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Everyone Thought This Man Was Crying Because Of His Newborn Son Until He Revealed The Real Reason
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Everyone Thought This Man Was Crying Because Of His Newborn Son Until He Revealed The Real Reason

Everyone Thought This Man Was Crying Because Of His Newborn Son Until He Revealed The Real ReasonEveryone Thought This Man Was Crying Because Of His Newborn Son Until He Revealed ‘That’s Not Why I Was Crying‘“I Told Him I Captured Him Crying Seeing His Son, He Said, ‘That’s Not Why I Was Crying‘”Everyone Thought This Man Was Crying Because Of His Newborn Son Until He Revealed The Real ReasonEveryone Thought This Man Was Crying Because Of His Newborn Son Until He Revealed The Real ReasonEveryone Thought This Man Was Crying Because Of His Newborn Son Until He Revealed The Real ReasonEveryone Thought This Man Was Crying Because Of His Newborn Son Until He Revealed The Real ReasonEveryone Thought This Man Was Crying Because Of His Newborn Son Until He Revealed The Real ReasonEveryone Thought This Man Was Crying Because Of His Newborn Son Until He Revealed The Real ReasonEveryone Thought This Man Was Crying Because Of His Newborn Son Until He Revealed The Real Reason
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Kirstie Perez is an experienced birth photographer, but this delivery surprised even her. During her pregnancy, the mom had been suffering from Hyperemesis Gravidarum, a condition characterized by severe nausea, vomiting, weight loss, and electrolyte disturbance. Her husband had been at her side throughout it all, including the 4 times the woman was hospitalized. The couple hired Kirstie to document the culmination of this experience at the hospital and she did a wonderful job. The photos are so powerful, they could easily compete for the top prizes at the most prestigious birth photo competition. However, when Kirstie told the husband that she captured him crying seeing his son he said, “That’s not why I was crying.”

“What allows me to create such intimate and powerful images is the relationships I create with each client throughout their pregnancy, delivery and postpartum,” Kirstie told Bored Panda. “They know what I stand for and my mission [is] to normalize birth and the traumatic experiences we go through as women. I genuinely love and am protective of all of my clients’ birth experiences.

The photographer said she was never okay with the phrase ‘it’s all about the baby.’ “I love babies, but I am definitely team mom,” Kirstie added. “It is much more than taking the money and showing up. The relationship is crucial. If I don’t click well with prospects during a consult, I will politely decline. I cannot, in good conscious, take funds from a mother who is vulnerable and could possibly be a better fit for someone else. I truly care about the emotional and psychological well being of my clients.”

“This time was different because this client happened to be my little sister,” Kirstie said. I watched her go through hell. <…> She was in constant pain. She could have died carrying her baby. There was no prior warning that HG was a variable in her pregnancy. I watched her fight and give her life for someone innocent. I watched her husband look on helplessly for almost a year. The emotions in the room were incredible.”

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Scroll down to check out the unforgettable shots and learn why the husband was reduced to tears.

P.S. “I would like to add that birth photography is a ‘newer’ type of subject to document. It is still taboo in a lot of places. The goal of Kirstie Perez Photography is to encourage women and let them see different options of births and experiences. To let them know that they are valid and that their experiences are not simply equated to ‘well at least you’re ok.'”

More info: kpphotoinc.com | Facebook | Instagram (h/t lovewhatmatters)

“He helplessly watched his wife vomit profusely for 285+ days”

Image credits: Kirstie Perez Photography

“He witnessed her lose 30 pounds in pregnancy not being able to nourish herself due to Hyperemesis Gravidarum & preeclampsia”

Image credits: Kirstie Perez Photography

“She was hospitalized 4 times for dehydration throughout her pregnancy”

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Image credits: Kirstie Perez Photography

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Image credits: Kirstie Perez Photography

“Ate more dinners on the front steps of their home than he could count because any scent literally made her ill”

Image credits: Kirstie Perez Photography

“After months of simply being there for her as much as possible, he supported her during birth”

Image credits: Kirstie Perez Photography

“I told him I captured him crying seeing his son and he said, “That’s not why I was crying.”

Image credits: Kirstie Perez Photography

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“Puzzled, I asked what he meant”

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Image credits: Kirstie Perez Photography

“He teared up again and said”

Image credits: Kirstie Perez Photography

“This is the first time I have seen her smile in 10 months”

“Men, please understand how powerful your empathy can be. To all of the mothers who have traumatic pregnancies and still find a way to smile…thank you for sacrificing yourself and enduring to bring your precious child into the world. That is no easy feat.”

Image credits: Kirstie Perez Photography

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Ilona Baliūnaitė

Ilona Baliūnaitė

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I'm a Visual Editor at Bored Panda since 2017. I've searched through a multitude of images to create over 2000 diverse posts on a wide range of topics. I love memes, funny, and cute stuff, but I'm also into social issues topics. Despite my background in communication, my heart belongs to visual media, especially photography. When I'm not at my desk, you're likely to find me in the streets with my camera, checking out cool exhibitions, watching a movie at the cinema or just chilling with a coffee in a cozy place

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Ilona Baliūnaitė

Ilona Baliūnaitė

Author, BoredPanda staff

I'm a Visual Editor at Bored Panda since 2017. I've searched through a multitude of images to create over 2000 diverse posts on a wide range of topics. I love memes, funny, and cute stuff, but I'm also into social issues topics. Despite my background in communication, my heart belongs to visual media, especially photography. When I'm not at my desk, you're likely to find me in the streets with my camera, checking out cool exhibitions, watching a movie at the cinema or just chilling with a coffee in a cozy place

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Laugh Fan
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When someone loves their partner this deeply it shows that it can be harder to watch someone else suffer. These photos show that so beautifully.

Yvonne Bernal
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Life gave him a hundred reasons to cry... and she gave him 1,000 reasons to smile

Purple light
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Beautiful photos, the photographer has captured their emotions really well.

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Laugh Fan
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When someone loves their partner this deeply it shows that it can be harder to watch someone else suffer. These photos show that so beautifully.

Yvonne Bernal
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Life gave him a hundred reasons to cry... and she gave him 1,000 reasons to smile

Purple light
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Beautiful photos, the photographer has captured their emotions really well.

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