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Ex-Couples Are Posting ‘Divorce Selfies’ And These 10+ Pics Will Prove Why They’re Awesome
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When you think of divorce, the first few things that come to mind probably include fighting, cursing, bitterness, and basically everything else you would see in a movie. A new trend is spreading among modern (un-coupled) couples, however, and it just might change the way people view ending marriages. Internet, meet the 'divorce selfie.'
Legally finalizing a divorce is not exactly something people often care to photograph, but these former flames are all smiles in their 'D-Day' selfies, with some even including heartfelt messages commemorating the time spent with their spouses. The divorce selfie went seriously viral a woman from Calgary, Canada shared a happy photo with her ex-husband in front of the Court House where they signed their papers, and explained why in a moving Facebook post. "We have respectfully, thoughtfully and honourably ended our marriage in a way that will allow us to go forward as parenting partners for our children," she included in the anecdote.
Though some people aren't really sure how to feel about it, others are lauding the divorce selfie as a positive and mature take on an otherwise difficult and sombre event. What do you think of the #divorceselfie? Let us know in the comments below!
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Beautiful sentiment - "we smile not because it's over, but because it happened" wow, nuff respect you two!
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I think it's the most idiotic thing to do
I agree Jose. Note that there are no children, showing their pleasure at having the family split up. After all, isn't that what marriage is supposed to be all about? If you can't be responsible to them, then just "Shack Up".
As a child of divorce I can say that I am actually happy that my parents spilt. They were always fighting. My dad wasn't even there when I was born. Its hard to believe but it was a good thing that thery got divorced. John L please know I am not attacking you but I am stating a different opinion
I agree Brownie emoji, it's more damaging for a child in an unhappy home than a child of divorce. A divorce is the end of an unhappy union.
Brownie, no offense taken. But you are really making my point, because I'm sure you would rather they maintained a loving family instead. I'm an army brat, and Dad was gone sometimes. Plus, there were times when Mom and Dad had real disagreements. But there was never any thought of divorce, and for that I am eternally thankful.
I've noticed that boredpanda keeps featuring divorcing couples and viral photos of 'co-parenting' (a fancy way of saying divorcing parents shouldn't be dicks to their kids). We should downvote these posts, they're getting repetitive and they're not healthy. Really wonder if the boredpanda moderator has a personal motive in promoting these...
I divorced my husband of 14 years. It was amicable and both our children thank us. We are still friends to this day. We made sure the children came first. Fighting and arguing and getting revenge via finances is NOT the way to change the current family dynamic, in fact, its selfish and hurts the children the most. Lifestyle change happened and we are both so much more healthier for it and that in turn shows our children personal and social respect, independence and how to love unconditionally no matter the circumstance. Our children make us so proud and I have to take some credit for that. I am a good person and a good parent, just not a very good wife hahahaha and that is ok.
Lots of marriages produce no children so marriage is not all about reproducing unless you follow the fairytale bible.
Gee Tiny Dynamine, four people have downvoted yours, if that counts for anything. Are you by any chance a divorcee too?
I just find it very cringey I mean if there is a divorce, clearly there were conflicts and issues that could not be resolved and that's life, and that's no joke... to me anyway
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Sheralyn, I've downvoted your blinkered opinion, if that counts for anything.
true, I blame marriage.
I know divorce is a good thing in lots of occasions but I see regrets in most of the pictures even with the smiles and happy faces.
yea it's super strange. "we are still best friends, we went to lunch, it was the best four years ever". WEIRD
I agree. Many of these people are saying things like "happy ending to a happy story" or "glad to have loved him" or "perfect partner" I don't know their circumstances, but it seems kind of strange to me
I'm not gonna shit on these people for doing what makes them happy but I really don't think a selfie after a divorce is the coolest thing ever. I wouldn't be happy about being a part of the 50% of US marriages ending in divorce though.
Lol Tiny Dynamine, you do realise the logical flaw in your statement? By publicising their selfies, they're clearly inviting comment and making it everyone else's business as well. The very definition of posting it online is to INVITE COMMENT. How do you not see it?
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Fortunately, it's their business and none of yours so you don't have ANYTHING TO WORRY ABOUT.
It's not usual to call a guy a bitch and I don't even recognise your name so I'm hardly stalking you. You just don't like being roasted.
QQ more sailorweasel, we're drowning in your tears.
I also have the good fortune of not being a huge bitch like you! Stop stalking my comments and maybe improve your shitty box beds instead.
I think it's the most idiotic thing to do
I agree Jose. Note that there are no children, showing their pleasure at having the family split up. After all, isn't that what marriage is supposed to be all about? If you can't be responsible to them, then just "Shack Up".
As a child of divorce I can say that I am actually happy that my parents spilt. They were always fighting. My dad wasn't even there when I was born. Its hard to believe but it was a good thing that thery got divorced. John L please know I am not attacking you but I am stating a different opinion
I agree Brownie emoji, it's more damaging for a child in an unhappy home than a child of divorce. A divorce is the end of an unhappy union.
Brownie, no offense taken. But you are really making my point, because I'm sure you would rather they maintained a loving family instead. I'm an army brat, and Dad was gone sometimes. Plus, there were times when Mom and Dad had real disagreements. But there was never any thought of divorce, and for that I am eternally thankful.
I've noticed that boredpanda keeps featuring divorcing couples and viral photos of 'co-parenting' (a fancy way of saying divorcing parents shouldn't be dicks to their kids). We should downvote these posts, they're getting repetitive and they're not healthy. Really wonder if the boredpanda moderator has a personal motive in promoting these...
I divorced my husband of 14 years. It was amicable and both our children thank us. We are still friends to this day. We made sure the children came first. Fighting and arguing and getting revenge via finances is NOT the way to change the current family dynamic, in fact, its selfish and hurts the children the most. Lifestyle change happened and we are both so much more healthier for it and that in turn shows our children personal and social respect, independence and how to love unconditionally no matter the circumstance. Our children make us so proud and I have to take some credit for that. I am a good person and a good parent, just not a very good wife hahahaha and that is ok.
Lots of marriages produce no children so marriage is not all about reproducing unless you follow the fairytale bible.
Gee Tiny Dynamine, four people have downvoted yours, if that counts for anything. Are you by any chance a divorcee too?
I just find it very cringey I mean if there is a divorce, clearly there were conflicts and issues that could not be resolved and that's life, and that's no joke... to me anyway
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Sheralyn, I've downvoted your blinkered opinion, if that counts for anything.
true, I blame marriage.
I know divorce is a good thing in lots of occasions but I see regrets in most of the pictures even with the smiles and happy faces.
yea it's super strange. "we are still best friends, we went to lunch, it was the best four years ever". WEIRD
I agree. Many of these people are saying things like "happy ending to a happy story" or "glad to have loved him" or "perfect partner" I don't know their circumstances, but it seems kind of strange to me
I'm not gonna shit on these people for doing what makes them happy but I really don't think a selfie after a divorce is the coolest thing ever. I wouldn't be happy about being a part of the 50% of US marriages ending in divorce though.
Lol Tiny Dynamine, you do realise the logical flaw in your statement? By publicising their selfies, they're clearly inviting comment and making it everyone else's business as well. The very definition of posting it online is to INVITE COMMENT. How do you not see it?
This comment is hidden. Click here to view.
Fortunately, it's their business and none of yours so you don't have ANYTHING TO WORRY ABOUT.
It's not usual to call a guy a bitch and I don't even recognise your name so I'm hardly stalking you. You just don't like being roasted.
QQ more sailorweasel, we're drowning in your tears.
I also have the good fortune of not being a huge bitch like you! Stop stalking my comments and maybe improve your shitty box beds instead.