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Every bride wants the perfect wedding: starting from the guest list and the x-tiered cake to the gorgeous venue and the magical atmosphere. However, real-life isn’t perfect and there are no perfect weddings. Far from it! But if you demand perfection, then you’ve got to be the perfect bride to all of your guests and bridesmaids, too.

Unfortunately, the harsh truth is that not all brides are wholesome, joyful, and loving—some have got plenty of entitlement to go around that’s making some guests wonder whether to skip the happy occasion altogether. We’re not talking about your regular “we prefer wine over flowers” deal. Oh no! It’s the kind of entitlement and lists of demands that you’re likely to see on the legendary ‘Choosing Beggars’ subreddit.

With wedding season in full swing, you’re likely to get invited to a wedding or two this summer. So here’s a list of posts made by entitled brides that will make you glad that your loved ones and friends are nowhere near as bad. Remember to upvote the pics that you think should to act as an example of what to avoid doing in life and let us know about the biggest bridezillas you’ve ever encountered in your lives, dear Pandas.

Anna and Sarah from The Wedding Society shared with Bored Panda that the pandemic has shifted some wedding trends away from materialism and toward a different way to celebrate the happy day. “We're all being forced to reinvent what a wedding looks like and often now that means toned down, simplified and meaningful. Honestly, if people are looking to go with the trend of a big, gaudy, expensive wedding, that boat has well and truly sailed,” they said. Read on for the rest of the interview.

#1

My Mum Is An Artificial Florist And Had An ‘Influencer’ With 70k Followers Ask For Free Wedding Flowers For Exposure

My Mum Is An Artificial Florist And Had An ‘Influencer’ With 70k Followers Ask For Free Wedding Flowers For Exposure

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5 years ago

Good for your mom. Good for her.

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    #2

    Hey, I Know That I've Given My Wedding No Thought But I Want You Dedicate The Next 48 Hours Of Your Life To It

    Hey, I Know That I've Given My Wedding No Thought But I Want You Dedicate The Next 48 Hours Of Your Life To It

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    Andrew Gibb
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    a case of your poor planning is not suddenly my problem

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    #3

    Let Me Not Ask For Permission To Have My Wedding Here (God’s Plan)

    Let Me Not Ask For Permission To Have My Wedding Here (God’s Plan)

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    PandaJon
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    Well, that's one way to save on hall rental fees

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    #4

    "Fortunately I'm Not In A Position Where I Need To Pay To Work"

    "Fortunately I'm Not In A Position Where I Need To Pay To Work"

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    Rick
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    I’d go, make sure I cut the heads off every single photo I took and then open a PayPal dispute afterwards and get my money back, but I’m just a petty bitch like that.

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    #5

    Bride Cancels Her Wedding Because Her Guests Didn't "Donate" A $1,500 Each To Fund The Event

    Bride Cancels Her Wedding Because Her Guests Didn't "Donate" A $1,500 Each To Fund The Event

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    Rick
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    You’re out of your mind, Susan.

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    #6

    What Is It About Weddings That Brings Out The Choosiest Of Beggars

    What Is It About Weddings That Brings Out The Choosiest Of Beggars

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    BetterBitterButter
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    No one wants to be the first to like this.

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    #7

    Wedding Shoot

    Wedding Shoot

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    GirlFriday
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    Premium
    5 years ago

    My niece got married two weeks ago and I was chatting with her photographer. She was telling me about all of the people that ask for free services for their weddings. The stories she told were of some of the most ridiculous stuff I had ever heard.

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    #8

    Need You To Work For Free, Can’t Pay You Because I’ve Already Paid Others 10 Grand For My Wedding, Lmk

    Need You To Work For Free, Can’t Pay You Because I’ve Already Paid Others 10 Grand For My Wedding, Lmk

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    PandaJon
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    This can't be real. The Chutzpa is off the chart!!!

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    #9

    Bride Demands 30k

    Bride Demands 30k

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    Karin Lange
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    WTF??

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    #10

    Cb Bride

    Cb Bride

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    Ember
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    I’m amazing people put up with this bull and don’t drop out much earlier

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    #11

    Bride Tries To Force Friend To Do Photography For Her Wedding, Insists That He Pays Her For The Privilege

    Bride Tries To Force Friend To Do Photography For Her Wedding, Insists That He Pays Her For The Privilege

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    Samantha Lomb
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    I think giving in even a little on this is a mistake

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    #12

    Woman Expects Me To Photograph Her Wedding For $150 But The Exposure Is Priceless

    Woman Expects Me To Photograph Her Wedding For $150 But The Exposure Is Priceless

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    Carmen Sandiego
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    'Priceless' indeed. As in it has no price. As in it's worthless.

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    #13

    Woman Tries To Get Me To Take A Day Off School To Take Photographs Of Her Wedding

    Woman Tries To Get Me To Take A Day Off School To Take Photographs Of Her Wedding

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    Neil Bidle
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    "do photo stuff"??

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    #14

    Bride Is Pissed Her Bridesmaid Has The Wrong Color Toenail Polish, Gets Super Defensive In The Comments

    Bride Is Pissed Her Bridesmaid Has The Wrong Color Toenail Polish, Gets Super Defensive In The Comments

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    Mrs. Jan Glass
    Community Member
    5 years ago (edited)

    I was shocked at all of the things I was supposed to care about re: my bridesmaids. We bought a bolt of fabric, and I told them all to have made whatever style dress they felt comfortable in, as long as it was calf-length or longer. Hair? Whatever they wanted. Makeup? Whatever they wanted. Shoes? Whatever they were most comfortable in. Jewelry? Nails? Whatever they liked. I had so many vendors and older family members make comments about how the photographs wouldn't be "uniform" or "cohesive" if one had an updo and the other had a shoulder-length bob. Funny, but I was less concerned about "uniform" pictures and more concerned that people not be effing miserable. I can't believe people micromanage bridesmaids toenails. WHO IS LOOKING AT THAT?!

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    #15

    A Lifetime Opportunity: Wedding Party With A Contract

    A Lifetime Opportunity: Wedding Party With A Contract

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    Redfox
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    Sorry, I zoned out after 'will be required'. Have a great wedding.

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    #16

    Kindly Refrain From Upstaging The Bride On Her Big Day — Oh, And No Admission Without A Gift Of $75 Or More

    Kindly Refrain From Upstaging The Bride On Her Big Day — Oh, And No Admission Without A Gift Of $75 Or More

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    Andi
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    'seramony' ??? sorry, but please! its your job ....

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    #17

    Yeah Because Photographers Who Would Normally Charge $2000 Or More Are Just Waiting Around Bored And Willing To Do Your Wedding For Free

    Yeah Because Photographers Who Would Normally Charge $2000 Or More Are Just Waiting Around Bored And Willing To Do Your Wedding For Free

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    PandaJon
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    TWICE THE EXPERIENCE???? You got a deal!!

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    #18

    Beggar Bride Asks Stranger To Be Bridesmaid Because She Gives Expensive Gifts - From Wedding Shaming Fb Page

    Beggar Bride Asks Stranger To Be Bridesmaid Because She Gives Expensive Gifts - From Wedding Shaming Fb Page

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    Rick
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    From potential bridesmaid to “guest list full, sorry” in 0.2 seconds

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    #19

    Give Me A Free Wedding Song

    Give Me A Free Wedding Song

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    Full of Giggles
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    The world doesn’t owe you a free wedding, sweetheart.

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    #20

    Bride Is Expecting Everyone To Spend $400 Or More On Her Wedding Gifts

    Bride Is Expecting Everyone To Spend $400 Or More On Her Wedding Gifts

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    Rachel Peterson
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    "... a new car..." what kind of people raise humans like this?

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    #21

    Bride Upset That Nobody Gave Her Cash At Her Engagement Party

    Bride Upset That Nobody Gave Her Cash At Her Engagement Party

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    Rick
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    I think you should definitely give them another chance to tell you how stupid and selfish you are again, yes.

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    #22

    Bride Wants My Photographer Friend To Learn Another Photographer's "Style" And Basically Give Her A Discount For A Wedding That's In A Couple Of Weeks

    Bride Wants My Photographer Friend To Learn Another Photographer's "Style" And Basically Give Her A Discount For A Wedding That's In A Couple Of Weeks

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    PandaJon
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    I would just play along and then when it;s too close to actually get anyone else tell her "plans fell through"... but that's just me.

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    #23

    I've Officially Dropped Out Of The Bridal Party. I'm A Size 12 With No Plans On Dropping To A Size 8 By December

    I've Officially Dropped Out Of The Bridal Party. I'm A Size 12 With No Plans On Dropping To A Size 8 By December

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    Full of Giggles
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    Having your dream wedding planned since you were a kid does not validate fat shaming. There is no justification for it under any circumstance. It is rude. It is insensitive. And it most certainly is offensive. You should be ashamed of yourself.

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    #24

    Anon Doesn’t Want To Drive A Free Bmw Or Tesla To His Wedding

    Anon Doesn’t Want To Drive A Free Bmw Or Tesla To His Wedding

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    VulcansAreSexy
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    Not a bride. BP should change the title of this list. Men can be entitled too.

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    #25

    Nobody Wants To Pay A Bare Minimum Of 250 Dollars In Gifts To Go To A Wedding

    Nobody Wants To Pay A Bare Minimum Of 250 Dollars In Gifts To Go To A Wedding

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    Monday
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    Clearly SOOOOOO MUCH people indeed....

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    #26

    Sorry You Can’t Come To The Wedding, Send Us Money Anyway

    Sorry You Can’t Come To The Wedding, Send Us Money Anyway

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    PandaJon
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    Yeah, I'll pass on the whole "Aiding" of their honeymoon

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    #27

    I’ll Just Pay For My Whole Wedding With Experience Points!

    I’ll Just Pay For My Whole Wedding With Experience Points!

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    PandaJon
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    Please allow me to spend many hours of "fun" for you, someone I don't even know to get free stuff for your wedding

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    #28

    Cb Bride To Be Complaining That Her Fiance Proposed To Her With His Grandmother's Diamond Instead Of The 'Blingy Ring' She 'Always Wanted'

    Cb Bride To Be Complaining That Her Fiance Proposed To Her With His Grandmother's Diamond Instead Of The 'Blingy Ring' She 'Always Wanted'

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    Samantha Lomb
    Community Member
    5 years ago (edited)

    In fairness if you ask what she wants and the get something completely different I can see being disappointed. Plus it shows he didn't listen to her and instead sorta foisted his and his family's choice on her. I would be annoyed to be asked and then completely ignored and pressured into something I didn't want. 10 years for a proposal likely also indicates other problems too

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    #29

    Cb Asks To People Pay To Be In Her Wedding

    Cb Asks To People Pay To Be In Her Wedding

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    Rick
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    Take out the APA, replace with a comma.

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    #30

    Come To Our Wedding And Pay $700 To Stay In The Guest House But You’ll Be Sleeping On The Pullout Couch Because You’re The Only Singleton. Also, Did I Mention You’re Cooking For Everyone?

    Come To Our Wedding And Pay $700 To Stay In The Guest House But You’ll Be Sleeping On The Pullout Couch Because You’re The Only Singleton. Also, Did I Mention You’re Cooking For Everyone?

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    I wish I could live in the ocean
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    Please tell her the reason

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    #31

    Bride And Groom Ask Friends For Free Labor And Food And Then Demand That They Buy Special Clothing To Wear At The Wedding

    Bride And Groom Ask Friends For Free Labor And Food And Then Demand That They Buy Special Clothing To Wear At The Wedding

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    MAL
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    The road to hell is paved with good intentions.

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    #32

    Bridezilla Calls Passive Aggressive Dibs On A Public Use Area In My Neighborhood Where We All Walk, Atv, And Camp. No Permit, No Contact Info, No Restrooms Or Trash Facilities, And Definitely Not Enough Woods For A 50+ Person Blowout

    Bridezilla Calls Passive Aggressive Dibs On A Public Use Area In My Neighborhood Where We All Walk, Atv, And Camp. No Permit, No Contact Info, No Restrooms Or Trash Facilities, And Definitely Not Enough Woods For A 50+ Person Blowout

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    Samantha Lomb
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    Sounds like a great reason to call the cops and report a disturbance/ noise complaint that night

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    #33

    Covid Bride Town Clerk Wants You To Lowball Yourself For Some Free Publicity At Budget Meetings

    Covid Bride Town Clerk Wants You To Lowball Yourself For Some Free Publicity At Budget Meetings

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    Watching
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    5 years ago

    Bye bye job.

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    #34

    From A Fb Group I’m In, An Actual Wedding Invite Someone Received. “You Don’t Have To Give Money But If You Do, Don’t Be A Cheapskate!”

    From A Fb Group I’m In, An Actual Wedding Invite Someone Received. “You Don’t Have To Give Money But If You Do, Don’t Be A Cheapskate!”

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    Neil Bidle
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    Swearing on wedding stationery is about as unclassy as you can possibly get

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    #35

    Pay For My Historic Wedding, Y'all!

    Pay For My Historic Wedding, Y'all!

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    Redfox
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    Oh for goodness sake, just elope and save your money, honey!

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    #36

    “I’d Rather Take A Pic On My iPhone Lol”... For A Wedding Photographer

    “I’d Rather Take A Pic On My iPhone Lol”... For A Wedding Photographer

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    PandaJon
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    There ya' go. Wasn't that easy?

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    #37

    Man, This Person's Family Is Gonna Run Me Out Of Business! I Mean A Wedding Video For Free? I Can't Compete With That

    Man, This Person's Family Is Gonna Run Me Out Of Business! I Mean A Wedding Video For Free? I Can't Compete With That

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    PandaJon
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    Well, looks like you just solved your $ issue. Good luck

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    #38

    Bridezilla Wants Her Sister's House For Her Wedding!!

    Bridezilla Wants Her Sister's House For Her Wedding!!

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    MAL
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    Can I come to your house with 60 people during a pandemic while you're pregnant and have my wedding? Also, you don't have to show up if you don't want to. WTH.

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    #39

    Woman Wants To Pay A Photographer Only £100 For 11 Hours Work To Cover Her Wedding. But Only Wanted Professionals

    Woman Wants To Pay A Photographer Only £100 For 11 Hours Work To Cover Her Wedding. But Only Wanted Professionals

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    Neil Bidle
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    $100 for 11 hours isn't so bad until you realise that there's twice that time in processing, plus the time spent, plus the cost to get there, plus the equipment, but sure if you want mobile phone pics and a cheap cd with the pics on...

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    #40

    Shoot My 6-Months-Away Wedding For Free Because ....my Kid Needed Braces?

    Shoot My 6-Months-Away Wedding For Free Because ....my Kid Needed Braces?

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    Watching
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    5 years ago

    The misuse of "then" for "than" is a national disgrace.

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    #41

    “Getting Married, Venmo The Bride” Car Paint

    “Getting Married, Venmo The Bride” Car Paint

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    JennyLaRue
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    Since when did begging become part of a wedding?

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    #42

    Sorry For Being So Rude And Ugly For Not Wanting To Donate A Brand New Wedding Dress To Someone I Don’t Know

    Sorry For Being So Rude And Ugly For Not Wanting To Donate A Brand New Wedding Dress To Someone I Don’t Know

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    MAL
    Community Member
    5 years ago

    At least the person asking was polite about it.

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