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Entitled American Can’t Believe People In Other Countries Don’t Always Speak English, Left Screaming And Fuming
Woman looking concerned indoors, illustrating entitled parent scaring child by not speaking English in a calm setting

Entitled American Can’t Believe People In Other Countries Don’t Always Speak English, Left Screaming And Fuming

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Pretty much every tourist knows that they’re in for an amazing experience if they just give themselves over to the place they’re visiting. Some people, though, act more entitled when they’re abroad and expect everyone else to cater to their needs, which can be exhausting.

This is what a woman experienced while working at a Norwegian cinema, when an entitled American tourist came along and demanded that all the workers speak English. Unfortunately, she took this behavior too far, leading to unpleasant experiences for everyone involved.

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    The poster shared that she worked as a cinema technician and that one day an American lady came with her kids and got angry about the movies being dubbed

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    The tourist family waited an hour to see an English movie, but the entitled mom got mad when one of the movie theatre workers spoke to her in Norwegian

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    The lady demanded to speak to a manager and was flabbergasted upon learning that the Norwegian-speaking man was actually the only one in charge there

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    The rude woman later came and demanded a full refund as the movie had subtitles that were covering a bit of the screen, but the cinema refused to give her back anything

    Americans often get a bad rep when they travel abroad, because some of them don’t take any steps to follow the cultural rules and traditions of the place they’re going to. USA Today also mentions that such people seem to believe assertiveness is an important quality, which is why they might be a bit more demanding and forceful even in places where this kind of behavior isn’t considered right.

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    This idea among some Americans that they are the center of the world may also explain their entitled, rude behavior. So, instead of accepting new ways of behaving, they might struggle to adapt and, in turn, be considered a bad tourist by the people of that country.

    When people travel to new places, they might commit a faux pas without even realizing it

    Most foreigners are respectful when they visit a new place because they know that every culture is different and should be respected equally. Unfortunately, some travelers aren’t like that and instead expect everyone around the world to speak English or go out of their way to wait on them hand and foot.

    Lily Ann Fouts, an expert traveler, explains that she, too, has made mistakes as a tourist, and one of the most common is losing your cool. With communication gaps, misunderstandings are bound to happen, and Lily explains that in those moments it’s important to be patient with the person in front of you, rather than getting mad over the slightest thing.

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    The key to being a good traveler isn’t to just blend in; according to the CAE, it’s to immerse yourself in the other culture by trying different experiences and even learning a bit of the language. This can help you have a more authentic experience, understand people better, or even make friends.

    Another awesome benefit of speaking a bit of the local dialect is that it can protect you in tense situations or help you out in emergencies. If people see that you are making an effort to learn their language, they might be more welcoming and even show you around.

    Even though English might be spoken in many places around the world, folks often feel more comfortable talking in their local dialect

    In Norway, nearly 90% of the population speaks English, but it’s treated as a second language. They also prefer to speak Norwegian because it is part of their culture, but they might use a few English words and phrases depending on their comfort level and confidence.

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    In this story, the entitled mom expected an older Norwegian man not to speak in his natural dialect and instead cater to her needs. When he couldn’t, she lost her mind and tried to get a refund for her overall experience, since even the dubbing and subtitles weren’t to her liking.

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    How would you have dealt with a rude American tourist like this? We’d love to hear your opinions and stories about horrible travelers, if any.

    People were shocked by the “Karen’s” reaction and felt that her behavior was the epitome of why all Americans got a bad reputation

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    One commenter shared a similar personal anecdote about their experience hearing an American explain pizza-making to a worker in Italy

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    The original poster responded to people’s comments and clarified that not all American visitors were like the entitled woman, and that many were very pleasant customers

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    Ace
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    10 hours ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've been living in non-English speaking countries for many many years now, and these days I'm actually in a tourist resort, but it still grates on me when English speakers expect everyone in the service sector to speak English (which of course they do) without even asking first. It's just a couple of words, people, FFS. Edit: BTW I'm not talking about Americans here, we don't get so many of them as tourists.

    Alexandra
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    9 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I live in a country with dozens of different nationalities and languages. More often than not, someone working in a shop or a restaurant will not be able to talk the language of my country, the country they live and work in and will talk in English. I will reply in my native language. I think you should learn the language of the country you work and live in.

    Ace
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    7 hours ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, I think most would agree with that last sentiment. I recall the first time I really came across this phenomenon, a waitress in a steak restaurant in Val d'Isere, probably close to30 years ago now. I was with a group of other Brits so we were assigned an English speaking server, actually Australian IIRC, which was all fine until she asked how I wanted my steak cooked. "À point", said I, "is that medium" she replied. I said I had no idea, was the chef French and if so just to write "a point" (this time spoken in an English accent) on the order, they would know what it meant. FFS. (It was fine, BTW).

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    Binky Melnik
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    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m laughing at Norwegian “scaring” her kid. 😆 I’m actually scared when the bodega owners here in NYC speak Arabic because they tend to yell, and yelling in Arabic sounds sooo threatening that I’ve run out in tears several times. They’ll often chase me and explain they were just asking that a case of Bud Light be brought from the back, but not only does it *sound* angry, but often their faces look irritated at the same time. I feel stupid that little children also cry when they’re yelling; I feel so childish. I try to stick to two bodegas run by one family, as they’ré familiar with me and know to try to keep it down when I’m there, and I appreciate it sooo much. I often imagine the conversations they must have about the stupid white girl. ☺️

    Rudie Cant Fail
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    31 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a kid, you know what would really scare me? A parent acting like a lunatic -- whether it be visiting a different country or at the local Target store.

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    Ace
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    10 hours ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've been living in non-English speaking countries for many many years now, and these days I'm actually in a tourist resort, but it still grates on me when English speakers expect everyone in the service sector to speak English (which of course they do) without even asking first. It's just a couple of words, people, FFS. Edit: BTW I'm not talking about Americans here, we don't get so many of them as tourists.

    Alexandra
    Community Member
    9 hours ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I live in a country with dozens of different nationalities and languages. More often than not, someone working in a shop or a restaurant will not be able to talk the language of my country, the country they live and work in and will talk in English. I will reply in my native language. I think you should learn the language of the country you work and live in.

    Ace
    Community Member
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    7 hours ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, I think most would agree with that last sentiment. I recall the first time I really came across this phenomenon, a waitress in a steak restaurant in Val d'Isere, probably close to30 years ago now. I was with a group of other Brits so we were assigned an English speaking server, actually Australian IIRC, which was all fine until she asked how I wanted my steak cooked. "À point", said I, "is that medium" she replied. I said I had no idea, was the chef French and if so just to write "a point" (this time spoken in an English accent) on the order, they would know what it meant. FFS. (It was fine, BTW).

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    Binky Melnik
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    1 hour ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I’m laughing at Norwegian “scaring” her kid. 😆 I’m actually scared when the bodega owners here in NYC speak Arabic because they tend to yell, and yelling in Arabic sounds sooo threatening that I’ve run out in tears several times. They’ll often chase me and explain they were just asking that a case of Bud Light be brought from the back, but not only does it *sound* angry, but often their faces look irritated at the same time. I feel stupid that little children also cry when they’re yelling; I feel so childish. I try to stick to two bodegas run by one family, as they’ré familiar with me and know to try to keep it down when I’m there, and I appreciate it sooo much. I often imagine the conversations they must have about the stupid white girl. ☺️

    Rudie Cant Fail
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    31 minutes ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a kid, you know what would really scare me? A parent acting like a lunatic -- whether it be visiting a different country or at the local Target store.

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