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I Recreate My Late Father’s Photos To Reconnect And Accept His Passing
I Recreate My Late Father’s Photos To Reconnect And Accept His Passing
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I Recreate My Late Father’s Photos To Reconnect And Accept His Passing

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I came to Melbourne, Australia to study and found a unique way to reconnect with my father and also to accept his passing.

February 14th this year will mark my dad’s 3 years of passing away. It’s ‘sort of’ better each year… I still miss him a lot and very much, but over the years I just get better at getting out of the mourning hole. Recently I realized I have never got the time to let my dad’s passing to sink in and I never paid tribute to him properly. So I decided to pay a visit to the back and opened the drawer and pulled out few memories of my dad.

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    February 14th this year will mark my dad’s 3 years of passing away

    I still miss him a lot so I decided to reconnect and accept his passing in a unique way

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    I came to Melbourne, Australia to study and my dad visited Melbourne on 2011 with my mother

    When he came back from the trip he showed me lots of photos he took on many tourist landmarks in Melbourne

    I looked up some photos of my parents’ trip to Melbourne and chose several photos of my dad

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    I decided to go around few places in Melbourne and replicate his photos

    I asked good friends of mine to help me take photos and travel with me

    If you’re going to take anything from this story of mine is that, do not wait until it’s too late

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    I never really appreciate the times I traveled with my dad previously and I regret it

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    I’m trying to let go of my dad’s passing, but I’ll forever remember him. He will always be a huge part of me, I am who I am because of him

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    So to all of you – go on your pace, let things sink in, let go and hopefully you’ll be able to smile as you reminisce

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    Chrisya

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    I write in my personal blog: goodlcuksarah.com and post photos in instagram: @goodlcuksarah

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    Chrisya

    Chrisya

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    I write in my personal blog: goodlcuksarah.com and post photos in instagram: @goodlcuksarah

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    CristinaHidalquez
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just want you to say that I love your idea. My father died 14 years ago and I remember him every day, but just a few moments because they would like to go on with our life for sure. Sorry for your lost and be strong!

    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you! Glad you loved the idea~ I truly understand what you mean by saying that our fathers would like us to go on with our life. And that's exactly what I did. I right away shove his passing to the side and left it. But I never took time to let it sink in, and this is my effort to take time to let it sink. A little late but.. Better than never. I hope you stay strong too! <3

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    Hippo
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's a beautiful and unique way to accept someone's passing. Sorry for your loss, and thank you for sharing this with us.

    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you.. I'm glad you find it beautiful. And I'm more than delighted to share my story :)

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    RichardPetch
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Beautiful young lady, Your dad should be proud of you.

    Martin
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I seriously doubt her father took pictures in black and white...

    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes I edited the color of my father's photo. It was a choice. Just to emphasize his passing away and to differentiate it from my own photo. That is all :)

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    Takahe13
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dear Chrisya, this is a really lovely idea and you have made a great representation of what was obviously an important experience for your dad when he visited. He would be so proud of you, and so touched that this has such significance for you. You are a beautiful young woman, and obviously strong too, hold those treasured memories in your heart, Lisa, New Zealand.

    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hi there Lisa :) Thank you for the compliment. I sure hope my father is proud of me.. and thank you. I iwll hold on to it for as long as I can... sending love from Indonesia!

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    Rhon
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aren't dads awesome !! This is a lovely thing to do.

    SimonLouie
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Love the idea! and great job with the photos. almost perfect matches. but best of all are the insightful words you wrote in between the photos. Thanks a lot and I hope this project's benefits continue for a long time

    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you Simon! I'm glad you liked my writing :) I sure hope so too. I hope it'll be a kind reminder for people.

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    Pamela
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So sorry you lost your dad, Chrisya. That is a touching tribute to him. Sweet memories!

    MichelleErba
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The moment I saw this my heart fluttered, because I realized that this is exactly what I want to do to help me mourn my father in a positive way (unfortunately I have done a whole lot of detrimental things to myself in my grief!) .I lost my father 5 years ago, but his loss has not gotten one ounce easier for me, even with the passage of time. Thank you for sharing this, I am truly inspired.

    Hippo
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm so sorry for your loss... I hope Chrisya's idea helps you. Stay strong!

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    Вадим Штин
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is so touching to express the memory of his father...

    Jalaluddin
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your Pictures Story Make me Cry.

    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    :") Hope you're spending more time with your family and parents

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    ShaneTakitehanua
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is sooo beuatiful! I like photos that are taken on the same location but at different times! More to that, you have created an incredible memory lane to remember him knowing that stood on those exact same spots! Sorry for your loss! I lost mine 4 years ago and have barely any photos of him. I miss him dearly.

    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you! I hope you'll find strength also :")

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    RichardRamirez
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry for your lost that's beautiful what you've done what a awesome idea thank you for sharing showed my best friend he just lost his dad a 9 months ago and he's gonna try it

    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope your best friend finds consolation through the project :)

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    CelineAbigail
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hi Chrisya! I cried just after reading this. I know I'm moving on with my life without him but I'm not sure if I'd already accepted it & let him go. I miss him everyday. I hope I can be like you & do what you did. Sorry for your loss too. With love, Celine from the Philippines

    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hi Celine :") sorry to have made you cry. But I'm glad my story touches you in a way. I wouldn't say I've fully moved on, this project is one way for me to heal actually. Still on process, I hope both of us grow stronger each day. Love from Indonesia

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    AimanMuneer
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I lost my dad 6 months ago... am trying to get it to "sink in"... strangely, tonight I am sleeping in his bed in the guest room he lived in with us, when I saw your post. As everyone, I have regrets and trying to cope... your post gives me ideas and hope to console myself.

    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes it still doesn't sink in within me also... I hope you're coping well. And you find consolation :)

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    ChitruShrestha
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    loved the idea, very creative... you dad must be proud of you Godbless!!

    TerazaRew
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lovely idea. Unfortunately I only have 2 pictures of my dad, one of which is him as a baby.

    Enza
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you for sharing something so beautiful, deep and meaningful.

    sunshineab
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What a beautiful story. Thank you so much for sharing these moments with us. I a not going to take my dad for granted....and will spend more quality time with my kids. Hugs to you!!

    NovenPanjaitan
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Almos five times i saw your every single photos, Tapi selalu pengen nangis. Awesome Chrisya.. Proud of you dear.. I really want to do the same thing as you do. But my dad never traveled even to Bali before he passaway ㅠ_ㅠ... Love you Sya.. You really inspire me as well. God bless you God bless you and God bless you more and more and more...

    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    :") Thank you Kak! That's fine.. people have different ways remembering their loved ones anyway... You'll have your own way of remembering him in ways only you can do it. I think that's one of my favorite compliment... being inspiring. Thank you for saying so. Sending love and hug to you too kak!!!! God bless you, Kak Feli and adek even more! xo

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    JohnMoreno
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a father of three daughters, all I can ever hope is that I made a difference in their lives. Your photos are touching and a lovely tribute to your dad. Wherever he is, I'm sure he's proud and grateful for you.

    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hi John, I hope you're spending a lot of time with your daughters and I'm sure you're doing your best in making difference in their lives. I realize there are no manual book to parenting, so be true and honest and I'm sure your daughters will see that and appreciate your effort. And show them love, we love those :D And thank you. I sure hope he is :)

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    CristinaHidalquez
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I just want you to say that I love your idea. My father died 14 years ago and I remember him every day, but just a few moments because they would like to go on with our life for sure. Sorry for your lost and be strong!

    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you! Glad you loved the idea~ I truly understand what you mean by saying that our fathers would like us to go on with our life. And that's exactly what I did. I right away shove his passing to the side and left it. But I never took time to let it sink in, and this is my effort to take time to let it sink. A little late but.. Better than never. I hope you stay strong too! <3

    Load More Replies...
    Hippo
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's a beautiful and unique way to accept someone's passing. Sorry for your loss, and thank you for sharing this with us.

    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you.. I'm glad you find it beautiful. And I'm more than delighted to share my story :)

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    RichardPetch
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Beautiful young lady, Your dad should be proud of you.

    Martin
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I seriously doubt her father took pictures in black and white...

    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes I edited the color of my father's photo. It was a choice. Just to emphasize his passing away and to differentiate it from my own photo. That is all :)

    Load More Replies...
    Takahe13
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Dear Chrisya, this is a really lovely idea and you have made a great representation of what was obviously an important experience for your dad when he visited. He would be so proud of you, and so touched that this has such significance for you. You are a beautiful young woman, and obviously strong too, hold those treasured memories in your heart, Lisa, New Zealand.

    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hi there Lisa :) Thank you for the compliment. I sure hope my father is proud of me.. and thank you. I iwll hold on to it for as long as I can... sending love from Indonesia!

    Load More Replies...
    Rhon
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Aren't dads awesome !! This is a lovely thing to do.

    SimonLouie
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Love the idea! and great job with the photos. almost perfect matches. but best of all are the insightful words you wrote in between the photos. Thanks a lot and I hope this project's benefits continue for a long time

    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you Simon! I'm glad you liked my writing :) I sure hope so too. I hope it'll be a kind reminder for people.

    Load More Replies...
    Pamela
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So sorry you lost your dad, Chrisya. That is a touching tribute to him. Sweet memories!

    MichelleErba
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The moment I saw this my heart fluttered, because I realized that this is exactly what I want to do to help me mourn my father in a positive way (unfortunately I have done a whole lot of detrimental things to myself in my grief!) .I lost my father 5 years ago, but his loss has not gotten one ounce easier for me, even with the passage of time. Thank you for sharing this, I am truly inspired.

    Hippo
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm so sorry for your loss... I hope Chrisya's idea helps you. Stay strong!

    Load More Replies...
    Вадим Штин
    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is so touching to express the memory of his father...

    Jalaluddin
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Your Pictures Story Make me Cry.

    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    :") Hope you're spending more time with your family and parents

    Load More Replies...
    ShaneTakitehanua
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is sooo beuatiful! I like photos that are taken on the same location but at different times! More to that, you have created an incredible memory lane to remember him knowing that stood on those exact same spots! Sorry for your loss! I lost mine 4 years ago and have barely any photos of him. I miss him dearly.

    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you! I hope you'll find strength also :")

    Load More Replies...
    RichardRamirez
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sorry for your lost that's beautiful what you've done what a awesome idea thank you for sharing showed my best friend he just lost his dad a 9 months ago and he's gonna try it

    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hope your best friend finds consolation through the project :)

    Load More Replies...
    CelineAbigail
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hi Chrisya! I cried just after reading this. I know I'm moving on with my life without him but I'm not sure if I'd already accepted it & let him go. I miss him everyday. I hope I can be like you & do what you did. Sorry for your loss too. With love, Celine from the Philippines

    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hi Celine :") sorry to have made you cry. But I'm glad my story touches you in a way. I wouldn't say I've fully moved on, this project is one way for me to heal actually. Still on process, I hope both of us grow stronger each day. Love from Indonesia

    Load More Replies...
    AimanMuneer
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I lost my dad 6 months ago... am trying to get it to "sink in"... strangely, tonight I am sleeping in his bed in the guest room he lived in with us, when I saw your post. As everyone, I have regrets and trying to cope... your post gives me ideas and hope to console myself.

    Community Member
    8 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sometimes it still doesn't sink in within me also... I hope you're coping well. And you find consolation :)

    Load More Replies...
    ChitruShrestha
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    loved the idea, very creative... you dad must be proud of you Godbless!!

    TerazaRew
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Lovely idea. Unfortunately I only have 2 pictures of my dad, one of which is him as a baby.

    Enza
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you for sharing something so beautiful, deep and meaningful.

    sunshineab
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What a beautiful story. Thank you so much for sharing these moments with us. I a not going to take my dad for granted....and will spend more quality time with my kids. Hugs to you!!

    NovenPanjaitan
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Almos five times i saw your every single photos, Tapi selalu pengen nangis. Awesome Chrisya.. Proud of you dear.. I really want to do the same thing as you do. But my dad never traveled even to Bali before he passaway ㅠ_ㅠ... Love you Sya.. You really inspire me as well. God bless you God bless you and God bless you more and more and more...

    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    :") Thank you Kak! That's fine.. people have different ways remembering their loved ones anyway... You'll have your own way of remembering him in ways only you can do it. I think that's one of my favorite compliment... being inspiring. Thank you for saying so. Sending love and hug to you too kak!!!! God bless you, Kak Feli and adek even more! xo

    Load More Replies...
    JohnMoreno
    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a father of three daughters, all I can ever hope is that I made a difference in their lives. Your photos are touching and a lovely tribute to your dad. Wherever he is, I'm sure he's proud and grateful for you.

    Community Member
    9 years ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hi John, I hope you're spending a lot of time with your daughters and I'm sure you're doing your best in making difference in their lives. I realize there are no manual book to parenting, so be true and honest and I'm sure your daughters will see that and appreciate your effort. And show them love, we love those :D And thank you. I sure hope he is :)

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