I been with my husband for almost 13 years, have 3 beautiful kids. But the last couple years she’s been a real a hole with me he doesn’t have time for me he’s home but he’s not present. Always on he’s phone, computer etc. but what really hurt me the most was when I had our baby 3 years ago I went to a really bad C-section baby stay @ the hospital I came home days after I had him. Hours after arriving from the hospital, him he’s sister and I are sitting in the living room, I asked for help to get up from the sofa since I was still in a lot of pain instead of helping me up, he laughed at me and said don’t act like it hurts and you can’t get up. I couldn’t believe it, an up to this day every time I remember that it hurts me so bad that I wanna walk out the door on top of how he treats me. It hurts to see how he makes time for he’s friends family but not for me.
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Get out of there. Temporarily at first. Hopefully he will miss you and change (which he might possibly not).
Move out permanently if necessary.
Of course you need to talk to him but I suspect you did that already. He just needs to see that you are being serious and not afraid to take actions. But always make clear that you don't do this to hurt him but to get your harmonic relationship back.
If he realises what he's missing he'll be willing to change - good for you! If he's not then you finally know there's no need to stay - also good for you. Do you have friends or relatives where you could stay? Maybe send away the kids for a weekend to talk first.
This is rather my personal approach than a general advice.
