Fighting over who pays the Bill for Dinner Celebration.
Are you truly Married ?
For how long ?
Do you Love him ?
Does he Love you ?”
A little Clarification First: thanks
1st. I’ve been Married for OVER 37 Yrs.
2nd. Money is by far the main thing we fight about.
3rd. Strong, Successful Marriages almost Always
Pool their money into one family account.
It’s far more difficult when it’s Yours, Mine and Ours.
People often feel like they have the right to spend however they want.
“I work hard…I’m gonna buy what I want”
This Only causes fights,
proves the person is Selfish,
Magnifies financial problems - (Bills, Wants, Needs, hopes & future dreams).
He should have Planned better (Had cash or a Good Credit Card.
She Should have just done it & let him Explain or even beg later at home !
She, not only made him look bad in front of Family and/Or friends. She belittled him after him bringing home to her and also family some good news !
He wanted to show her he’s the man he wanted to be for her and in turn she made him feel like a worthless piece of crap.
Never, ever belittle him in Public - EVER,
He’ll never forget it.
He Should never do it to her either !
These two need to communicate more,discuss everything and treat each other like they did from day one.
Beside All their Serious marital issues,
If they ever wanna see each other naked again.
They should merge, care and talk about everything inside their home.
Otherwise they will lose it all.
They’ll be able to spend how they want them - Alone !
Just some advice
from an Old Married Dude
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