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Bodybuilder Claims His Physique Is Natural, The Truth Comes Out When His Wife Wants To Have A Baby
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Bodybuilder Claims His Physique Is Natural, The Truth Comes Out When His Wife Wants To Have A Baby

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When your partner tells you something, it’s only natural to take their words at face value. Why would you assume that they’re lying? But sometimes, it is wise to push back to ensure that they’re not hiding anything. Otherwise, you might be stuck with regrets years later when the truth finally comes out.

This woman’s husband had been hiding his steroid use from her for years. When she finally found out, she believed that she had shut it down. But apparently, there was more to the story. Below, you’ll find a post that she recently shared on Reddit seeking advice, as well as some of the replies invested readers left her.   

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    This woman’s bodybuilding husband swore that he stopped taking Testosterone when they got married

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    But now that they’re trying to have a child, the truth has come out

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    Later, the author responded to a couple of readers and shared more details about her situation

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    Steroid use is extremely prevalent in the bodybuilding world

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    If you’re familiar with the bodybuilding world, you know that it’s often more about appearances than health. Yes, it’s important to be strong and lean. But many bodybuilders have no problem making certain sacrifices that can negatively impact their health to win a gold medal.  

    According to the UK Anti-Doping agency, over one million people in the country are currently taking steroids. And one young bodybuilder told the BBC that he believes 90% of his peers are doing so. Meanwhile, an online survey found that 75% of male gym users had considered taking steroids to bulk up.

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    Unsurprisingly, bodybuilders are under extreme pressure to sculpt their bodies into the “perfect” form. Even plenty of men who aren’t competing feel the need to grow their muscles. It’s estimated that 10% of men in the gym have “bigorexia,” or muscle dysmorphia. 

    “Muscle dysmorphia is a preoccupation with the idea that one isn’t big enough, isn’t muscular enough,” Rob Willson, chair of the Body Dysmorphic Disorder Foundation, told the BBC. “There are thousands upon thousands with it, who are going to be excessively concerned about their appearance, having very poor self-esteem, and also feeling very anxious and very worried.”

    This can take a huge toll on an individual’s mental health, often leading to depression and sometimes even athletes taking their own lives.   

    Now, there are valid reasons for taking anabolic steroids. They can be used to treat delayed puberty in teen boys, certain types of breast cancer in women, endometriosis, osteoporosis, primary male hypogonadism, and more. But like any other medication, it doesn’t come without risks. 

    Misusing anabolic steroids can be dangerous

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    The Cleveland Clinic warns that taking anabolic steroids, such as Testosterone, can cause acne or oily skin, ankle swelling, stimulation of the prostate, breast enlargement in men, worsening of sleep apnea, and changes to a woman’s menstrual cycle.

    Meanwhile, individuals who misuse these medications can experience even more serious side effects. These can include high blood pressure, blood clots, heart issues, stroke, liver damage, male-pattern baldness, aggression, mania, and delusions. And, as the author of this story found out the hard way, infertility.

    Orange County Urology Associates reports that, in many cases, taking anabolic steroids can have a devastating impact on a man’s fertility. The risk of this happening will increase the longer someone uses these substances. While stopping steroid use can help a man increase his chances of having a child, it will take time for his fertility to recover.

    He may be able to speed up the process by taking natural supplements, such as zinc, folic acid and CoQ10. But it will be wise for him to consult a doctor and create the best course of action with their guidance.       

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    It’s also important to note that many users who decide to stop taking anabolic steroids will experience withdrawal and will have to detox. This can be a painful process which can last anywhere from a few days to two weeks. 

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    We would love to hear your thoughts on this situation in the comments below, pandas. What would you do if you were suddenly in the author’s shoes? Then, if you’re interested in reading another Bored Panda article discussing similar marital drama, we’ve got the perfect article to check out next right here.  

    Some readers were brutally honest with the woman, noting that it won’t be easy for her husband to quit cold turkey

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    And others left supportive replies, warning the author that her husband is exhibiting major red flags

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    Meanwhile, some readers thought that both spouses had made poor decisions

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    And finally, some called out the author for judging her husband for his steroid use

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    Adelaide May Ross

    Adelaide May Ross

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    Howdy, I'm Adelaide! I'm originally from Texas, but after graduating from university with an acting degree, I relocated to sunny Los Angeles for a while. I then got a serious bite from the travel bug and found myself moving to Sweden and England before settling in Lithuania about three years ago. I'm passionate about animal welfare, sustainability and eating delicious food. But as you can see, I cover a wide range of topics including drama, internet trends and hilarious memes. I can easily be won over with a Seinfeld reference, vegan pastry or glass of fresh cold brew. And during my free time, I can usually be seen strolling through a park, playing tennis or baking something tasty.

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    Adelaide May Ross

    Adelaide May Ross

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    Howdy, I'm Adelaide! I'm originally from Texas, but after graduating from university with an acting degree, I relocated to sunny Los Angeles for a while. I then got a serious bite from the travel bug and found myself moving to Sweden and England before settling in Lithuania about three years ago. I'm passionate about animal welfare, sustainability and eating delicious food. But as you can see, I cover a wide range of topics including drama, internet trends and hilarious memes. I can easily be won over with a Seinfeld reference, vegan pastry or glass of fresh cold brew. And during my free time, I can usually be seen strolling through a park, playing tennis or baking something tasty.

    Viktorija Ošikaitė

    Viktorija Ošikaitė

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    I'm a senior visual editor here at Bored Panda and I enjoy a good laugh. My work ranges from serious topics related to toxic work environments and relationship difficulties to humorous articles about online shopping fails and introvert memes. When I'm not at my work desk, checking if every single pixel is in the right place, I usually spend my free time playing board games, taking pictures, and watching documentaries

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    Viktorija Ošikaitė

    Viktorija Ošikaitė

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    I'm a senior visual editor here at Bored Panda and I enjoy a good laugh. My work ranges from serious topics related to toxic work environments and relationship difficulties to humorous articles about online shopping fails and introvert memes. When I'm not at my work desk, checking if every single pixel is in the right place, I usually spend my free time playing board games, taking pictures, and watching documentaries

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    In my spare time, I enjoy creating art - both in traditional and digital form, mainly in the form of painting and animation. Other interests include gaming and music. Favorite bands include Swans, The Strokes, The Beatles.

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    Emilu
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The 0.01cm peen didn't give it away? /s Huge difference between being a bodybuilder (genuine) and just taking T to look like a beef-cake.

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a cisgender hetero female who appreciates the male body (both naturally-muscular and not; I think both "forms" are attractive) I REALLY find the "roid bro"/testosterone gymbro look to be not just unattractive but downright repulsive. It sort of triggers this almost-instinctive "there is something wrong with you" séxual non-attraction. I've never been interested in procreation or having children, but (I think) I still have that lizard-brain attraction to "this physical specimen would make a good sire for your offspring" thing, lol. And for whatever reason, those super triangular-shaped gymbros just... repulse me. You'd think that, since they're muscular, that would tell my brain "this male is strong and can protecc you and your offspring", but nope XD

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    Tyranamar Seuss
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most people on T, look like they're on T. I'm so unattracted to it. It looks dysmorphic. How can you be with a "body builder" and not know he's on T. You can't even compete in body building unless you're on T. Real men's bodies look like Chuck Norris used to look. Not like Arnold Schwartzenegger.

    V
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, she's been lying to herself as much as he has been. I have dated a few bigger guys, but they have all been more the muscular rugby player build, rather than body builder, so they were still a little squishy at the edges. Much more attractive in my opinion.

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    FreeTheUnicorn
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't raise a child with this man. He isn't honest, he isn't interested in getting help and long term recreational T use, interfere with mood regulation and is known to cause even more severe psychological effects. As he gets older, he's going to up the dose to combat natural aging. Don't subject a child to a dishonest relationship, or especially with d***s and mood instability in the mix

    Binky Melnik
    Community Member
    2 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But much more than that are the horror stories about people abusing roids. The most famous among them may be the wrestler (it’s always wrestlers) Chris Benoît; he killled his wife and children and then himself. The documentary “Bigger, Stronger, Faster” is about a family of (five, if memory serves) brothers who went into wrestling and roided up to their eyeballs. Four (again, if memory serves; I think it does) didn’t make it to middle age. There’s a movie right now on Netflix about the same family. People who a***e roids turn into literal monsters, beating up their loved ones and hulking out at the slightest provocation, or no provocation at all. (If I were a man, like Stallone or Schwarzenegger, I’d go on a rampage on my mirror because my testices are the size of petit pois.) Lying in and of itself is bad enough, but pile all the PEDs on, too? I don’t care what his redeeming qualities are (I really doubt he has many anymore) aren’t worth what lies in his future, and perhaps hers, too.

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    Emilu
    Community Member
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    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The 0.01cm peen didn't give it away? /s Huge difference between being a bodybuilder (genuine) and just taking T to look like a beef-cake.

    LakotaWolf (she/her)
    Community Member
    Premium
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a cisgender hetero female who appreciates the male body (both naturally-muscular and not; I think both "forms" are attractive) I REALLY find the "roid bro"/testosterone gymbro look to be not just unattractive but downright repulsive. It sort of triggers this almost-instinctive "there is something wrong with you" séxual non-attraction. I've never been interested in procreation or having children, but (I think) I still have that lizard-brain attraction to "this physical specimen would make a good sire for your offspring" thing, lol. And for whatever reason, those super triangular-shaped gymbros just... repulse me. You'd think that, since they're muscular, that would tell my brain "this male is strong and can protecc you and your offspring", but nope XD

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    Tyranamar Seuss
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Most people on T, look like they're on T. I'm so unattracted to it. It looks dysmorphic. How can you be with a "body builder" and not know he's on T. You can't even compete in body building unless you're on T. Real men's bodies look like Chuck Norris used to look. Not like Arnold Schwartzenegger.

    V
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah, she's been lying to herself as much as he has been. I have dated a few bigger guys, but they have all been more the muscular rugby player build, rather than body builder, so they were still a little squishy at the edges. Much more attractive in my opinion.

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    FreeTheUnicorn
    Community Member
    2 months ago Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't raise a child with this man. He isn't honest, he isn't interested in getting help and long term recreational T use, interfere with mood regulation and is known to cause even more severe psychological effects. As he gets older, he's going to up the dose to combat natural aging. Don't subject a child to a dishonest relationship, or especially with d***s and mood instability in the mix

    Binky Melnik
    Community Member
    2 months ago (edited) Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But much more than that are the horror stories about people abusing roids. The most famous among them may be the wrestler (it’s always wrestlers) Chris Benoît; he killled his wife and children and then himself. The documentary “Bigger, Stronger, Faster” is about a family of (five, if memory serves) brothers who went into wrestling and roided up to their eyeballs. Four (again, if memory serves; I think it does) didn’t make it to middle age. There’s a movie right now on Netflix about the same family. People who a***e roids turn into literal monsters, beating up their loved ones and hulking out at the slightest provocation, or no provocation at all. (If I were a man, like Stallone or Schwarzenegger, I’d go on a rampage on my mirror because my testices are the size of petit pois.) Lying in and of itself is bad enough, but pile all the PEDs on, too? I don’t care what his redeeming qualities are (I really doubt he has many anymore) aren’t worth what lies in his future, and perhaps hers, too.

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