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i know this probably wont post but ill try anyway so i need help with getting over loss of life as i dont have much expirence and im realizing my grandpa is really gone so ive been trying to cope with that but i dont know how to

#1

Both of my grandfathers passed in the last couple of years, so I get what you’re going through right now and I’m very sorry for your loss. I really hate to tell you this, but the pain you’re going through right now really only goes away with time. Here’s the good news though: It will get better. It may be a little while until you feel “normal” again, but you will get there. As for now, don’t try to hold the pain in and let yourself be sad. You’re allowed to upset right now: It’s part of grieving.

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#2

let your feelings out, be patient, forgive yourself. Remember the person you lost and continue to talk about them. Stay close with the people you still have. xx ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

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#3

I wish I had any advice, but I haven't had to deal with that. I just wanted to say I'm sorry for your loss.

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#4

1st off i am sorry for your lose. I have lost too many people. When i was younger i hid from the pain in a bottle. Dont do that. Lol. Its hard and it sucks beyond anything but ive learned that i have to face it head on. I own my pain. I do revel in it in a way. I have to feel each step, each moment of loss. Time does not heal, it covers the wound in scar. The ache is and will always be there however i have become stronger through it.

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#5

I'm so sorry for your loss. Like many have already said, but I would like to put emphasis on letting yourself cry a little, letting yourself feel the grief. Feel your emotions fully. Then, you can consider counseling or talking to some close friends/family.

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#6

make sure you have someone to talk to, and maybe some grief counseling would help?

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#7

Let yourself feel and process the grief and sadness that you feel. Also remember all the happy moments you have had with this person. I haven't experienced this for myself, but I hope that my advice helped you in a way. Sorry for your loss.

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#8

Sorry for your loss…Been there four years ago.. u learn to deal with it with time. But the pain doesn’t really go away. I do charity in silence in his memory, I know it makes him happy..
Stay strong, speak to a friend as your family is probably going thru a hard time too..

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#9

what helped me when i was trying to get over the loss of my dog was write down everything i felt about her, every thought that came into my head i wrote it down kind of as a tribute to her. it's posted here somewhere. that really helped me start to heal and although it takes a while it will get better.

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#10

I would recommend to feel okay feeling upset. It alsways alright to feel emotions. Never ever look back and say it was your fault, I don’t know what happened but I know it’s not your fault. Accept that he is gone, but embrace that your memories with him are here. Sending hugs.

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#11

Cry, think about happy times you had with them, cry abit more, and just take each day as it comes.

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#12

Nobody I’m close to has ever passed away, but I’ll give what I hope is good advice. Just know that it will eventually pass, but also tell people fond memories you have with him and stuff like that. Idk tho so don’t follow my advice please

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