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Guy Does Entire Thesis Alone, Finally Refuses To Let Partner Graduate With Him
Frustrated woman at risk of not graduating, holding her head amid open books and laptop while studying a shared thesis.
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Guy Does Entire Thesis Alone, Finally Refuses To Let Partner Graduate With Him

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As we’re heading into the end of June, graduation season seems to dwindle down. Still, there are some students who need to defend their theses to graduate. Most work on their theses solo, but about 14.5% of PhD students, for example, have thesis partners.

This student quickly saw the ugly side of a shared thesis when his partner seriously lagged behind during the entire process. Tired of having to pull her through constantly, the guy finally snapped and asked their supervisor if she could be removed from the project. Yet after the fact, he started wondering: maybe he was being too harsh?

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    Yet later, he started wondering if it was too harsh, since his partner was a single mom

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    Most students hate group projects and have solid reasons to do so

    People’s hatred for doing group projects for school is well-documented online. Memes and stories about terrible group project partners abound on the internet and in real life. But when it’s your graduate degree at stake, it’s hardly a laughing matter.

    Many students don’t hide their dislike of group projects, and this story illustrates perfectly why that is. In a 2023 study, 61.7% of the student respondents claimed they preferred to work independently.

    A little over a third (37.4%) were okay with combining independent and group work, and only 0.9% said they prefer “collaborative assignments.” The study also revealed that the majority of students prefer to work in smaller teams when possible, the most popular choices being a team of three (40%) or two (36.5%).

    According to math teacher and EdTech expert Alice Keeler, some of the most common reasons why students hate working in groups are:

    • Some have to do more work than others
    • They just don’t get along well
    • Group work feels inefficient
    • Students feel they’re not graded fairly
    • There’s no clear distribution of roles and responsibilities

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    Higher education institutions fail to teach students how to effectively work in groups

    That last point, according to some experts and educators, is the core of the problem when it comes to group projects. Professor of Practice at the Kaneb Center for Teaching Excellence at the University of Notre Dame, James M. Lang, PhD., claims that the lack of intervention from teachers and advisors can be considered “pedagogical malpractice”.

    “If you are assigning and grading group projects and: (a) not giving your students any explicit guidance or resources for how to work together effectively, and (b) not checking in and intervening when groups show signs of dysfunction, then you are engaging in [it],” he writes for The Chronicle of Higher Education.

    Experts who are pro-group projects say that it teaches students how to work and succeed in teams, better their communication skills, and be less biased through engaging in discussions and challenging assumptions.

    Yet we don’t actually teach students all these skills, expecting them to learn through working on group projects. As educator John Warner writes for Inside Higher Ed, “You must treat the group work as an important part of the curriculum itself.”

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    Supervisors should instruct students how to communicate during group projects and check in routinely

    Luckily, Warner has some tips on how to help students approach working in groups so that they don’t become the most dreaded part of a curriculum.

    • The process is more important than the end product.
    • Educators need to design projects that can only be done by a group. If the assignment could be done by an individual, it’s unsuitable for a team project.
    • Students should be able to pick their teams.
    • Educators need to instruct the students on how to work in teams effectively. This includes ethics, team building, collaborative writing processes, scheduling, effective communication, and more.
    • Supervisors need to check in and assess progress.
    • Students should have some say in the calendar of deadlines.

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    Kornelija Viečaitė

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    Hi there, fellow pandas! As a person (over)educated both in social sciences and literature, I'm most interested in how we connect and behave online (and sometimes in real life too.) The human experience is weird, so I try my best to put its peculiarities in writing. As a person who grew up chronically online, I now try to marry two sides of myself: the one who knows too much about MySpace, and the one who can't settle and needs to see every corner of the world.

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    Kornelija Viečaitė

    Kornelija Viečaitė

    Writer, BoredPanda staff

    Hi there, fellow pandas! As a person (over)educated both in social sciences and literature, I'm most interested in how we connect and behave online (and sometimes in real life too.) The human experience is weird, so I try my best to put its peculiarities in writing. As a person who grew up chronically online, I now try to marry two sides of myself: the one who knows too much about MySpace, and the one who can't settle and needs to see every corner of the world.

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    Kate Johnson
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's dishonest for a person who has not put in the work to graduate.

    Trillian
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How can a thesis be a partner project? Never heard about that. Also, you don't do any work you don't get to graduate. Would be the same if it were individuel projects.

    Lady Eowyn
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OP specifies they're in the Philippines and it is a thing there.

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    L.V
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know how things work in the Philippines, but I had to do a group project for my bachelor in the UK. One of the guys never turned in his part, so I had to provide a bunch of evidence about it. It was only part of our grade and separate from the final exam, but it still sucked getting penalised because of him

    Tabitha
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    5 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have had to go to the prof and give them a heads up more than once when assigned a group project, because there is ALWAYS one person who slacks off and apparently expects the rest of the group to carry them. When they graduate—-even though everyone else did the work for them—-they then become the person in the office who slacks off and expects everyone else to carry them. If I’m out in charge of a group project, I do not carry anyone. I have had slackers even try to wheedle me into writing their presentations for them, which I shut down right away. I have also had them show up for the presentation at the last minute or even late, without calling to say they’d be late, totally unprepared and giving a half-a*s presentation of their section. That sucks if the prof is grading the presentation as a whole and not each person’s section separately, as it brings the grade for rest of the group down. I even had another slacker, who never had his stuff ready for group meetings, call me ten minutes before we were to present to tell me he’d been arrested for DUI the night before (well, wee hours of the morning after the bars closed), and was sitting in a jail cell in a town about fifty miles away. That was an interesting one to tell the prof about. He rolled his eyes and said to let my group present their parts and the DUI guy would get a zero for the project.

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    Kate Johnson
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    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's dishonest for a person who has not put in the work to graduate.

    Trillian
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How can a thesis be a partner project? Never heard about that. Also, you don't do any work you don't get to graduate. Would be the same if it were individuel projects.

    Lady Eowyn
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OP specifies they're in the Philippines and it is a thing there.

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    L.V
    Community Member
    5 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't know how things work in the Philippines, but I had to do a group project for my bachelor in the UK. One of the guys never turned in his part, so I had to provide a bunch of evidence about it. It was only part of our grade and separate from the final exam, but it still sucked getting penalised because of him

    Tabitha
    Community Member
    5 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have had to go to the prof and give them a heads up more than once when assigned a group project, because there is ALWAYS one person who slacks off and apparently expects the rest of the group to carry them. When they graduate—-even though everyone else did the work for them—-they then become the person in the office who slacks off and expects everyone else to carry them. If I’m out in charge of a group project, I do not carry anyone. I have had slackers even try to wheedle me into writing their presentations for them, which I shut down right away. I have also had them show up for the presentation at the last minute or even late, without calling to say they’d be late, totally unprepared and giving a half-a*s presentation of their section. That sucks if the prof is grading the presentation as a whole and not each person’s section separately, as it brings the grade for rest of the group down. I even had another slacker, who never had his stuff ready for group meetings, call me ten minutes before we were to present to tell me he’d been arrested for DUI the night before (well, wee hours of the morning after the bars closed), and was sitting in a jail cell in a town about fifty miles away. That was an interesting one to tell the prof about. He rolled his eyes and said to let my group present their parts and the DUI guy would get a zero for the project.

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