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Guy Subtly Puts Down GF’s Body Hair After A Year Of Dating, She Uncovers Shocking Reason Why
Shaving body hair can be a very touchy subject for people, and that’s why it’s up to everyone to decide for themselves what works best for them. This can sometimes become a touchy subject in relationships, especially if the other person is uncomfortable with their partner’s hairiness.
This is what a woman experienced after her boyfriend suddenly began making subtle digs about her body hair. She soon realized that he found her natural hairiness gross and desperately wanted her to shave it off, which led to a huge conflict.
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The woman explained that she had stopped shaving her body hair a long time ago and that her boyfriend had been okay with it when they got together
Even though the man was okay with her normal hairiness at first, he has started making subtle jabs about it, which made her uncomfortable
After the man bought the poster shaving cream and called her leg hair “gross,” she decided it might be better to talk to him and figure out his sudden change in behavior
At first, the man refused to reveal why he disliked his girlfriend’s body hair, but through some questioning she was able to figure out that his friends’ comments had influenced his thinking
The woman also realized that her boyfriend kept putting her down about her height, appearance, and humor, as he expected her to be more feminine like “other girls”
The poster decided that she didn’t want to be with the guy anymore and broke up with him, but also finally shaved her body hair just to see how it felt to her
She felt certain about her decision to break up with him, as he seemed to be as shallow as his mean-spirited friends
The poster shared that she had stopped shaving her body hair when she was in the 7th grade. Once she got into a relationship with her boyfriend, she let him know that she didn’t like being hairless, and he seemed to be on the same page, until one day he randomly began making subtle put-downs about it.
According to experts, many young adults don’t want to shave anymore, but the idea still remains quite controversial. For women, society has created a stigma against being hairy, which is why so many folks find it tough to just let their body hair grow naturally and not shave it all off without fear of shame or embarrassment.
This is also what the woman tried to do by ignoring her boyfriend’s passive-aggressive comments, but when he bought her shaving cream and a razor, she found herself in a tough spot. She also overheard him one day telling his friends that her hairy legs were gross, which baffled her because he never had a problem with it before.
This kind of indirectly hostile behavior can have negative effects on a relationship, and professionals explain that it can also break trust among partners. If one individual keeps being emotionally aggressive, then the other person may no longer feel safe or comfortable with them, and might have to put their guard up.
Since the woman had shared her dilemma online, folks urged her to bring up the matter to her boyfriend. When she finally spoke to him about it, he was very evasive and refused to explain why he had such a sudden change of heart about her body hair. Unfortunately, with some probing, the woman realized that he had been influenced by his friends’ comments.
According to mental health experts, this kind of embarrassment a person might feel toward their partner can signal problems in their relationship. If an individual keeps feeling this way and doesn’t speak to their loved one about it, these emotions can fester and erode the love between them.
This is also what the woman realized, which is why she tried to give her boyfriend space to voice his opinions. Later on, after more reflection, she realized that he had always been subtly putting her down about her height, appearance, and sense of humor. This made her question their bond, and wonder if she should even be dating him anymore.
In the end, the poster decided to choose herself, and she broke up with the insecure man. She also finally shaved her body hair for herself, just so that she could experience what all the fuss was about. This experience made her realize that she had rose-tinted glasses on for her ex, and that she was finally free from his control.
What do you think is the best response for someone who criticizes another person’s body hair? We’d love to hear your opinions in the comments below.
Folks were shocked by the man’s behavior, and were glad that the woman didn’t bow down to his insecurity
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ghost gurl 6 hours ago
men have a helluva lot more body hair that they do not shave, but somehow that is not unhygienic by comparison? Just say youre sexist.
Luke || Kira (he/she) 7 hours ago
You can see from the "Update" post how DONE that poor woman is with all the haters. The breakup was a good call. That guy can go date his friend if his opinions are so important for him. Maybe he'll let him shave his legs.
Robin Roper 3 hours ago
If it's gross and unhygienic for women to not shave their legs and underarm hair, why is it not gross and unhygienic for men to not shave their legs and underarm hair.
ghost gurl 6 hours ago
men have a helluva lot more body hair that they do not shave, but somehow that is not unhygienic by comparison? Just say youre sexist.
Luke || Kira (he/she) 7 hours ago
You can see from the "Update" post how DONE that poor woman is with all the haters. The breakup was a good call. That guy can go date his friend if his opinions are so important for him. Maybe he'll let him shave his legs.
Robin Roper 3 hours ago
If it's gross and unhygienic for women to not shave their legs and underarm hair, why is it not gross and unhygienic for men to not shave their legs and underarm hair.
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