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Mom Puts Entitled Karen In Her Place After She Hijacks Her Disabled Kid’s Stroller At Daycare
Mom Puts Entitled Karen In Her Place After She Hijacks Her Disabled Kid’s Stroller At Daycare
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Mom Puts Entitled Karen In Her Place After She Hijacks Her Disabled Kid’s Stroller At Daycare

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At least once in your lifetime, you must have come across a person who gives off a vibe that they are better than everyone and deserve everything just because of who they are. Believe it or not, there are quite a few people out there who simply ooze a sense of entitlement.

And speaking of entitlement, this mom came across an entitled “Karen” who tried to hijack the original poster’s (OP) daughter’s stroller that she needed due to her Down syndrome. But the protagonist of our story was having none of it!

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    The poster of this story has a daughter with Down syndrome who cannot walk yet as she is hypotonic

    Image credits: Kampus Production  / pexels (not the actual photo)

    Mom couldn’t carry the daughter as she has a weak shoulder and joint problems, so she uses a stroller for daycare, which has a place to park it nearby

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    Image credits: Abject-Shallot-7477

    Image credits: Oleksandr P / pexels (not the actual photo)

    One day she found a sleeping boy in the stroller and his mom wanted to use it to get to her car, so she asked the poster to collect it from there

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    She also started to push the stroller even after the poster said no to her, so she put her foot on the brake, stopped the lady and refused to budge

    It all began when Reddit user Abject-Shallot-7477 found a boy sleeping in her daughter’s stroller. The poster informs us that her 2.5-year-old daughter has Down syndrome and as she is hypotonic, she can’t walk yet. She weighs around 27.5 lbs and as OP has a weak shoulder and joint problems, she can’t really carry her. So, the stroller came to their rescue.

    Her daughter goes to daycare twice a week and there is a dedicated space at the entrance where she parks the stroller. But one day, she found her stroller hijacked by a half-asleep boy and his mom. When she asks the woman whether she had borrowed her stroller, she replied that she needed it as her son was tired and she didn’t feel like carrying him to her car.

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    OP clarified that it was her stroller and she needed it. Well, the woman said that she could accompany her to her car and then take back the stroller. Of course, the poster said no to this as it was her stroller and she had every right to get it back from a random woman who was ordering her around.

    But apparently, she didn’t understand OP’s no, because she started pushing the stroller and making her way to the door. That definitely sounds like an “OMG, what?” moment, doesn’t it? Even the poster must’ve been shocked by this behavior, but she would not stand around and let it pass. 

    So, OP put her foot on the brakes and stopped the entitled woman, who got impatient, picked her son up out of the stroller, and stormed off while cursing the poster. Woah, some people and their attitudes! Folks were also frustrated with the entitled mom after the poster vented about it on Reddit.

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    People were shocked by this blatant display of entitlement from the mom. They felt that when she found out that the stroller belonged to the poster, she could’ve asked to borrow it. Even OP said that if she had asked, she might’ve considered. But the woman was rude right from the beginning.

    As per Verywell Mind, “People with a sense of entitlement put their own personal needs before everyone else’s needs. They believe that it is your job to ensure they have everything they need, even if this means that you don’t have time to take care of your own responsibilities.” 

    It looks like the mom perfectly fits this definition and people’s rage at her seemed justified. Because, after all, people said that OP’s need was much greater than the woman’s as she needed it for medical purposes. Some people also mentioned that the daycare should have gotten involved so that the woman wouldn’t repeat her behavior. 

    To get a comment about the situation, Bored Panda interviewed Richa Ukey, who previously worked for Bedrock Preschool and Daycare. She mentioned that during such conflicts, it’s the job of the daycare to ensure that there’s transparent communication between the parents and the staff.

    “Daycares need to have different policies about parents’ personal property so that it doesn’t get misused. Having name tags on strollers or previously informing parents about other kids’ strollers could be helpful in ensuring that no new conflicts arise further,” Richa added.

    Folks online also highlighted the fact that the poster needed it for medical reasons and the entitled mom was disrespecting the needs of a disabled kid just because her son was tired. They felt that this was completely unjustifiable and the lady should be held accountable for her actions. Some even advised OP to complain about her to the daycare management.

    Richa also stressed that daycares need to pay attention to the requirements of the kids with special needs. She believes that it’s important to educate and sensitize the public about respecting the needs and property of others, especially those with disabilities.

    She also informed us that daycares should create more inclusive environments that accommodate the needs of children with disabilities and the staff should help the parents to avoid disputes. So, it looks like people’s opinion that the daycare should’ve gotten involved in this seems to be accurate as it would help curb future conflicts.

    Do you agree with their opinions? Also, if you were in the poster’s shoes, how would you tackle the situation? Let us know in the comments!

    Netizens called out the entitled mom for using something meant for a medical purpose and not even being polite about it

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    Rūta Zumbrickaitė

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    Celesta
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't believe the commenter saying she should have just walked with her to the car. It HAS to be the AH in the story because SERIOUSLY?! OP is disabled, why should she have to walked twice as much as the pos entitled mom just because she doesn't want to carry her kid? Why has SHE brought a stroller? Probably because this is definitely not the first time she has done this

    Pandaodboredem22
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh hey, can I borrow your car to run my groceries to my car, then you walk out with me and drive yours back to the closer to the store parking spot?

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    LakotaWolf (she/her)
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everything else aside, this entitled woman placed another child into a stroller that was NOT hers - what if her son had an illness/cold/the flu? OP's daughter would then be placed directly into ground zero for said bacteria/viruses. That is negligent and downright abhorrent behavior by the other woman - risking ANOTHER CHILD's health/life just because she "DOESN'T FEEL" like carrying her own kid. Granted, the two kids were at the same daycare together, but OP doesn't say if they are in the same "unit" (and even if they were, there's a difference between being in the ROOM with another child who is ill and being placed directly on the same SURFACE that the sick child was just on.) Obviously we have no idea if the little boy was sick, and he could have been perfectly healthy, but just the POTENTIAL/risk that he could have been sick is just incredibly awful.

    Red_panda
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or (shudder) lice. God I hate the little bastards.

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    BobiJK 2024
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The woman knew that stroller wasn't hers. She's an entitled b*tch. What even makes her think it's ok to just take something that doesn't belong to her?! You were a lot nicer than I would have been.

    kath morgan
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would definitely mention it to the daycare, that a particular mother has been seen trying to steal pushchairs.

    Leoninus Fate
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have scared the hell out of the lady for touching my kid's stuff, especially if its something they need to be able to walk!

    Nimitz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lemme guess, her defense is "I'm a mother" so it's okay to do whatever the f**k she wants whenever she wants, regardless of who she inconveniences? Lived through that. You have to stand up to bullies like that because they will never stop

    FreeTheUnicorn
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can just borrow someone's adaptive equipment. You don't grab a cane or wheelchair or any other thing without permission. I hope the day care takes action.

    Jay Cee
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like the OP is in France or Canada? The French have a good way of dealing with people like these. In car parks you see signs that basically say "You Want To Take My Parking Space? Take My Disability Too!" The spaces seldom get abused.

    Big Chungus
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is extremely odd, who in the world would just randomly take a stroller that isn't theirs. Besides the whole IT ISN"T THEIRS part, but you don't know what germs have been on that stroller hence why it isn't yours to take

    AR
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I will never understand the audacity of people.

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    Celesta
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I can't believe the commenter saying she should have just walked with her to the car. It HAS to be the AH in the story because SERIOUSLY?! OP is disabled, why should she have to walked twice as much as the pos entitled mom just because she doesn't want to carry her kid? Why has SHE brought a stroller? Probably because this is definitely not the first time she has done this

    Pandaodboredem22
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Oh hey, can I borrow your car to run my groceries to my car, then you walk out with me and drive yours back to the closer to the store parking spot?

    Load More Replies...
    LakotaWolf (she/her)
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Everything else aside, this entitled woman placed another child into a stroller that was NOT hers - what if her son had an illness/cold/the flu? OP's daughter would then be placed directly into ground zero for said bacteria/viruses. That is negligent and downright abhorrent behavior by the other woman - risking ANOTHER CHILD's health/life just because she "DOESN'T FEEL" like carrying her own kid. Granted, the two kids were at the same daycare together, but OP doesn't say if they are in the same "unit" (and even if they were, there's a difference between being in the ROOM with another child who is ill and being placed directly on the same SURFACE that the sick child was just on.) Obviously we have no idea if the little boy was sick, and he could have been perfectly healthy, but just the POTENTIAL/risk that he could have been sick is just incredibly awful.

    Red_panda
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or (shudder) lice. God I hate the little bastards.

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    BobiJK 2024
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The woman knew that stroller wasn't hers. She's an entitled b*tch. What even makes her think it's ok to just take something that doesn't belong to her?! You were a lot nicer than I would have been.

    kath morgan
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would definitely mention it to the daycare, that a particular mother has been seen trying to steal pushchairs.

    Leoninus Fate
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would have scared the hell out of the lady for touching my kid's stuff, especially if its something they need to be able to walk!

    Nimitz
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lemme guess, her defense is "I'm a mother" so it's okay to do whatever the f**k she wants whenever she wants, regardless of who she inconveniences? Lived through that. You have to stand up to bullies like that because they will never stop

    FreeTheUnicorn
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You can just borrow someone's adaptive equipment. You don't grab a cane or wheelchair or any other thing without permission. I hope the day care takes action.

    Jay Cee
    Community Member
    3 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sounds like the OP is in France or Canada? The French have a good way of dealing with people like these. In car parks you see signs that basically say "You Want To Take My Parking Space? Take My Disability Too!" The spaces seldom get abused.

    Big Chungus
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is extremely odd, who in the world would just randomly take a stroller that isn't theirs. Besides the whole IT ISN"T THEIRS part, but you don't know what germs have been on that stroller hence why it isn't yours to take

    AR
    Community Member
    1 year ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I will never understand the audacity of people.

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