"Back in my day, we used to walk 5 miles to school in sub-zero temperatures without batting an eyelid. Not like you spoiled little brats these days!" We all have an older relative who says things like this about raising kids. They are despairing the coddled youth with their smartphones, crappy music, and parents that seemingly can't say no to their every demand.
And you know what? They might actually have a point on the parenting styles of today. Although the world might seem like a more dangerous place now with higher safety standards required, kids of previous generations had to make their own entertainment. They had to learn to look after themselves from a younger age and take far more risks while doing so. Parents didn't have things like Mumsnet to help them with parenting tips, alternatively, guilt and stress them out for letting kids go out of the safe environments and learn from their own mistakes.
To celebrate the eccentric approaches of old-school parenting and child safety, we here at Bored Panda have put together a list of parents and their kids doing things that would horrify the mommy and daddy bloggers and Instagrammers of today. What's your opinion on the evolution of parenting over the years? Scroll down below to check out the vintage photos for yourself, and let us know what you think in the comments!
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Me Back In 1991 Just Your Typical Aussie Kid Drinking Xxxxlight Beer(I Wasn't Aloud Heavies Back Then) And Holding A Baby Crocodile
Yes, hope he didn't hurt it in any way. Still, it's a pretty funny and cool photo!
Load More Replies...Right?! The caption could easily read, "pic taken in SE coastal North Carolina, yesterday. 😂
Load More Replies...Allowed, allowed, it's spelled allowed for pity sake!! -cries teacher's tears-
He should definitely do an "adult" version - Drinking beer with only hat and blanket while holding grown-up crocodile.
My Mother And Grandmother Demonstrating Safety Standards In The 1960s
I’m apparently the same age as the mother in this photo, and I distinctly remember a chairlift just like this at Lake Louise. I think the only “safety feature” was a bar that folded down over our laps.
Load More Replies...The patented Mother-arm-of-steel barrier though. The maternal power behind that arm is proof of magic imo
There is no way in this world, or in any number of alternative universes, that you'd get me to go on that insane deathtrap. My kid would have to go by themselves.
Thanks for the laugh! I was so loud my neighbors pounded on the wall.
Load More Replies...I'd rather say the lift itself was demonstrating safety standards.... This freaks me out
HAHAHA ... The mom seat belt! I remember mom doing this to us in the car ... as if it would have made a bit of difference. :P
Same here. I think it’s the Pavlovian mom reflex, as soon as you get in the car or any other moving object out goes your arm.
Load More Replies...Actually I've been on ski lifts that are like this, they're not as scary or dangerous as they look
If Your Mum Didn't Lay On The Ground Making Herself Into A Ramp For Your New BMX, Did She Even Love You? 1980's
mine dont truly luv me either, dont worry aarsy ur not the only one in this world
Load More Replies...California Marijuana Initiative Rally 1972. That’s Me In The Box And My Parents In The Picture
I don't see a safety concern here. The crowd is peaceful. (They are all stoned and therefore, little violence will happen) I think my mother was in a dresser drawer after she was born.
I think the concern is a contact high for baby!
Load More Replies...Dammit, I got more tickets during that year than I ever did before and after, combined! Why? Because of my Prop 19 bumper sticker!
Please don't anyone else like this - it's perfect at 420 final score 😂😂
My Dad And His Veterinarian Mother, With Their Pet Lion Which They Raised For Two Years, 1959
All cats seem to get this look of desperation when kids are around. Even lions.
they had style and grace back then, it was healthy. not caked on make up and "contouring" and unnatural lips and butts that looks trashier than a raccoons day off
Load More Replies...Princess Yvonne And Prince Alexander In Germany, 1955
Germany got loads of money from the Marshall plan and had an economic boom in 1950. They we're sitting pretty in 1955 having joined NATO. They even won the world cup in 1954.
Load More Replies...15 seconds of research found this: Before rushing to judgment on the lives of German nobility, it should be known that the photographer behind this image was the children's mother, Princess Marianne Sayn-Wittgenstein-Sayn. Affectionately known as Princess "Manni" or her more artistic moniker "Mamarazza," she was an accomplished photographer, her images becoming featured in magazines as well as gallery exhibitions. Given this background, one can only hope that the shot above is the result of intentional composition and not reckless parenting.
Alcohol does a lot of damage to the body. Though people tend to think it's so "cool".
Load More Replies...Even if it is how many parents do you know today that would give their children alcohol and lit cigarettes just to pose for a picture?
Load More Replies...I lived there til 1955 and we lacked nothing. I had a great childhood. Economy was good. War had been over for 10 years .. where were you ????
A Couple Ice Skating With Their Baby, 1937
Both parents happen to fall, at the same time, away from each other. Baby is catapulted into space!
Load More Replies...I wish it was still the norm to still dress this classy for everyday outings such as this. Well, sometimes I wish that and then others I'm glad for the more modern t/::;shirt and jeans
Infant Me, My Mother & Father At A Bar Because That's How Parents Rolled In The Early '80s
I hung in bars too when I was little. Then they wouldn't let me back in until I was 20 - I must have been a rough toddler.
This photo needn't make the list. In the UK family pubs are common. There's nothing weird as long as the parents aren't drunk.
my mother was a bartender for most of her life; i was brought up in bars because it was allowed & there was no babysitter to pay. i loved to dance & play music on the jukebox. playing shuffleboard was fun too, and eating maraschino cherries!
Old joke from England. A man, his wife, and their 4 year-old child were out driving, when they were pulled over by the police. The Bobby told the gentleman who was driving that he'd been weaving a bit, and wondered if he'd mind taking a breathalyzer test to prove he was sober. Glad to, sad the gentleman. Strangely, the test showed that he was legally drunk. Got to be something wrong with that machine, the gentleman insisted, Let my wife try; she never drinks. But the machine showed her to be legally drunk as well. The gentleman made one more request, that would, if granted, show that the machine in question was defective. Let's see how the kid does with the machine, he suggested. And, what do you know? The kid also tested legally drunk. The Bobby apologized, and allowed the family to go on their way. As they pulled away, the husband looked at his wife and said "Good thing we gave the kid that double shot of gin before we left the bar, eh wot?!?
Full Del Griffith in that photo. Just need Neil Page sitting next to him.
Load More Replies...The Pinnacle Of Parenting: 1930s Swimming Lesson
My father threw me into Tampa Bay. I was about 3 years old. I learned to swim in a hurry, because there were scary things swimming around in that water! Google "Horseshoe Crab" and you'll understand.
I think they are actually cute. But I guess they would be scary if one didn't know or expect them. :) In fact, I feel a little jealous, horseshoe crabs are on my favourite animals list! It's a lot cooler way to learn how to swim than lasting 2 hours a week with other kindergarten kids(the only reason I applied was that mid afternoon naps were even worse), who are plain dumb and annoying. But that's my personal opinion, of course! Just ignore me, I'm that insane person on Bored Panda, who adores all kinds of "nasty" beasts, especially invertebrates, and owns some type of bug along with all the other pets 99% of the time. ;)
Load More Replies...That’s older than 1930s according to the clothes. Looks like early 1900s. (Men didn’t wear stand up collars like that in the ‘30s, they wore folded collars. Plus you can make out the outfits in the background.)
I agree about the background people, but I don’t think a collar like that was completely out of the norm for an older man in the 1930’s.
Load More Replies...I mean... that's literally how I've been taught during a professional school in Kindy in the 90's...
Or be thrown in to the water like my father done to me - then there is no other choice just to learn how to swim real fast
Yep! My brother, who's only a year older than me, threw me in the pool and said "don't worry, if it looks like you're drowning I'll save you" needless to say I learned to swim.
Load More Replies...Car Seat Safety In 1958. Not Strapped In To Anything, These Seats Relied On The Mother To Put Her Arm Out And Stop The Baby From Falling Forward
You guys are not accounting for how strong women's arms were in the 50's.
And you're also not accounting for how carefully people drove. Economy cars would max out at 55mph, and take their sweet time getting there, and everyone drove defensively because 4-wheel 8" drum brakes would take forever to stop you.
Load More Replies...I remember when I was a kid running back and forth in the back seat as my parents drove the car.
i remember my oldest just lying on the front seat while I was driving (up until about 3 months), then in the carrier. Car seats were not mandatory until the mid-late 80s, I think. to this day, right arm shoots over to the passenger side when someone is sitting there & I have to brake a little hard!
Don't look at the baby, look at the driver. No seatbelt and she is sitting in front of a spear. Retractable steering columns that colaps when crashing where invented much later. Getting impaled by your own car was pretty common.
My Hilarious Father (With The Magazine) And My Grandfather, Grandmother, And Uncle At His Bar Mitzvah In 1972
My Mother-In-Law Riding A Bear At 2 Years Old
I have a pic sitting next to trained circus bear without any restrains - remember not being amused by animal abuse even back then when I was 5. Haven't set my foot to circus since then
There are circus without animals. You should try them!
Load More Replies...Yeah, whenever non-humans show up in these kinds of pictures I get wary because if there's one thing that's improved since these times it's animal welfare in more places.
Load More Replies...so so sad and the fact that today bears STILL endure cruelty in bile farms and zoos, it is so sad that we still haven't totally woken up. Humans really are the scum of the earth
Harley With A Baby Seat, 1962
Safety first! Remember to properly attach the baby seat with the convenient succion cups to the gas tank before putting your baby in it.
Baby gets the safest seat... and full wind screen. the other two need glasses.
This is probably safer than what you see in other countries where the kid is just seated between the parents.
And often without a helmet, because they don't usually produce baby-sized ones.
Load More Replies...A Photo Of Me Dressed Up As My Dad, With My Dad (1982)
I mostly got the candy cigarettes myself. Never smoked a real one. Had toy guns. Only shot a real one in scout camp. Born only one year before this btw.
Load More Replies...Great pic! Uncanny resemblance to my brothers though! Do you know what part of Ireland your Dad was from?
I felt so badass with my candy cigarettes rolling around on my bike with no helmet
We used to color the end of our tootsie pop sticks red and pretend we were smoking. That, and candy ciggies of course. When I was old enough, dad used to let me light his cigarettes.
My Dad Showing Off His Parenting Skills 1985
And his Awesome fashion choices. Cut off tummy top, micro running shorts and Sears Roebuck velcro kicks was my go to in '85 too! but he tops it off with that cherry Tom Selleck stash. Your dad is a legend.
You do know how hot this things can be? You also know that kids that age touch and taste everything? And next to a small kid with a cigarette is also no good idea. Today we should know.
Load More Replies...Yes, let’s give the one who puts everything in her mouth fire on a stick.
Oh how sweet...dropping ashes on kid's head while handing the little tyke a flaming stick. I see no problems here.
My Mom In The Hospital After Giving Birth To My Sister. Canada 1978. Smokes And Roasted Chicken
chicken with milk and a smoke after giving birth. this is the true title...lol
I had 3 babies in Canada in the '70s: great food, back rubs at bedtime, a beer with supper every day for nursing moms.
Yeah. "Got Smilk?" just doesn't have the same ring to it either.
Load More Replies...Lol, when my Mom was born my Nan was given a cigarette and my Mom a teaspoon of whiskey. This was in '63.
People were smoking AND drinking while pregnant at least through the 60s and nothing was thought of it. then science and studies happened. it's a miracle some of us are alive...
i still wonder if my mother drank while knocked up
Load More Replies...I remember dragging my I.V. pole to the waiting area to have a smoke .
I had my boy in 1966 in Salt Lake City, UT., at the LDS Hospital. I smoked the minute I was in my own room. There was an ashtray on the side table! And I was in the hospital for 4 1/2 days for a regular birth! Ah those were the days! But a Mormon hospital!? Crazy! At the time I didn't think anything of it. But today it is shocking to me.
Back In The Day. 1950s To Be Exact. Checkout That Car Seat
We had one when we were kids. There was the button in the middle for the horn.
I typically rode in the rear window shelf. Perfectly safe; if I rolled off it'd only be onto the back seat. No problems.
Load More Replies...Its better than the one they showed earlier ! At least its attached to the seat.
I used the plastic ones that were shown earlier for both my oldest son and 5 years later in 1979 We even dug out seatbelts to put around them but they grew out of them at about 6 months I had the one shown also for all three
Load More Replies...And the little jingle bells, tied into his shoe laces!! I did that with my kiddos in the late 70s-early 80s.
It’s in color, so I’m thinking it’s more likely the early 1960s. My first brother and my sister and I were born in the ‘50s and all of our baby pictures are in B&W, whereas my two younger brothers who were born in ‘63 and ‘65 had color baby pics.
Load More Replies...great, so he can ribcage it right on that bar in a front collision, and who are we kidding, you would be lucky to make it through in an accident like a rollover. There was almost zero structural steel above the doors in those days. No seatbelts.
My Mom Showing Off Her Parenting Skills 1978
Whatever it takes to keep the little monsters under some kind of control!
Load More Replies...we always got to drink the foam off the top of the beer as kids in the 80s
It is a very good practice. One should use non alcoholic beer.
Load More Replies...Nah, he's clearly just biting the can she is drinking from. Not the best idea but it doesn't mean he drank it
We were told that a fillable 'dinky'/pacifier loaded with a shot of Guinness was a good way to treat a teething baby, and the rest was good for mummy, to help replace lost nutrients through breastfeeding. Worked a treat, too!
Me, 1958, Relaxing After My Bath With Toby, I Was Never Again This Cool
Thus us purley a set up photo shoot! Is that a cigar? If so it's backwards. And if after his bath, why is he fully dressed including shoes. After my bath it was always bedtime!
I don’t believe it, after this you can never not be cool again!
Forget the Toby, what about the petrol lighter some imbecile gave him to hold ! Plus it's been lit up !
13 Y/O Dad Having A Taste While The Grownups Are Busy Playing Cards; Upstate New York, August 1954
Meh, we did this all the time when I was a kid and I turned out just fi– wait...
Thank you for the insight, CrunChewy McSandybutt...
Load More Replies...If it's Kodachrome 35mm film, yes, it would look that good. That film was so great, Paul Simon wrote a song about it in the 70s.
Load More Replies...In the UK it's legal for a child to drink alcohol in their own home as long as they are at least five years old. Probably dates back from when the water was foul and everyone drank ale instead.
The only time my brother ever got told off for drinking was when he helped himself to the wine cupboard. Dad said, 'I don't mind you drinking my wine, just ask me before you help yourself to the good stuff'. He'd been saving that bottle. I used to tuck myself up into bed with a poor man's Baileys when I was a kid: Milk and brandy.
My Father And His Pet Lion Priscilla, California 1970's
Do you know the lion? Did he tell you he is unhappy? He looks happy enough to me. Better than being in the wild and having to kill his dinner.
Load More Replies...Thankfully, this is now illegal in most states. Unless you are a wildlife rescuer and have the proper training and facilities.
His parents let him have a lion? Jesus. How many brothers and sisters does he think he had?
What is with all the pet lions in this era?😂😂😂 I mean, the only other time I've seen so many "tamed" big cats, is videos about reunions between the humans and "their" big cats.
I was around in the '70s and I sure didn't know anybody who had pet lions
Load More Replies...My Adorable (4 Year Old) Mother At A Zoo In Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam, 1970
come on people!!..... wheres the parental supervision here??? that shirt clearly doesn't go with that handbag at all.
In 1970 this zoo was in a city called Sài Gòn (and still is by most locals), the name wasn't changed to Ho Chi Minh City until 1975.
Do not stand, sit, climb, or lean on zoo fences. If you fall, animals could eat you and that might make them sick. Thank you!
Just A Photo Of Yours Truly (At 11 Years) Petting A Full Grown Tiger. My Mom Calls It Her "Bad Parenting Moment"
From the infamous Thai temple tiger farm. https://www.traffic.org/news/thai-seizure-of-a-dozen-captive-tigers-resurrects-farming-threat/
Forgot to mention, drugged out of his head plus probably teeth pulled out-tiger... I HATE this.
I remember you could touch (and feed) killer whales trapped in a tiny 'petting pool' at Sea World in the 1970s early 80s.
I got to do that, can't remember if it was late 80s or early 90s. The trainers had us pet their tongues and I was a little to short so I had to lean into the tank to do it!
Load More Replies...Wow. Those were rough times. I grew up in Detroit in the 60's. We were three doors down from a park where I could go and play. I could so many blocks in this direction, so many blocks in the other direction, just come home when the street lights came on. We walked to school - by ourselves - without parents monitoring our every step. We could play on the playground equipment, jungle gyms, slides, etc., all without someone to make sure we didn't hurt ourselves, each other, set the world on fire, etc. I remember all the kids that were killed by such recklessness....except that no one ever was. Oh the humanity!!!!
There's something to be said for letting your children live freely, yes it's a much more dangerous way to grow up but it has it's benefits for those who survive. I'm not saying we should roll all of our safety norms back, but the super insulated lives some kids have today is too restrictive. Personal opinion from someone who grew up getting kicked out of the house until the street lights came back on.
Totally agree. I'm almost 15 and some of my friends aren't allowed/are too scared to spend the night at a friends house. I told my friend's mom I get dropped off at the mall and SixFlags alone/with a friend and she gave me the most shocked look.
Load More Replies...This is a somewhat curious, yet weird series. On the one hand, this seems like the ideal to counter helicopter parenting and the over-caring we witness today. On the other hand, we must be thankful fot better safety (improper restraints must have killed thousanda of children in car accidents) and carelessness (for example regarding smoke).
It is not only carelessness. They just didn't know. Like with radioactive material. At some point people used it as medicine until they realized it will kill them.
Load More Replies...We will leave the same impression. Diesel vehicles still permitted on the roads anyone? Single use plastic used absolutely everywhere? The non-safety issues from the 1950ies could have terrible consequences for that one person but we have scaled the game up so much that we are now risking our whole species.
Why should a Diesel engine be restricted and petrol ones not? They have different emmissions but both are equaly dangerous.
Load More Replies...I was a 1969 Australian baby. I believe the 70's and 80's were the best decades to grow up in. Yeah things were a little unsafe but that just made us more aware of our surroundings. We learnt to be independent at an early age. My siblings and I got our bikes for our 8th birthdays. Once we had that we were allow to take off in the morning, after chores, with a packed sandwich and we'd come home when mum rang the cow bell, which is odd cause we didn't live on a farm :). I wouldn't want to be a kid these days. The fear taught by their parents, the pressures at school, the bullying, the cost of living in the future and the environmental issues. Poor little blighters.
To be fair, on all the drinking ones my dad let me try beer when I was really young. I was probably seven or younger. He called it "Colorado Kool ade". We were vacationing in Colorado at the time. It's probably the reason I don't like beer to this day and I'll be 38 in June.
I was allowed a rum and coke in a pub in the Northern Territory when I was 7, because as the barman said "Why the **** not?". Unlike a lot of my friends, I never got black out drunk on weekends because i never had to sneak booze. My parents made some very bad choices in some things they did, but I think they got that absolutely right. I've never been a big drinker.
Load More Replies...Not only we went 5 miles on foot sub-zero, but we also went uphill in BOTH directions!!!
Well, it seems we have a very different appreciation of danger... It's so disturbing to see how confident they all look.
You must be under 35 then. Us older folks don't get nervous in any way when looking at any of these. Don't ask again why call you all a bunch of coddled pussies, haha. ;-P
Load More Replies...Maybe these photos show why parents were much less stressed out back at that time and having children did not mean one had to change his or her whole lifestyle. Children were just part of life, like having a job or a place to live. And because children were not treated as a holy cow, they were also much more independent and chill. Just saying
javascript:void(0);Bingo. They were part of life, they weren't life itself. I've seen too many people I know cease to exist after the kids were born. They became sustenance givers and nothing more.
Load More Replies...There's something to be said for letting your children live freely, yes it's a much more dangerous way to grow up but it has it's benefits for those who survive. I'm not saying we should roll all of our safety norms back, but the super insulated lives some kids have today is too restrictive. Personal opinion from someone who grew up getting kicked out of the house until the street lights came back on.
Totally agree. I'm almost 15 and some of my friends aren't allowed/are too scared to spend the night at a friends house. I told my friend's mom I get dropped off at the mall and SixFlags alone/with a friend and she gave me the most shocked look.
Load More Replies...This is a somewhat curious, yet weird series. On the one hand, this seems like the ideal to counter helicopter parenting and the over-caring we witness today. On the other hand, we must be thankful fot better safety (improper restraints must have killed thousanda of children in car accidents) and carelessness (for example regarding smoke).
It is not only carelessness. They just didn't know. Like with radioactive material. At some point people used it as medicine until they realized it will kill them.
Load More Replies...We will leave the same impression. Diesel vehicles still permitted on the roads anyone? Single use plastic used absolutely everywhere? The non-safety issues from the 1950ies could have terrible consequences for that one person but we have scaled the game up so much that we are now risking our whole species.
Why should a Diesel engine be restricted and petrol ones not? They have different emmissions but both are equaly dangerous.
Load More Replies...I was a 1969 Australian baby. I believe the 70's and 80's were the best decades to grow up in. Yeah things were a little unsafe but that just made us more aware of our surroundings. We learnt to be independent at an early age. My siblings and I got our bikes for our 8th birthdays. Once we had that we were allow to take off in the morning, after chores, with a packed sandwich and we'd come home when mum rang the cow bell, which is odd cause we didn't live on a farm :). I wouldn't want to be a kid these days. The fear taught by their parents, the pressures at school, the bullying, the cost of living in the future and the environmental issues. Poor little blighters.
To be fair, on all the drinking ones my dad let me try beer when I was really young. I was probably seven or younger. He called it "Colorado Kool ade". We were vacationing in Colorado at the time. It's probably the reason I don't like beer to this day and I'll be 38 in June.
I was allowed a rum and coke in a pub in the Northern Territory when I was 7, because as the barman said "Why the **** not?". Unlike a lot of my friends, I never got black out drunk on weekends because i never had to sneak booze. My parents made some very bad choices in some things they did, but I think they got that absolutely right. I've never been a big drinker.
Load More Replies...Not only we went 5 miles on foot sub-zero, but we also went uphill in BOTH directions!!!
Well, it seems we have a very different appreciation of danger... It's so disturbing to see how confident they all look.
You must be under 35 then. Us older folks don't get nervous in any way when looking at any of these. Don't ask again why call you all a bunch of coddled pussies, haha. ;-P
Load More Replies...Maybe these photos show why parents were much less stressed out back at that time and having children did not mean one had to change his or her whole lifestyle. Children were just part of life, like having a job or a place to live. And because children were not treated as a holy cow, they were also much more independent and chill. Just saying
javascript:void(0);Bingo. They were part of life, they weren't life itself. I've seen too many people I know cease to exist after the kids were born. They became sustenance givers and nothing more.
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