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Woman Maliciously Complies By Ruining Her Father-In-Law’s Shirt After He Asks Her To Iron It Right Before Her Engagement Party
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Woman Maliciously Complies By Ruining Her Father-In-Law’s Shirt After He Asks Her To Iron It Right Before Her Engagement Party

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Let’s start by stating the obvious – acts of sexism are absolutely unacceptable, whether done intentionally or out of ignorance. They are not merely condescending, but hurtful and can do real damage to a person. That is why it is important to learn about proper interpersonal conduct, whether at an early age, or later on, so that a person would consciously avoid something as inappropriate as sexism.

However, some people never seem to learn, which is why those on the receiving end of a questionable action sometimes think of clever ways to clap back at them. In the case of Reddit user u/Stitchywitchlich, that was exactly the case. She was a target of an act of sexism, and came up with a great way to teach her offensive father-in-law a great lesson in mindfulness. The Reddit thread u/Stitchywitchlich started gathered 45.9k upvotes and prompted 2.7k comments. Scroll down for the whole story and consider leaving a comment!

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Some men believe that certain chores are exclusively a woman’s job, but this Reddit user couldn’t take it

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It is quite ridiculous to think that some people believe in job segregation based entirely on one’s gender. Cooking, cleaning and ironing are somehow a “woman’s job” in some people’s minds. That is inherently sexist, which is why this woman decided to teach a bigot a lesson with a small, yet meaningful act. After all, it is no person’s business to say what one should do or not do just because they’re of different gender. A great rule of thumb for such people would be to start with themselves.

The story starts out with preparations for the Original Poster’s engagement party, which is to have an unpleasant guest

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The Original Poster was in a rush, trying to prepare for her own engagement party when her father-in-law walked in and demanded his t-shirt ironed. First of all, a t-shirt for an event that important doesn’t seem right. Secondly, this man’s behavior is undoubtedly rude and sexist, which is no wonder why the woman decided to teach him a small lesson that he most definitely deserves. Turns out that ironing vinyl at the maximum heat setting is enough to ruin a shirt. Scorch marks appeared and the logo disappeared. This is arguably one of the best examples of malicious compliance.

The woman decided that the best medicine would be malicious compliance, that is, ruining the shirt

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Image credits: Stitchywitchlich

The Original Poster gives some background about her father-in-law, who is apparently a rude person and a bigot. It could even be said that he had a lesson coming, and it is great it came from this specific person, considering they would become family by law. In any case, as the Original Poster says, politely declining in such a scenario is not the best course of action and it is not her job to lecture him on decency, which is why this simple act was a good blow to the father-in-law’s bigotry.

The comments were completely supportive of the Original Poster, praised her, and shared their own experiences

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All in all, it is great to see people stand up for themselves in situations where their value as people is undermined, even if the measures to do so are somewhat unconventional. Sexism, among other things, is very much unacceptable, which is why even said unconventional measures are valuable, as long as they teach a lesson.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm confused why the FIL was even allowed to be there to begin with since he's that horrible.

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Ellie Rosser
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Absolutely. Who lets a douche like that stay in their house, for any reason.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I normally advocate saying "No", but given that particular man's history, burning his shirt sounds fair.

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John C
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, if he's that toxic that this is the perfect opportunity and I applaud her move. I was ready with a statement along the lines of "I hope you mow the lawn and change your own oil" to highlight how gender roles aren't necessarily misogynistic but sounds like this guy got what he deserved.

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Got Myself 4 Dwarves
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mum used to iron dads shirts when they were first married. My idiot father once complained that she didn’t do the best job, so mum never ironed anything for him ever again. I’m not one for ironing either - my husband will do his own when needed, I’ll iron us something really needs it, but otherwise 10 mins in the dryer will be just as good

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Nikole
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think I subconsciously chose not to learn how to iron because of its sexist undertones. Also, hanging things in the bathroom and turning the shower on hot for a few minutes works just fine, damn it.

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Number 5
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm confused why the FIL was even allowed to be there to begin with since he's that horrible.

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Ellie Rosser
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Absolutely. Who lets a douche like that stay in their house, for any reason.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I normally advocate saying "No", but given that particular man's history, burning his shirt sounds fair.

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John C
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, if he's that toxic that this is the perfect opportunity and I applaud her move. I was ready with a statement along the lines of "I hope you mow the lawn and change your own oil" to highlight how gender roles aren't necessarily misogynistic but sounds like this guy got what he deserved.

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Got Myself 4 Dwarves
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mum used to iron dads shirts when they were first married. My idiot father once complained that she didn’t do the best job, so mum never ironed anything for him ever again. I’m not one for ironing either - my husband will do his own when needed, I’ll iron us something really needs it, but otherwise 10 mins in the dryer will be just as good

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Nikole
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think I subconsciously chose not to learn how to iron because of its sexist undertones. Also, hanging things in the bathroom and turning the shower on hot for a few minutes works just fine, damn it.

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