happened.
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This woman, however, felt her life had been threatened thanks to her husband’s “prank”
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But instead of showing remorse, he called her out for ruining their date night
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Domestic abuse carries profound psychological effects
Domestic abuse is commonly linked with physical violence. However, other actions that put the other person in danger also fall under this category.
The United Nations’ definition includes behaviors “that frighten, intimidate, terrorize, and manipulate” the spouse. As for what the woman went through based on her story, legal experts officially refer to it as cruel and barbarous treatment.
It is generally defined as the act of endangering a spouse’s life or health. In most jurisdictions, it is a ground for divorce.
Such traumatic experiences often lead to long-term mental health issues like anxiety, depression, and post-traumatic stress disorder. As noted by the US Office on Women’s Health, the abused may also experience shutting other people out, trust issues, and substance use problems.
The effects of domestic abuse may also affect the person’s ability to socialize. According to a 2022 study published in the National Library of Medicine, the controlling behavior they experienced from abusive partners may cause feelings of hopelessness and isolation. This makes it difficult for the abused to seek and access support services.
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It will take a long while for an abusive partner to change, and an exit may be necessary
Based on her story, the woman’s husband showed abusive, manipulative behavior by trying to pin the blame on her and downplaying it as a “joke.” His actions could’ve led to a much worse outcome, yet he sees nothing gravely wrong with what he did.
According to author and psychologist Dr. Jeanne Segal, hoping an abusive partner will change isn’t going to be quick and easy. Worse, the abuse will likely continue.
In an article for HelpGuide.org, Dr. Segal stated that there is no guarantee for change even if the partner is in counseling or promises to stop. The next best move would be to plan for an exit.
In doing so, safety planning is necessary. Dr. Segal advises knowing the abuser’s red flags and coming up with several reasons to leave without triggering their anger. Establishing code words can also help notify friends or neighbors about potential danger.
The author likely lost trust in her husband due to his actions, and he showed no remorse whatsoever. A similar situation may happen again in the future, and she may not be as lucky. She may need to reevaluate her marriage and consider seeking professional help if necessary.
Most people sided with the woman, with some urging her to run away
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Rick Murray 10 months ago
She lost her appetite? FFS, she was *that* close to losing her life. Leave, now. A guy punches his wife in the face, it's a*****t. A guy pretends to pitch his wife over the side of a car park, it's a prank? Bullsh¡t. Don't be alone with someone who thinks that sort of thing is funny, and I'd echo the calls to file a police report. Sorry, but there's no coming back from this. Leave.
Sue 10 months ago
He didn't think it was funny. He's a*****e, and it was a threat. Can't believe she didn't press charges.
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Littlemiss 10 months ago
Wow what a joke. I think someone should do the same to the husband and see if he thinks it's funny too.
Nils Skirnir 10 months ago
The only way she’s an AH is to have gone home with him.
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BrownEyedPanda 10 months ago
Dangling her over a ledge while she's screaming her head off was OP'S husband's way of saying that he was in control and she was not. That he could end her life at a moment's notice, and she would be powerless to stop him. I hope she listens and heads for the hills. He was testing the waters, seeing what she would tolerate. She needs to get out--NOW., file a police report, and tell her family and friends. Leave that monster, file for divorce, block anyone who sides with him, but screenshot any and all texts and emails he sends her. This situation can escalate from a-b-u-s-e to m-u r-d-e-r in the blink of an eye.
Rick Murray 10 months ago
She lost her appetite? FFS, she was *that* close to losing her life. Leave, now. A guy punches his wife in the face, it's a*****t. A guy pretends to pitch his wife over the side of a car park, it's a prank? Bullsh¡t. Don't be alone with someone who thinks that sort of thing is funny, and I'd echo the calls to file a police report. Sorry, but there's no coming back from this. Leave.
Sue 10 months ago
He didn't think it was funny. He's a*****e, and it was a threat. Can't believe she didn't press charges.
Load More Replies... Littlemiss 10 months ago
Wow what a joke. I think someone should do the same to the husband and see if he thinks it's funny too.
Nils Skirnir 10 months ago
The only way she’s an AH is to have gone home with him.
Load More Replies... BrownEyedPanda 10 months ago
Dangling her over a ledge while she's screaming her head off was OP'S husband's way of saying that he was in control and she was not. That he could end her life at a moment's notice, and she would be powerless to stop him. I hope she listens and heads for the hills. He was testing the waters, seeing what she would tolerate. She needs to get out--NOW., file a police report, and tell her family and friends. Leave that monster, file for divorce, block anyone who sides with him, but screenshot any and all texts and emails he sends her. This situation can escalate from a-b-u-s-e to m-u r-d-e-r in the blink of an eye.
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