Woman Barges Into A Couple’s House Uninvited With A Child, Shames Them For Being Intimate

Those insults are a bit rich coming from someone who had her first kid at 17.

Hmmm, she was planning to leave the kid there without them knowing. They'd have woken up to a baby in the living room.

Key or not, entering a property without permission is still breaking and entering… she should be arrested for trespassing.

Erica should be told in front of Ryan that she is NEVER to drop by again without calling first and asking permission. She also owes your fiancé an enormous apology for her atrocious behavior. Also, OP needs to have a private meeting with his brother about Erica. She is wreaking havoc and causing damage in his relationship with his family. Ryan really needs to stand back and seriously evaluate what has transpired up to this point. There are obvious red flags he's missed, but everyone else haven't.

They should ask Erica what the hell she's doing taking a baby out at that time of night - why not just leave the baby with its Father?

The most important question still needs to be answered: Did they manage to get back in the mood after the psycho girlfriend left?

Even if they'd been sitting watching TV, letting yourself into someone's house unannounced is more likely to get you shot than to get you free babysitting. That level of entitlement should lead to inpatient treatment

Change the locks, install security cameras without telling anyone you did ! Check if anything is missing or papers have been gone through. Erica doesn't sound like someone who would have a problem being a snoop or thief.

"fiancee" interjects calling Erica awful names, then is supposed to be the one who was doubtful? GTFOH

What even was her plan? If she expected they were home in any capacity to watch her child, why would she use the key to let herself in instead of knocking or ringing the doorbell?

Press charges against her for theft of the key and trespassing since she wasn’t invited to enter.

What would have been the strategy if they were upstairs? Would Erica have left the child on the living room floor and left, so the couple would awaken to a possibility crying child? Take the keys. Tell them to get wrecked. Erica is spiralling and nothing good will come out of giving in.

Change the locks and put a bolt on the door too! How dare she, late at night walk into your home unannounced!

So Erica and the brother are in an on again, off again marriage. She barged into your house at 11:30 at night to have you babysit an 11 month old child. Where exactly was she going that time of night? OP might suggest that the brother have DNA tests done to see if he is the father of some or any the three children.

I would have her a*s trespassed.

This is WILD. Do not watch those kids until she apologizes and admits she was in the wrong. Couples are allowed to do whatever intimate acts they want in the privacy of their OWN HOME (consensually of course). It is just beyond obnoxious that this other woman thinks she even has a leg to stand on. As far as your fiance goes - it's okay, sweetie. I get it. You just want to end the drama, she's gaslighting you, making you feel terrible. Don't do it. This woman is not right in the head. There's so much wrong here - walking into your apartment, expecting you to watch her kid without asking, insulting you. I've walked in on someone before, for like...a split second, I felt HORRIBLE. I felt like such an incredible a*****e, it happened years ago. The fact that she is insisting that she didn't do anything wrong is a HUGE red flag. I'd definitely be getting some extra security too, and if she doesn't call first, don't answer the door.