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#1
My mom telling me that I’m a horrible person during the middle of a fight. It basically affirmed everything that I am afraid of. She said that I was just like my grandmother (an horrid person, narcissist, and pathological liar). I really don’t want to be another horrible person out in the world.
Final score:
6points
ChocolateMacaroon 2 years ago
She doesn’t actually mean that, trust me. When people are in the middle of a super heated intense argument, they tend to say stuff that isn’t said for truth but to hurt you. It’s not true. Even the best kindest people do this, it’s really about just tryna win the fight. You are not a horrible person, you are amazing and slay (srry ik I’m weird but like you are) don’t forget it!!!!
Lil Miss Hobbit 2 years ago
Trust me, even if you are struggling, you are a beautiful and kind person. Don't let yourself or your Mom tell you otherwise.
Penguin Panda Pop 2 years ago
Lil Miss Hobbit, I don't believe in god but at the same time I believe that you are doing god's work. I see your comments on these posts and I'm truly awestruck that you took time to offer an alternative perspective. People need this. Kindness is the ring to rule them all.
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A Wild Bean (they/them/any) 2 years ago
I'm so sorry you had to hear that. I hope you know it's not true. Actually horrible people don't care if they're horrible.
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#2
One day at the end of the school year, one of my friends hurried over to me in the morning and told me that two kids had been talking about me on the bus ride to school, about how I was annoying. I acted like it was no big deal but it was devastating, as I thought those kids had been my friends. I’m known as the loyal, friendly, funny person, and it felt like they were just laughing at how hard I try to make people feel like they have another friend to go to if they need someone.
Final score:
4points
shanila.pheonix_ 2 years ago (edited)
i know how you feel dude. i was left out cuz i was the hyper "annoying" kid. i kinda changed my personality to fit society's standard and got some friends back who left me for being too annoying (NEVER change your personality for others i learnt this the hard way because yes, i got friends, but not real friends, besides, i was so drained after talking to them. i bet ur a GREAT person and your personality is beautiful :D) i had found some friends who actually liked me for me and i promise you, when you have found your gang, you will feel like you belong.
#3
I think mine was when my therapist told me that I was making family too important. My family is my life. It was very hard to except that I needed to outgrow them in some ways and fight for myself sometimes.
Final score:
3points
#4
That I'm a control freak. I always knew I start to internally panic a little if I feel like situations are out of my control, but I never really realized how that came across to others.
Final score:
3points
Lil Miss Hobbit 2 years ago
Or maybe, you aren't a control freak, you just feel like you can't trust others to take care of you...that you have to do it yourself or you will get hurt?
A Wild Bean (they/them/any) (Submission author) 2 years ago
I never really thought of it that way... I mean, I know that I prefer doing things my way to get the exact result I want, but I hadn't considered that it could be because I'm scared of getting hurt... I have a lot to think about now haha, thanks
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That I’m extremely annoying and obnoxious. Maybe that’s why I don’t have any friends, because I drive people crazy when I’m being annoying and obnoxious. That’s why I’m not popular at school, because I suck, and maybe I should stop being alive so that people will be glad that I’m dead.
Final score:
2points
Lil Miss Hobbit 2 years ago
I don't think that's the truth. I think that is a lie. You are amazing! Don't tell yourself that you are annoying, tell yourself that you are unique and work to find people who will love that uniqueness. All of us at BP love it already!
Sarcastic person they/them 2 years ago
I’m sorry:((( you’ll school probably sucks and I’ll be your friend :)
Charlie Spring (He/Him) (Submission author) 2 years ago
Wow, do you even know how sad and pathetic you are? If you don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything at all.
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